Personal relationships of Elvis Presley

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Elvis Presley had many close relationships throughout his career. The strongest of all his personal relationships, by far, was that he had with his mother Gladys, as described below.

Devotion to his mother

In a newspaper interview with The Memphis Press Scimitar, Elvis himself was open about the close relationship to his mother. "She was the number-one girl in his life, and he was dedicating his career to her."The writer called Elvis "a hillbilly cat," poked fun at Elvis's closeness to his mama, and insinuated Elvis was "talented but simple." Summarized by Earl Greenwood in The Boy Who Would Be King, p. 155. Throughout her life, "the son would call her by pet names," and they communicated by baby talk.Peter Guralnick. Last Train To Memphis: The Rise Of Elvis Presley, p. 13. Presley even shared his mother's bed "up until Elvis was a young teen,"Patrick Humphries. Elvis The #1 Hits: The Secret History of the Classics, p. 117. simply because the family was so extremely poor that they couldn't afford the luxury of two beds. According to Elaine Dundy, "it was agony for her to leave her child even for a moment with anyone else, to let anyone else touch Elvis."Elaine Dundy. Elvis and Gladys, p. 71. Presley himself said, "My mama never let me out of her sight. I couldn't go down to the creek with the other kids." His father, Vernon Presley, talked about Elvis's close relationship to his mother "after his son became famous, almost as if it were a source of wonder that anyone couldn't be that close to him."See Guralnick, p. 13.

During Presley's rising career, Gladys became despairing, depressed and lonely and began to neglect her health. She put on weight and began to drink every day. She had wanted Elvis to succeed, "but not so that he would be apart from her. The hysteria of the crowd frightened her."Robert Rodriguez. The 1950s' Most Wanted: The Top 10 Book of Rock & Roll Rebels, Cold War Crises, and All-American Oddities, p. 87. Published 2006. Doctors diagnosed liver problems, and Gladys's condition eventually worsened so much that she was admitted to hospital in August 1958. At that time, Elvis was in Fort Hood, Texas (now Fort Cavazos), to fulfill his military obligations, but he got emergency leave to see her, and a special plane was chartered to take him home on August 12. Gladys died on August 14.See Rodriguez, The 1950s' Most Wanted, p. 87. Elvis and Vernon were deeply upset by her death, with Elvis "sobbing and crying hysterically,"Guralnick, p. 478. and eyewitnesses relate that he was "grieving almost constantly" for days.Guralnick, p. 480. During and shortly after the funeral, Judy Spreckels and Nick Adams, Presley's best friends at that time, attempted to comfort the singer.In a personal letter of August 25, 1958, to his secretary, Presley's manager, Colonel Thomas Parker, wrote that "Nicky Admas {{sic}} came out to be with Elvis last Week wich {{sic}} was so very kind of him to be there with his friend ... Judy Spreckels also came all the way to Memphis to be with Elvis for the Funeral [,] this was very kind of her also. And I know Elvis did appreciate this so very much."

High school and early stardom

Presley's early experiences being teased by his classmates for being a "mama's boy" had a deep influence on his clumsy advances to girls. He didn't have any friends as a teen. Beginning in his early teens, Presley embarked upon the "indefatigable pursuit of girls," but was totally rebuffed. At school, anyone wishing to provoke a little girl to tears of rage had only to chalk "Elvis loves -" and then the girl's name on the blackboard when the teacher was out of the room.Elaine Dundy. Elvis and Gladys, p. 125. For interviews with teachers and former fellow students at Milam Junior High school in Tupelo, Mississippi, see Dundy, p. 124.

