Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays

PFOX, founded in 1998, is headquartered in Fort Belvoir, Virginia. Richard Cohen, who describes himself as ex-gay, was the president of PFOX for a period of time.{{Cite news|url=http://www.ebar.com/news/article.php?sec=news&article=1707|title= Ex-gays purge leader|last=Roehr |first=Bob |date=5 April 2007|publisher=Bay Area Report|accessdate=7 February 2010}}[https://books.google.com/books?id=ponUsrkFfEMC Anything but straight: unmasking the scandals and lies behind the ex-gay myth] Wayne R. Besen, Haworth Press, 2003; {{ISBN|1-56023-446-6}}, {{ISBN|978-1-56023-446-3}}; pgs. 223-226. After Cohen was interviewed by Jason Jones on the March 19, 2007, episode of The Daily Show, PFOX removed references to Cohen from their website.

Greg Quinlan is a self-described former homosexual who came out at the age of 23. He has stated that he "departed from homosexuality" in 1993, and went on to found the Pro-Family Network, a conservative advocacy organization.

PFOX is a signatory organization of Positive Alternatives to Homosexuality (PATH), which is "a non-profit coalition of organizations that help people with unwanted same-sex attractions (SSA) realize their personal goals for change -- whether by developing their innate heterosexual potential or by embracing a lifestyle as a single, non-sexually active man or woman."{{Cite web |url=http://www.pathinfo.org/index2.htm |title=Positive Alternatives To Homosexuality (PATH) |publisher=Pathinfo.org |date= |accessdate=2010-05-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130408181244/http://www.pathinfo.org/index2.htm |archive-date=2013-04-08 |url-status=dead }} As a member, PFOX has adopted PATH's statement of principles.{{citation|url=http://www.pathinfo.org/index2.htm |title=Change Is Possible|publisher=Positive Alternatives To Homosexuality (PATH)|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20130408181244/http://www.pathinfo.org/index2.htm|archivedate=8 April 2013}} PFOX is supported by the Family Research Council.{{cn|date=December 2014}}

The PFOX website states: "We must seek the facts and love our children unconditionally without having to affirm their homosexual behavior." PFOX also advocates acceptance of people who identify as ex-gay. The group is known for promoting views that transsexual people are biologically appropriate at birth. They are opposed to sexual reassignment surgery,"Transsexual Surgery: Its Pros and Cons" by Anne Lawrence, M.D.{{Request quotation|date=March 2011}} proposing counseling instead.{{citation|url=http://pfox.org/Gender-Identity-Disorder-brochure-teens.pdf|title=Gender Identity Confusion|publisher=Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20120722104430/http://pfox.org/Gender-Identity-Disorder-brochure-teens.pdf|archivedate=22 July 2012}}{{citation|url=http://pfox.org/Gender_Identity_FLYERS.pdf|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20120629083321/http://pfox.org/Gender_Identity_FLYERS.pdf|archivedate=29 June 2012|title=We Ask You to Affirm Gender, Not Take It Away! Vote NO to Gender Identity Law|publisher=Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays}} They also believe being gay is a political identity.{{citation|url=http://pfox.org/Everything_you_always_wondered_about_homosexuality.html|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20131103000558/http://www.pfox.org/Everything_you_always_wondered_about_homosexuality.html|archivedate=3 November 2013|title=Everything you always wondered about homosexuality|publisher=Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays}} PFOX neither provides nor renders therapeutic services.{{citation|url=http://pfox.org/default.html|title=Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays & Gays: Welcome to PFOX |publisher=Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20140625212622/http://pfox.org/default.html|archivedate=25 June 2014}}

In December 2007, when the Washington, D.C. Board of Education approved new health and physical education guidelines, PFOX voiced opposition to the "grade-specific sex education and information about HIV/AIDS" on the basis that "the standards are not age-appropriate and would undermine abstinence-only messages."{{Cite web

| title=Across The Nation: Washington, D.C., Board of Education Approves Health Education Standards That Include HIV/AIDS Information

| publisher=Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation

| date=17 December 2007

| url =http://www.thebody.com/content/art44430.html

| accessdate=2011-09-22}} PFOX opposed legislation to protect transgender people from discrimination, stating their concern that it gave "male cross-dressers access to women's restrooms".{{Cite news

| last =Marimow | first =Ann E.

