Therese Shechter
{{Short description|Writer and filmmaker}}
{{Infobox person
| name = Therese Shechter
| image =
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| other_names =
| known_for = Feminist Documentary and Activism
| education = Ontario College of Art and Design
Columbia College Chicago
SUNY Empire State College
| occupation = Filmmaker, writer and artist
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| website = https://trixiefilms.com
}}
Therese Shechter is a filmmaker, writer and artist best known for the documentary films My So-Called Selfish Life,{{Cite web |title=My So-Called Selfish Life |url=https://myselfishlife.com/ |access-date=2023-08-23 |website=My So-Called Selfish Life |language=en-US}} (2022), How to Lose Your Virginity (Women Make Movies, 2013), I Was A Teenage Feminist (Women Make Movies 2005), How I Learned to Speak Turkish (2006) and the short "#SlutWalkNYC" (2013).{{cite web
| title =Therese Shechter
| url =http://www.wmm.com/filmcatalog/makers/fm657.shtml
| date = August 2014
| access-date = 15 March 2015}} She is also the creator of "The V-Card Diaries," an online collection of over 300 stories of "sexual debuts and deferrals" submitted by readers. In 2013, the collection was featured in The Kinsey Institute's Juried Art Show.{{cite web
| title =The V-Card Diaries: Users Can Share Their Virginity Stories In This Interactive Exhibit
| website =HuffPost
| url =http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/09/the-v-card-diaries-virginity-stories-kinsey-exhibit_n_3245961.html?
| date = May 2013
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
Shechter's work challenges gender stereotypes, and how they affect women's lives and identity. her most recent documentary, My So-Called Selfish Life, is about the childfree movement, and she has written about the film's issues for Self,{{cite web |last1=Shechter |first1=Therese |title=Menopause Was the Best Thing to Ever Happen to Me |url=https://www.self.com/story/menopause-menstruation |website=Self |date=13 March 2019 |access-date=July 10, 2019}} Real Simple,{{cite web |last1=Shechter |first1=Therese |title=Yes, I'm Perfectly Happy Without Kids |url=https://www.realsimple.com/work-life/family/relationships/happy-without-kids |website=Real Simple |access-date=July 10, 2019}} Topic,{{cite web |last1=Shechter |first1=Therese |title=A Brief History of Bullying Women Into Having Babies |url=https://www.topic.com/a-brief-history-of-bullying-women-to-have-babies |website=Topic |access-date=July 10, 2019}} and other publications. She is also an advocate for comprehensive sex education and media criticism to combat misinformation about sex for teens and young people.{{cite web |date=May 2012 |title=Let's (Not) Talk About Sex: Meet The Filmmaker Who's Exploring Modern Virginity |url=https://www.forbes.com/sites/jmaureenhenderson/2012/05/01/lets-not-talk-about-sex-meet-the-filmmaker-whos-exploring-modern-virginity/ |access-date=15 March 2015 |website=Forbes}} Her production company, Trixie Films, is based in Brooklyn.
