List of age-related terms with negative connotations

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The following is a list of terms used in relation to age with negative connotations. Many age-negative terms intersect with ableism, or are derogatory toward people with neurodegenerative diseases such as Alzheimer's disease and dementia. Age-negative terms are used about young people as well as older people. A large number of these terms are United States slang. Style guides such as the "Age Writing Guide" by the University of Bristol have been implemented in some institutions to attempt to eliminate the use of ageist terms in academic writing.{{cite web |title=Inclusive writing: Age |url=https://www.bristol.ac.uk/style-guides/writing/inclusive/age/ |website=www.bristol.ac.uk |publisher=University of Bristol |access-date=23 December 2022}}

Some of these terms may not be pejorative depending on context.

Terms

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= A =

Adorable:{{cite web |last1=Duarte |first1=Amanda |last2=Albo |first2=Mike |title=Who You Calling 'Young Lady'? And other ageist language that needs to change — now |url=https://www.aarp.org/disrupt-aging/stories/ideas/info-2018/ageist-language-glossary.html |website=www.aarp.org |publisher=AARP |access-date=23 December 2022}} Not necessarily negative, a term that, when specifically applied to an older person or a senior citizen, can be considered patronizing and mocking in nature, particularly if the term is being used to refer to mental disabilities or dependency.
Adult diaper:{{cite web |last1=Bursack |first1=Carol Bradley |title=How to Convince a Senior to Wear Adult Diapers |url=https://www.agingcare.com/articles/how-to-convince-elderly-parent-to-wear-adult-diapers-145643.htm |website=www.agingcare.com |publisher=AgingCare |access-date=23 December 2022}} A type of disposable diaper or underpants for adults who struggle with urinary or fecal incontinence or other medical issues that affect bladder and bowel control; it is recommended by groups such as AgingCare that nurses and other professional care staff not use the term "diaper" due to its connotation with infants and children; preferred terms are adult descriptors such as "briefs", "panties", or the product's brand name, for example Depends.
Alligator bait, {{'}}gator bait:{{cite web |last1=Braziller |first1=Zach |title=University of Florida bans 'Gator Bait' chant over 'racist imagery |url=https://nypost.com/2020/06/18/university-of-florida-bans-gator-bait-chant-over-racist-imagery/ |website=nypost.com |date=18 June 2020 |publisher=New York Post |access-date=23 December 2022}}{{cite web |last1=Adelson |first1=Andrea |title=Florida putting end to 'Gator Bait' cheer, band performance due to racist history of term |url=https://www.espn.com/college-sports/story/_/id/29329250/university-florida-putting-end-gator-bait-cheer-band-performance-due-racist-history |website=www.espn.com |date=18 June 2020 |publisher=ESPN |access-date=23 December 2022}} A racist slur used to describe black children and young people, comparing their worth to bait used to catch alligators; the term {{'}}gator bait was banned from a common cheer in Florida due to its offensive meaning, and is generally no longer used.
Ancient: An insulting term to refer to an older person or senior citizen.

