X-Card

File:X-Card by John Stavropoulos.pdf

The X-Card is an auxiliary ruleset added to roleplaying or simulation games that allows all players, including the gamemaster, to remove content from the game if it has made a player uncomfortable. Players indicate that they want to edit out that content by tapping or holding up the X-Card. TTRPG Safety Toolkit states "the group can change, rewind, or skip the content" after the X-Card is used.{{Cite book |last1=Shaw |first1=Kienna |url=https://drive.google.com/file/d/1M3LpDnVOc2G5UV03mWsqSU2QkDvHcmWX |title=TTRPG Safety Toolkit (v.2.5) |last2=Bryant-Monk |first2=Lauren |date=August 12, 2021 |publisher=Smooching Knife |access-date=April 5, 2023 |archive-date=August 8, 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240808042128/https://drive.google.com/file/d/1M3LpDnVOc2G5UV03mWsqSU2QkDvHcmWX/edit |url-status=live }} Stavropoulos describes the physical X-Card as simply an X drawn on an index card by the player facilitating the introduction of this tool in a game.{{Cite web |last=Stavropoulos |first=John |date=2013 |title=X-Card: Safety Tools for Simulations and Role-Playing Games |url=https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SB0jsx34bWHZWbnNIVVuMjhDkrdFGo1_hSC2BWPlI3A/edit?usp=embed_facebook |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Google Docs |language=en |type=Self-published |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405032651/https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SB0jsx34bWHZWbnNIVVuMjhDkrdFGo1_hSC2BWPlI3A/edit?usp=embed_facebook |url-status=live }} Consent in Gaming comments that a player may or may not wish to elaborate on "problem content" so boundaries can be updated after a game session where the X-Card is used.{{Cite book |last1=Reynolds |first1=Sean K. |url=https://www.montecookgames.com/store/product/consent-in-gaming/ |title=Consent in Gaming |last2=Germain |first2=Shanna |publisher=Monte Cook Games |year=2019 |pages=6 |access-date=2023-04-05 |archive-date=2024-08-08 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240808042128/https://www.montecookgames.com/store/product/consent-in-gaming/ |url-status=live }} It is advised that the groups respect what the player is "willing to discuss and what they might simply want to leave in the past".

Stavropoulos highlighted that the X-Card gives players an "exit strategy" during an uncomfortable moment of gameplay.{{rp||page=7}} On why to use this safety tool, he stated that:

The X-Card creates a specific mood at the table. It says "We're here together. If you need to stop, we'll stop. The people playing are more important than the game we are playing." [...] Just having the X-Card present can increase the group's heightened awareness of everyone's risks and responsibilities. Even if the X-Card is never used, it still is a potent tool for getting everyone to think about each other first, and the game second.{{rp||page=7}}

