How Come, How Long#Chart

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{{Infobox song

| name = How Come, How Long

| cover = How_Come.jpg

| alt =

| type = single

| artist = Babyface featuring Stevie Wonder

| album = The Day

| released = July 7, 1997

| recorded =

| studio =

| genre = Soul

| length =

  • 5:10 (album version)
  • 4:11 (radio edit)

| label = Epic

| writer = Babyface, Stevie Wonder

| producer = Babyface

| prev_title =

| prev_year =

| next_title =

| next_year =

| misc = {{External music video|{{YouTube|lBPEkEOUUp0|"How Come, How Long"}}}}

{{Extra chronology

| artist = Babyface

| type = single

| prev_title = Every Time I Close My Eyes

| prev_year = 1997

| title = How Come, How Long

| year = 1997

| next_title = (Always Be My) Sunshine

| next_year = 1997

}}{{Audio sample

| type = single

| file = Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder - How Come How Long (Radio Edit).ogg

| description = How Come, How Long

}}

}}

"How Come, How Long" is a song written, produced and performed by Babyface (Kenneth Edmonds). It was released as the third and final single from his fourth album, The Day (1996). It is a duet with American singer-songwriter Stevie Wonder.

The lyrics deal with domestic violence, regarding a woman who was killed by her husband after tremendous physical abuse. This release met with mixed reaction by critics and did not chart on any major charts in the United States, finding a better chart performance in the United Kingdom, where it became a top ten hit for the performers. At the 40th Grammy Awards this song received a nomination for Best Pop Collaboration with Vocals, which it lost to "Don't Look Back" by John Lee Hooker and Van Morrison.{{cite web |title=40th Grammy Awards|work=Rock on the Net|url=http://www.rockonthenet.com/archive/1998/grammys.htm|date=February 25, 1998|access-date=January 12, 2009}} The following year, the song received the same nomination with the live version included on Babyface's Unplugged album, losing this time to Elvis Costello and Burt Bacharach with their rendition of "I Still Have That Other Girl".{{cite web |title=41st Grammy Awards|work=Rock on the Net|url=http://www.rockonthenet.com/archive/1999/grammys.htm|date=February 25, 1999|access-date=January 12, 2009}}

Background

The track was written, produced and performed by Babyface as a duet with American singer-songwriter Stevie Wonder, who also co-wrote the song. The lyrics deal with domestic violence and is inspired by the Nicole Brown Simpson case.{{cite web |title=Babyface - Timeline |work=Rock on the Net|url=http://www.rockonthenet.com/artists-b/babyface_main.htm|access-date=January 12, 2009}}

Critical reception

On the Entertainment Weekly review of The Day, David Browne wrote that this "domestic-abuse saga" needed "tougher music to make its point".{{cite magazine |title=Baby Grand |magazine=Entertainment Weekly |last=Browne |first=David |url=https://ew.com/article/1996/11/01/day/|date=November 1, 1996|access-date=January 12, 2009|publisher=Entertainment Weekly and Time Inc.}} A reviewer from Music Week rated the song four out of five, stating that "Wonder's input (singing and harmonica-playing) is obvious on this emotionally-charged soul ballad".{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-Week/1997/Music-Week-1997-05-17.pdf|title=Reviews: Singles|magazine=Music Week|date=May 17, 1997|page=13|accessdate=May 26, 2022}} The magazine's Alan Jones viewed it as "a worthy social commentary piece (about wife beating)".{{cite magazine|first=Alan|last=Jones|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-Week/1997/Music-Week-1997-05-24.pdf|title=Talking Music|magazine=Music Week|date=May 24, 1997|page=18|accessdate=May 26, 2022}}

Music video

The accompanying music video for this song, directed by F. Gary Gray, shows several residents of an apartment building ignoring the shouts, screams, and arguments between a married couple, ending with a twist, showing that the woman killed her abusive husband, ending with her being arrested. This video received a nomination for Best R&B Video at the 1997 MTV Video Music Awards, which was awarded to "I'll Be Missing You" by Puff Daddy (Sean Combs) featuring Faith Evans and 112.{{cite web |title=1997 MTV Video Music Awards|work=Rock on the Net|url=http://www.rockonthenet.com/archive/1997/mtvvmas.htm|date=September 4, 1997|access-date=January 12, 2009}} It also was nominated for a Grammy Award for Best Short Form Music Video, losing to "Got 'til It's Gone" by Janet Jackson.