His first true sweetheart was the fifteen-year-old Dixie Locke Emmons, whom the singer dated steadily after graduating from Humes and during his Sun Records time. While still a rising star, Presley also had a relationship with June Juanico, who is said to have been the only girl his mother ever approved of, but according to Juanico's own words, she "never had sex with Presley."Quoted in Ruthe Stein. "Girls! Girls! Girls! From small-town women to movie stars, Elvis loved often but never true," San Francisco Chronicle, August 3, 1997. In Juanico's book Elvis in the Twilight of Memory, she stated she was afraid of getting pregnant. However, since the singer's death, many claims to relationships have been made by women who were no more than acquaintances or had short affairs which were exaggerated for personal gain.According to Ruthe Stein, "So many women, famous and not, have been linked to Presley that you wonder how he found time to have a career." The author also cites June Juanico who said, "I doubt Elvis was sleeping with those showgirls, either. The Colonel had told him, 'For God's sake, don't get anyone pregnant' – and Elvis wouldn't go against the Colonel." See Ruthe Stein. "Girls! Girls! Girls! From small-town women to movie stars, Elvis loved often but never true," San Francisco Chronicle, August 3, 1997. Juanico even blames Elvis's manager, [[Colonel Tom Parker|Colonel

Thomas Parker]], for encouraging Presley to go out with beautiful women only "for the publicity."Stein, "Girls! Girls! Girls!" San Francisco Chronicle, August 3, 1997.

Between 1954 and 1956, when his stardom began to rise, Presley became the subject of adulation and adoration by young Hollywood starlets such as Natalie Wood, Judy Tyler, Shelley Fabares, and Connie Stevens. His mother believed that Wood was a schemer who hoped to "snare" the singer only "for publicity purposes."Gavin Lambert. Natalie Wood: A Life, p. 205. When a columnist wanted to know if the romance with Presley was "serious," Wood's answer was, "Not right now. But who knows what will happen?"Lambert, p. 206. The author adds, "By this time, Natalie had learned an important lesson in handling the press: titillating curiosity without satisfying it was always more effective than the standard denial of 'We're just good friends.'" One of her judgments of Elvis was, "He can sing but he can't do much else."Lana Wood. Natalie – A Memoir by Her Sister, 1984.

The main women in his life

Several authors have written that "Elvis busied his evenings with various girlfriends"Connie Kirchberg and Marc Hendrickx, Elvis Presley, Richard Nixon, and the American Dream (1999), p.62. or that his "list of one-night stands would fill volumes."Jim Curtin, Elvis: Unknown Stories behind the Legend, p.119. Actress Anne Helm, for instance, has stated that Presley "really liked sex": "I had fun," she said. "And it was special." She has further claimed that Elvis loved the flouncy, yellow baby-doll nightie he had bought her, and that he gave her pills after having sex with her.See Peter Harry Brown and Pat H. Broeske, Down at the End of Lonely Street: The Life and Death of Elvis Presley (1998), p.242-244, 449.

It is unclear whether Presley actually had sexual intercourse with most of the women he dated.See, for instance, Byron Raphael with Alanna Nash, "In Bed with Elvis," Playboy, November 2005, Vol. 52, Iss. 11. Ruthe Stein, "Girls! Girls! Girls! From small-town women to movie stars, Elvis loved often but never true," San Francisco Chronicle, August 3, 1997. His early girlfriends Judy Spreckels and June Juanico say that they had no sexual relationships with Presley, and there were several women with whom Elvis quickly bypassed sexuality altogether, settling into comfortable friendships. Spreckels, singer Betty Amos, hairstylist Patti Parry, and others close to Presley all filled sisterly roles for Elvis.{{Cite book|url=https://archive.org/details/babyletsplayhous00alan|title=Baby, let's play house : Elvis Presley and the women who loved him|last=Alanna.|first=Nash|date=2010|publisher=It BooksYEET|isbn=9780061699849|edition=1st|location=New York, NY|oclc=426796222|url-access=registration}} Despite claiming no sexual relationship with Elvis, June Juanico did say in an interview for the movie Elvis 1956, "I will not say what happened between us. It is personal." Byron Raphael and Alanna Nash have stated that the star "would never put himself inside one of these girls..." (for a number of reasons).Byron Raphael with Alanna Nash, "In Bed with Elvis," Playboy, November 2005, Vol. 52, Iss. 11, p.64-68, 76, 140. The article claims that "the so-called dangerous rock-and-roll idol was anything but a despotic ruler in the bedroom ... He was far more interested in heavy petting and panting and groaning" and "he would never put himself inside one of these girls ... within minutes he'd be asleep."

