Enough Cryin

{{Infobox song

| name = Enough Cryin

| cover = Mary J. Blige - Enough Cryin.jpg

| alt =

| type = single

| artist = Mary J. Blige

| album = The Breakthrough

| B-side =

| released = March 2, 2006

| recorded =

| studio =

| venue =

| genre =

| length = 4:20

| label = Geffen

| writer = *Mary J. Blige

| producer = Jerkins

| prev_title = One

| prev_year = 2006

| next_title = Take Me as I Am

| next_year = 2006

| misc = {{External music video|{{YouTube|_L71OK0xAuE|"Enough Cryin"}}}}

}}

"Enough Cryin" a song by American singer Mary J. Blige. It was written by Blige, Sean Garrett, Shawn "Jay-Z" Carter, and Rodney "Darkchild" Jerkins for her seventh studio album, The Breakthrough (2005), while production was helmed by the latter. The song introduces Blige's rap alter ego, Brook Lynn, who delivers the song's rap verse. Blige's rap verse was originally written by Jay-Z for Foxy Brown, but Jerkins rejected Brown's vocals and it was instead suggested that Blige record the verse herself.

The song earned generally positive reviews from music critics who ranked it among the album's standout tracks. On March 2, 2006, "Enough Cryin" was released by Geffen Records as the album's third single in the United States. It peaked at number 32 on the US Billboard Hot 100 and number two on the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart. While the song was less successful internationally, it also peaked at number six on the UK R&B Singles Charts and became a top twenty hit in the Netherlands.

Background

"Enough Cryin" was written by Mary J. Blige, Rodney Jerkins, Sean Garrett, and rapper Jay-Z for her seventh studio album, The Breakthrough (2005). Production of the song was overseen by Jerkins. Lyrically, "Enough Cryin" was inspired by Blige's six year relationship with singer Cedric "K-Ci" Hailey of the R&B group Jodeci.{{Cite web|last=Mulkerrins|first=Jane|date=2013-11-01|title=Mary J Blige: 'The way I was living, I should have been dead'|url=https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/esmagazine/mary-j-blige-the-way-i-was-living-i-should-have-been-dead-8916181.html|access-date=March 7, 2024|website=Evening Standard}} During a 1995 interview on the UK television show The Word, Blige confirmed the two were engaged, though Hailey had previously denied that they were going to get married.{{Cite web|last=Dotiwala|first=Jasmine|date=July 18, 2017|title=10 reasons why Mary J Blige is one of life's warrior women|url=https://metro.co.uk/2017/07/18/10-reasons-why-mary-j-blige-is-one-of-lifes-warrior-women-6786725/|access-date=March 7, 2024|website=Metro.co.uk=en}} Their turbulent relationship also largely inspired Blige's second studio album My Life (1994).{{Cite web|last=Sullivan|first=Caroline|date=January 31, 2002|title='My boyfriend was trying to kill me. There were weapons'|url=http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2002/feb/01/shopping.artsfeatures|access-date=March 7, 2024|website=The Guardian}} Blige commented on the song: "I'm saying, 'I'm getting on with my life. I'm gonna go ahead and do my work'."

Jay-Z penned the rap verse that Blige performs on "Enough Cryin."{{cite web|first=Russell|last=Myrie|url=https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/music/features/mary-j-blige-can-t-keep-her-down-521715.html |title=Mary J Blige: Can't keep her down|website=independent.co.uk |date= January 6, 2006|access-date=March 5, 2024}}{{cite web|first=Nerisha|last=Penrose|url=https://www.billboard.com/music/rb-hip-hop/mary-j-blige-best-breakup-anthems-8054030/|title=Mary J. Blige's 10 Best Post-Breakup Anthems: Critic's Picks|website=Billboard.com |date= November 30, 2017|access-date=March 5, 2024}} Actually ghost written for rapper Foxy Brown, Brown's vocals were rejected by Jerkins and it was instead suggested that Blige record the verse herself.{{cite web |work=106 & Park|title=#TBT Mary J. Blige Talks Her Alter Ego & Inspiration Behind "Enough Cryin" |date=19 December 2019 |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e18i7n8oBA |via=YouTube |access-date=March 6, 2024}} As a result, "Enough Cryin" became the debut performance of Blige's rap alter ego Brook Lynn who would later re-appear on the song "Midnight Drive" from her tenth studio album My Life II... The Journey Continues (Act 1). Brown attributed her severe and sudden hearing loss in both ears in 2005 to her omittance from the song. In 2011, she further elaborated: "When you hear Mary in the video like, 'You turned your back and back I came running, but the simple fact is that you ain't want me,' that was me. Mary had enough respect to say, 'Listen, before I go get another rap bitch to do your part, I'ma call myself Brook-Lyn and I'ma learn your part and I'ma go in and rap it for you'."{{cite web |first=Reggie|last=Ugwu|website=BET.com|title=Foxy Brown Had Album in the Works with Mary J. Blige |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e18i7n8oBA |via=YouTube |date=August 26, 2011|access-date=March 6, 2024}}

