Aubrey Gordon
{{Short description|Author, podcaster, and activist}}
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Aubrey Gordon (born 1983),{{Cite tweet|number=1325841621720551424|user=yrfatfriend|title=Hey! It's my birthday! ...|author=Gordon, Aubrey|date=November 9, 2020}} also known as Your Fat Friend, is an author, podcaster, and activist. She writes about fatness, fat acceptance, and anti-fat bias, and her podcast, Maintenance Phase, focuses on the poor science behind health and wellness fads.
Career
Before beginning her writing career, Gordon was an LGBTQ community organizer.
After an argument with a friend about the differences between thin and fat people's relationships with their own bodies, Gordon wrote a letter to the friend to try to convey her thoughts. She shared it to a different friend to get feedback on whether the letter came off as rude, and her friend asked her to post it online so he could share it. Gordon, who was concerned about her professional reputation after beginning a new job, shared the letter anonymously with the name "Your Fat Friend." The letter was widely read, and Gordon decided to keep writing and posting essays about fatness, and hate and discrimination directed toward fat people.{{Cite web|last=Gordon|first=Aubrey|date=December 11, 2020|title=After Years of Writing Anonymously About Fatness, I'm Telling the World Who I Am|url=https://www.self.com/story/your-fat-friend-becoming-un-anonymous|url-status=live|access-date=October 1, 2021|website=Self|language=en-US|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201212180509/https://www.self.com/story/your-fat-friend-becoming-un-anonymous |archive-date=2020-12-12 }}
Gordon writes a regular column for Self magazine.{{Cite news|last=Fallik|first=Dawn|date=January 22, 2021|title=Aubrey Gordon, the writer behind 'Your Fat Friend,' has some thoughts on diets, BMI and the relentless advice of strangers|newspaper=The Washington Post|url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/entertainment/books/aubrey-gordon-interview/2021/01/22/38f24462-5c2b-11eb-b8bd-ee36b1cd18bf_story.html|access-date=October 1, 2021}}{{Cite podcast|url=https://slate.com/podcasts/big-mood-little-mood/2021/05/orson-welles-sex-symbol-big-mood-little-mood|title=That Orson Welles Feeling|website=Big Mood, Little Mood|publisher=Slate|last=Avari|first=Daniel|date=May 25, 2021|access-date=October 1, 2021|last2=Gordon|first2=Aubrey}} She also publishes essays on Medium, and has written for publications including Vox and The New York Times.{{Cite web|last=Gordon|first=Aubrey|date=February 17, 2021|title=Such a pretty face|url=https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/22276896/fat-aubrey-gordon-dating-apps-body-positivity-your-fat-friend|url-status=live|access-date=October 1, 2021|website=Vox|language=en|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210226222029/https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/22276896/fat-aubrey-gordon-dating-apps-body-positivity-your-fat-friend |archive-date=2021-02-26 }}{{Cite news|last=Gordon|first=Aubrey|date=November 13, 2020|title=Opinion {{!}} Leave Fat Kids Alone|language=en-US|work=The New York Times|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2020/11/13/opinion/sunday/childhood-obesity-health.html|access-date=2021-10-02|issn=0362-4331}}
Gordon remained anonymous for five years. In October 2020, just before publishing her first book, she revealed her identity and began including her name in bylines. The following month, she published the book What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat, which focuses on fatness and anti-fat bias.{{Cite web|last=Gormley|first=Shannon|date=November 16, 2020|title=A Formerly Anonymous Portland Writer Has Written a New York Times Op-ed Titled "Leave Fat Kids Alone"|url=https://www.wweek.com/culture/2020/11/16/a-formerly-anonymous-portland-writer-has-published-a-new-york-time-op-ed-titled-leave-fat-kids-alone/|url-status=live|access-date=October 1, 2021|website=Willamette Week|language=en|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201117073708/https://www.wweek.com/culture/2020/11/16/a-formerly-anonymous-portland-writer-has-published-a-new-york-time-op-ed-titled-leave-fat-kids-alone/ |archive-date=2020-11-17 }}{{Cite web|last=Zoller|first=Charlotte|date=January 26, 2021|title=Aubrey Gordon Is Ready to Change How Society Treats Fat People|url=https://www.teenvogue.com/story/author-aubrey-gordon-ask-a-fat-girl|url-status=live|access-date=October 1, 2021|website=Teen Vogue|language=en-US|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210126205028/https://www.teenvogue.com/story/author-aubrey-gordon-ask-a-fat-girl |archive-date=2021-01-26 }}
Since October 2020, Gordon and Michael Hobbes have co-hosted the podcast Maintenance Phase. They use the show to debunk the myths and "junk science" behind health, nutrition, and wellness trends, and have discussed topics including popular diets and diet foods, anti-fat bias, and eating disorders.{{Cite news|last=Petersen|first=Victoria|date=September 9, 2021|title=Breaking Down the 'Wellness-Industrial Complex,' an Episode at a Time|language=en-US|work=The New York Times|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/09/dining/wellness-industrial-complex-maintenance-phase.html|access-date=October 1, 2021|issn=0362-4331}}
Gordon's second book, “You Just Need to Lose Weight”: And 19 Other Myths About Fat People, was published on January 10, 2023, by Beacon Press.{{cite web |last1=Dennett |first1=Carrie |title=What does the book 'You Just Need to Lose Weight' get right? Everything |url=https://www.seattletimes.com/life/wellness/what-does-the-book-you-just-need-to-lose-weight-get-right-everything/ |website=The Seattle Times |access-date=27 October 2023 |date=16 January 2023}}
A documentary following Gordon's life in 2020 and 2021, Your Fat Friend, directed by Jeanie Finlay, was released in 2023.{{cite web |last1=Zilko |first1=Christian |title='Your Fat Friend' Review: Fat Acceptance Doc Blurs the Line Between Empathy and Complacency |url=https://www.indiewire.com/criticism/movies/your-fat-friend-review-1234933808/ |website=IndieWire |date=10 December 2023 |access-date=10 January 2024}} It premiered at the 2023 Tribeca film festival.{{cite web |title=Spotlight Documentary World Premiere: Your Fat Friend |url=https://tribecafilm.com/films/your-fat-friend-2023 |website=Tribeca Film Festival |access-date=10 January 2024}}
Personal life
Works
- {{cite book |last1=Gordon |first1=Aubrey |title=What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat |date=2020 |publisher=Beacon Press |location=Boston |isbn=9780807041307}}
- {{cite book |last1=Gordon |first1=Aubrey |title="You Just Need to Lose Weight": And 19 Other Myths About Fat People |date=2023 |publisher=Beacon Press |location=Boston |isbn=9780807006474}}
References
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External links
- {{Official website}}
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Category:21st-century pseudonymous writers
Category:21st-century American women writers
Category:21st-century American non-fiction writers
Category:Activists from Portland, Oregon
Category:American health and wellness podcasters
Category:Fat acceptance activists
Category:American LGBTQ rights activists
Category:Pseudonymous women writers
Category:American queer writers
Category:Writers from Portland, Oregon