Albert Goldman speculated that Elvis preferred voyeurism over normal sexual relations with women. Goldman went on to suggest that during his military service, Elvis had "discovered prostitutes and picked up the intense fear of sexually transmitted diseases which led to claims that he had a morbid fear of sexual penetration."Tracy McVeigh, "Elvis Special: Love me tender." The Observer, Sunday August 11, 2002. Alanna Nash, in her book 'Baby, Let's Play House': Elvis Presley and the Women Who Loved Him (2010), reveals a need in Presley to play Pygmalion and father to very young girls, whom he delighted in making over. A late-blooming "Mama's boy," she argues, young Elvis was a flop with girls and super-religious.

Other women whom Elvis Presley dated included Dottie Harmony, Pat Sheehan, Pat Mowry, and Yvonne Lime.Clemens, Samuel. "Dedicated to Philanthropy", Classic Images. September 2022

June Juanico "recalls a time when she stood up to Elvis in front of his band of hangers-on, who even then were beginning to accompany him everywhere. He grabbed her arm, took her into the bathroom and declared: 'Look, you are so right, I am really sorry.' He kept her there for five minutes, then swaggered out, his image intact." Julie Parrish, Presley's co-star in Paradise Hawaiian Style, relates, "One time on set I had a real pain in my side – a side-effect, I think – and Elvis scooped me up, carried me into his trailer and shut the door. Outside the crew was waiting and wondering, but Elvis was oblivious to the innuendo. He placed his hand over my side and tried to do some healing on me." Playboy star and actress June Wilkinson remembered that she "met Elvis on the set of King Creole. He invited me to dinner at the Beverly Wilshire Hotel. ... Then Elvis gave me a tour of his suite, sat me on the bed in his bedroom and sang to me for two hours. That was it. The next day ... we had dinner again. He was very sweet, and he was friendly. He had more than sex on his mind. He got me to the airport on time, and our paths never crossed again."Paul Parla and Charles P. Mitchell, Screen Sirens Scream!: Interviews with 20 Actresses from Science Fiction, Horror, Film Noir and Mystery Movies, 1930s to 1960s (2000), p.235.

However, the singer was not always sweet and friendly towards women. When Christina Crawford, the adopted daughter of Joan Crawford, visited Presley, they were watching Bonanza in the TV room. She was not a friend of Elvis"Elvis had been puffing on a cigar ... as Christina tickled him and kidded around, apparently seeking more direct attention." Suddenly, as Buzz Cason relates, "she slung the contents of her cocktail glass right into Elvis's face. ... The cigar went 'phhhtttt' and he jumped up. ... He grabbed her by the hair. 'Get this bitch out of here!' he screamed, leading her toward the front door as she struggled to keep up with the rather quick pace as he was pulling her locks. Turmoil ensued as the 'boys' scrambled to assist trying to prevent too big of a scene... "Buzz Cason, Living the Rock 'N' Roll Dream: The Adventures of Buzz Cason (2004), p.81. Elvis said to Buzz that he was sorry and not raised to treat a woman like that. In his book, Joe Esposito (who was the one dating Christina) confirmed that this behavior was out of Elvis' character.{{Cite book |last=Esposito |first=Joe |title=Good rockin' tonight |pages=84}} Sonny West who was also there agreed with Joe and noticed that Elvis and Christina patched things up when he saw them getting along very well on a set one week later.{{Cite book |last=West |first=Sonny |title=Elvis : still taking care of business |pages=101}}

Peggy Lipton claims that Presley was "with me, at least, he was virtually impotent".In her memoir, Breathing Out (St. Martin's Press, 2005), p.172, Peggy Lipton further relates that Presley was like a "teenage boy". "He didn't feel like a man next to me – more like a boy who'd never matured." When he tried to have sex with Lipton, "he just wasn't up to sex. Not that he wasn't built, but with me, at least, he was virtually impotent." Cassandra Peterson, better known as "Elvira", says she knew Presley for only one night and all they did was talk.Ruthe Stein, San Francisco Chronicle, August 3, 1997. Cassandra said to Larry King that they actually met during a party and Elvis told her to leave Vegas because she was the youngest show girl in Vegas at that time.Larry King you tube channel : "Cassandra Peterson details her date with Elvis | Larry King Now | Ora.TV" (video 2 Nov. 2016)