Personal life and previous work
Shechter studied at the Ontario College of Art and Design (OCAD) in Toronto. She worked as an Art Director at the Toronto Star and then as Design Director for The Financial Times of Canada, edited by John Edward Macfarlane. Therese moved to Chicago to work at the Chicago Tribune, where she worked for nine years, rising to the position of Associate Graphics and Design Editor. She has won numerous awards from Society for News Design, the New York and Toronto Art Director's Clubs, and a Peter Lisagor award from the Chicago Headline Club. She also won big on the Canadian game show Split Second.{{cite web
| title =Interview: Therese Shechter, Documentary Filmmaker : On the Cutting Edge of Social Issues
| url =http://nocountryforyoungwomen.com/2010/06/therese-documentary-filmmaker-on-the-cutting-edge-of-social-issues/
| date = 2011
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
While at the Chicago Tribune, she attended Columbia College in Chicago, studying film and video. Shechter left Chicago for New York City in order to pursue her interest in film and work for Robert De Niro's company Tribeca Productions as assistant to Jane Rosenthal. After leaving Tribeca Productions, Therese volunteered at the Sundance Film Festival, which she cites as having changed her view of the documentary genre and filmmaking in general.{{cite web
| title =Interview: Therese Shechter, filmmaker
| url =http://www.herfilmproject.com/blog/interview-therese-shechter-filmmaker
| date = 26 August 2013
| access-date = 15 March 2015}} When Shechter returned from Sundance, she enrolled in a documentary workshop with filmmaker Macky Alston at Union Theological Seminary. She worked as a researcher on his film Questioning Faith, and Alston continued to mentor Shechter as she filmed her first feature I Was A Teenage Feminist (2005).{{cite web
| title =NKU to Host Free Screening of Award-WinningDocumentary 'I Was a Teenage Feminist' October 10
| url =http://local.cincinnati.com/share/story/118381
| date = 19 September 2007
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}
Through her production company, Trixie Films, she continues to explore feminist issues as they pertain to reproductive justice, sexuality, and gender roles. Shechter frequently lectures on the college circuit, screening her films for audiences across the U.S, Canada,{{Cite web |title=Therese Shechter - Speaker |url=https://trixiefilms.com/speaking |access-date=2023-08-23 |website=Trixie Films {{!}} Therese Shechter |language=en-US}} and internationally.{{Cite web |title=How to Watch |url=https://myselfishlife.com/upcoming-events |access-date=2023-11-18 |website=My So-Called Selfish Life |language=en-US}} She has participated as a panelist at the American Public Health Association,{{Cite journal |last1=Schiavo |first1=Renata |last2=Lilo |first2=Emily |date=2022-11-06 |title=Apha Public Health Film Festival Kickoff Opening Session: The War on Women: Reproductive Freedom, Abortion, and Equity |url=https://apha.confex.com/apha/2022/meetingapp.cgi/Session/65455 |publisher=APHA}} The Guttmacher Institute, and Harvard's Rethinking Virginity Conference. Her work has been covered by publications such as The Guardian,{{Cite news |last=Thorpe |first=Vanessa |date=2022-04-30 |title=The parent trap: why is it still seen as selfish to opt out of being a mother? |language=en-GB |work=The Observer |url=https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/apr/30/the-parent-trap-why-is-it-still-seen-as-selfish-to-opt-out-of-being-a-mother |access-date=2023-08-23 |issn=0029-7712}} The Chicago Tribune,{{Cite web |date=2021-11-11 |title='My So-Called Selfish Life' about the world of going childless |url=https://www.chicagotribune.com/entertainment/ct-ent-my-so-called-selfish-life-tt-1111-20211112-vhofvfatebe5bbri2jkkoxa5oy-story.html |access-date=2023-08-23 |website=Chicago Tribune}} and Dua Lipa's newsletter Service 95,{{Cite web |last=Samantha |date=2022-06-06 |title=My So-Called Selfish Life: The New Documentary Celebrating Women Who Choose To Be Child-Free |url=https://www.service95.com/my-so-called-selfish-life-the-new-documentary-celebrating-women-who-choose-to-be-child-free/ |access-date=2023-08-23 |website=Service95 |language=en}} and she has offered expert commentary for Literary Hub,{{Cite web |date=2022-07-29 |title=The Childfree Effigy: On Network's Diana and the Tropes That Betray Women |url=https://lithub.com/the-childfree-effigy-on-networks-diana-and-the-tropes-that-betray-women/ |access-date=2023-08-23 |website=Literary Hub |language=en-US}} The Globe and Mail,{{Cite news |date=2023-03-25 |title=In uncertain times, more parents are choosing to have only one child |language=en-CA |work=The Globe and Mail |url=https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-one-and-done-parenting-canada/ |access-date=2023-08-23}} and the Tampa Bay Times{{Cite web |title=Amid abortion battle, they chose permanent birth control. Here's why. |url=https://www.tampabay.com/news/health/2022/07/12/amid-reproductive-rights-battle-they-chose-to-get-sterilized-heres-why/ |access-date=2023-08-23 |website=Tampa Bay Times |language=en}}{{cite web
|title = Rethinking Virginity: Panels
|url = http://rethinkingvirginity.tumblr.com/panels
|access-date = 16 March 2015
|url-status = dead
|archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20150402190133/http://rethinkingvirginity.tumblr.com/panels
|archive-date = 2 April 2015
| title =DocuMental: How To Lose Your Virginity
| url =http://fusion.net/story/4777/documental-how-to-lose-your-virginity/
| date =7 February 2014
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}
Feature films
=My So-Called Selfish Life (2022)=
In 2016, Shechter began her new documentary film, My So-Called Selfish Life{{cite web |last1=Kramer Bussel |first1=Rachel |title=Rejecting the Mommy Mandate |url=https://www.salon.com/2017/10/14/rejecting-the-mommy-mandate-our-culture-made-motherhood-feel-so-inevitable/ |work=Salon |date=14 October 2017 |access-date=July 10, 2019}} which premiered at the Woodstock Film Festival in 2021.{{Cite web |last=Ziemer |first=Tracy |date=September 30, 2021 |title="4 can't-miss movies at the Woodstock Film Festival this year" |url=https://www.timesunion.com/hudsonvalley/culture/article/4-cant-miss-movies-at-2021-Woodstock-Film-festival-16497120.php |website=Albany Times-Union}} The film explores the concept of being "childfree by choice" by documenting the lives of women and men who are "choosing not to have kids in a culture where motherhood feels mandatory."{{cite web |last1=Bauter |first1=Danielle |title=Therese Shechter and Glynnis MacNicol on Being Child-Free by Choice and Changing the Conversation on Women's Lives |url=https://msmagazine.com/2018/08/12/ms-qa-therese-shechter-glynnis-macnicol-child-free-choice-changing-conversation-womens-lives/ |website=Ms. |date=12 August 2018 |publisher=Ms. Magazine |access-date=July 10, 2019}} Subjects of the film include poet and biographer Molly Peacock, author of Paradise, Piece by Piece,{{cite book |last1=Peacock |first1=Molly |title=Paradise, Piece by Piece |url=https://archive.org/details/paradisepiecebyp00peac |url-access=registration |date=May 4, 1998 |publisher=Riverhead |isbn=1573220973 }} Israeli Sociologist Dr. Orna Donath, multi-media artist and rapper Shanthony Exum, and journalist Anne Kingston, who wrote about maternal regret for Maclean's Magazine.{{cite web |last1=Kingston |first1=Anne |title=I Regret Having Children |url=https://www.macleans.ca/regretful-mothers |website=Macleans |publisher=Maclean's Magazine |access-date=July 10, 2019}} The official Facebook page for the film, which Shechter created and manages, has over 11,000 followers.{{Cite web |title=My So-Called Selfish Life |url=https://www.facebook.com/mysocalledselfishlife |access-date=2022-07-05 |website=www.facebook.com |language=en}} The film was released in 2022 on demand worldwide.
