Narcissistic defences#Defence sequences
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Narcissistic defenses are those processes whereby the idealized aspects of the self are preserved, and its limitations denied.Shaw J.A. (1999). Sexual Aggression, American Psychiatric Publishing, pp. 28–9. They tend to be rigid and totalistic.Gerald Alper, Self Defence in a Narcissistic World (2003) p. 10 They are often driven by feelings of shame and guilt, conscious or unconscious.Patrick Casement, Further Learning from the Patient (1990) p. 132
Origins
Narcissistic defenses are among the earliest defense mechanisms to emerge, and include denial, distortion, and projection.Barry P.D., Farmer S. (2002). Mental Health and Mental Illness, p. 175. Splitting is another defense mechanism prevalent among individuals with narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and antisocial personality disorder—seeing people and situations in black and white terms, either as all bad or all good.{{cite journal | author = Lubit R | year = 2002 | title = The long-term organizational impact of destructively narcissistic managers | journal = Academy of Management Executive | volume = 16 | issue = 1| pages = 127–38 | doi=10.5465/ame.2002.6640218}}
A narcissistic defense, with the disorder's typical over-valuation of the self, can appear at any stage of development.Wilber K., Engler J., Brown D. (1986). Transformations of Consciousness: Conventional and Contemplative Perspective of Development, Boston: New Science Library, New York City, NY, p. 150
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The narcissist typically runs through a sequence of defenses to discharge painful feelings until he or she finds one that works:{{Cite book
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- unconscious repression
- conscious denial
- distortion (including exaggeration and minimization), rationalisation and lies
- psychological projection (blaming somebody else)
- enlisting the help of one or more of his or her codependent friends who will support his or her distorted view.
Freudians
Sigmund Freud did not focus specifically on narcissistic defenses,[http://www.enotes.com/psychoanalysis-encyclopedia/narcissistic-defenses Elsa Schmid-Kitsikis, "Narcissistic Defenses"] but did note in On Narcissism how "even great criminals and humorists, as they are represented in literature, compel our interest by the narcissistic consistency with which they manage to keep away from their ego anything that would diminish it".Sigmund Freud, On Metapsychology (PFL 11), p. 83 Freud saw narcissistic regression as a defensive answer to object loss—denying the loss of an important object by way of a substitutive identification with it.Freud, Metapsychology, p. 258
Freud also considered social narcissism as a defence mechanism, apparent when communal identifications produce irrational panics at perceived threats to 'Throne and Altar' or 'Free Markets',Sigmund Freud, On Sexuality (PFL 7) p. 352 or in English over-reaction to any questioning of the status and identity of William Shakespeare.James Shapiro, Contested Will (2010) p. 344
=Fenichel=
Otto Fenichel considered that "identification, performed by means of introjection, is the most primitive form of relationship to objects" a primitive mechanism only used "if the ego's function of reality testing is severely damaged by a narcissistic regression."Otto Fenichel, The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis (London 1946), pp. 147–48
Fenichel also highlighted "eccentrics who have more or less succeeded in regaining the security of primary narcissism and who feel 'Nothing can happen to me'....[failing] to give up the archaic stages of repudiating displeasure and to turn toward reality".Fenichel, p. 510
=Lacan=
Jacques Lacan, following out Freud's view of the ego as the result of identifications,Elisabeth Roudinesco, Jacques Lacan (Oxford 1997), p. 111 came to consider the ego itself as a narcissistic defence, driven by what he called "the 'narcissistic passion' ...in the coming-into-being (devenir) of the subject".Jacques Lacan, Écrits: A Selection (London 1997), pp. 21–22
Kleinians
Melanie Klein, emphasised projective identification in narcissism, and the manic defence against becoming aware of the damage done to objects in this way.James S. Grotstein, "Foreword", in Neville Symington, Narcissism: A New Theory (London 1993), p. xii For Kleinians, at the core of manic defences in narcissism stood what Hanna Segal called "a triad of feelings—control, triumph and contempt".Hanna Segal, Introduction to the Work of Melanie Klein (London 1964), p. 70