These claims are directly contradicted by comments from actresses like Cybill Shepherd, who acknowledged her affair with the singer and said to have introduced Elvis to certain amorous techniques.In her book, Cybill Disobedience: How I Survived Beauty Pageants, Elvis, Sex, Bruce Willis, Lies, Marriage, Motherhood, Hollywood, and the Irrepressible Urge to Say What I Think, Cybill Shepherd talks about an affair with Elvis who "charmed" her by telling her in one of his pill-popping hazes about the time a doctor gave him an injection directly into the pupil of his eye. However, the "much-quoted claims that she taught him the joys of oral sex is viewed with skepticism by other lovers of the King." In an interview, Shepherd said that Presley kissed her all over her naked body – but refused to have oral sex with her. His slow tender kisses ended at her bellybutton. Elvis said to her, "Me and the guys talk and, well, we don't eat pussy." She always knew their relationship was doomed and they wouldn't last as a couple. She says, "The fact is, Elvis got hooked on speed in the army. ... Then it got out of control. Did I want to be with someone who would have dragged me down? The only way to have stayed with Elvis was by doing drugs."See [https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001732/news "Hollywood Actress Reveals Her Elvis Sex Secrets"] WENN, April 25, 2000, and October 31, 2001. In fact, they met at a time (July 1972) when they were both involved in much more significant relationships : Peter Bogdanovich for her {{Cite magazine |title=Cher, Barbra Streisand, and more react to the death of Peter Bogdanovich |magazine=Entertainment Weekly |url=https://ew.com/celebrity/peter-bogdanovich-death-reactions/}} and Linda Thompson for Elvis.{{Cite book |last=Guralnick |first=Peter |title=Elvis dayd by day |pages=312}}

Elvis had a brief relationship with then 18 year old actress Cheryl Holdridge in 1963, when they dated every night for a week. During this time he took her to the Los Angeles premiere of It Happened at the World's Fair. After the premiere, Elvis made a trip back to Memphis to spend time with his father before filming started on Viva Las Vegas. Upset that Elvis left suddenly without telling her, Holdridge sent Elvis an angry letter in which she scolded him for doing so. Amused that she cared for him as much as she did, Elvis sent a letter back to Holdridge that read "Sorry Cheesy! E.P." and a 20-pound mound of cheddar cheese ("Cheesy" was a nickname Cheryl earned while on The Mickey Mouse Club).{{cite book |last1=Curtin |first1=Jim |title=Elvis Unknown Stories Behind the Legend · Volume 1 |date=1998 |publisher=Celebrity Books |page=132 |isbn=978-1-58029-102-6 |url=https://books.google.com/books?id=J0VLAAAAYAAJ&q=holdridge |access-date=25 February 2024}} In an interview with 'Teen Magazine, Holdridge confirmed the two were dating and stated "When I talk about going out with Elvis, I mean visiting him at his home for parties with his friends. Elvis can't go out because he's always recognized and it spoils his fun, so he invites friends up for the evening. A group of girls go up to the house, have dinner, listen to records, dance, and generally just have a quiet social evening."Cheryl Holdridge, by Johnny Jason, 'Teen Magazine, May 1963, pg 47, 85

In her memoir, Ann-Margret (Presley's co-star in Viva Las Vegas) refers to Presley as her "soulmate", but very little is revealed about their long-rumored romance, only that "in a moment of tenderness" he bought her a round bed in hot pink colors.Ann Margret with Todd Gold, Ann Margret: My Story (1994)

