Mercury Stardust

{{Short description|American TikToker, activist, and home repair educator}}

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| name = Mercury Stardust

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| other_names = "Trans Handy Ma'am"

| birth_date = {{Birth date and age|1987|12|08}}

| birth_place = Madison, Wisconsin

| occupation = Home repair educator, TikToker, activist, burlesque performer

| years_active = 2021–present

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| website = {{URL|mercurystardust.com}}

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Mercury Stardust (born December 8, 1987){{Citation |title=Happy Birthday Mercury! |date=2022-12-08 |work=Handy Ma'am Hotline |type=podcast |url=https://shows.acast.com/handy-maam-hotline/episodes/happy-birthday-mercury |access-date=2023-04-11 |publisher=Acast}} is an American author, TikToker, transgender activist, burlesque performer, and home repair educator.{{Cite web |last=Hayward |first=Ryan |date=2023-04-10 |title=Mercury Stardust, TikTok's 'Trans Handy-Ma'am,' Is Releasing A Book On Home Repair |url=https://www.housedigest.com/1251930/mercury-stardust-tiktok-trans-handy-maam-releasing-book-home-repair/ |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=House Digest |language=en-US}} Known on TikTok as the "Trans Handy Ma'am", she provides advice on DIY home repair.

Life

Stardust grew up on a farm in northern Wisconsin, where she learned maintenance skills from her father, a truck driver and farmworker.{{Cite web |last=Stardust |first=Mercury |date=2021-07-15 |title='I'm a Trans Handy Ma'am—I Share DIY Tips On TikTok' |url=https://www.newsweek.com/im-trans-handy-maam-diy-tips-tiktok-1609161 |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=Newsweek |language=en}}{{Cite web |last=Valle |first=Jay |date=2022-01-11 |title='Trans Handy Ma'am' goes viral on TikTok after sharing home improvement tips |url=https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-news/trans-handy-ma-goes-viral-tiktok-sharing-home-improvement-tips-rcna11787 |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=NBC News |language=en}} In college, she studied theater and became a cabaret performer. Stardust took an internship as a maintenance technician at the age of 19, while traveling and performing in gay bars on weekends. In 2015, Stardust founded the Wisconsin Burlesque Association.{{Cite web |title=Wisconsin Burlesque Association |url=https://www.madstage.com/companies/wiba.html |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220812122419/https://madstage.com/Companies/wiba.html |archive-date=2022-08-12 |access-date=2025-04-03 |website=MadStage}}

Stardust chose her name in 2014. She came out as a trans woman in 2019. Her spouse, Ari, is non-binary.

Career

Stardust began posting on TikTok in March 2021. Initially using the platform to promote her weekly burlesque show in Madison, she shifted her focus after going viral in April 2021 for a video explaining how to use a ratchet strap. Her content largely focuses on home repair and DIY solutions to common household problems, earning her the nickname "Trans Handy Ma'am". She reached one million followers by July 2021 and 1.5 million by February 2022, at which point online content creation became her full time job.{{Cite web |last=Syed |first=Armani |date=2022-02-09 |title=Viral TikTok maintenance expert 'Trans Handy Ma'am' shares the biggest home improvement mistakes people make |url=https://www.insider.com/tiktok-trans-handy-maam-shares-biggest-home-improvement-mistakes-2022-2 |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=Insider |language=en-US}} As of September 2023, Stardust had over two million followers.{{Cite web |last=Negley |first=Erin |date=2023-09-29 |title=Mercury Stardust, the Trans Handy Ma'am, brings her renter-friendly home repair tips to Lancaster |url=https://lancasteronline.com/features/home_garden/mercury-stardust-the-trans-handy-ma-am-brings-her-renter-friendly-home-repair-tips-to/article_ffba5086-5e07-11ee-a16d-837daf901d3a.html |access-date=2024-03-07 |website=LancasterOnline |language=en}} She received the 2021 Trans* Activist of the Year award from the OutReach LGBTQ Community Center.{{Cite web |title=OUTREACH AWARDS |url=https://www.outreachmadisonlgbt.org/awardsceremony |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=lgbtoutreach |language=en |archive-date=2023-09-27 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230927023406/https://www.outreachmadisonlgbt.org/awardsceremony |url-status=dead }}