=Rosenfeld=
Herbert Rosenfeld looked at the role of omnipotence, combined with projective identification, as a narcissistic means of defending against awareness of separation between ego and object.Jean-Michel Quinodoz, The Taming of Solitude (2004), p. 168
Object relations theory
In the wake of Klein, object relations theory, including particularly the American schools of Otto Kernberg and Heinz Kohut has explored narcissistic defences through analysis of such mechanisms as denial, projective identification, and extreme idealization.[http://www.enotes.com/psychoanalysis-encyclopedia/narcissistic-defenses Schmid-Kitsikis]
Kernberg emphasised the role of the splitting apart introjections, and identifications of opposing qualities, as a cause of ego weakness.Otto F. Kernberg, Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism (London 1990) p. 29 Kohut too stressed the fact in narcissism "vertical splits are between self-structures (among others)—'I am grand' and 'I am wretched'—with very little communication between them".Kohut, quoted in Josephine Klein, Our Need for Others (London 1994) p. 222
Neville Symington however placed greater weight on the way "a person dominated by narcissistic currents...survives through being able to sense the emotional tone of the other...wearing the cloaks of others";Symington, pp. 52, 88 while for Spotnitz the key element is that the narcissist turns feelings in upon the self in narcissistic defense.[http://modernpsychoanalysis.blogspot.com/2006/09/narcissistic-defense.html James G. Fennessy, "The Narcissistic Defense"]
=Positive defenses=
Kernberg emphasised the positive side to narcissistic defenses,Elsa Ronningstam, Disorders of Narcissism (1997) p. 128 while Kohut also stressed the necessity in early life for narcissistic positions to succeed each other in orderly maturational sequences.Heinz Kohut, The Analysis of the Self (Madison 1971) p. 215
Others like Symington would maintain that "it is a mistake to split narcissism into positive and negative...we do not get positive narcissism without self-hatred".Symington, pp. 58, 113
Stigmatising attitude to psychiatric illness
Arikan found that a stigmatising attitude to psychiatric patients is associated with narcissistic defences.{{cite journal |author=Arikan, K. |title=A stigmatizating attitude towards psychiatric illnesses is associated with narcissistic personality traits |journal=Isr J Psychiatry Relat Sci |volume=42 |issue=4 |pages=248–50 |year=2005 |url=http://www.kemalarikan.com/wp-content/uploads/pdf/arikan_stigma_narsisizm.pdf |pmid=16618057}}
21st century
The twenty-first century has seen a distinction drawn between cerebral and somatic narcissists—the former building up their self-sense through intellectualism, the latter through an obsession with their bodies,Simon Crompton, All about Me (London 2007) pp. 28–29 as with the woman who, in bad faith, invests her sense of freedom only in being an object of beauty for others.Jack Reynolds, Understanding Existentialism (2006) p. 143
Literary parallels
- Sir Philip Sidney is said to have seen poetry in itself as a narcissistic defense.Jonathan Goldberg, Voice Terminal Echo (1986) p. 47
- Jean-Paul Sartre's aloof, detached protagonists have been seen as crude narcissists who preserve their sense of self only by petrifying it into solid form.J. A. Kotarba/A. Fontana, The Existential Self in Society (1987) p. 85
See also
References
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Further reading
- Adamson, J./Clark, H. A., Scenes of Shame (1999)
- {{cite journal | author = Federn Paul | year = 1928 | title = Narcissism in the structure of the ego | journal = International Journal of Psychoanalysis | volume = 9 | pages = 401–19 }}
- Green, André, Life narcissism, death narcissism (Andrew Weller, Trans.), London and New York: Free Association Books (1983).
- Grunberger, Béla (1971), Narcissism: Psychoanalytic essays (Joyce S. Diamanti, Trans., foreword by Marion M. Oliner). New York: International Universities Press.
- Tausk, Viktor (1933), "On the origin of the "influencing machine" in schizophrenia" In Robert Fliess (Ed.), The psycho-analytic reader. New York: International Universities Press. (Original work published 1919)
External links
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- [https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1236838 "A narcissistic defence against affects and the illusion of self-sufficiency"]
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