Crush (Ethel Cain song)
{{Short description|2021 single by Ethel Cain}}
{{Use mdy dates|date=December 2023}}
{{Infobox song
| name = Crush
| cover = Ethel Cain Crush.jpg
| alt =
| border = yes
| type = single
| artist = Ethel Cain
| EP = Inbred
| released = {{Start date|2021|03|18}}
| recorded =
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| genre =
| length = 3:24
| label = Daughters of Cain
| writer = Hayden Silas Anhedönia
| producer = Ethel Cain
| prev_title = Michelle Pfeiffer
| prev_year = 2021
| next_title = Gibson Girl
| next_year = 2022
| misc = {{External music video|{{YouTube|xu-t3tqDyAY|"Crush"}}}}
}}
"Crush" is a song recorded, written, and produced by American singer-songwriter Ethel Cain. It was released on March 18, 2021, as the second single from her third EP, Inbred. A love song about an older person with a violent streak, it marked an approach by the singer towards a more pop sound. An official music video for "Crush" premiered on August 3, 2021. A stripped version of the track was released alongside an alternative video on September 24, 2021. Cain performed "Crush" at several events and included it on the regular set list of the Childish Behaviour Tour in 2024.
Background and release
Hayden Silas Anhedönia, under the moniker Ethel Cain, started 2021 by releasing the single "Michelle Pfeiffer" and announcing her third extended play, Inbred.{{cite web |last1=Jae Leiber |first1=Sarah |title=Ethel Cain Announces 'Inbred' EP |url=https://www.broadwayworld.com/bwwmusic/article/Ethel-Cain-Announces-INBRED-EP-20210211 |website=BroadwayWorld |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=February 11, 2021}} A month after, she announced and released the second single, "Crush". A self-directed visualizer was published alongside the song.{{cite web |last1=Pappis |first1=Konstantinos |title=Ethel Cain Unveils New Single 'Crush' |url=https://ourculturemag.com/2021/03/18/ethel-cain-unveils-new-single-crush/ |website=Our Culture |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=March 18, 2021}} A music video for the song was released on August 3, 2021. She directed it along with her sister, Salem. "We just ran around our house and the little town we lived in for three days and shot some fun footage that I felt matched the vibe of the song", said the singer.{{cite web |last1=Moran |first1=Justin |title=Ethel Cain's 'Crush' Video Is a Small Town Fantasy |url=https://www.papermag.com/ethel-cain-crush-premiere#rebelltitem1 |website=Paper Mag |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=August 3, 2021}} She also stated that she wanted to make a video "as experimental as 'Crush' was musically".{{cite web |last1=Farrell |first1=Margaret |title=Ethel Cain Makes Blue Eyeshadow and Hair Rollers Timeless in her "Crush" Video |url=https://floodmagazine.com/91764/watch-ethel-cain-crush-video/ |website=Flood Magazine |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=August 3, 2021}}
A stripped version of the song was released on September 24, 2021. The music video for the song, directed by Anhedönia and shot by her sister, sees Cain joined by Dan Geraghty of Twenty One Pilots on a trampoline, being filmed on a home-movie style.{{cite web |last1=Ward |first1=Steven |title=Ethel Cain shares eviscerating rework of “Crushed” (stripped) — announces intimate LA gig at El Cid |url=https://www.grimygoods.com/2021/08/25/ethel-cain-shares-eviscerating-rework-of-crushed-stripped-announces-intimate-la-gig-at-el-cid/ |website=Grimy Goods |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=August 25, 2021}} "Crush" was included on several set lists of Cain's live performances, including her first headlining concert in New York City,{{cite web |last1=Hatfield |first1=Amanda |title=Ethel Cain headlined her first NYC show at Market Hotel (pics, video, setlist) |url=https://www.brooklynvegan.com/ethel-cain-headlined-her-first-nyc-show-at-market-hotel-pics-video-setlist/ |website=BrooklynVegan |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=May 26, 2022}} the Primavera Sound festival in Madrid,{{cite web |last1=Delgado |first1=Sara |title=Primavera Sound Barcelona 2024 Was the Perfect Live Summer Playlist |url=https://www.teenvogue.com/story/primavera-sound-barcelona-2024-recap |website=Teen Vogue |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=June 3, 2024}} and the Childish Behaviour Tour in 2024.{{cite web |last1=Jacob |first1=Lola |title=Ethel Cain performs new songs 'Punish' and 'I Keep The Angel' on tour. |url=https://www.coupdemainmagazine.com/ethel-cain/19729 |website=Coup de Main |access-date=June 5, 2024 |date=June 5, 2024}}