In March 2022, Stardust hosted the first TikTok-a-Thon for Trans Healthcare, coinciding with International Transgender Day of Visibility, during which she raised more than $120,000 for Plume, an organization which funds gender-affirming care.{{Cite web |last=Jaeckels |first=Beck |date=2023-03-31 |title=TikTokers are hosting a 30-hour livestream to raise money for trans healthcare — they hit $1 million in just 6 hours |url=https://www.insider.com/tiktokers-hosting-charity-livestream-for-trans-healthcare-2023-3 |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=Business Insider |language=en-US}}{{Cite web |last=Baska |first=Maggie |date=2022-03-25 |title=TikTok's 'trans handy ma'am' is fighting for equality while solving your DIY woes |url=https://www.thepinknews.com/2022/03/25/mercury-stardust-trans-handy-maam-tiktok/ |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=PinkNews |language=en-US}} During the event's second iteration in March 2023, she co-hosted a 30-hour livestream on both TikTok and Twitch to raise money for Point of Pride, another organization which funds gender-affirming care for transgender individuals.{{Cite web |last=Tolentino |first=Daysia |date=2023-03-31 |title=TikTokers raise over $1M for trans healthcare, gender-affirming surgeries |url=https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/internet/tiktok-fundraiser-trans-surgery-hrt-rcna77653 |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=NBC News |language=en}}{{Cite web |last=Riedel |first=Samantha |date=2023-03-31 |title=These Trans Creators Have Raised Over $2 Million for Trans Healthcare on TikTok Live |url=https://www.them.us/story/trans-handy-maam-tiktok-live-trans-day-of-visibility-fundraiser |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=Them |language=en-US}} Guests for the event included V Spehar. The livestream raised over $100,000 in its first hour and $1 million in its first six hours. In total the event raised over $2 million.{{Cite web |date=2023-04-17 |title=From Fundraising to Impact: How Point of Pride will utilize TikTok-a-Thon funding |url=https://www.pointofpride.org/blog/from-fundraising-to-impact-how-point-of-pride-will-utilize-tiktok-a-thon-funding |access-date=2023-04-19 |website=Point of Pride |language=en-us}} In March 2024, the event's third iteration aimed to raised $4 million for Point of Pride, with appearances from guests including Ve'ondre Mitchell and Dylan Mulvaney.{{Cite web |last=Lopez |first=Quispe |date=2024-03-29 |title=Last Year, This TikTok Duo Raised $2 Million for Trans Healthcare. This Year, They're Doubling It |url=https://www.them.us/story/jory-mercury-stardust-trans-day-of-visibility-2024-fundraiser |access-date=2024-04-01 |website=Them |language=en-US}}{{Cite web |last=Mills |first=Emily |date=2024-04-02 |title=Mercury Stardust's annual fundraiser for trans health care hit with troll attack and TikTok ban |url=https://ourliveswisconsin.com/article/mercury-stardusts-annual-fundraiser-for-trans-health-care-hit-with-troll-attack-and-tiktok-ban/ |access-date=2024-04-01 |website=Our Lives}} However, within the first ten hours of the event, Stardust's and co-host Jory (Alluring Skull)'s TikTok accounts were banned nine times due to mass reporting from trolls, resulting in multiple interruptions.

Since November 2022, Stardust has hosted the podcast Handy Ma'am Hotline, where she discusses home maintenance.{{Cite web |title=Handy Ma'am Hotline |url=https://shows.acast.com/handy-maam-hotline/ |access-date=2023-04-10 |website=Acast}} In April 2023, Stardust announced that she had authored a book, Safe and Sound: A Renter-Friendly Guide to Home Repair, set to be published on August 29, 2023 by Penguin Random House. Within a few days of its presale, the book became a #1 bestseller in Amazon's Home Repair category. In August 2023, the book became a New York Times Best Seller. Stardust went on a 52-city book tour in the United States in fall 2023.{{Cite news |last=Piche |first=Gail |date=2023-11-28 |title=The Trans Handy Ma'am: the home repair TikToker championing renters |url=https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/nov/28/trans-handy-maam-mercury-stardust-diy-tiktok |access-date=2024-04-01 |work=The Guardian |language=en-GB |issn=0261-3077}}