Polina Suslova

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| native_name = Аполлина́рия Проко́фьевна Су́слова

| birth_date = {{birth year|1839}}

| birth_place = Panino, Nizhny Novgorod Governorate

| death_date = {{death year and age|1918|1839}}

| death_place = Sevastopol

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| education = Saint Petersburg State University

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| occupation = writer

| years_active = 1861—?

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| spouse = Vasily Rozanov (1880—)

| partner = Fyodor Dostoyevsky

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Apollinaria Prokofyevna Suslova ({{langx|ru|Аполлина́рия Проко́фьевна Су́слова}}; 1839–1918), commonly known as Polina Suslova (Поли́на Су́слова), was a Russian short story writer, who is perhaps best known as a mistress of writer Fyodor Dostoyevsky,{{cite book|last=Breger|first=Louis|title=Dostoevsky: the author as psychoanalyst|year=2008|publisher=Transaction Publishers|isbn=978-1-4128-0843-9|page=15}} wife of Vasily Rozanov and a sister of Russia's first female physician Nadezhda Suslova.{{cite book|last= Knapp|first=Liza |title=Dostoevsky's The Idiot: a critical companion |year=1998|publisher=Northwestern University Press|isbn=978-0-8101-1533-0|page=10}}{{cite journal|last=Zhuk|first=Sergei|date=Winter 2001|title=Science, Women and Revolution in Russia |journal=Bulletin of the History of Medicine |volume=75 |issue=4|pages=802–803 |issn=0007-5140 |doi=10.1353/bhm.2001.0204|s2cid=72251062|url=http://muse.jhu.edu/login?uri=/journals/bulletin_of_the_history_of_medicine/v075/75.4zhuk.html}} She is considered to be the prototype of several female characters in Dostoyevsky's novels, such as Polina in The Gambler, Nastasya Filipovna in The Idiot, Katerina Ivanovna Marmeladova in Crime and Punishment,{{cite web|url=http://www.vehi.net/rozanov/gippius.html|title=Zadumchivyj strannik (O Rozanove) |last=Gippius |first=Zinaida |year=1923 |language=Russian |accessdate=21 September 2010}} Lizaveta Nikolaevna in The Possessed, and both Katerina and Grushenka in The Brothers Karamazov.{{cite book|last=Simmons|first=Ernest J|title=Dostoevsky - The Making of a Novelist|year=2007|publisher=Read Books|isbn=978-1-4067-6362-1|page=175}}{{cite book|last=Payne|first=Robert|title=Dostoyevsky: a human portrait|year=1961|publisher=Knopf|pages=323}} Suslova has often been portrayed as a femme fatale. Fyodor Dostoyevsky called her one of the most remarkable women of his time.

Her own works include a short story Pokuda, published in Mikhail Dostoyevsky's Vremya magazine in 1861, Do svadby (1863), and the autobiographical Chuzhaya i Svoy, published in 1928.{{cite web|url=http://www.ozon.ru/context/detail/id/2619117/|title=Years of closeness to Dostoevsky. Diary, story, letters|publisher=Ozon.ru|language=Russian|accessdate=21 September 2010}}