Critical reception

"Enough Cryin" earned generally positive reviews from music critics. Contactmusic.com described the song as a "monster

urban hit" and called Jerkin's production "jaw droppin." The online magazine found that "Blige doesn't just sing this, she nails it [...] The face slapping snares that come outta the speakers and slap you square in the face. Those droning, haunting keyboards and production sounds that are oh so Darkchild. Added to lyrics that are just as jaw dropping as the vocal performance and production."{{cite web|author=Bigger |url=https://www.contactmusic.com/mary-j-blige/music/maryjbligex23x05x06|title=Mary J Blige – Feat Brook, Enough Cryin, Single Review|website=Contactmusic.com|date=May 23, 2006|access-date=March 5, 2024}} Da'Shan Smith from uDiscoverMusic found that "over a Darkchild beat, "Enough Cryin" made good on its promise. Most Mary J Blige songs are based on a hip-hop/soul fusion, but on "Enough Cryin," you get a glimpse of her MC skills, as her alter ego, Brooklyn, proves she could dominate both genres with ease."{{cite web|first=Da'Shan|last=Smith |url=https://www.udiscovermusic.com/stories/best-mary-j-blige-songs/|title=Best Mary J. Blige Songs: 20 Essentials From The Queen Of Hip-Hop Soul|website=udiscovermusic.com|date=January 11, 2024|access-date=March 5, 2024}}

Billboard felt that song "embodies everything that Blige is renowned for: She is aching something fierce over love gone wrong, she sings her kaboodle off with razor-sharp chops and even raps (via 'alter ego' Brook)."{{cite magazine|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=BRYEAAAAMBAJ|title=Reviews > Spotlights > Singles|magazine=Billboard|date=April 8, 2006|access-date=March 5, 2024}} Fellow Billboard critic Nerisha Penrose wrote: "Leave it to Mary J to turn her pain into a bouncy earworm as she wipes her hands clean of a toxic romance that cost her friends and family." Rolling Stone editor Barry Walters declared "Enough Cryin" as "elegant and stark as a beat-box-driven Run-DMC classic,"{{cite web|first=Barry|last=Walters|url=https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-album-reviews/the-breakthrough-107330/|title=The Breakthrough |website=The Guardian|date=December 11, 2005|access-date=March 5, 2024|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20181209165327/https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-album-reviews/the-breakthrough-107330/|archive-date=December 9, 2018}} while David Browne from Entertainment Weekly called the song "defiant [with] "fisticuff rhythms that match her anger."{{cite web|first=David |last=Browne |url=https://edition.cnn.com/2005/SHOWBIZ/Music/12/20/ew.mus.blige/|title=Review: Blige's worthy 'Breakthrough'|website=CNN.com|date= December 20, 2005 |access-date=March 5, 2024}} Kitty Empire, writing for The Guardian, and Jim Harrington from The East Bay Times both ranked the song among the standout tracks on parent album The Breakthrough.{{cite web|first=Kitty|last=Empire|url=https://www.theguardian.com/music/2005/dec/11/popandrock|title=Review: Mary J Blige, The Breakthrough|website=The Guardian|date=December 11, 2005|access-date=March 5, 2024}}{{cite web|first=Jim |last=Harrington|url=https://www.eastbaytimes.com/2016/12/08/review-mary-j-blige-maxwell-combine-for-intriguing-show/|title=Review: Mary J. Blige, Maxwell combine for intriguing show|website=East Bay Times|date=December 8, 2016|access-date=March 7, 2024}} BET.com wrote of the song: "Backed by a banging, Dr. Dre-esque beat from long-time collaborator Jerkins, Mary shows indomitable swagger here, once again singing herself away from the painful baggage of the past—and even skillfully spitting a Jay-Z-penned rap."{{Cite web |title=Mary J. Blige's 50 Best Songs – MJB's What's the 411? was released 22 years ago today|url=https://www.bet.com/photo-gallery/vzokma/mary-j-blige-s-50-best-songs/mviqtw|access-date=March 11, 2024|website=BET.com}}