| title=Leggett Signs Bill For Protection of Transgender People

| newspaper=Washington Post | date=22 November 2007

| url =https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/11/21/AR2007112101708.html

| accessdate=2007-12-18}}{{Cite web

| last =Davis | first =Janel | title=Leggett Signs Transgender Discrimination Ban Into Law | publisher=Gazette.net, Maryland Community Newspapers Online

| date=21 November 2007

| url =http://www.gazette.net/stories/112107/montnew173708_32370.shtml|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20100617080820/http://www.gazette.net/stories/112107/montnew173708_32370.shtml|archivedate=17 June 2010

| accessdate=2007-12-18}}

On October 16, 2008, PFOX sued the District of Columbia Office of Human Rights (OHR) for failing to protect former homosexuals under its sexual orientation anti-discrimination law. This was after the OHR stood with the National Education Association (NEA) in its refusal to provide public accommodations to ex-gays. The court ruled in favour of the NEA, and also stated that ex-gays are a protected class that must be recognized under sexual orientation non-discrimination laws.{{Cite web|last=Bolcer |first=Julie |url=http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2009/08/25/Split_Decision_on_Ex-Gay_Protections/ |title=Split Decision on "Ex-Gay" Protections | News |publisher=Advocate.com |date= |accessdate=2010-05-05}}{{Cite web|url=http://www.365gay.com/news/ex-gays-sue-dc-human-rights-office/ |title='Ex-gays' sue DC human rights office | News Story on |publisher=365gay.com |date=2008-10-14 |accessdate=2010-05-05}}{{Cite web|url=http://www.queerty.com/ex-gay-is-now-a-legally-protected-sexual-orientation-thats-good-20090826/ |title='Ex-Gay' Is Now a Legally Protected Sexual Orientation. That's Good / Queerty |publisher=Queerty.com |date= 26 August 2009|accessdate=2010-05-05|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20140302124829/http://www.queerty.com/ex-gay-is-now-a-legally-protected-sexual-orientation-thats-good-20090826/|archivedate=2 March 2014}}

In December 2014 PFOX got national exposure for putting up a billboard next to highway I-95 in Richmond, Virginia. The billboard featured the text "Identical twins: One gay. One not. We believe twin research studies show nobody is born gay", in between photos of two men, seemingly identical twins.{{cite web |url=http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/10/ex-gay-billboard-virginia_n_6301334.html?ir=Gay+Voices |title='Ex-Gay' Group Erects Billboard Saying 'Nobody Is Born Gay' |last1=Sieczkowski |first1=Cavan |date=10 December 2014 |work=The Huffington Post |accessdate=14 December 2014}}{{Cite web|url=http://www.nbc12.com/story/27589663/billboard-in-richmond-cliams-nobody-is-born-gay|title = 'No one is born gay' billboard advertiser responds to controversy| date=10 December 2014 }}{{Cite web|url=https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/outrage-born-gay-billboard-va-highway-article-1.2042003|title='Nobody is born gay' billboard stuck over Virginia highway until next year|first=Nicole|last=Hensley|website=nydailynews.com|date=11 December 2014 }}{{Cite web|url=http://www.metroweekly.com/2014/12/pfox-post-anti-gay-billboard-in-richmond/|title = PFOX Posts Anti-Gay Billboard in Richmond|date = 12 December 2014}} Both images on the billboard were stock photos of one man who identified himself as being "openly gay and happy my entire life", and criticized PFOX and their billboard.{{cite web |url=http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/12/ex-gay-billboard-model-_n_6317218.html |title=Model Kyle Roux, Who Appears On 'Ex-Gay' Virginia Billboard, Says He Is A 'Proud' Gay Man And Not A Twin |last1=Wong |first1=Curtis M |date=12 December 2014 |work=The Huffington Post |accessdate=14 December 2014}}{{cite web |url=http://www.nbc12.com/story/27608187/openly-gay-model-in-nobody-is-born-gay-billboard-reacts |title=Openly-gay model in 'Nobody is born gay' billboard reacts |last1=Bahorich |first1=Susan |date=12 December 2014 |work=NBC 12 |accessdate=14 December 2014}}

