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'''<u>Interpersonal Choosing and Attractiveness</u>'''
= <u>'''Choosing Friends and Physical Attractiveness'''</u> =
Much research has been dedicated to the different aspects regarding physical attractiveness people look at when choosing friends. Studies have shown that a person's level of attractiveness is significantly associated with other's expectations of kindness, intelligence, ability to get along with, and other factors that are attractive in a friendship{{Cite journal|last=Clifford|first=Margaret|last2=Walster|first2=Eilene|date=1973|title=Research note: The effect of physical attractiveness on teacher expectations|url=|journal=Journal of Educational Sociology|edition=|volume=46(2)|page=248-258|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}}. When finding friends, the more attractive they are, the more people see them as likable and approachable{{Cite journal|last=Feingold|first=Alan|date=1990|title=Gender differences in effects of physical attractiveness on romantic attraction: A comparison across five research paradigm|url=|journal=Journal of Personality and Social Psychology|volume=59(5)|page=981-993|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}}. Physical attractiveness, along with other lesser variables, is found to be the most important factor when determining good friendship qualities.{{Cite journal|last=Aron|first=Arthur|date=1989|title=Experiences of falling in love|url=|journal=Journal of Social and Personal Relationships|volume=6(3)|pages=243-257|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}} Studies have also found that the more similarities a friendship has, whether romantic or platonic, in terms of physical attractiveness, plays a role in how friendships are chosen{{Cite journal|last=Feingold|first=Alan|date=1988|title=Matching for attractiveness in romantic partners and same-sex friends: A meta-analysis and theoretical critique|url=|journal=Psychological Bulletin|volume=104(2)|pages=226-235|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}}.In terms of platonic friendships, men are much pickier at choosing friends based on attractiveness due to the matching hypothesis; matching for attractiveness among male dyads was homogenous, but not among women. For pairs of friends, there were variations among correlations were found but were explained by gender of dyad: the matching effect was obtained only with men.
<u>'''Choosing a Partner and Attractivess: Long-term and Short-Term Correlations'''</u>
== Long-Term: ==
Much research regarding the length of relationships pays special attention to the variable of physical attractiveness. Initial attraction is important, but in order to remain satisfied in a long-term marriage or consummate relationship, physical attraction is key{{Cite journal|last=Meltzer|first=Andrea, et al.|date=2014|title=Sex differences in the implications of partner physical attractiveness for the trajectory of marital satisfaction|url=|journal=Journal of Personality and Social Psychology|volume=106(33)|pages=418-428|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}}. Similar to friendships, the self-ratings of attractiveness are similar among couples. Attractiveness matters when choosing a potentially long-term partner; the overwhelming majority of couples choose a partner who has the same, or nearly the same, self-rating of attractiveness. In essence, those who have a similar level of attractiveness have more probability of staying together for a long-term relationship. If a couple does not match on the self-rated attractiveness, then they more likely than not matched on the objective scale of attractiveness. Men who are interested in a long-term partner tend to give priority to the attractiveness to his partner's face, as opposed to the body{{Cite journal|last=Confer|first=Jaime|date=2010|title=More than just a pretty face: Men's priority shifts toward bodily attractiveness in short-term versus long-term mating contexts|url=|journal=Evolution and Human Behavior|volume=31(5)|pages=348-353|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}}. Direct tests indicated that partner physical attractiveness played a larger role in predicting the men’s satisfaction than predicting women’s satisfaction.
== Short-Term: ==
An overwhelming amount of studies have shown that physical attractiveness, especially initial attraction, is the most important factor when discussing short-term relationships. Gender seems to create the largest deciding factor on whether or not a relationship will be short-term or long-term. Evolutionary theories show that men place physical attractiveness higher than women do. Men who are evaluating a potential short-term partner give higher priority to information gained from her body, relative to her face, than men evaluating a potential long-term partner. Similarly, men, but not women, have a condition-dependent proclivity to prioritize bodily cues in short-term mating contexts. However, the level of attractiveness makes a large difference. Attractiveness ratings--particularly bodily attractiveness ratings -- are significantly related to a person's mating behavior{{Cite journal|last=Perilloux|first=Carin|date=2013|title=Women’s physical attractiveness and short-term mating strategies|url=|journal=Personality and Individual Differences|volume=54(4)|pages=490-495|doi=|pmid=|access-date=}} .For women, those who perceive themselves as "more attractive than average" and how are objectively rate as more attracted than average are more likely to look for short-term relationships.
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