= B =

Baba Yaga: A Slavic mythological figure and slang term referring to an unsightly old woman, who frightens or upsets children.
Baby: Term often used to tease others for being childish or too young, or for behaving in an immature way.
Bag lady: A homeless old woman or vagrant.
Barely legal:{{cite book |last1=Purcell |first1=Natalie J. |last2=Zurbriggen |first2=Eileen |editor1-last=Zurbriggen |editor1-first=Eileen |editor2-last=Roberts |editor2-first=Tomi-Ann |title=The sexualization of girls and girlhood |date=2013 |publisher=Oxford University Press |isbn=978-0-19-973165-7 |chapter-url=https://archive.org/details/sexualizationofg0000unse/page/153/mode/1up?q=%22Barely+legal+pornography%22 |chapter=The sexualization of girls and gendered violence: Mapping the connections}} A term used to market pornography featuring young people who are "barely legal" (only just reached legal age of majority or the age of consent, or both). The term fetishizes young people sexually.
Bed blocker:{{cite web |last1=Jones |first1=Jacky |title=Empty nesters, bed blockers and old farts. Ageist terms are not the solution |url=https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/health-family/empty-nesters-bed-blockers-and-old-farts-ageist-terms-are-not-the-solution-1.2575299 |website=www.irishtimes.com |publisher=The Irish Times |access-date=23 December 2022}} A derogatory term used to describe older people taking up hospital beds in a healthcare system.
Beldame: An outdated term referring to an old woman, especially an ugly one.
Biddy:{{cite web |title=biddy 2 of 2 noun (2) |url=https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/biddy |website=www.merriam-webster.com |publisher=Merriam-Webster |access-date=23 December 2022}} An annoying, gossipy or interfering old lady.
Blue-hair: Derogatory term referring to older women who color their hair a distinctive silvery-blue.
Boomer: A postwar era-born person from the "Baby Boom", or a "baby boomer"; this term can also be used in a neutral context.
Boomer Remover: A slang term used to describe the COVID-19 pandemic; the term drew criticism for trivializing and mocking the high death rates of aging people due to the pandemic.{{cite web |last1=Whalen |first1=Andrew |title=What Is 'Boomer Remover' and Why Is It Making People So Angry? |url=https://www.newsweek.com/boomer-remover-meme-trends-virus-coronavirus-social-media-covid-19-baby-boomers-1492190 |website=www.newsweek.com |date=13 March 2020 |publisher=Newsweek |access-date=23 December 2022}}
Boomerang kid: A term for an adult who ceases to live independently from their parents and moves back home, typically derogatory.{{see below|"failure to launch" below}}
Brat: A term used to describe a badly-behaved or spoiled child.
Burden: A term (also ableist) of contempt or disdain used to describe old and infirm or disabled people who either don't contribute to society or who contribute in a limited way; this lack of contribution may be imposed or facilitated by social stigma and other factors.

= C =

Christmas cake: A Japanese term referring to a woman who is unmarried past the age of 25, likening them to a Christmas cake that is unsold after the 25th (of December) and no longer desirable.
Codger: An old-fashioned or eccentric old man.
Coot:{{cite web |title=coot noun [C] (PERSON) |url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/coot |website=dictionary.cambridge.org |publisher=Cambridge Dictionary |access-date=23 December 2022}} A crazy and foolish old man; senile man.
Cougar:{{cite web |title=The Most Offensive Senior Terms and Characterizations |url=https://www.medicareadvantage.com/news/offensive-senior-terms-and-stereotypes-report |website=medicareadvantage.com |publisher=Medicare Advantage |access-date=8 January 2023}}{{cite web |author=Staff Writer |title=Cougars: What's in a label? |url=https://www.jacksonville.com/story/news/2009/08/03/cougars-whats-in-a-label/15977609007/ |website=www.jacksonville.com |publisher=The Florida Times-Union |access-date=23 December 2022}} An American slang term referring to older women who have romantic or sexual relations with younger men, although the term can also have a positive connotation depending on the situation or circumstance.
Crone: An ugly or witch-like old woman.
Curmudgeon:{{cite web |title=curmudgeon noun |url=https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/curmudgeon |website=www.merriam-webster.com |publisher=Merriam-Webster |access-date=23 December 2022}} An ill-tempered, grumpy or surly old man (although the term is most often applied to old men, it can be used more broadly: for example, in the 2008 film Marley & Me, John Grogan, a forty-year-old man, is called a curmudgeon for complaining about the prevalence of aesthetically ugly high-rise condos popping up in his city).

= D =

Dinosaur:{{cite web |title=The Language Of Ageism: Understanding How We Talk About Older People |url=https://www.dictionary.com/e/ageism-terms/ |website=www.dictionary.com |date=19 May 2021 |publisher=Dictionary |access-date=25 December 2022}}{{cite web |last1=Burnside |first1=Sarah |title=Calling Reactionary Old Men "Dinosaurs" Won't Help Anything At All |url=https://junkee.com/why-we-need-to-stop-calling-reactionary-old-men-dinosaurs/12913 |website=junkee.com |date=24 June 2013 |publisher=Junkee |access-date=25 December 2022}} Slang term used to describe an out-of-touch older person, a clueless person or an ignorant older man.
Dirty old man:{{cite web |last1=Royco |first1=Mike |title=A CASE OF REVERSE PREJUDICE – DIRTY OLD MEN, DIRTY OLD WOMEN |url=https://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/os-xpm-1992-09-03-9209030860-story.html |website=www.orlandosentinel.com |date=3 September 1992 |publisher=Orlando Sentinel |access-date=23 December 2022}}{{Cite web |title=dirty old man, n. — Green's Dictionary of Slang |url=https://greensdictofslang.com/entry/3idulti |access-date=2023-06-15 |website=greensdictofslang.com}}{{cite web |title=Ageism and Aging |url=https://www.achca.org/index.php?option=com_dailyplanetblog&view=entry&year=2019&month=09&day=04&id=50:ageism-and-aging |website=www.achca.org |publisher=American College of Health Care Administrators |access-date=23 December 2022}} An old pervert, specifically referring to older men who make unwanted sexual advances or remarks, or who often engage in sex-related activities. The term suggests that it is inappropriate and unnatural for older men to be sexually active. The term, other than being ageist, has misandrist connotations in the West.
Dotard: A weak older person with limited mental faculties, or a mentally disabled older person.
Dried up: Slang for a sexually-inactive older person, often used to refer to post-menopausal women.

