She'd Rather Be with Me

{{Infobox song

| name = She'd Rather Be with Me

| cover =File:The Turtles – She'd Rather Be with Me.jpg

| alt =

| type = single

| artist = the Turtles

| album = Happy Together

| B-side = The Walking Song

| released = April 1967

| recorded =

| studio =

| genre =

  • Rock{{cite book |chapter= The Turtles|last= Evans|first= Paul|title=The New Rolling Stone Album Guide |year=2004 |publisher=Simon & Schuster |edition=4th |editor1-last=Brackett |editor1-first=Nathan |editor2-last=Hoard |editor2-first=Christian |isbn=0-7432-0169-8 |page = 828}}
  • pop
  • bubblegum{{cite book|title=33 1/3 Revolutions Per Minute - A Critical Trip Through the Rock LP Era, 1955–1999|first=Mike|last=Segretto|date=2022|chapter= 1967|page= 158|publisher=Backbeat|isbn=9781493064601|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=jtNtEAAAQBAJ}}

| length = {{Duration|m=2|s=17}}

| label = White Whale

| writer = Garry Bonner, Alan Gordon

| producer = Joe Wissert

| prev_title = Happy Together

| prev_year = 1967

| next_title = Guide for the Married Man

| next_year = 1967

}}

"She'd Rather Be with Me" is a song written by Garry Bonner and Alan Gordon and released by the Turtles in 1967. The song was the follow-up to "Happy Together".

Lyrics and music

Allmusic critic Stewart Mason described "She'd Rather Be with Me" as a "big, brassy pop song" that was "probably the least ironically cheerful single the Turtles ever did."{{cite web|title=She'd Rather Be with Me|author=Mason, Stewart|publisher=Allmusic|accessdate=2021-03-01|url=https://www.allmusic.com/song/shed-rather-be-with-me-mt0007726864}} Mason describes Howard Kaylan's lead vocal as evoking "unfeigned giddiness" and comments on the "huge production" including a full orchestra and prominent cowbell.

Chart performance

The song was a major international hit, and spent 11 weeks on the Billboard Hot 100 chart, peaking at No. 3,[https://www.billboard.com/artist/the-turtles/chart-history/hsi/ Hot 100 - She'd Rather Be With Me The Turtles Chart History], Billboard.com. Retrieved March 3, 2018. while reaching No. 1 on Record World{{'}}s "100 Top Pops","[http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Record-World/60s/67/RW-1967-06-24.pdf 100 Top Pops]", Record World, June 24, 1967. p. 23. Retrieved March 3, 2018. No. 1 on Canada's "RPM 100","[http://www.bac-lac.gc.ca/eng/discover/films-videos-sound-recordings/rpm/Pages/item.aspx?IdNumber=6182& R.P.M. 100]", RPM Weekly, Volume 7, No. 17, June 24, 1967. Accessed May 19, 2016 No. 1 in South Africa,"[http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Billboard/60s/1967/Billboard%201967-10-07.pdf Billboard Hits of the World]", Billboard, October 7, 1967. p. 68. Accessed May 20, 2016. No. 2 on the Cash Box Top 100,"[http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Cash-Box/60s/1967/CB-1967-07-01.pdf Cash Box Top 100]", Cash Box, July 1, 1967. p. 4. Retrieved March 3, 2018. No. 3 in Denmark,"[http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Billboard/60s/1967/Billboard%201967-09-09.pdf Billboard Hits of the World]", Billboard, September 9, 1967. p. 62. Accessed May 20, 2016. and No. 3 on the Irish Singles Chart.{{cite web |url=http://www.irishcharts.ie/search/placement|title=Song Title search results for 'She'd Rather Be with Me'|publisher=Irishcharts.ie|accessdate=May 21, 2016}} The song also spent 15 weeks on the UK's Record Retailer chart, peaking at No. 4, making it The Turtles' biggest hit in the United Kingdom.[http://www.officialcharts.com/artist/12932/turtles/ Turtles - Full Official Chart History], Official Charts Company. Accessed May 19, 2016 The song was a major hit in many other nations as well.

