Misunderstood (Bon Jovi song)

{{Short description|2002 single by Bon Jovi}}

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{{Infobox song

| name = Misunderstood

| cover = BonJoviMisunderstood.jpg

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| type = single

| artist = Bon Jovi

| album = Bounce

| released = {{start date|2002|11|13}}

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  • 3:30 (album version)
  • 3:45 (single remix)

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| prev_title = Everyday

| prev_year = 2002

| next_title = Bounce

| next_year = 2002

| misc = {{Extra album cover

| header = Alternative cover

| type = single

| cover = BonJoviMisunderstoodCD2.jpg

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{{External music video|{{YouTube|Q0Lg_ISGGW4|"Misunderstood"}}}}

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"Misunderstood" is a song by American rock band Bon Jovi from their eighth studio album, Bounce. The single was first released in Japan as a double A-side with "Bounce" on November 13, 2002, and was released by itself in the United States the following month. "Misunderstood" peaked at {{abbr|No.|Number}} 34 on Billboard{{'}}s Mainstream Top 40 chart and was nominated for a Grammy Award for Best Pop Performance by a Duo or Group with Vocal.{{Cite web |url=https://www.grammy.com/grammys/artists/bon-jovi |title=GRAMMY Award Results for Bon Jovi |website=Grammy.com|date=November 23, 2020 }} The single is a version of the album cut that was remixed by Tim Palmer at Electric Lady Studios in New York.

Music video

The video begins with a girl, Jill (played by Rachel Nichols), opening the door to her room where she and her boyfriend, Jack (played by Tom Sandoval), live. As she enters, she catches both Jack and another woman (played by Camila Alves) naked in bed.{{Cite web |url=https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/pump-rules-tom-sandoval-starred-in-bon-jovi-video-with-camila-alves/ |title=Pump Rules' Tom Sandoval and Camila Alves Starred in a Bon Jovi Music Video |date=May 11, 2018 |website=US Weekly}} Shocked and embarrassed, Jack claims that it isn't what it looks like and begs her to let him explain. The video turns into a flashback and the music begins after an extended instrumental intro. The flashback shows Jack's far-fetched explanation with his dialogue displayed at the bottom of the screen interspersed with footage of Bon Jovi playing the song throughout. Here is Jack's dialogue:

"I was buying you flowers...I slipped and hit my head...I was unconscious...someone stole my wallet...I had amnesia...I wandered aimlessly...I found the pick-pocket...and chased him...into a bad situation! They put me in a box...and dumped me into the river! I floated for hours...finally I landed ashore...I just wanted to go home...but I was mistakenly arrested...and put behind bars. They finally caught the real crook...I ended up outside a secret club...I was front row at a Bon Jovi concert...and my memory came back! I was attacked by dogs...they ripped my clothes off...finally I made it to your bedroom...and just then an earthquake hit...and this girl fell through the ceiling!"

Then the video returns to the present and ends with Jack saying, "And that's exactly how it happened."

The uncut version of the video features different footage of Bon Jovi playing the song, as well as an extended beginning and ending which strongly implies that Jack was cheating on Jill. In the extended beginning, Jack can be heard moaning inside of Jill's room just as she opens the door. This is followed by alternate dialogue from Jill where after Jack tells her that it isn't what it looks like, she expresses her disbelief by asking him how it could possibly be anything else. This is then followed by additional footage where after Jack begs Jill to let him explain, she urges him to do so. Jack pauses for a moment, clearly unsure as to what he's going to say next which suggests that his following story is a complete fabrication. In the extended ending, after Jack finishes speaking, Jill produces a picture of him in their bed with two other women (seemingly engaged in a threesome). She asks him to explain that as well to which Jack nonchalantly says, "You know, there's an even better story for that."

NOTE: The instrumental intro was removed in the uncut version.

=Summary=

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Original (Censored) VersionUncut Version
Jill: Jack, what the hell is going on?Jill: Jack, What the hell is going on in here?
Jack: It's not what it looks likeJack: Baby, baby just wait. This is not what it looks like
Jill: There's a naked chick in your bedJill: Not what it looks like? How can it not be exactly what it looks like?
Jack: Just let me explain, okay. Just let me explain (the word "explain" then echoes)Jack: Just let me explain, okay. Just let me explain

Jill: Explain it to me, Jack

The song plays as Jack tells his storyThe song plays as Jack tells his story
Jack:...and that's exactly how it happened (Jack slightly sticks his tongue)Jack: ...and that's exactly how it happened (Jack slightly sticks his tongue)
The music video endsJill: (Holds a picture of Jack seemingly engaged in a threesome) How do you explain this?