= E =

Empty nesters: Older people with children who have moved out of the family residence; people who are downsizing their living quarters.

= F =

Failure to launch: A term referring to a young adult who has not yet met the societal standards of their culture for being a typical adult, such as going to university, moving to their own residence or getting a job.
Fogey: An old man who has old-fashioned or conservative interests and tastes.
Fuddy-duddy: A silly or foolish old man.

= G =

Geezer: A significantly aged old man. In the UK, it is a slang term used most often to refer simply to a "man" or "guy".
Geriatric: Offensive slang only when used in a non-medical context.
Gerry: (Not to be confused with the pejorative ethnic term towards German people; "gerry" in this context is short for "geriatric").{{cite news |last1=Nunberg |first1=Geoffrey |title=Do Not Go Gently; Geezers, Gerries and Golden Agers |work=The New York Times |date=28 March 2004 |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2004/03/28/weekinreview/do-not-go-gently-geezers-gerries-and-golden-agers.html |access-date=8 January 2023}}
Gold-digger: A younger person, typically a woman, who seduces and then gets money, affection and possessions from an older person; the term can also have criminal implications.
Golden Girls:{{cite web |last1=Manning-Schaffel |first1=Vivian |title=Women Over 50 on TV: Don't Call Us Golden Girls |url=https://www.shondaland.com/inspire/a39816819/women-over-50-on-tv/ |website=www.shondaland.com |date=26 April 2022 |publisher=Shondaland |access-date=23 December 2022}} A group of older women who are friends; originates from the term "golden years", and from the 1980s sitcom The Golden Girls.
Guang Gun: A derogatory Chinese slang term loosely translating to "bare branches" or "bare sticks", used to describe unmarried men who have no legitimate children and therefore don't carry on the family tree or family name; the male equivalent of "spinster" or "Sheng nu".

= H =

Harold and Maude: A couple consisting of two partners between whom there is a large age gap; slang term originates from the 1971 comedy feature film Harold and Maude.{{cite web |last1=Madden |first1=Emma |title=Harold and Maude: The film that broke several taboos |url=https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20210317-harold-and-maude-the-film-that-broke-several-taboos |website=www.bbc.com |publisher=BBC Culture |access-date=23 December 2022}}
Has-been: An older person out-of-touch with modern trends, or outmoded and no longer wanted/needed by their place of employment or society. It is used also towards a living "washed-up" or no longer relevant or influential personality, like a former celebrity.
Having a "senior moment": A temporary mental lapse jokingly attributed to senility or old age.
Hipster: A term (often pejorative) referring to young people who are pretentious and heavily focused on keeping up with certain high-end fashion and lifestyle choices.

= J =

Jailbait:{{cite web |title=jailbait |url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/jailbait |website=dictionary.cambridge.org |publisher=Cambridge Dictionary |access-date=30 December 2022}} A slang term used to identify a young girl or boy who is under the age of consent as a sexual object.

= K =

Kidult: An adult with an interest in childish things and things from childhood that they are nostalgic for; for example, a grown man with no children who plays with My Little Pony figurines or sleeps with plush toys. The term is used positively or neutrally in animation for kid-looking adult characters like Mickey Mouse, SpongeBob, Chip & Dale and Cuphead & Mugman (in both their 1930s cartoon-style video game and the animated series based on it)