The X-Card was invented by John Stavropoulos in 2013 who originally developed it for games with strangers, such as convention-based play.{{Cite journal |last=White |first=William J. |date=2020-09-21 |title=The Discourse of Player Safety in the Forge Diaspora, 2003-2013 |url=https://repository.kulib.kyoto-u.ac.jp/dspace/handle/2433/254640 |journal=Japanese Journal of Analog Role-Playing Game Studies |volume=1 |pages=35–47 |doi=10.14989/jarps_1_35 |s2cid=229018932 |issn=2434-9682 |access-date=2023-04-05 |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405061437/https://repository.kulib.kyoto-u.ac.jp/dspace/handle/2433/254640 |url-status=live }} He released it under a Creative Commons Share Alike license{{efn|Specifically, the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0) License.}} which enables other games to include it in instructional materials.{{Cite web |last=Hall |first=Charlie |date=2018-07-31 |title=How to work through your backlog of tabletop RPGs |url=https://www.polygon.com/2018/7/31/17623100/tabletop-rpgs-backlog-getting-started-one-shot-podcast |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Polygon |language=en-US |quote=One commonly used trick is called the X-Card, and it was first standardized by John Stavropoulos. [...] Many games, including the upcoming Star Crossed, incorporate this tool under its Creative Commons license. |archive-date=2023-03-26 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230326213153/https://www.polygon.com/2018/7/31/17623100/tabletop-rpgs-backlog-getting-started-one-shot-podcast |url-status=live }} The X-Card was one of several safety tools included in Consent in Gaming (2019) published by Monte Cook Games. It was also included in the TTRPG Safety Toolkit which won the 2020 ENNIE Award for "Best Free Game / Product".{{Cite web |last=Girdwood |first=Andrew |date=2020-08-01 |title=The ENnies 2020 winners have been announced, and a doom metal art RPG won Best Product of the Year |url=https://www.geeknative.com/79540/the-ennies-2020-winners-have-been-announced-and-a-doom-metal-art-rpg-won-best-product-of-the-year/ |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Geek Native |language=en-GB |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405171533/https://www.geeknative.com/79540/the-ennies-2020-winners-have-been-announced-and-a-doom-metal-art-rpg-won-best-product-of-the-year/ |url-status=live }}{{Cite web |title=2020 Nominees and Winners – ENNIE Awards |url=https://ennie-awards.com/portfolio-item/2020-nominees-and-winners/ |access-date=2023-04-05 |language=en-US |archive-date=2023-03-07 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230307183115/https://ennie-awards.com/portfolio-item/2020-nominees-and-winners/ |url-status=live }} In 2021, Stavropoulos worked on the writing team for Van Richten's Guide to Ravenloft, the first official Dungeons & Dragons book to include the X-Card.{{Cite web |last=Hall |first=Charlie |date=2021-05-12 |title=Van Richten's Guide to Ravenloft is the biggest, best D&D book of this generation |url=https://www.polygon.com/22430494/dungeons-dragons-van-richtens-guide-to-ravenloft-review |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Polygon |language=en-US |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405032651/https://www.polygon.com/22430494/dungeons-dragons-van-richtens-guide-to-ravenloft-review |url-status=live }} Also in 2021, Evil Hat Productions created a free RPG Safety Toolkit for Roll20 that includes the X-Card.{{Cite web |title=RPG Safety Tools - Play on the Roll20 Virtual Tabletop |url=https://roll20.net/ |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Roll20 |language=en |archive-date=2023-07-08 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230708223836/https://roll20.net/ |url-status=live }} Soon after, Roll20 added X-Card functionality to its main user interface.{{Cite web |last=Jarvis |first=Matt |date=2021-06-30 |title=Roll20 adds official safety tools to its online RPG sessions |url=https://www.dicebreaker.com/companies/roll20/news/roll20-rpg-safety-tools-official-support |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Dicebreaker |language=en |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405034236/https://www.dicebreaker.com/companies/roll20/news/roll20-rpg-safety-tools-official-support |url-status=live }} Evil Hat stated that "a content warning and the use of Safety Tools (like the X card, Script Change, or Lines & Veils) creates an atmosphere of trust and respect. You're setting the boundaries".{{Cite web |date=January 31, 2020 |title=How Tabletop RPGs Are Being Reclaimed From Bigots and Jerks |url=https://www.vice.com/en/article/how-tabletop-rpgs-are-being-reclaimed-from-bigots-and-jerks/ |access-date=2021-04-21 |website=Vice |language=en |archive-date=2021-04-21 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210421180330/https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3mw5b/how-tabletop-rpgs-are-being-reclaimed-from-bigots-and-jerks |url-status=live }}

The X-Card is known for its simplicity of use and for helping players explore dark themes with the security of an agreed-upon way to stop.{{Cite web |last=Gailloreto |first=Coleman |date=2021-05-18 |title=Three Tabletop RPG Safety Tools (And Why They're Important) |url=https://screenrant.com/tabletop-rpg-safety-tools-important-dungeons-dragons-rules/ |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=ScreenRant |language=en |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405032651/https://screenrant.com/tabletop-rpg-safety-tools-important-dungeons-dragons-rules/ |url-status=live }}{{Cite web |last=Nelson |first=Samantha |date=2019-02-21 |title=A beginner's guide to playing Dungeons and Dragons |url=https://www.polygon.com/deals/21294556/dnd-how-to-play-dungeons-dragons-5e-guide-spells-dice-character-sheets-dm |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Polygon |language=en-US |archive-date=2020-12-15 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201215060801/https://www.polygon.com/deals/21294556/dnd-how-to-play-dungeons-dragons-5e-guide-spells-dice-character-sheets-dm |url-status=live }} CBC Life called it "one of the most commonly-used tools".{{Cite web |last=Yūe |first=Sebastian |date=May 7, 2020 |title=Just roll with it: How to move your in-person tabletop game online |url=https://www.cbc.ca/life/culture/just-roll-with-it-how-to-move-your-in-person-tabletop-game-online-1.5560352 |access-date=April 5, 2023 |website=CBC Life |archive-date=April 5, 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405050156/https://www.cbc.ca/life/culture/just-roll-with-it-how-to-move-your-in-person-tabletop-game-online-1.5560352 |url-status=live }} Rascal noted it was "one of the most ubiquitous safety tools out there".{{Cite web |last=Codega |first=Lin |date=August 7, 2024 |title=The X-Card was created because Dave didn’t like the vibe |url=https://www.rascal.news/how-the-x-card-was-created-john-stavropoulos-james-mendez-hodes-interview/ |access-date=August 8, 2024 |website=Rascal News |language=en |archive-date=August 8, 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240808042128/https://www.rascal.news/how-the-x-card-was-created-john-stavropoulos-james-mendez-hodes-interview/ |url-status=live }} Mollie Russell of Wargamer compared the X-Card to consent tools in the BDSM community.{{Cite web |title=The BDSM community can teach DnD players a lot about consent |url=https://www.wargamer.com/dnd/bdsm-community-consent-tools |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=Wargamer |language=en |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405032650/https://www.wargamer.com/dnd/bdsm-community-consent-tools |url-status=live }} The X-Card is also popular with LGBT players.{{Cite web |last=Tunningley |first=Cole |title=Exploring queer identity through Dungeons & Dragons |url=https://www.lansingcitypulse.com/stories/exploring-queer-identity-through-dungeons-dragons,17515 |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=City Pulse |language=en |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405032651/https://www.lansingcitypulse.com/stories/exploring-queer-identity-through-dungeons-dragons,17515 |url-status=live }}

