Boys Don't Cry (band)

The band was formed in 1983 as the brainchild of lead vocalist/keyboardist Nick Richards, who had just purchased Maison Rouge Recording Studios in London. An early version of the group (featuring Richards, guitarist Richard Taee[https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4b8Ew908YY8PoScfrcrNbw Richard Taee's YouTube page (his last name is often incorrectly listed as "Tace")]. Retrieved 15 November 2015. and drummer Steve Creese, augmented by session musicians) released their debut EP Don't Talk to Strangers on independent UK label Legacy Records in Britain in 1983. By the mid-1980s, the band's line-up had stabilised around principal members Richards and keyboardist Brian Chatton (one of the session players on the debut EP), along with Jeff Seopardi on drums, Nico Ramsden on guitar, and Mark Smith on bass. Chatton previously played keyboards with 1970s progressive band Jackson Heights, contributing heavily to their last three albums, The Fifth Avenue Bus in 1972, Ragamuffin's Fool published the same year and Bump 'n' Grind in 1973.

Boys Don't Cry were discovered by Paul Oakenfold, who was a talent scout for Profile Records in London in the mid-'80s. Best known for being Run-DMC's record label at the time, Profile signed the band for the US market and Legacy retained the rights to the band's UK releases. Mercury Records won the bidding for Canada and Intercord Tonträger GmbH handled their releases in Germany.

Nick Richards states:

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The single "I Wanna Be a Cowboy" was released in 1986. A novelty song with deadpan humour and kitschy references, the song has been described as the perfect musical realisation of a Spaghetti Western movie. It hit No. 12 on the Billboard Hot 100 and No. 13 on the Hot Dance Music/Maxi-Singles Sales chart in 1986–1987, and was R&R No. 8. "I Wanna Be a Cowboy" was also a top 10 hit in Australia and South Africa. The video, filmed on-location in Hampstead Heath, featured a cameo appearance by Lemmy Kilmister of Motörhead.

They would go on to release two full-length albums: a self-titled debut in 1986, which included "I Wanna Be a Cowboy", and a follow-up the following year titled Who the Am Dam Do You Think We Am. The second album was simply released in America as Boys Don't Cry, creating some confusion there, since the band now had two consecutive self-titled albums released within a year of each other. The follow-up single to "I Wanna Be a Cowboy" was (necessarily perhaps) a complete departure; "Cities On Fire", an energetic rush of synth-rock which was released in 7" and 12" remix form, received early attention from MTV but failed to connect with fans of the novelty hit and didn't receive enough airplay to create a new fanbase.

In 1991 "I Wanna Be a Cowboy" was featured in the night club scene in the film The Last Boy Scout.

On 30 July 1997, co-writers Nick Richards and Brian Chatton sued Paula Cole, Warner Brothers Records, and Imago Records, along with remix producers DJ EFX, Big Ed, and the E-Team, for $7 million in the US District Court for the Central District of California, claiming that Cole's remix of "Where Have All the Cowboys Gone?" used the phrase "I wanna be a cowboy" 24 times in the same style and syntax as their song and constituted copyright infringement.

Contrary to popular belief, the moniker "Boys Don't Cry" did not come from The Cure's song/album of the same name. Rather, the name has its origins in some whispered lyrics from fellow British band 10cc's hit song "I'm Not in Love" (specifically, "be quiet... big boys don't cry").[https://www.chicagotribune.com/1986/08/15/boys-dont-cry-hit-trail-counter-cowboy-image/ Popson, Tom. (1986). "Boys Don't Cry Hit Trail, Counter 'Cowboy' Image." Chicago Tribune. 8-15-1986]. Retrieved 21 June 2015. However, the band were evidently completely aware of (and perhaps amused by) the confusion surrounding their name, and they even included an (almost-entirely) instrumental bonus track titled "The Cure" on their second album as a joke.[http://www.discogs.com/Boys-Dont-Cry-Who-The-Am-Dam-Do-You-Think-You-Am/release/2360852 Boys Don't Cry – Who the Am Dam Do You Think You Am @Discogs.com]. Retrieved 21 June 2015.