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= L =

Little girl / Little boy: Neutral terms for toddlers and prepubescents but also offensive terms used for adolescents and young men and women despite being too old to be called that way, thus infantilizing them.
Little old lady: A harmless and helpless older woman; innocent and pitiful older woman. {{see above|"adorable" above}}
Lolita: A term for a sexualized minor child, typically a girl; the term has pedophilic connotations and is often used to fetishize or exploit vulnerable preteen girls. "Lolita" is a term of endearment from the book Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov.
Luddite:{{cite web |last1=Hanna |first1=Katie Terrell |title=Luddite |url=https://www.techtarget.com/whatis/definition/Luddite |website=www.techtarget.com |publisher=TechTarget |access-date=31 January 2023}} A person who resists new technology, especially digital technology; this term may be misused to refer to people with anti-establishment views, e.g. someone who boycotts Amazon or refuses to own a mobile phone.{{cite news |title=Sunday Dialogue: Ageism in Our Society |work=The New York Times |date=7 February 2015 |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2015/02/08/opinion/ageism-in-our-society.html |access-date=31 January 2023}} It is a misuse of "luddite" which refers to a 19th century group of British textile workers with certain religious and philosophical beliefs about social order and technological advancements.

= M =

Maggot(s) in the rice:{{cite web |last1=Waldmeir |first1=Patti |title=China's one-child rule belies a more complex reality |url=https://www.ft.com/content/874c61fe-f120-11e5-9f20-c3a047354386 |website=www.ft.com |publisher=Financial Times |access-date=31 January 2023}} A derogatory term in contemporary Chinese culture referring to baby girls; the term is typically associated with 20th century China's authoritarian "One Child Policy", which limited birth of children per family and also favoured male children. China's government has since implemented efforts to change this perception.{{cite web |last1=Coonan |first1=Clifford |title=China's one-child policy: doctors discover 23 sewing needles in woman's head |url=https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/asia/china-s-onechild-policy-doctors-discover-23-sewing-needles-in-womans-head-5329247.html |website=www.independent.co.uk |date=11 September 2007 |publisher=Independent (UK Edition) |access-date=31 January 2023}}
Mama-san: A term (often considered pejorative, outdated) referring to an older woman from East Asia in an authority position.
Man-child or Man-baby: A grown adult man who lives like a child or teenager typically would.{{crossreference|(see also "basement-dweller")}}
MILF:{{cite web |last1=Leygerman |first1=Dina |title=8 Reasons You Should Never Call A Mom A MILF |url=https://www.romper.com/p/8-reasons-you-should-never-call-a-mom-a-milf-69620 |website=www.romper.com |date=16 July 2017 |publisher=Romper |access-date=30 December 2022}} An acronym slang term meaning "mother I'd like to fuck"; considered sexist and ageist by some and positive or neutral by others.
Mrs. Robinson: Refers to a character in the 1967 feature film "The Graduate"; slang term referring to an older woman pursuing someone younger than herself, typically an adolescent male.{{see above|"cougar" above}}

= O =

Okay, boomer:{{cite web |last1=Gerhardt |first1=Megan |title=Is 'OK, boomer' ageist? John Roberts is mulling it, but laws won't fix generational shaming. |url=https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/ok-boomer-ageist-maybe-supreme-court-case-won-t-fix-ncna1117496 |website=NBC News |date=17 January 2020 |publisher=NBC News |access-date=23 December 2022}}{{cite journal |last1=Meisner |first1=Brad A. |title=Are You OK, Boomer? Intensification of Ageism and Intergenerational Tensions on Social Media Amid COVID-19 |journal=Leisure Sciences |date=May 2020 |volume=43 |issue=1–2 |pages=56–61 |doi=10.1080/01490400.2020.1773983|s2cid=225687585 }} Pejorative term and internet meme that is used as a retort to opinions that are associated with the Baby boomer generation — some consider the term ageist.
Old bag / Old hag: An older, unappealing and ugly woman.
Old bat: A senile older woman.
Old cow: A rude term for an older woman, especially one who is overweight or obese and homely.
Old fart: A boring and old-fashioned silly person.
Old maid: An older never married lady.{{see below|"spinster" below}}
Olderly: Newfoundland slang term for "elderly"; can be offensive or neutral depending on the context.{{cite web |title=Dictionary of Newfoundland English |url=https://www.heritage.nf.ca/dictionary/a-z-index.php#3167 |website=www.heritage.nf.ca |publisher=Heritage Newfoundland & Laborador |access-date=27 December 2022}}
Oldster:{{cite journal |last1=Billauer |first1=Barbara Pfeffer |title=Ageism and CoVid 19: First They Lock the Oldsters Up, Then They Refuse The Ventilators. What's Next? |journal=SSRN |date=9 July 2020 |doi=10.2139/ssrn.3647209 |ssrn=3647209 |s2cid=226376417 |url=https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3647209 |access-date=23 December 2022|url-access=subscription }} An offensive term that gained strong pejorative status during the COVID-19 pandemic; used to describe senior citizens affected by the pandemic.
Old white man/men: A derogatory term for older white men usually in reference to that demographic's perceived disproportionate political power and higher rate of conservative belief.{{cite web | last=Villarreal | first=Alexandra | title=White male minority rule pervades politics across the US, research shows | website=the Guardian | date=2021-05-26 | url=https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/may/26/white-male-minority-rule-us-politics-research | access-date=2024-09-03}}{{cite web | last=Ehrlick | first=Darrell | title=The problem and the solution to old, White men (as told by an aging White man) • Daily Montanan | website=Daily Montanan | date=2022-03-31 | url=https://dailymontanan.com/2022/03/31/the-problem-and-the-solution-of-old-white-men-as-told-by-an-aging-white-man/ | access-date=2024-09-03}}{{cite news |last1=Gordon |first1=J. J. |title=An Apology For Using The Phrase "Old White Man" |url=https://kfgo.com/2019/10/10/an-apology-for-using-the-phrase-old-white-man/ |access-date=9 July 2023 |work=KFGO |language=en}}
Out to pasture: Euphemism for retirement, likening retirement to putting a working livestock animal, such as a horse or ox, out to pasture for grazing.