On the other hand, Elvis dated many female co-stars from his movies primarily for publicity purposes.Ruthe Stein, "Girls! Girls! Girls! From small-town women to movie stars," San Francisco Chronicle, August 3, 1997. 17-year-old actress Lori Williams and the singer, for instance, went out together for a while "between the making of Roustabout and Kissin' Cousins." She says their "courtship was not some bizarre story. It was very sweet and Elvis was the perfect gentleman." She also claims that Ann-Margret "was the love of his life."Tom Lisanti, Drive-In Dream Girls: A Galaxy of B-Movie Starlets of the Sixties (2003), p.207. Significantly, there was a great publicity campaign about the romance between Elvis and Ann-Margret during the 1963 filming of Viva Las Vegas and the following weeks,See Priscilla Presley, Elvis and Me, p.175 f. which helped to increase the popularity of the young Hollywood beauty.In his critical study on the "dream machine" that publicists, tabloid newspapers, journalists, and TV interviewers use to create semi-fictional icons, often playing with inauthenticity, Joshua Gamson cites a press agent "saying that his client, Ann-Margret, could initially have been "sold ... as anything"; "She was a new product. We felt there was a need in The Industry for a female Elvis Presley." See Joshua Gamson, Claims to Fame: Celebrity in Contemporary America (University of California Press, 1994), p.46. See also C. Lee Harrington and Denise D. Bielby, Popular Culture: Production and Consumption (2000), p.273. Ann-Margret remained close to Presley for the remainder of his life and also attended his funeral.

The vast majority of books (including both of Guralnick's books) on Presley contain details of his many romances and alleged affairs, including many while he was married to Priscilla. It has also been reported that Presley "adored to fondle and suck women's toes, and those in his entourage who were given the job of choosing companions for him would often be asked to check the girls' feet."

According to Alan Fortas, an all-Memphis football halfback who became a bodyguard and part of the Presley entourage, "Elvis needed someone to baby more than he needed a sex partner. He craved the attention of someone who adored him without the threat of sexual pressure, much as a mother would." Furthermore, "Elvis befriended some of the young girls who used to cluster adoringly in his driveway, or outside the fence ... Some of the girls were as young as fourteen. Fortas said they were frequent houseguests who attended his concerts as part of 'Elvis's personal traveling show.' Out in the backyard, they romped with Elvis in the Doughboy pool and challenged him to watermelon-seed spitting contests. They also slipped into his bedroom ... for rambunctious pillow fights. Sometimes they would all sit cross-legged with him on the bed, flipping through his fan magazines or admiring his stuffed-animal collection. Often they would all lie down together and cuddle. But what went on was horseplay, not foreplay."See Peter H. Brown and Pat H. Broeske, Down at the End of Lonely Street: The Life and Death of Elvis Presley (1997), p.69. Therefore, Guralnick writes that for "the more experienced girls it wasn't like with other Hollywood stars or even with other more sophisticated boys they knew." Although they offered to do things for Presley, "he wasn't really interested. What he liked to do was to lie in bed and watch television and eat and talk all night..."Guralnick, Last Train to Memphis, p.415.

Dolores Hart was the female love interest from Elvis's second and fourth movies, and was his first onscreen kiss. She asserts that she did not have an intimate relationship with her costar. Five years after her last movie with Elvis, she left Hollywood to become a Benedictine nun. The 2011 documentary God Is the Bigger Elvis covers their relationship.

Anita Wood, another girl whom the singer's mother hoped Presley would eventually marry, was with him as he rose to superstardom, served in the US military and returned home in 1960. She lived at Graceland for a time, though the star, according to his own words, did not have sex with her."You mean you didn't make love to [Anita Wood] the whole four years you went with her?" "Just to a point. Then I stopped. It was difficult for her too, but that's just how I feel." See Priscilla Presley, Elvis and Me, p.98. She moved out after confronting him over Priscilla Presley, then known as Priscilla Beaulieu.

Priscilla Presley (née Beaulieu)

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Elvis and Priscilla Beaulieu first met in 1959 while Elvis was stationed in Germany with the U.S. Army. Priscilla was 14 years old when Elvis met her. Brent D. Taylor has stated that "Elvis's closest female relationships were usually with young girls of around 13 or 14, ending as they reached late teens. He didn't have sex with these young girls, but had pajama parties, pillow fights and indulged in 'girl talk', just as he did with Gladys."Brent D. Taylor, The Creative Edge: 17 Biographies of Cultural Icons (2008), page 17, Chapter 1: Elvis Presley. "As a perpetual youth", Elvis was "attracted to young women",David H. Rosen, The Tao of Elvis (2002), p.xxi. and "Elvis felt comfortable with these adolescent girls" because he "was so insecure ... That's why he needed younger girls."Suzanne Finstad, Child Bride (1997), p.94. Elvis biographer Alanna Nash also confirms this. The author says that Presley was overly attached to his mother and could not relate normally to mature women; presumably, Presley sought out very young girls because he felt threatened by women who were older.Alanna Nash, "The Secret Sex Life of Elvis." Penthouse, August 1997, 22–29.