Many of PFOX's views on the developmental causes of homosexuality and gender identity are in the minority of community opinion and unsupported by health professionals. PFOX's assertion that being gay is a choice relies heavily on two scientific studies which deny the existence of a "gay gene". Their interpretation of one of the studies, which was conducted in 2000, was later disputed by its main researcher.{{Cite web|url=http://www.thenewcivilrightsmovement.com/davidbadash/anti_gay_group_s_christmas_billboard_message_to_gays_nobody_is_born_gay|title = Ex-Gay Group's Christmas Billboard Message to Gays: 'Nobody is Born Gay'|date = 10 December 2014}} The American Psychological Association has studied the efforts of people seeking to change their sexual orientation, resulting in a 2009 resolution concluding, ’’there is insufficient evidence to support the use of psychological interventions to change sexual orientation,’’ and recommending that mental health professionals should avoid telling clients that they can change their sexual orientation through therapy or other treatments.{{cite press release|url=http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2009/08/therapeutic.aspx|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20140713002616/http://apa.org/news/press/releases/2009/08/therapeutic.aspx|archivedate=13 July 2014|title=Insufficient Evidence that Sexual Orientation Change Efforts Work, Says APA|date=5 August 2009}}{{cite news|url=http://www.edgeboston.com/news//news//113054/world_bank_relents|title=World Bank Relents|date=20 November 2010|first=Chris|last=Geidner|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20140716131118/http://www.edgeboston.com/news//news//113054/world_bank_relents|archivedate=16 July 2014|newspaper=Boston Edge}}

PFOX was described in the Washington City Paper as "ignoring the interests of ex-gays", and having almost no ex-gay members. The organization is composed almost entirely of people who state they have always been straight; of the ten people who make up the groups board of directors, only one states they are ex-gay. A PFOX representative has stated that PFOX meetings are "for families and friends of strugglers only, and not for ex-gays."{{cite web|url=http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/articles/37762/the-ex-gay-movement-that-wasnt-a-look-at-dcs|title=The Ex-Gay Movement that Wasn't |archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20140703082202/http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/articles/37762/the-ex-gay-movement-that-wasnt-a-look-at-dcs|archivedate=3 July 2014|last=Hess|first=Amanda|date=11 September 2009|work=Washington City Paper}}

In 2004, the National Mental Health Association declined PFOX's application for booth space at their annual convention, calling the group's principles a divergence from the association's core mission.{{Cite web|url=http://www.washblade.com/2004/5-28/news/national/pfox.cfm |accessdate=2009-07-08 |title=Mental health group bars PFOX from convention |last=Brune |first=Adrian |date=2004-05-28 |work=Washington Blade |publisher=Window Media LLC |url-status=dead |archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20070930203539/http://www.washblade.com/2004/5-28/news/national/pfox.cfm |archivedate=September 30, 2007 }} They have also been denied participation at events held by the American Association of University Women.{{citation|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20071018141350/http://www.aauw.org/About/newsroom/news/archive_national05.cfm?RenderForPrint=1|archivedate=18 October 2007|url=http://www.aauw.org/About/newsroom/news/archive_national05.cfm?RenderForPrint=1 |title=Excerpts from National Coverage (2005): PFLAG Returns to NPTA Convention for Workshop on Safe Schools}} Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)—which participated in 2004 and 2005 at the NPTA convention—has responded to PFOX:

:PFLAG and others also find the basic premise of PFOX's rationale confusing. If someone is not gay or bisexual, they are heterosexual. "Since this is the case," says PFLAG's executive director Jody Huckaby, "PFOX should have no concerns."{{citation|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20071024000205/http://pflag.org/PFLAG_Returns_to_NPTA_Convention_for_Workshop_on_Safe.519.0.html|archivedate=24 October 2007|title=PFLAG Returns to NPTA Convention|publisher=Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays|url=http://pflag.org/PFLAG_Returns_to_NPTA_Convention_for_Workshop_on_Safe.519.0.html }}

In 2010, gay rights advocate Wayne Besen described PFOX as being "as sickening as it is scandalous", saying that the PFOX group had been tied to "an eliminationist campaign, worldwide, against gay people" including the Uganda Anti-Homosexuality Bill.{{cite news|url=http://www.metroweekly.com/2010/11/pfox-in-the-world-bank-henhous/|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20140712204725/http://www.metroweekly.com/2010/11/pfox-in-the-world-bank-henhous/|archivedate=12 July 2014|title=PFOX in the World Bank Henhouse|first=Chris|last=Geidner|date=10 November 2010|newspaper=Metro Weekly}}

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• {{official|http://www.pfox.org}}
• [https://web.archive.org/web/20130408181244/http://www.pathinfo.org/index2.htm Positive Alternatives To Homosexuality]
• [http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_pfox.htm ReligiousTolerance.org] - entry on PFOX

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