=How to Lose Your Virginity (2013)=
In the documentary film, How to Lose Your Virginity, Shechter explores how the concept of virginity affects the lives of men and women through interviews and personal narrative. The film details the historical, political and religious construction of virginity as well as its place in modern pop culture. "How to Lose Your Virginity" had its U.S. premiere at DOC NYC in Fall 2013 and its U.S. Broadcast premiere on Fusion in February 2014.{{cite web
| title =HOW TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY
| url =http://www.docnyc.net/film/how-to-lose-your-virginity/#.VQvx1NxhdD5
| date =2013
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =How To Lose Your Virginity" Documentary Premieres On Fusion February 8
| url =http://bust.com/how-to-lose-your-virginity-documentary-premieres-on-fusion-february-8.html
| date =6 February 2014
| access-date = 16 March 2015}} International screenings and film festivals have taken place in Tel Aviv, Haifa, Croatia, Turkey, Chile, Canada, the Czech Republic and Korea.{{cite web
| title =Losing My Virginity: Of Romance and Property Rights
| url =http://lilith.org/print/?pid=7057
| date =2011
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =HOW TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY
| url =http://zagrebdox.net/en/2014/program/sluzbeni_program/teen_dox/how_to_lose_your_virginity
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =Filmmor Festival on Wheels hits the road
| url =http://www.hurriyetdailynews.com/filmmor-festival-on-wheels-hits-the-road.aspx?pageID=517&nID=63539&NewsCatID=381
| date =14 March 2014
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =How To Lose Your Virginity
| url =http://www.womensfilmfestival.com/how-to-lose-your-virginity/
| date =27 September 2013
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =How to Lose Your Virginity
| url =http://www.dokument-festival.com/database/movie/12829%7CHow-to-Lose-Your-Virginity
| date =2013
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =How to Lose Your Virginity
| url =http://fiwom.org/fiwom/bbs/board.php?bo_table=movie_up&wr_id=225&sca=%C7%C7%BF%F2%C1%DC%C0%CE&sfl=wr_8&stx=7
| date =2013
| access-date = 16 March 2015}}
=I Was A Teenage Feminist (2005)=
Shechter's first feature-length film I Was A Teenage Feminist examines the discomfort a growing number of young people feel in identifying themselves as feminists. She uses her own personal journey as the driving force of the film while she interviews past and present feminist icons as well as women and men struggling for and against the concept of feminism. The film won Best Film at the Jewish Women's Film Festival and Special Mention at the Karachi International Film Festival.{{cite web
| title =I Was a Teenage Feminist
| url =http://www.wmm.com/filmcatalog/pages/c695.shtml
| date = 2005
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
Short films
=#SlutWalkNYC (2013)=
In "#SlutWalkNYC", Shechter documents the controversial global, grassroots anti-rape movement on the day it filled the streets of New York City. This short debuted at the 2013 Hamptons International Film Festival, and screened at Barnard College in 2013 and the Athena Film Festival in 2014.{{cite web
| title =NYWIFT at the 2013 Hamptons International Film Festival Women Calling The Shots
| url =http://www.nywift.org/article.aspx?id=4756
| date = 2013
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =#slutwalknyc
| url =http://athenafilmfestival.com/film/slutwalknyc/
| date = 2014
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
=The End (2010)=
The End is a silent, 16mm and hand-cut narrative short film about a woman attempting to end a relationship with a persistent suitor. The full film is available on Vimeo via Trixie Films.{{cite AV media
| people = Shechter, Therese (Director)
| date = 2010
| title = The End (A Love Story)
| medium = short film
| url = https://vimeo.com/108851696
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
=How I Learned to Speak Turkish (2006)=
Shechter filmed "How I Learned to Speak Turkish" as a chronicle of her own growing obsession with Turkish language and culture as she navigates new relationships with Turkish men. The documentary examines cultural clichés, the male gaze and the idea of the exotic other. The film won the Short Documentary Jury Prize at the Atlanta Film Festival in 2006.{{cite web
|title = MEET ATLANTA'S WINNERS
|url = http://www.filmthreat.com/festivals/1797/
|date = 21 June 2005
|access-date = 15 March 2015
|url-status = dead
|archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20130521015759/http://www.filmthreat.com/festivals/1797/
|archive-date = 21 May 2013
}}
=Womanly Perfection (2003)=