In 1963, Elvis managed to talk the reluctant Beaulieus into allowing their teenage daughter to live with his father, Vernon, and stepmother, Dee Presley, at a home Elvis purchased on Hermitage Drive in Memphis located at the back of Graceland. According to Anita Wood,{{Cite book |last=Bareett |first=Jonnita Brewer |title=Once upon a time, Elvis and Anita : memories of my mother |pages=197}} it's Priscilla who begged Elvis to let her see him in United States. However, that arrangement lasted only a matter of weeks, Priscilla slipping back and forth between Vernon's house and Graceland.See Alanna Nash, The Colonel: The Extraordinary Story of Colonel Tom Parker and Elvis Presley (2003), p.206. In her 1985 autobiography, Elvis and Me, written with author Sandra Harmon, Priscilla describes Presley as a very passionate man who was not overtly sexual towards her. According to her account,Elvis And Me, p.130. the singer told her that they had to wait until they were married before having intercourse. He said, "I'm not saying we can't do other things. It's just the actual encounter. I want to save it." Priscilla says in her autobiography that she and Elvis did not have sex until their wedding night, and that she married as a virgin. However, this claim is questioned by biographer Suzanne Finstad and members of the Memphis Mafia.

They married on May 1, 1967, in Las Vegas, Nevada, Lisa Marie was born nine months later on February 1, 1968, in Memphis, Tennessee. In her book, Elvis and Me, Priscilla describes her daily life with her husband. She also says that Presley became fascinated with the occult and metaphysical phenomena and an addict to prescription drugs, which dramatically changed his personality from playful to being passive and introverted. The Presleys separated on February 23, 1972, and divorced on October 9, 1973, agreeing to share custody of their daughter. When Priscilla left him for her karate teacher Mike Stone, the singer's "ego was damaged beyond repair. ... Considering Presley's status as a universal sex symbol ..., it is unlikely he was able to put this situation in any type of perspective other than having not been 'man enough' to hold his woman."Connie Kirchberg and Marc Hendrickx, Elvis Presley, Richard Nixon, and the American Dream, p.109. According to Billy Stanley, he "wasn't the same person" as before.Cited in Connie Kirchberg and Marc Hendrickx, p.109. Priscilla says that she confronted Elvis about the divorce. According to her account, he forced himself upon her; "'This is how a real man makes love to a woman,' he said."Wayne, Jane Ellen, The Leading Men of MGM (2005), p.394. However, Priscilla in an interview stated that she regretted her choice of words in describing the incident, and said it had been an overstatement.{{cite web|author=Stefanie Marsh|title=Did Elvis indoctrinate me? Probably — but I don't see it as a bad thing|url=https://www.thetimes.com/article/did-elvis-indoctrinate-me-probably-but-i-dont-see-it-as-a-bad-thing-73rpgqlc3r3|newspaper=The Times|year=2015}}

Freudian and other sexual psychologists say that Presley is a "classic example of the mother/Madonna/whore split".Carol Martin-Sperry, Couples and Sex: An Introduction to Relationship Dynamics and Psychosexual Concepts (2004), p.24. He "adored his mother and never recovered from her early death." He met Priscilla "when she was 14. She became a mother at 22. It is said that Elvis never had sex with her again after the birth of his daughter, and would never have sex with a woman who had had a baby. He did not remarry after his divorce from Priscilla and did not have any more children." However, Priscilla Presley states in her autobiography that they did have sex again after the birth of their daughter,{{cite book|last=Presley|first=Priscilla|title=Elvis and Me|url=https://archive.org/details/elvisme00pres|url-access=registration|year=1985|publisher=Putnam Pub Group|isbn=978-0-399-12984-1|pages=[https://archive.org/details/elvisme00pres/page/259 259]}} and actress Barbara Leigh, who had a relationship with the singer after the birth of her own child, claimed that they had sex often, despite Elvis' being aware of her child.{{cite book|last=Guralnick|first=Peter|title=Careless Love: Unmaking of Elvis Presley|year=2000|publisher=Abacus|isbn=978-0-349-11168-1|pages=409}} Both accounts contradict claims made that Elvis would not have sex with a woman who had a child.