=Weekly chart=

class="wikitable sortable"
align="left"|Chart (1967)

! style="text-align:center;"|Peak
position

align="left"|Australia (Go-Set)Ed Nimmervoll, "[http://www.poparchives.com.au/gosetcharts/1967/19670802.html GO-SET National Top 40]", August 2, 1967. Accessed May 19, 2016

| style="text-align:center;"|21

align="left"|Australia (Modern Melbourne)"[http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Billboard/60s/1967/Billboard%201967-08-19.pdf Billboard Hits of the World]", Billboard, August 19, 1967. p. 59. Accessed May 20, 2016.

| style="text-align:center;"|4

{{singlechart|Flanders|13|song=She'd Rather Be with Me|artist=The Turtles}}
{{singlechart|Wallonia|18|song=She'd Rather Be with Me|artist=The Turtles}}
{{singlechart|Canadatopsingles|1|artist=The Turtles|song=She'd Rather Be with Me |chartid=10075 }}
align="left"|Denmark (Danmarks Radio)

| style="text-align:center;"|3

align="left"|Israel Forces Broadcasting Network"[https://books.google.com/books?id=JUUEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PT20 Hits of the World]", Billboard, October 21, 1967. p. 54. Retrieved March 3, 2018.

| style="text-align:center;"|≥3

{{singlechart|Ireland2|3|song=She'd Rather Be With Me|accessdate=March 10, 2018}}
align="left"|Netherlands (Parool Top 20)[http://dutchcharts.nl/showitem.asp?interpret=The+Turtles&titel=She%27d+Rather+Be+With+Me&cat=s The Turtles – She'd Rather Be with Me], Dutch Charts. Retrieved May 19, 2016

| style="text-align:center;"|15

align="left"|Netherlands (Veronica Top 40)[https://www.top40.nl/the-turtles/the-turtles-she-d-rather-be-with-me-7371 The Turtles – She'd Rather Be with Me], Media Markt Top 40. Retrieved March 3, 2018.

| style="text-align:center;"|21

align="left"|New Zealand Listener"[http://www.flavourofnz.co.nz/index.php?qpageID=NZ%20listener%20charts&qyear=1967&qmonth=Sep&qweek=01-Sep-1967#n_view_location NZ Listener charts]", Flavour of New Zealand. Accessed May 20, 2016

| style="text-align:center;"|8

align="left"|South Africa (Springbok Radio)

| style="text-align:center;"|1

align="left"|Switzerland (Pop Redaktion)

| style="text-align:center;"|10

align="left"|UK (Record Retailer)

| style="text-align:center;"|4

{{singlechart|Billboardhot100|3|artist=The Turtles}}
align="left"|US Cash Box Top 100

| style="text-align:center;"|2

align="left"|US Record World 100 Top Pops

| style="text-align:center;"|1

align="left"|West Germany (Musikmarkt)[http://norwegiancharts.com/showitem.asp?interpret=The+Turtles&titel=She%27d+Rather+Be+With+Me&cat=s The Turtles – She'd Rather Be with Me], norwegiancharts.com. Accessed May 19, 2016

| style="text-align:center;"|23

=Year-end charts=

class="wikitable sortable"

!Chart (1967)

!Position

Canada Top Singles (RPM)[http://www.bac-lac.gc.ca/eng/discover/films-videos-sound-recordings/rpm/Pages/item.aspx?IdNumber=10126& The RPM 100 Top Singles of 1967], RPM Weekly. p. 5. Volume 8, No. 19, January 6, 1968. Retrieved March 3, 2018.

| style="text-align:center;"|28

US Billboard Hot 100{{cite magazine |url=http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Billboard/60s/1967/Billboard%201967-12-30.pdf |title=Top Records of 1967 (Based on Billboard Charts)|page= 42 |magazine=Billboard|date= December 30, 1967|access-date= March 3, 2018 }}

| style="text-align:center;"|78

align="left"|US Cash Box{{cite web |url=http://www.americanradiohistory.com/Archive-Cash-Box/60s/1967/CB-1967-12-23.pdf |page= 16|title=Top 100 Chart Hits of 1967 |work=Cash Box|date= December 23, 1967 |access-date= March 30, 2018}}

| style="text-align:center;"|24

References