Ralph Partridge

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Reginald Sherring Partridge, {{postnominals|country=GBR|size=100%|sep=,|MC1}} (1894 – 30 November 1960), generally known as Ralph Partridge, was a member of the Bloomsbury Group. He worked for Leonard Woolf and Virginia Woolf, married Dora Carrington and then Frances Marshall, and was the unrequited love of Lytton Strachey.

Biography

Partridge was born in 1894, the son of (William) Reginald Partridge, magistrate and collector of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh for the Indian Civil Service,The India List and India Office List for 1902, compiled from official records by direction of the Secretary of State for India in Council, Harrison & Sons, London, p. 527The Register of Blundell's School, with introduction and appendices, Arthur Fisher, Old Blundell's (School), 1904, p. 202 and Jessie (née Sherring).{{cite web|title=Ralph Partridge|url=http://spartacus-educational.com/ARTpartridge.htm|website=Spartacus Educational|accessdate=10 January 2018}} His father was the son of a Devon solicitor while, on his mother's side, the Sherring family were clerics and Christian missionaries working in India at Varanasi. In his childhood Partridge had been known as 'Rex'.Frances Partridge: The Biography, Anne Chisholm, Weidenfeld & Nicolson, 2009

He was educated at Westminster School where he was Head Boy. Partridge won a scholarship to read Classics at Christ Church, Oxford, and rowed for Oxford University. He was commissioned during World War I, joining the 6th Battalion of the Royal Warwickshire Regiment{{London Gazette|issue=28881|page=6807|date=28 August 1914}} and was seconded to the 48th Division Cyclist Company, returning to his regiment after a year. He reached the rank of major by the age of twenty-three, winning a Military Cross and bar{{London Gazette|issue=30340|page=10706|date=16 October 1917}} and the Croix de Guerre.{{Cite news|url=https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/last-of-a-charmed-circle-1169886.html|title=Last of a charmed circle|date=1998-08-06|work=The Independent|access-date=2019-08-16|language=en-GB}}

Partridge was an Oxford friend of Dora Carrington's younger brother Noel. They met in 1918. Partridge fell in love with Carrington and eventually, in 1921, Carrington agreed to marry him"Lytton Strachey: The New Biography" by Michael Holroyd, 1994, p.485 even if she was in love with Lytton Strachey. Strachey was himself more interested in Partridge.[https://www.theguardian.com/Archive/Article/0,4273,3806156,00.html Frances Partridge, Bloomsbury groupie] – Guardian Unlimited. Retrieved on 23 December 2007 An added complication was Dora Carrington's intermittent affair with one of Partridge's best friends, Gerald Brenan. Carrington, Partridge, and Strachey shared a Wiltshire farm-house, Ham Spray, in a complex triangular relationship later recorded in the 1995 film Carrington. Though Strachey spoke openly about his homosexuality with his Bloomsbury friends, and had relationships with a variety of men including Partridge,{{Citation needed|date=July 2024}} details of Strachey's sexuality were not widely known until the publication of a biography by Michael Holroyd in the late 1960s.Holroyd, Michael, Lytton Strachey: A Critical Biography, 447.

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In 1926, Partridge left Carrington to live with Frances Marshall, whom he had met while she was working at the London bookshop owned by David Garnett and Francis Birrell; at that time Partridge was working for Leonard Woolf and Virginia Woolf at the Hogarth Press. Meanwhile, Carrington had an affair with Bernard 'Beakus' Penrose, who was a friend of Partridge. After Carrington died by suicide in 1932, shortly after Lytton Strachey's death, Ralph and Frances married in 1933. The couple had one son, (Lytton) Burgo Partridge (1935–1963).{{Cite news|url=https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/books/features/bloomsbury-laid-bare-frances-partridge-reveals-the-truth-about-her-fellow-writers-1666072.html|title=Bloomsbury laid bare: Frances Partridge reveals the truth about her|date=2009-04-12|work=The Independent|access-date=2018-01-15|language=en-GB}} They lived in London during the week and repaired to Ham Spray at weekends. They lived happily at Ham Spray until Ralph's death in 1960. Frances, the last surviving member and diarist of the Bloomsbury Group died, aged 103, in 2004.{{Cite web|url=https://www.theguardian.com/news/2004/feb/09/guardianobituaries.booksobituaries1|title=Obituary: Frances Partridge|last=Nicolson|first=Nigel | authorlink = Nigel Nicolson |date=2004-02-09|website=The Guardian|access-date=2018-01-15}}

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