Jack: You know, there's an even better story for that (then the music video ends)

Track listings

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Canadian and European CD single{{cite AV media notes|title=Misunderstood|others=Bon Jovi|year=2002|type=Canadian CD single liner notes|publisher=Island Records|id=4400638172}}{{cite AV media notes|title=Misunderstood|others=Bon Jovi|year=2002|type=European CD single liner notes|publisher=Island Records|id=063 817-2}}

  1. "Misunderstood" (single remix) (Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, Andreas Carlsson, Desmond Child)
  2. "Everyday" (acoustic) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson)

Australasian CD single{{cite AV media notes|title=Misunderstood|others=Bon Jovi|year=2002|type=Australasian CD single liner notes|publisher=Island Records|id=063 813-2}}

  1. "Misunderstood" (single remix) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson, Child) – 3:45
  2. "Everyday" (acoustic) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson) – 2:47
  3. "Undivided" (demo) (Jovi, Sambora, Billy Falcon) – 3:55
  4. "Celluloid Heroes" (live featuring Ray Davies) (Davies)

European maxi-CD single{{cite AV media notes|title=Misunderstood|others=Bon Jovi|year=2002|type=European maxi-CD liner notes|publisher=Island Records|id=063 814-2}}

  1. "Misunderstood" (single remix) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson, Child)
  2. "Joey" (demo) (Jovi, Sambora)
  3. "Right Side of Wrong" (demo) (Jovi)
  4. "Misunderstood" (live) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson, Child)

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UK CD1{{cite AV media notes|title=Misunderstood|others=Bon Jovi|year=2002|type=UK CD1 liner notes|publisher=Mercury Records|id=063 815-2}}

  1. "Misunderstood" (single remix) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson, Child) – 3:45
  2. "Everyday" (acoustic) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson) – 2:47
  3. "Undivided" (demo) (Jovi, Sambora, Falcon) – 3:55
  4. "Misunderstood" (video)

UK CD2{{cite AV media notes|title=Misunderstood|others=Bon Jovi|year=2002|type=UK CD2 liner notes|publisher=Mercury Records|id=063 816-2}}

  1. "Misunderstood" (single remix) (Jovi, Sambora, Carlsson, Child)
  2. "Celluloid Heroes" (live featuring Ray Davies) (Davies)
  3. "Joey" (demo) (Jovi, Sambora)

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Charts

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=Weekly charts=

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!scope="col"|Chart (2002–2003)

!scope="col"|Peak
position

{{Single chart|Australia|33|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Austria|37|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Flanders Tip|13|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
scope="row"|Canada (Nielsen SoundScan){{cite magazine|url=https://www.billboard.com/artist/bon-jovi/chart-history/cns/|title=Bon Jovi Chart History (Canadian Digital Songs)|magazine=Billboard|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20231021113737/https://www.billboard.com/artist/bon-jovi/chart-history/cns/|archive-date=October 21, 2023|access-date=January 24, 2020}}

|19

scope="row"|Europe (Eurochart Hot 100){{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-and-Media/00s/2002/MM-2002-12-28.pdf|title=Eurochart Hot 100 Singles|magazine=Music & Media|volume=21|issue=1|page=7|date=December 28, 2002|access-date=May 11, 2020}}

|53

{{Single chart|Germany|35|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|songid=5412|access-date=October 19, 2018|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Hungarysingle|9|year=2002|week=51|access-date=January 19, 2024|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Ireland3|37|artist=Bon Jovi|access-date=January 24, 2020|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Italy|32|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=February 1, 2015|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Dutch40|35|year=2002|week=49|access-date=December 4, 2018|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Dutch100|27|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
scope="row"|Romania (Romanian Top 100){{cite web|url=http://www.rt100.ro/editie-top-100_x10052.html|title=Arhiva romanian top 100 – Editia 1, saptamina 13.01–19.01, 2003|publisher=Romanian Top 100|language=ro|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20050217145506/http://www.rt100.ro/editie-top-100_x10052.html|archive-date=February 17, 2005|access-date=May 11, 2020}}