Shechter's animated short film examines "the nature of beauty and womanhood through the lens of fashion magazines." The full film was released on Vimeo via Trixie Films.{{cite AV media
| people = Shechter, Therese (Director)
| date = 2003
| title = Womanly Perfection
| medium = short film
| url = https://vimeo.com/68796763
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
Other work
="The V-Card Diaries"=
An ongoing project, "The V-Card Diaries" is a crowd-sourced collection of sexual experiences curated on the Internet. The interactive story-sharing site gives readers a chance to anonymously submit personal narratives. The submissions detail positive sexual encounters as well as many instances of slut-shaming, older virginity and sexual assault. "The V-Card Diaries" was developed over the course of two POV Hackathons - PBS-sponsored events where web developers are paired with artists and activists for multimedia creation. The project was featured in The Kinsey Institute's Juried Art Show (2013) as their first interactive installation.{{cite web
| title =Strangers Talk about Losing Their Virginity & Keeping It
| url =http://vitaminw.co/culture-society/virgins-no-more-v-card-diaries-safe-space-tell
| date = 14 May 2013
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =The V-Card Diaries
| url =http://virginitymovie.herokuapp.com
| date = 2013
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
=Writing=
Shechter has written articles for a variety of publications, most notably: Chicago Tribune,{{Cite web |date=2002-01-30 |title=Real women belong on film |url=https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-2002-01-30-0201300029-story.html |access-date=2023-08-30 |website=Chicago Tribune}} Women's Media Center,{{Cite web |last1=July 28 |last2=Shechter |first2=2023 {{!}} Therese |title=International Childfree Day Celebrates the Childfree Choice - Women's Media Center |url=https://womensmediacenter.com/news-features/international-childfree-day-celebrates-the-childfree-choice |access-date=2023-08-30 |website=womensmediacenter.com |language=en}} Nerve, Talking Points Memo, Women & Hollywood, Adios Barbie, Bitch Magazine, Girl With Pen, Film Independent Magazine.{{cite web
| title =Sexless in the City: The Truth About Adult Virgins
| url =http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/sexless-in-the-city-the-truth-about-adult-virgins
| date = 7 February 2014
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =Virginity Merchants Profit From Defining Women By Their Vaginas
| url =http://talkingpointsmemo.com/cafe/virginity-merchants-profit-from-defining-women-by-their-vaginas
| date = 27 November 2013
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =Cross-Post: Seven things Glee gets wrong about The First Time by Therese Shechter
| url =http://blogs.indiewire.com/womenandhollywood/cross-post-seven-things-glee-gets-wrong-about-the-first-time-by-therese-schecter
| date = 15 November 2011
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =Boys and Sex: Why Are They Waiting Longer For Their First Time?
| url =http://www.adiosbarbie.com/2012/04/boys-and-sex-why-are-they-waiting-longer-for-their-first-time/
| date = 24 April 2012
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =Rave On: Filmmaker Therese Shechter on Woman: An Intimate Geography
| url =http://bitchmagazine.org/post/rave-on-filmmaker-therese-shechter-on-woman-an-intimate-geography-0
| date = 6 September 2009
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =GUEST POST: Thirtysomething Sexist or Something?
| url =http://thesocietypages.org/girlwpen/2009/08/27/guest-post-thirtysomething-sexist-or-something/
| date = 27 August 2009
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}{{cite web
| title =How Funders are Like Crushes and Other Sundance Morsels
| url =http://independent-magazine.org/2010/02/sundance-563/
| date = 3 February 2010
| access-date = 15 March 2015}}
For many years, she wrote a companion blog to her feature film How to Lose Your Virginity. The blog covered virginity-related issues in the news, purity culture, uses of the concept in pop culture and media, and published stories submitted via "The V-Card Diaries."
References
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External links
- {{IMDb name | nm3414272 }}
- [http://trixiefilms.com Official Website]
- [http://vcarddiaries.com The V-Card Diaries]
- [https://therese-shechter.squarespace.com/how-i-learned-to-speak-turkish/ How I Learned to Speak Turkish]
- [https://therese-shechter.squarespace.com/slutwalk/ #SlutWalkNYC]
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Category:Film directors from New York City
Category:OCAD University alumni
Category:Columbia College Chicago alumni
Category:American feminist writers
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