Merlyn Sopjan
{{Short description|Indonesian transgender rights activist}}
Merlyn Sopjan (b. 16 February 1973) is an Indonesian transgender rights activist.
Personal life and education
She was born on 16 February 1973 the last of four children to R. Soebijanto Wirjowijoyo and Rr. T. Ismundari.{{Cite web |last=Say |date=24 January 2018 |editor-last=Nugroho |editor-first=Ari |title=Pendapatnya di ILC Jadi Sorotan, Ini Sederet Fakta Menarik Merlyn Sopjan |url=https://jogja.tribunnews.com/2018/01/24/pendapatnya-di-ilc-jadi-sorotan-ini-sederet-fakta-menarik-merlyn-sopjan |access-date=2025-06-18 |website=Tribunjogja.com |language=id-ID}} Raised as male, she felt her gender identity was female from the age of four. Althought she tried to be attracted to women, she realized that she was attracted to men.{{Cite web |last= |first= |date=2020-09-11 |title=Merlyn Sopjan, Aku Perempuan Tanpa Vagina |url=https://www.konde.co/2020/09/merlyn-sopjan-aku-perempuan-tanpa-vagina/ |access-date=2025-06-18 |website=Konde.co |language=en-US}} Merlyn had her first relationship with a man when she was in high school, which led to her accidentally coming out to her mother after her mother read her love letter that shown that she had a relationship with a man. At first, her mother was shocked and crying, but she explain that it was her condition and finally her mother accepting her as her current gender.{{Cite web |last=Suratmo |first=Yayat |date=2008-09-12 |title=Tubuhku Memang Pria Tapi Hatiku Wanita |url=https://kabarinews.com/tubuhku-memang-pria-tapi-hatiku-wanita/31846 |access-date=2025-06-18 |website=Kabari News |language=en-US}} She is an alumnus for civil engineering degree from Institut Teknologi Nasional Malang.{{Cite web |last=Pitaloka |first=Dyah Ayu |date=25 March 2016 |title=Di balik merahnya gincu bibir waria |url=https://rappler.com/features/indonesia/126630-merahnya-gincu-bibir-waria-kota-malang/index.html |access-date=2025-06-20 |website=Rappler |language=en}}
Her mother dead on 1992 and she was coming out on 1994 to her father. Her father accept her and offered her to do gender-affirming surgery, but she refused and tell her father that he was comfortable with her current state.{{Cite web |last=GANDHAWANGI |first=SEKAR |date=2022-07-27 |title=Merlyn Sopjan: Kepada Keluarga, Aku Pulang |url=https://www.kompas.id/baca/tokoh/2022/07/26/merlyn-sopjan-kepada-keluarga-aku-pulang |access-date=2025-06-20 |website=kompas.id |language=id}} She joined beauty pageant contest for transgender women and selected transgender queen on 1995 which she got again on 1996 and 2006.{{Cite web |last=Astuti |first=Lutfi Dwi Puji |date=2021-03-26 |title=Profil Merlyn Sopjan, Transgender yang Disorot Karena Sindir Aurel |url=https://www.viva.co.id/showbiz/gosip/1359184-profil-merlyn-sopjan-transgender-yang-disorot-karena-sindir-aurel |access-date=2025-06-20 |website=www.viva.co.id |language=id}}
Career
She was head of Ikatan Waria Malang, organization of transgender in Malang from 1996 till 2011.{{Cite web |title=Siapa Merlyn Sopjan, Aktivis Waria yang Sebut Aurel & Anang 'Jual Drama', Pemenang Ratu Kecantikan |url=https://palembang.tribunnews.com/2021/03/25/siapa-merlyn-sopjan-aktivis-waria-yang-sebut-aurel-anang-jual-drama-pemenang-ratu-kecantikan |access-date=2025-06-20 |website=Sripoku.com |language=id-ID}} She worked as Program Manager for HIV/AIDS with her organization from 2002 till 2005 and then continued her work as a Case Manager at Public Hospital dr. Saiful Anwar, a state owned hospital located in Malang. Currently, she works as Program Officer for Perkumpulan Keluarga Berencana Indonesia, a organization that focused on implementation of Family planning. In 2003, she applied to be a candidates for governor in Malang, but was rejected cause she was five minutes late, though she he believes it was due to discrimination against her.{{Cite news |last=Perlez |first=Jane |date=2003-07-24 |title=Surabaya Journal; For These Transvestites, Still More Role Changes |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2003/07/24/world/surabaya-journal-for-these-transvestites-still-more-role-changes.html |access-date=2025-06-20 |work=The New York Times |language=en-US |issn=0362-4331}} On the same year, She was running as member of Malang City Regional House of Representatives with Indonesian Justice and Unity Party but come out in second position and failed to secure the seat.
Controversy
She criticized Anang Hermansyah and Aurel Hermansyah as ungrateful people because they kept telling stories about their poor lifestyle that occurred after the divorce of Anang and Krisdayanti.{{Cite web |last=Putri |date=2021-04-14 |title=Kerap Bahas Hidup Susah Saat Tinggal di Ruko, Aurel dan Anang Dikritik Aktivis Waria Ini: Duo Keras Hati |url=https://padangkita.com/kerap-bahas-hidup-susah-saat-tinggal-di-ruko-aurel-dan-anang-dikritik-aktivis-waria-ini-duo-keras-hati/ |access-date=2025-06-20 |website=Padangkita.com |language=id}}
Bibliography
- 2005: Jangan Lihat Kelaminku – published in the Indonesia by Galang Press.{{Cite book |last=Sopjan |first=Merlyn |url=https://www.google.co.id/books/edition/Jangan_lihat_kelaminku/crkOtLEGOvYC?hl=id&gbpv=1&dq=jangan+lihat+kelaminku&pg=PP1&printsec=frontcover |title=Jangan lihat kelaminku! |date=2005 |publisher=Galangpress Group |isbn=978-979-3627-47-2 |language=id}}
- 2007:Perempuan Tanpa V – published in the Indonesia by Galang Press.{{Cite book |last=Sopjan |first=Merlyn |url=https://books.google.co.id/books/about/Perempuan_tanpa_V.html?id=vxCUAQAACAAJ&redir_esc=y |title=Perempuan tanpa V |date=2007 |publisher=Galang Press |isbn=978-979-24-9952-0 |language=id}}