In 2009, Nick Richards and Brian Chatton teamed up again in Los Angeles to write an album. The first single from the album, "Don't Call Me a Country Singer" peaked at No. 7 on the FMQB a/c radio charts. Richards put together a new Boys Don't Cry line-up, featuring Doug Gild on bass, Mike Licata on drums, Aaron McClain and James Richards on guitars, and Teddy Rae Richards on backing vocals. Barbara Baker has taken over the management. This incarnation later planned to tour with Red Entertainment on an "Eighties Retro" tour.

On 2 November 2009, the band's former bass player, Mark Smith, died at his home in London. Mark was just 49 years old,{{cite web |first=Robert |last= Ashton|url=http://www.musicweek.com/story.asp?storycode=1039089|date=3 November 2009|title=Mark Smith dies |publisher=Musicweek.com |accessdate=4 January 2014 |archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20091107095534/http://www.musicweek.com/story.asp?storycode=1039089 |archivedate=7 November 2009}} and he had originally been tapped to join the band for the following year's touring.{{citation needed|date=July 2013}}

The band played a New Year's Eve show in Hollywood with special guest stars including Roy Hay from Culture Club and Nina Hagen. They have also released a brand new 6-track EP entitled Blow Me, which is only available as a download.{{Citation needed|date=February 2010}}

Boys Don't Cry released a brand new album, Hear It Is!, on 14 August 2014. The songs were penned by original members Nick Richards and Brian Chatton. The album is on Richards' own label Microrich, Inc.

In late April 2020, Boys Don't Cry announced the release of a new Greatest Hits album titled All the Very Best.[https://www.facebook.com/BOYSDONTCRYBAND/posts/10158464515919884 Boys Don't Cry- Post (27 April 2020) @Facebook.com] Retrieved 13 December 2020.[https://www.amazon.com/All-Very-Best-Boys-DonT/dp/B0871L93LX All the Very Best by Boys Don't Cry @Amazon.com] Retrieved 13 December 2020. This compilation spans the band's entire career to date, including songs from their first two full-length albums and later material.{{fact|date=January 2024}}

Shortly thereafter, Nick Richards announced that the band was re-releasing their entire back catalogue, including the band's 1983 debut EP Don't Talk to Strangers, both of their full-length 1980s albums, and Hear It Is!, along with a new album of outtakes and new/unreleased tracks titled Odds and Sods.[https://www.facebook.com/BOYSDONTCRYBAND/posts/10158644669114884 Boys Don't Cry- Post (14 June 2020) @Facebook.com] Retrieved 13 December 2020. (One apparent exception, the early single, "Who Said It?",[https://www.discogs.com/Boys-Dont-Cry-Who-Said-It/release/13751360 Boys Don't Cry- "Who Said It?" @Discogs.com] Retrieved 13 December 2020. also featured on the original 1983 EP,[https://www.discogs.com/Boys-Dont-Cry-Dont-Talk-To-Strangers/release/1319686 Boys Don't Cry- Don't Talk to Strangers EP @Discogs.com] Retrieved 13 December 2020. did not appear among the re-released material.)

According to the band's Facebook page, in 2025, Nick Richards formed his own online label called HEADGAMES. The band is planning on releasing new and old material throughout the year, through this label. The first release, entitled "4PLAY", will be a four-track EP celebrating the fortieth anniversary of the song "I Wanna Be A Cowboy", consisting of four never-previously-released mixes.[https://www.facebook.com/BOYSDONTCRYBAND/#]Facebook page: Boys Don't Cry, postings from 10 April 2025 and 11 April 2025. Retrieved 11 April 2025.

• White Punks on Rap: A History of Boys Don't Cry 1983–1999 (2008)[https://open.spotify.com/album/5Q5a1Dprq9Y3qP0HxlIyZo White Punks on Rap: A History of Boys Don't Cry 1983–1999 @Spotify.com] Retrieved 13 December 2020.
• All the Very Best (2020)

• Odds and Sods (2020)

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