= P =

Pensioner:{{cite web |title=Inclusive writing: Age |url=https://www.bristol.ac.uk/style-guides/writing/inclusive/age/ |website=www.bristol.ac.uk |publisher=University of Bristol |access-date=23 December 2022}} An older person living on an old-age pension; sometimes used as an insult to refer to aging people draining the welfare system.
Peter Pan: A term describing a grown adult, typically a man, who behaves like a child or teenager and refuses, either actively or passively, to act their true age. It is also used as a positive way, even as a compliment, depending on the context and circumstance.{{see above|"kidult" and "man-child" above}}
Pops: A condescending (depending on context) term for an older, out-of-touch man.
Punk: A misbehaved young person, not to be confused with punk subculture.

= S =

Senile: Senility; broad term (with some legitimate medical usage) referring to older people with declining mental capabilities. The term is used also against people with still good mental capabilities, merely due to their age.
Sheng nu: A derogatory Chinese slang term loosely translating to "leftover women", used to describe unmarried older women.{{see below|"Spinster" below}}
Silver fox: A sexually-attractive or promiscuous older person.{{see above|"cougar" above}}
Spinster: A woman who, in her own culture, is single beyond the age at which most people get married.

= W =

Whippersnapper: A young person who thinks they know more than they do, typically a teenager or young adult; a smartass.
Witch: An older woman who is cranky, physically unattractive, and bitter.{{see above|"hag" above}}
Wrinkle room: A term in gay culture referring to bars where old men congregate.
Wrinkled old prune: A derogatory term referring to old people by way of their wrinkled skin and consumption of fiber, comparing them to dehydrated plums.{{cite web |title=Intermediate+ Word of the Day: prune |url=https://daily.wordreference.com/2021/06/23/intermediate-word-of-the-day-prune/ |website=daily.wordreference.com |publisher=WordReference Word of the Day |access-date=23 December 2022}}

= Y =

Young fogey: A British slang term referring to conservatively dressed, young preppy men.
Yuppie: An urban professional, typically of the 1980s era, a sellout; developed a pejorative connotation from the association with consumerism, gentrification and indifference towards socio-economic issues.
Yuppie flu: A pejorative term for chronic fatigue syndrome, originating in the 1980s as a stereotype of people with CFS as frustrated and spoiled young yuppies.{{cite book |author1=Frumkin, Howard |author2=Packard, Randall M. |author3=Brown, Peter G. |author4=Ruth L. Berkelman |title=Emerging illnesses and society: negotiating the public health agenda |publisher=Johns Hopkins University Press |location=Baltimore |year=2004 |isbn=978-0-8018-7942-5 }}

= Z =

Zoomer:{{MW|Zoomer}} A blend word of "Generation Z" and "boomer"; refers to people born in the late 1990s or early 2000. Like "boomer", the term can also be used neutrally.