Music video

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Blige reunited with Hype Williams, director of her visuals for "Be Happy" (1994) and "Everything" (1997), to film a music video for "Enough Cryin." It was largely shot in Long Beach, California in March 2006,{{cite web|first=Shaheem|last=Reid|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/1527346/50-helps-mary-j-relive-her-most-embarrassing-moment/ |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140712093201/http://www.mtv.com/news/1527346/50-helps-mary-j-relive-her-most-embarrassing-moment/ |url-status=dead |archive-date=July 12, 2014 |title=50 Helps Mary J. Relive Her Most Embarrassing Moment |work=MTV News|date=March 29, 2006 |access-date=August 12, 2020}} Inspired by true events, Blige explained during filmming that the clip was about "something that happened a long time ago, and it was a very embarrassing moment when I thought I was getting married. I was engaged to K-Ci, and I actually went on a talk show overseas and that person had just done that talk show about a week before me. I was telling the interviewer that I was getting married, and the week before he was saying that it was a rumor. He wasn't marrying me."

Blige approached rapper 50 Cent to appear in the clip after the pair had collaborated on the song "It's Alright" from rap group Mobb Deep's 2006 studio album Blood Money. He portrays Curtis "C.J." Jackson, an "aggressive" R&B singer who loses his cool after he is questioned by an interviewer. In the video, after she leaves the interview, Blige is "kind of upset, but I'm still kind of going through my photo shoot [...] It ends up being one of the most amazing photo shoots because of all of the anger and depression and the fact that I choose to just move on with my life and be a superstar." In an interview with MTV News, Blige further remarked: "It's real comical."

Track listings

{{Tracklist

| headline = CD 1{{cite web|url=https://open.spotify.com/intl-de/album/2Ke24Pt2r81zAXN5F9gZaB|title=Enough Cryin' – Single|website=Spotify|access-date=March 7, 2024}}

| extra_column = Producer(s)

| title1 = Enough Cryin

| note1 = UK Radio Edit

| writer1 = {{hlist|Mary J. Blige|Rodney Jerkins|Sean Garrett|Shawn Carter|Craig Brockman}}

| extra1 = Jerkins

| length1 = 3:30

| title2 = Be Without You

| note2 = Live from AOL Music Sessions

| writer2 = {{hlist|Johnta Austin|Blige|Bryan-Michael Cox|Jason Perry}}

| extra2 =

| length2 = 4:31

}}

{{Tracklist

| headline = CD 2{{cite web|title=Enough Cryin' (International Version)|url=https://www.amazon.de/Enough-Cryin-International-Version-Blige/dp/B001SV67IY|website=Amazon.de|access-date=March 7, 2024}}

| extra_column = Producer(s)

| title1 = Enough Cryin

| note1 = Album Version

| writer1 = {{hlist|Blige|Jerkins|Garrett|Carter|Brockman}}

| extra1 = Jerkins

| length1 = 3:21

| title2 = Out My Head

| writer2 = Rich Harrison

| extra2 = Harrison

| length2 = 3:42

| title3 = Be Without You

| note3 = Moto Blanco Vocal Remix

| writer3 = {{hlist|Austin|Blige|Cox|Perry}}

| extra3 = {{hlist|Cox|Young Smoke{{ref|a|[a]}}|Moto Blanco{{ref|b|[b]}}}}

| length3 = 8:40

| title4 = Enough Cryin

| note4 = Instrumental

| writer4 = {{hlist|Blige|Jerkins|Garrett|Carter|Brockman}}

| extra4 = Jerkins

| length4 = 4:02

| title5 = Enough Cryin

| note5 = Music Video

| writer5 =

| extra5 =

| length5 = 4:07

}}

Notes

^{{{note|a|[a]}}} denotes a co-producer
^{{{note|b|[b]}}} denotes a remix producer

Credits and personnel

Credits adapted from the liner notes of The Breakthrough.{{cite AV media notes |title=The Breakthrough |others=Mary J. Blige |year=2005|first=Mary J.|last=Blige|author-link=Mary J. Blige |type=Compact Disc |publisher=Geffen Records }}