Maddie Cullen of Dicebreaker suggested the X-Card as the safety tool for when "something unexpected might still come up" even after determining game boundaries.{{Cite web |date=July 12, 2022 |title=How to run a Session 0 for D&D and other RPGs |url=https://www.dicebreaker.com/categories/roleplaying-game/how-to/how-to-run-session-0-dnd-rpg |access-date=July 13, 2022 |website=Dicebreaker |language=en |archive-date=July 12, 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220712125018/https://www.dicebreaker.com/categories/roleplaying-game/how-to/how-to-run-session-0-dnd-rpg |url-status=live }} Cullen stated that "this kind of thing takes minutes to discuss and makes sure everyone enjoys themselves". Rory Bristol of GeekDad wrote, "the X-Card helps a DM consider the needs of their group with a concise and simple tool. [...] Do what's best for your table, and if the X-Card can help even a little, put it to use, and everyone wins".{{Cite web |last=Bristol |first=Rory |date=2016-10-03 |title=D&D For Young DMs and Players: The X-Card |url=https://geekdad.com/2016/10/dd-for-young-dms-x-card/ |access-date=2023-04-05 |website=GeekDad |language=en-US |archive-date=2023-04-05 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230405173043/https://geekdad.com/2016/10/dd-for-young-dms-x-card/ |url-status=live }}

James D'Amato, in the book The Ultimate Micro-RPG Book (2020), commented that "if a player uses the X-Card, they are not being picky or difficult – they are playing by the rules. With this tool, there is an established protocol to be considerate of each other's comfort".{{Cite book |last=D'Amato |first=James |url=https://www.worldcat.org/oclc/1151490303 |title=The Ultimate Micro-RPG Book: 40 Fast, Easy, and Fun Tabletop Games |date=2020 |publisher=Simon and Schuster |isbn=978-1-5072-1286-8 |edition=First |location=New York |pages=13–18 |oclc=1151490303 |access-date=2023-04-05 |archive-date=2024-08-08 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240808042223/https://search.worldcat.org/title/1151490303 |url-status=live }} D'Amato stated the pros of this safety tool are that it "streamlines communication" and is "easy to learn". However, as cons, D'Amato viewed the X-Card as a "reactive, not preventive" tool and that it "still requires someone to communicate in a difficult moment". Academics Matthew Guzdial et al also highlighted the limitations of safety tools such as the X-Card and others. They commented that the X-Card is "an example of changing the space of play during the game itself [...]. If players are uncomfortable or would like to shift the way that the story is going during play, they can tap or raise the X-Card and all players drop the current storytelling thread".{{Cite book |last1=Guzdial |first1=Matthew |last2=Acharya |first2=Devi |last3=Kreminski |first3=Max |last4=Cook |first4=Michael |last5=Eladhari |first5=Mirjam |last6=Liapis |first6=Antonios |last7=Sullivan |first7=Anne |title=International Conference on the Foundations of Digital Games |chapter=Tabletop Roleplaying Games as Procedural Content Generators |date=2020-09-17 |chapter-url=https://doi.org/10.1145/3402942.3409605 |series=FDG '20 |location=New York, NY, USA |publisher=Association for Computing Machinery |pages=1–9 |doi=10.1145/3402942.3409605 |isbn=978-1-4503-8807-8 |s2cid=220496261 |access-date=2023-04-05 |archive-date=2024-08-08 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240808042233/https://dl.acm.org/doi/10.1145/3402942.3409605 |url-status=live }}

William J. White, a professor at Penn State Altoona, in a historical retrospect examined the early online discourse in The Forge diaspora on the X-Card including a discussion prompted by game designer Vincent Baker in 2013. White highlighted that Stavropoulos was an event organizer who developed the tool to help ensure a "positive experience in convention-based play" with strangers, however, many online commentators assumed "play takes place within stable, pre-existing groups" which is "an important distinction in understanding the issue". Some felt the X-Card "more or less obviously implies curtailing the range of normal activity at the table" and the tool was subject to ridicule while others "pointed to a legitimate need for safety mechanisms, challenging the critics on the jurisdictional grounds that they are misinterpreting the intent of the X-Card". In 2013, Baker felt that X-Card was an "unnecessary or harmful" game hack counter to the intentions of the game designer as "competent game designers" would be deliberate about including or excluding "emotional safety mechanisms". This position was challenged, including by Stavropoulos himself, and the ensuing online discussion outlined positive experiences using the X-Card. Baker has since "completely reversed" his position and stated "my take now is that stand-alone safety tools that players can bring with them from game to game are valuable and important".

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