Linda Thompson and Ginger Alden

Six months after Priscilla left, Presley dated Linda Thompson. Later on, Ginger Alden became his final serious girlfriend and his fiancee before Presley’s death. She was the person who found his unresponsive body when he died. Elvis had given Ginger Alden a diamond engagement ring{{Cite book|title=Elvis and Ginger|last=Ginger.|first=Alden|isbn=9780425266335|edition=First|location=New York, NY|oclc=878953299|year = 2014}} and presumably planned to marry her, though this is debated.

The Memphis Mafia and other male friends

Apart from his relationships with women, Presley had many male friends.For the guys around him, see, for instance, Alanna Nash, Elvis Aron Presley: Revelations from the Memphis Mafia (Harpercollins, 1995). He reportedly spent day and night with friends and employees whom the news media affectionately dubbed the Memphis Mafia.See the many sources cited in the Wikipedia article on the Memphis Mafia. Among them were Joe Esposito, Sonny West, Red West, Billy Smith, Marty Lacker and Lamar Fike. Gerald Marzorati says that Elvis "couldn't go anywhere else without a phalanx of boyhood friends."Gerald Marzorati, "Heartbreak Hotel", The New York Times, January 3, 1999. Even the women he dated deplored them, saying, "Whenever you were with Elvis for the most part you were with his entourage. Those guys were always around..."Tom Lisanti, Drive-In Dream Girls: A Galaxy of B-Movie Starlets of the Sixties (2003), p. 80.

According to Peter Guralnick, for Elvis and the guys "Hollywood was just an open invitation to party all night long. Sometimes they would hang out with Sammy Davis Jr., or check out Bobby Darin at the Cloister. Nick Adams and his gang came by the suite all the time, not to mention the eccentric actor Billy Murphy ..."Peter Guralnick, Careless Love: The Unmaking of Elvis Presley, p.72. When Buzz Cason asked Lamar Fike "how Elvis did it – this partying nearly every night," he "answered, 'A little somethin' to get down and a little something to get up.' Obviously, he was referring to the pills that started a trend that in only a few years would lead to Elvis's untimely death."Buzz Cason, Living the Rock 'N' Roll Dream: The Adventures of Buzz Cason (2004), p.80.

According to Presley expert Elaine Dundy, "Of all Elvis' new friends, Nick Adams, by background and temperament the most insecure, was also his closest."Elaine Dundy, Elvis and Gladys, p.250. Guralnick says that the singer "was hanging out more and more with Nick and his friends" and that Elvis was glad Colonel Tom Parker "liked Nick."Guralnick, Last Train to Memphis: The Rise of Elvis Presley, p.336, 339. June Wilkinson also confirms that the singer "had an entourage who spoke with Southern accents. The only one I remember was Nick Adams, the actor." In her recent Elvis biography, Kathleen Tracy writes that Adams was Elvis's regular friend and often met the singer backstage or at Graceland. "He and Elvis would go motorcycle riding late at night and stay up until all hours talking about the pain of celebrity."

Boxing legend Muhammad Ali, who first met Elvis in 1973 and who even wore a "People's Choice" robe Elvis gave him before two boxing bouts in 1973, also acknowledged his friendship with Elvis.{{cite news|url=https://www.boxingnews24.com/2023/04/muhammad-ali-talks-about-his-relationship-with-elvis/|title=Muhammad Ali Talks About His Relationship With Elvis!|publisher=Boxing News 24|date=2023-04-21|accessdate=2024-04-08}}{{cite news|url=https://www.inquirer.com/philly/blogs/inthemix/The-Greatest-and-King-Ali-and-Elvis.html|title=The Greatest and The King: Ali and Elvis|first=Don|last=DeLuca|publisher=The Philadelphia Inquirer|date=June 6, 2016|accessdate=April 8, 2024}}

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