Track listing

  • US CD single{{cite web |url={{AllMusic|class=album|id=r1447060|pure_url=yes}}|title=How Come, How Long |access-date=January 12, 2009|publisher=Macromedia Corporation |work=AllMusic}}
  1. "How Come, How Long" – 5:11
  2. "Every Time I Close My Eyes" (Timbaland remix) – 4:23
  • UK CD single (XPCD2161){{cite web |url=http://eil.com/shop/moreinfo.asp?catalogid=292716|title=How Come, How Long Radio Edit |access-date=January 12, 2009|work=Eli.com}}
  1. "How Come, How Long" (Radio edit) – 4:12
  • CD maxi single (EPC 664402 2){{cite web |url=http://www.discogs.com/release/1032603|title=How Come, How Long CD Maxi single|access-date=January 12, 2009|work=Discogs|date=May 27, 1997 }}
  1. "How Come, How Long" (radio edit) – 4:12
  2. "How Come, How Long" (Natty & Slaps remix) – 5:08
  3. "How Come, How Long" (Laws & Craigie remix) – 6:28
  4. "Every Time I Close My Eyes" (Timbaland remix) – 4:55

Chart

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=Weekly charts=

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!Chart (1997)

!Peak
position

{{single chart|Australia|5|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Austria|9|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Flanders|15|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Wallonia|16|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
Denmark (IFPI)

|align="center"|17

{{single chart|France|22|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Germany|17|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long|songid=3495}}
Ireland (IRMA)

|align="center"|10

{{single chart|Dutch40|2|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Dutch100|2|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|New Zealand|9|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Norway|5|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Sweden|9|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
{{single chart|Switzerland|10|artist=Babyface feat. Stevie Wonder|song=How Come, How Long}}
UK Singles (OCC)

|align="center"|10

US Rhythmic Top 40 (Billboard)

|align="center"|21

US Top 40 Mainstream (Billboard)

|align="center"|31

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=Year-end charts=

class="wikitable sortable"

!Chart (1997)

!Position

Australia (ARIA){{cite web|url=https://www.aria.com.au/charts/1997/singles-chart|title=ARIA Top 100 Singles for 1997|publisher=Australian Recording Industry Association|access-date=May 13, 2025}}

|align="center"|27

Belgium (Ultratop 50 Flanders){{cite web|url=https://www.ultratop.be/nl/annual.asp?year=1997|title=Jaaroverzichten 1997|publisher=Ultratop|language=nl|access-date=March 6, 2020}}

|align="center"|67

Belgium (Ultratop 50 Wallonia){{cite web|url=https://www.ultratop.be/fr/annual.asp?year=1997|title=Rapports annuels 1997|publisher=Ultratop|language=fr|access-date=March 6, 2020}}

|align="center"|89

Germany (Media Control){{cite web|url=https://www.offiziellecharts.de/charts/single-jahr/for-date-1997|title=Top 100 Single–Jahrescharts 1997|publisher=GfK Entertainment|language=de|access-date=April 17, 2018}}

|align="center"|78

Netherlands (Dutch Top 40){{cite web|url=https://www.top40.nl/bijzondere-lijsten/top-100-jaaroverzichten/1997|title=Top 100–Jaaroverzicht van 1997|publisher=Dutch Top 40|language=nl|access-date=March 6, 2020}}

|align="center"|27

Netherlands (Single Top 100){{cite web|url=https://dutchcharts.nl/jaaroverzichten.asp?year=1997&cat=s|title=Jaaroverzichten – Single 1997|website=dutchcharts.nl|language=nl|access-date=March 6, 2020}}

|align="center"|26

Romania (Romanian Top 100){{cite web|url=http://www.rt100.ro:80/topul-anului-1997.html|title=Romanian Top 100: Top of the Year 1997|language=ro|publisher=Romanian Top 100|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20050922001105/http://www.rt100.ro/topul-anului-1997.html|archive-date=September 22, 2005}}

|align="center"|14

Sweden (Topplistan){{cite web|url=https://www.sverigetopplistan.se/chart/43?dspy=1997&dspp=1|title=Årslista Singlar, 1997|publisher=Sverigetopplistan|language=sv|access-date=March 6, 2020}}

|align="center"|47

Switzerland (Schweizer Hitparade){{cite web|url=https://hitparade.ch/charts/jahreshitparade/1997|title=Schweizer Jahreshitparade 1997|website=hitparade.ch|language=de|access-date=March 6, 2020}}

|align="center"|30

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Certifications

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{{Certification Table Entry|artist=Babyface|award=Platinum|certyear=1997|region=Australia|title=How Come, How Long|type=single}}

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Personnel

The following people contributed to "How Come, How Long":

References

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