Early life

Polina Suslova was born in Panino, Nizhny Novgorod guberniya.(Russian) {{cite book|title=Deyateli revolyutsionnogo dvizheniya v Rossii: Bibliographic Dictionary|url=http://slovari.yandex.ru/~%D0%BA%D0%BD%D0%B8%D0%B3%D0%B8/%D0%A0%D0%B5%D0%B2%D0%BE%D0%BB%D1%8E%D1%86%D0%B8%D0%BE%D0%BD%D0%B5%D1%80%D1%8B/%D0%A1%D1%83%D1%81%D0%BB%D0%BE%D0%B2%D0%B0%20%D0%90%D0%BF%D0%BE%D0%BB%D0%BB%D0%B8%D0%BD%D0%B0%D1%80%D0%B8%D1%8F%20%D0%9F%D1%80%D0%BE%D0%BA%D0%BE%D1%84%D1%8C%D0%B5%D0%B2%D0%BD%D0%B0/|date=1927–1934|publisher=Izd-vo Vsesoyuznogo obshestva politicheskih katorzhan i ssylno-poselentsev|location=slovari.yandex.ru|chapter=Apollinaria Prokofyevna Suslova|access-date=2010-09-21|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20121110113123/http://slovari.yandex.ru/~%D0%BA%D0%BD%D0%B8%D0%B3%D0%B8/%D0%A0%D0%B5%D0%B2%D0%BE%D0%BB%D1%8E%D1%86%D0%B8%D0%BE%D0%BD%D0%B5%D1%80%D1%8B/%D0%A1%D1%83%D1%81%D0%BB%D0%BE%D0%B2%D0%B0%20%D0%90%D0%BF%D0%BE%D0%BB%D0%BB%D0%B8%D0%BD%D0%B0%D1%80%D0%B8%D1%8F%20%D0%9F%D1%80%D0%BE%D0%BA%D0%BE%D1%84%D1%8C%D0%B5%D0%B2%D0%BD%D0%B0|archive-date=2012-11-10|url-status=dead}} Polina's father, Prokofiy Suslov, was a serf of the Sheremetevs, but was able to succeed as a merchant and manufacturer. He decided to provide proper education for his daughters, Polina (a diminutive form of the given name Apollinaria) and Nadezhda. The girls had a governess, and a dancing teacher.

File:Apollinaria Suslova.jpg

Polina attended a finishing school, and when the Suslov family moved to Saint Petersburg, she attended the Saint Petersburg State University. She enjoyed the political struggle, the demonstrations, and students' meetings. She was sympathetic to the radical views of that time, especially regarding women rights.{{cite journal|last=Nevskaya|first=Elena|date=February 2003|title=Sense and sensibility|journal=Vokrug sveta|issue=2 |volume=40|issn=0321-0669|url=http://www.vokrugsveta.ru/vs/article/454/|language=Russian}}{{cite book|last=Moss|first=Walter |title=Russia in the age of Alexander II, Tolstoy and Dostoevsky|year=2002|publisher= Anthem Press |isbn=978-1-898855-59-0 |page=105}}

Lyubov Dostoyevskaya in Dostoyevsky as Portrayed by His Daughter described her as a young provincial woman, whose "rich relatives were able to send her enough money to live comfortably in Saint Petersburg. Every autumn she entered the University as a student, but she never actually studied or passed any exams. However, she attended lectures, flirted with the students, … made them sign petitions, participated in all political demonstrations, … sang La Marseillaise, scolded the Cossacks and behaved provocatively."{{cite book|last=Dostoyevskaya|first=Lyubov|author-link=Lyubov Dostoyevskaya|title=Dostoyevsky as Portrayed by His Daughter (Dostoejewski geschildert von seiner Tochter)|year=1920}}

Relationship with Fyodor Dostoyevsky

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In 1861, Suslova attended the classes taught by Fyodor Dostoyevsky, already a renowned writer, whose lectures were very popular among young people. At that time, Dostoyevsky was 40, and she was 21. Daughter Lyubov Dostoyevskaya (who was born several years later, well after the affair had come to an end) opined that Suslova "spun around Dostoevsky and tried to please him in every way, but Dostoevsky did not notice her. Then she wrote him a love letter". Another version is that Suslova brought her writings to Dostoyevsky and asked for advice. Her story was bad, but Dostoyevsky was attracted to a beautiful young girl and promised to teach her writing.{{cite web|url=http://www.idelo.ru/496/22.html|title=Apollinaria Suslova, zhrica russkoy lyubvi|last=Anisimov|first=Evgeniy|date=4 February 2008|publisher=Delo|language=Russian|accessdate=21 September 2010}} Yet another explanation is that Dostoyevsky had read Suslova's story, liked it and wanted to meet the author.{{cite web|url=http://www.hrono.ru/statii/2006/krn_dostoev.html|title=Life of Fyodor Dostoyevsky: Women's motives|last=Korneichuk|first=Dmitry|publisher=Chronos|language=Russian|accessdate=21 June 2010}}