Mary J. Blige – vocals, songwriter
Craig Brockman – piano
Shawn Carter - songwriter
Patrick Fillett – recording engineer
Paul Foley – recording engineer
Sean Garrett - vocal producer, songwriter
Rodney "Darkchild" Jerkins – audio mixing, other instruments, music producer, songwriter
Tony Maserati – audio mixing
Cornelius Mims – bass
Tim Stuart – guitar
Jeff Villanueva - recording engineer

Charts

=Weekly charts=

scope="row"\|Netherlands (Dutch Top 40 Tipparade){{cite web\|url=https://www.top40.nl/tipparade/2006/week-31\|title=week 31 (5 augustus 2006)\|publisher=Dutch Top 40\|language=nl\|access-date=April 30, 2022}} \|align="center"\|12
class="wikitable sortable plainrowheaders" style="text-align:center" \|+Weekly chart performance for "Enough Cryin" ! Chart (2006) ! Peak position
{{singlechart\|Flanders Tip\|15\|artist=Mary J Blige feat. Brook\|song=Enough Cryin\|rowheader=true\|access-date=April 30, 2022}}
{{singlechart\|Germany\|88\|artist=Mary J Blige feat. Brook\|song=Enough Cryin\|songid=168159\|rowheader=true\|access-date=October 28, 2018}}
{{singlechart\|Ireland\|35\|artist=Mary J Blige feat. Brook\|song=Enough Cryin\|year=2006\|week=13\|rowheader=true\|access-date=January 3, 2013}}
{{singlechart\|Scotland\|45\|date=20060702\|rowheader=true\|access-date=April 30, 2022}}
{{singlechart\|UKsinglesbyname\|46\|artist=Mary J Blige feat. Brook Lyn\|song=Enough Cryin\|artistid=18705\|rowheader=true\|access-date=May 23, 2011}}
{{singlechart\|UKrandb\|6\|date=20060702\|rowheader=true\|access-date=April 30, 2022}}
{{singlechart\|Billboardhot100\|32\|artist=Mary J. Blige\|rowheader=true\|access-date=January 3, 2013}}
{{singlechart\|Billboardrandbhiphop\|2\|artist=Mary J. Blige\|rowheader=true\|access-date=January 3, 2013}}
{{singlechart\|Billboardrhythmic\|24\|artist=Mary J. Blige\|rowheader=true\|access-date=October 1, 2021}}

=Year-end charts=

class="wikitable plainrowheaders" style="text-align:center" \|+ Year-end chart performance for "Enough Cryin" ! Chart (2006) ! Position
scope="row"\|UK Urban (Music Week){{cite magazine\|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-Week/2007/Music-Week-2007-01-13.pdf \|title=2006 Urban Top 40\|magazine=Music Week\|page=26\|date=January 13, 2007\|access-date=August 6, 2023}} \|34
scope="row"\| US Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs (Billboard){{cite web\|url=http://www.billboard.biz/bbbiz/charts/yearendcharts/2006/hot-r-and-and-b-hip-hop-songs-titles\|title=Year-End Charts – Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs Titles – 2006\|website=Billboard.biz\|year=2006\|access-date=October 1, 2021\|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20121003173555/http://www.billboard.biz/bbbiz/charts/yearendcharts/2006/hot-r-and-and-b-hip-hop-songs-titles\|archive-date=October 3, 2012}} \| 10

class="wikitable plainrowheaders" style="text-align:center"

|+ Year-end chart performance for "Enough Cryin"

! Chart (2006)

! Position

scope="row"|UK Urban (Music Week){{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-Week/2007/Music-Week-2007-01-13.pdf |title=2006 Urban Top 40|magazine=Music Week|page=26|date=January 13, 2007|access-date=August 6, 2023}}

|34

scope="row"| US Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs (Billboard){{cite web|url=http://www.billboard.biz/bbbiz/charts/yearendcharts/2006/hot-r-and-and-b-hip-hop-songs-titles|title=Year-End Charts – Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs Titles – 2006|website=Billboard.biz|year=2006|access-date=October 1, 2021|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20121003173555/http://www.billboard.biz/bbbiz/charts/yearendcharts/2006/hot-r-and-and-b-hip-hop-songs-titles|archive-date=October 3, 2012}}

| 10

References

Category:2005 songs

Category:2006 singles

Category:Mary J. Blige songs

Category:Geffen Records singles

Category:Music videos directed by Hype Williams

Category:Song recordings produced by Rodney Jerkins

Category:Songs written by Jay-Z

Category:Songs written by Rodney Jerkins

Category:Songs written by Sean Garrett

Category:Songs written by Mary J. Blige

Category:Songs written by Craig Brockman