Music and lyrics
Cain wrote "Crush" in 20 minutes.{{cite web |title=The 100 best songs of 2021 |url=https://www.thefader.com/2021/12/16/the-100-best-songs-of-2021 |website=The Fader |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=December 16, 2021}} It is a love song for a "bad boy" by "see[ing] some light in all the darkness", with allusions to addictions and gun violence present in the United States. According to Pitchfork, the lyrics of the track presents "an introspective and moody teenager fawning over a boy with a violent streak".{{cite web |last1=Gordon |first1=Arielle |title=Ethel Cain: Inbred EP Album Review |url=https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/ethel-cain-inbred-ep/ |website=Pitchfork |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=April 28, 2021}} Although it was labeled by Cain as experimental,{{cite web |last1=Ruiz |first1=Matthew Ismael |title=Watch Ethel Cain's New "Crush" Video |url=https://pitchfork.com/news/watch-ethel-cain-new-crush-video/ |website=Pitchfork |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=August 3, 2021}} "Crush" is closer to pop music than her usual alternative style.{{cite web |last1=Leasure |first1=Haylee |title=Haylee’s Hub: Ethel Cain's 'Preacher's Daughter' is a life-changing album |url=https://www.thepostathens.com/article/2023/06/opinion-haylees-hub-ethel-cain-preachers-daughter |website=The Post |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=June 30, 2023 }} She talked about her "fear" of making pop music, saying that "once you make [the genre], your other genres won't be taken as seriously", but "she has worked to make the music she wants".
In a press release about the theme of the song, the artist said: {{Blockquote|I really had no business at 16 having week-long relationships with random 23-year-old drifter students but at the time I just thought they were so cool. You know, the deadbeat stoner skater boys who definitely weren't making it over the county line. It was out of total innocence that I ever envisioned a future with them but damn it if I didn't daydream about them all the same. Good men die too, and all that.{{cite web |last1=Bloom |first1=Madison |title=Ethel Cain Shares New Song "Crush": Listen |url=https://pitchfork.com/news/ethel-cain-shares-new-song-crush-listen/ |website=Pitchfork |access-date=December 28, 2023 |date=March 18, 2021}}}}
Critical reception
The Fader{{'s}} staff included "Crush" on their list of 20 best rock music releases of March 2021.{{cite web |last1=Renshaw |first1=David |title=The 20 best rock songs right now |url=https://www.thefader.com/2021/03/30/the-20-best-rock-songs-right-now-march |website=The Fader |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=March 30, 2021}} They described it as a "nuanced and grungy love song written from the rearview mirror of adulthood". The same magazine also named the song one of the 100 best songs of 2021, placing it at number 11, and Colin Joyce described its lyrics as "myth-making", with "the sort of detail that emerges in a documentary about a forgotten artist decades later". Coup de Main Magazine also included the track on its year-end list of best songs.{{cite web |title=The Best Songs Of 2021. |url=https://www.coupdemainmagazine.com/best-songs-2021/18130 |website=Coup de Main Magazine |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=December 17, 2021}} "Crush" was highlighted as a standout release by magazine Nylon.{{cite web |last1=Rindner |first1=Grant |title=Ethel Cain's Music Is All About Pretending |url=https://www.nylon.com/entertainment/ethel-cain-hayden-anhedonia-interview |website=Nylon |access-date=June 30, 2024 |date=April 19, 2021}}