|90

{{Single chart|Scotland|20|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=December 4, 2018|rowheader=true|date=20021221}}
{{Single chart|Spain|9|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=December 4, 2018|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Sweden|39|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Switzerland|57|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|UK|21|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true|date=20021221}}
{{Single chart|Billboardbubbling100|6|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=January 24, 2020|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Billboardadultpopsongs|15|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}
{{Single chart|Billboardpopsongs|34|artist=Bon Jovi|song=Misunderstood|access-date=November 11, 2012|rowheader=true}}

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=Year-end charts=

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!scope="col"|Chart (2003)

!scope="col"|Position

scope="row"|US Adult Top 40 (Billboard){{cite magazine|title=The Year in Charts 2003: Most-Played Adult Top 40 Songs|magazine=Airplay Monitor|volume=11|issue=51|page=22|date=December 19, 2003}}

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Certifications

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{{Certification Table Entry|region=Brazil|artist=Bon Jovi|title=Misunderstood|award=Gold|type=single|relyear=2002|certyear=2024|access-date=June 10, 2024}}

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Release history

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!scope="col"|Region

!scope="col"|Version

!scope="col"|Date

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scope="row"|Japan

|"Bounce" / "Misunderstood"

|November 13, 2002

|rowspan="4"|CD

|Mercury

|{{cite web|url=https://www.oricon.co.jp/prof/156479/products/492106/1/|title=バウンス {{!}} ボン・ジョヴィ|trans-title=Bounce {{!}} Bon Jovi|publisher=Oricon|language=ja|access-date=October 21, 2023}}

scope="row"|Australia

|rowspan="6"|"Misunderstood"

|December 2, 2002

|rowspan="3"|Island

|{{cite web|url=http://www.aria.com.au/Issue666.pdf|title=The ARIA Report: New Releases Singles – Week Commencing 2nd December 2002|publisher=ARIA|page=29|date=December 2, 2002|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://webarchive.nla.gov.au/awa/20030106130000/http://pandora.nla.gov.au/pan/23790/20030107-0000/Issue666.pdf|archive-date=January 6, 2003|access-date=May 9, 2021}}{{cbignore|bot=medic}}

scope="row"|Belgium

|December 4, 2002

|{{cite web|url=http://www.planetinternet.be/ultratop/en/releaselistsen.html?relType=4&yearweek=200249|title=New Releases Singles Week 49, 04 December 2002|publisher=Ultratop|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20030205183523/http://www.planetinternet.be/ultratop/en/releaselistsen.html?relType=4&yearweek=200249|archive-date=February 5, 2003}}

scope="row"|New Zealand

|rowspan="3"|December 9, 2002

|{{cite web|url=http://netcd.co.nz/NewReleases.html|title=New Releases|website=netcd.co.nz|date=December 9, 2002|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20021211222937/http://netcd.co.nz/NewReleases.html|archive-date=December 11, 2002|access-date=November 8, 2023}}

scope="row"|United Kingdom

|{{hlist|CD|cassette}}

|Mercury

|{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-Week/2002/Music-Week-2002-12-07.pdf|title=New Releases: For Week Starting 9 December 2002: Singles|magazine=Music Week|page=20|date=December 7, 2002|access-date=September 1, 2021}}

scope="row"|United States

|Hot adult contemporary radio

|rowspan="2"|Island

|{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/Archive-RandR/2000s/2002/RR-2002-12-06.pdf|title=Going for Adds|magazine=Radio & Records|issue=1482|page=18|date=December 6, 2002|access-date=May 9, 2021}}

scope="row"|Canada

|January 14, 2003

|CD

|{{cite web|url=http://www.cdplus.com/cdplus300/default.asp?isle=0&action=detail&code=374723|title=Misunderstood (2 Tracks)|website=CDPlus.com|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20030520020548/http://www.cdplus.com/cdplus300/default.asp?isle=0&action=detail&code=382085|archive-date=May 20, 2003|access-date=March 19, 2025}}

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