In Memory of My Father

Three brothers, Jeremy, Chris, and Matt, come together for the wake of their father, a Robert Evans-type film producer. Before his death, the father bribed youngest son Chris into making a film about his last moments. The wake devolves into a self-obsessed Hollywood party with the arrival of various guests, including Judy, who was the patriarch's young lover and is also having an affair with eldest son Matt, and Meadow, who through familial marriages and re-marriages, is both cousin and stepsister to the brothers.

{{Cast listing|

• Jeremy Sisto as Jeremy
• Chris Jaymes as Chris
• Matt Keeslar as Matt
• Judy Greer as Judy
• Nicholle Tom as Nicholle
• Eric Michael Cole as Eric
• Monet Mazur as Monet
• Pat Healy as Pat
• Christine Lakin as Christine
• Meadow Sisto as Meadow
• Tom Carroll as Uncle Aled
• Todd Rulapaugh as Todd
• David Austin as Dad

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The film was constructed within a three month period from conception to filming. The idea came about when producer David Austin asked Jaymes to write a screenplay for a film they could shoot on location at a mansion once owned by Samuel Goldwyn that he was about to sell.{{Cite web |last=Forman |first=Bill |date=May 3, 2006 |title=Death Be Not Proud |url=https://www.goodtimes.sc/archives/metro-santa-cruz/05.03.06/christopher-jaymes-0618.html |access-date=2023-04-23 |website=Metro Santa Cruz}} The film was shot in four days. Post-production was completed in Vienna, Austria with the company Interspot Film. The film contains songs from Scottish band Belle & Sebastian.

On review aggregator Rotten Tomatoes, In Memory of My Father has an approval rating of 67% based on 9 reviews.{{cite web |title=The Memory of My Father |url=https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/in_memory_of_my_father |website=Rotten Tomatoes |access-date=23 April 2023}}

Robert Koehler of Variety said the film "eludes the trap of excessive familiarity with an acidic sense of humor and a superbly cast ensemble."{{Cite web |last=Koehler |first=Robert |date=2005-06-22 |title=In Memory Of My Father |url=https://variety.com/2005/film/reviews/in-memory-of-my-father-1200524983/ |access-date=2023-04-23 |website=Variety |language=en-US}} He noted "the extended, drug-fueled duo between Sisto and Cole is quite magical, while Greer is allowed to exercise her best comic instincts (especially in tandem with the deadpan Keeslar)", and described the film as a "lighter side of 'The Celebration,' both in terms of its ad-hoc and nervy approach to characters".

Writing in the Las Vegas Weekly, Matthew Scott Hunter said, "In the end, the film is just about bad people behaving badly, and yet it's surprisingly entertaining. The frequently hilarious dialogue has a loose, improvisational feel that makes the entire movie seem far more realistic than it is, and Jaymes' tight direction and constant intercutting of scenes moves the film along at a brisk pace. The performances are great all around, particularly the drugged-out antics of Jeremy and Eric (Eric Michael Cole). It may not be the most profound or realistic film, but it's a hell of a lot more fun than you'd expect from watching despicable people at a funeral."{{cite news |last1=Hunter |first1=Matthew Scott |title=CineVegas: Cine-Full |url=https://lasvegasweekly.com/news/archive/2005/jun/23/cinevegas-cine-full/ |access-date=23 April 2023 |work=Las Vegas Weekly |date=June 23, 2005}}

• 2006 Santa Barbara International Film Festival – Best American Film/American Spirit Award{{Cite web |last=McCarthy |first=Todd |date=2006-02-13 |title=Fest plays Santa with 'Father,' 'Noel' |url=https://variety.com/2006/film/news/fest-plays-santa-with-father-noel-1117938011/ |access-date=2023-04-23 |website=Variety |language=en-US}}
• 2006 Sonoma Valley Film Festival – Best Debut Feature{{cite news |title=Small-budget, acclaimed films play in Tempe |url=https://www.eastvalleytribune.com/get_out/small-budget-acclaimed-films-play-in-tempe/article_8b1e5265-d7f1-537c-9813-41e3b8d9d52c.html |access-date=23 April 2023 |work=East Valley Tribune |date=November 3, 2008}}
• 2006 Santa Cruz Film Festival – Director's Award
• 2005 CineVegas – Grand Jury Award
• 2005 San Diego Film Festival – Best Director{{Cite web|url=http://www.sdff.org/awardwinners.html|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070703150152/http://www.sdff.org/awardwinners.html|url-status=dead|archive-date=2007-07-03|title=san diego film festival 2007: award winners|date=2007-07-03|access-date=2019-09-23}}
• 2005 AOF FEST – Best Picture
• 2005 Ft. Lauderdale International Film Festival – Spirit Award
• 2006 Lake Forest Film Fest – Grand Jury Award

• 2006 Atlanta Film Festival – Best Actor{{Cite web |title=2006 Atlanta Film Festival |url=http://www.atlantafilmfestival.com/atlanta-film-festival-alumni-1976-to-the-present/ |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20120731122958/http://www.atlantafilmfestival.com/atlanta-film-festival-alumni-1976-to-the-present/ |archive-date=2012-07-31 |access-date=2023-04-23 |website=Atlanta Film Festival}}
• 2006 Marbella International Film Festival – Best Film{{Cite web |last= |date=2012-01-24 |title=Festival 2006 {{!}} Marbella Film Festival |url=https://www.marbellafilmfestival.com/archives/awards-2006/ |access-date=2023-04-23 |website=www.marbellafilmfestival.com |language=en-US}}
• 2005 NatFilm Copenhagen – Best Feature
• 2005 Starz Denver International Film Festival – Director to Watch – Chris Jaymes{{Cite web |last=Kennedy |first=Lisa |date=2005-11-03 |title="Be Your Own Critic" at Starz by crafting your own festival |url=https://www.denverpost.com/2005/11/03/be-your-own-critic-at-starz-by-crafting-your-own-festival/ |access-date=2023-04-23 |website=The Denver Post |language=en-US}}

{{Reflist}}

• [https://www.chrisjaymes.com/in-memory-of-my-father Official website]
• {{IMDB title|0251744}}
• {{Rotten Tomatoes|in_memory_of_my_father}}

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