The relationship was difficult and painful for both sides, but mostly for Dostoyevsky.{{cite book|last=Lantz|first=Kenneth|page=155 |title=The Dostoevsky Encyclopedia|year=2004|publisher=Greenwood Publishing Group|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=XfDOcmJisn0C| isbn=0-313-30384-3}} He was exhausted by work, poor health, and increasing financial distress.{{cite web|url=http://www.iblist.com/book57955.htm|title=Book Information: Gambler with the Diary of Polina Suslova, the|publisher=Internet Book List|accessdate=22 September 2010|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170826235047/http://www.iblist.com/book57955.htm|archive-date=26 August 2017|url-status=dead}} Suslova was imperious, manipulative, jealous,{{cite book|last=Payne|first=Robert|title=Dostoyevsky: a human portrait|year=1961|publisher=Knopf|pages=162}} and she constantly demanded that he divorce his "consumptive wife" Maria Isayeva. Dostoyevsky later noted that she was "a sick selfish woman", whose "selfishness and self-esteem were colossal" and who did not tolerate any imperfection in other people. After Maria's death in 1865, he proposed to Suslova, but she declined.{{cite web|url=http://www.kiosek.com/dostoevsky/chronology.html|title=Dostoevsky Research Station: Chronology |accessdate=21 September 2010 }}

Unlike Dostoyevsky's second wife Anna Snitkina, Polina Suslova rarely read his books, did not respect his work, and regarded him as a simple admirer. Dostoyevsky wrote her once: "My dear, I am not inviting you to a cheap essential happiness." After their breakup, she burned the compromising papers, including their letters. In 1867, Fyodor Dostoyevsky married Anna Snitkina.{{cite book|last=Lantz|first=K. A. |title=The Dostoevsky Encyclopedia|year=2004|publisher=Greenwood Publishing Group|chapter=Chronology |url=https://books.google.com/books?id=XfDOcmJisn0C| isbn=0-313-30384-3}}

Later life

Vasily Rozanov met Suslova when he was a schoolboy, and she was already over thirty years old. He fell in love at first sight. Rozanov had known her as the former mistress of Fyodor Dostoyevsky. It was enough to spark his interest, because Dostoyevsky was the writer whom Rozanov admired most.{{cite journal|last=Ivask |first=George|year=1961|title=Rozanov |journal= Slavic and East European Journal |volume=5|issue=2|pages=110–122|publisher=American Association of Teachers of Slavic and Eastern European Languages|doi=10.2307/304459|jstor=304459}} Rozanov made only a brief entry in his diary: "Meeting Apollinaria Prokofyevna Suslova. My love for her. Suslova loves me, and I love her very much. She is the most wonderful woman I've ever met." They had an affair for three years, and married in November 1880. She was 40 at that time, and he was 24.

They parted in 1886. Their life together was a torture for Rozanov, as evident from his personal correspondence. Suslova made public scenes of jealousy and flirted with his friends at the same time. Rozanov's daughter, Tatyana, stated in her memoirs: "Suslova mocked him, saying that what he was writing were just some stupid books, she insulted him, and finally dumped him". Suslova broke up with Rozanov twice, but he always forgave her and begged to return home. After they finally parted, Rozanov admitted: "There was something brilliant (in her temperament) that made me love her blindly and timidly despite all the suffering."

After Rozanov met his future wife, Varvara, Polina refused to divorce him for 20 years.

Beginning in the early 1900s, Polina Suslova lived alone in Sevastopol. She died in 1918 at the age of 78.

Polina Suslova

Early life

Relationship with Fyodor Dostoyevsky

Later life

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