acceptance

The term acceptance is a noun with various meanings.{{cite web |date=21 December 2023 |title=Acceptance |url=https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/acceptance |work=merriam-webster.com}}

{{See also|Self-acceptance}}

Self-acceptance is described as the state of be satisfied with one's current self, or the ongoing process of striving to be satisfied with one's current self. It is an agreement with oneself to appreciate, validate, and support the self as it is, despite deficiencies and negative past behavior.

Some have trouble accepting themselves because of guilt, trauma, or a perceived lack of motivation.{{Cite journal |last=Goff |first=Ashley |date=2010-09-22 |title=The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion: Freeing Yourself from Destructive Thoughts and Emotions Christopher K. Germer New York: The Guilford Press, 2009. pp. 306. £10.95 (pb). {{text|ISBN}}: 978-1-59385-975-6. |url=http://dx.doi.org/10.1017/s1352465810000615 |journal=Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapy |volume=39 |issue=1 |pages=126–127 |doi=10.1017/s1352465810000615 |issn=1352-4658 |s2cid=147229080}} Self-acceptance has an effect on a person mentally, emotionally, within relationships and overall life.

Acceptance is a core element of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). In this context, acceptance is a process that involves actively contacting psychological internal experiences (emotions, sensations, urges, flashbacks, and other private events) directly, fully, without reacting or becoming defensive. The idea is to accept the things one cannot change, such as psychological experiences, but build the courage to change the things one can.{{cite web |last1=Moran |first1=DJ |title=Acceptance: A Core Process in the ACT Hexagon Model |url=https://psychotherapyacademy.org/section/acceptance-part-i/ |website=Psychotherapy Academy |access-date=15 December 2023}}

{{See also|peer pressure|social integration|social rejection}}

Social acceptance, according to APA Dictionary of Psychology, means being included in a group, either formally or informally, and not being judged or disapproved of by others. It’s about how much people want to spend time with someone in both public and private situations.{{Cite web |title=APA Dictionary of Psychology |url=https://dictionary.apa.org/social-acceptance |access-date=2024-11-21 |website=dictionary.apa.org |language=en}} In other words, social acceptance is about fitting in with those around you, like classmates, coworkers, or friends. It shows whether people include you and don’t criticize or reject you.{{Cite web |last=Cooke |first=Rachel |title=ProQuest Ebook Central |url=http://dx.doi.org/10.5260/cca.199425 |access-date=2024-11-21 |website=CC Advisor|doi=10.5260/cca.199425 |doi-broken-date=2024-11-21 }}

Social acceptance can be defined as tolerating and welcoming the differences and diversity in others because most people attempt to look and act like others do in order to fit in.{{Cite journal |last1=Wüstenhagen |first1=Rolf |last2=Wolsink |first2=Maarten |last3=Bürer |first3=Mary Jean |date=May 2007 |title=Social acceptance of renewable energy innovation: An introduction to the concept |url=http://www.alexandria.unisg.ch/40501/1/A05_Wuestenhagen_Wolsink_Buerer_EnPol_2007.pdf |journal=Energy Policy |volume=35 |issue=5 |pages=2683–2691 |doi=10.1016/j.enpol.2006.12.001 |bibcode=2007EnPol..35.2683W |issn=0301-4215}} Data shows that those with high self-acceptance scores tend to accept others and feel accepted by others.{{Cite journal |last=Fey |first=William F. |date=March 1955 |title=Acceptance by others and its relation to acceptance of self and others: a revaluation. |journal=The Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology |language=en |volume=50 |issue=2 |pages=274–276 |doi=10.1037/h0046876 |issn=0096-851X |pmid=14366895}} This concern is heightened for children and teenagers who tend to desire being accepted by friends.

When it comes to mental disorders, social acceptance plays a big role in recovery. Many people do not understand mental illness, so they are unsure of how to embrace people who have a disease, leaving these people with feelings of isolation in friend groups.{{cite journal |last1=Witvliet |first1=Miranda |last2=Brendgen |first2=Mara |last3=van Lier |first3=Pol A. C. |last4=Koot |first4=Hans M. |last5=Vitaro |first5=Frank |date=1 November 2010 |title=Early Adolescent Depressive Symptoms: Prediction from Clique Isolation, Loneliness, and Perceived Social Acceptance |journal=Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology |language=en |volume=38 |issue=8 |pages=1045–1056 |doi=10.1007/s10802-010-9426-x |issn=1573-2835 |pmc=2964501 |pmid=20499155}} Being accepted by a friend and having support can help with mental health and give a healthy sense of self.{{Cite journal |last1=Cleary |first1=Michelle |last2=Lees |first2=David |last3=Sayers |first3=Jan |date=2018-03-04 |title=Friendship and Mental Health |journal=Issues in Mental Health Nursing |volume=39 |issue=3 |pages=279–281 |doi=10.1080/01612840.2018.1431444 |issn=0161-2840 |pmid=29465280 |s2cid=3428832}}

Public acceptance is stated as a general agreement that something is satisfactory or right, or that someone should be included in a group.{{Cite web |title=acceptance |url=https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/acceptance |website=Cambridge Dictionary}}

An example of public acceptance would be the LGBTQ+ community. It is a very important aspect to the movement because it involves understanding, and inclusion of many individuals with different gender identities, and sexual orientation within the public and society in general.

Cultural acceptance means respecting people for who they are without judging their culture, traditions, clothing, or appearance. It is the ability to accept the individual for their cultural beliefs and their principles. It's about understanding and valuing what makes someone unique and treating them with kindness and respect.{{Cite journal |last=Fei |first=Qingmei |date=2022-06-06 |editor-last=Bhardwaj |editor-first=Arpit |title=Analysis of Traditional Cultural Acceptance Based on Deep Learning |journal=Computational Intelligence and Neuroscience |language=en |volume=2022 |pages=1–8 |doi=10.1155/2022/2373842 |doi-access=free |pmid=35707191 |issn=1687-5273|pmc=9192241 }}

Parental acceptance is described{{by whom |date=July 2024}} as the affection, nurturance, support or simply the love a parent has for that child and the experience the children can gain from it.

A type of acceptance that requires modification of the initial conditions before the final acceptance is made, is called conditional acceptance, or qualified acceptance.{{Cite journal |last=Richards |first=Jerald |date=1995 |title=Gandhi's Qualified Acceptance of Violence |journal=Acorn |volume=8 |issue=2 |pages=5–16 |doi=10.5840/acorn1995822 |issn=1092-6534}} For instance, in a contract involving two parties, adjustments or modifications may be made to ensure it aligns with the satisfaction of both parties. When a person receives an offer and is willing to agree to it, provided that certain changes are made to its terms or certain conditions or events occur, it is referred to as conditional acceptance. In a business contract between a company and an employer, both parties have the option to change and modify the terms until mutual agreement or acceptance of the contract's details is reached.

Expressed acceptance involves making an overt and unambiguous acceptance of the set conditions. For example, a person clearly and explicitly agrees to an offer. They accept the terms without any changes.{{cite journal |last1=Grover |first1=Kristin W. |last2=Miller |first2=Carol T. |date=March 2012 |title=Does Expressed Acceptance Reflect Genuine Attitudes? A Bogus Pipeline Study of the Effects of Mortality Salience on Acceptance of a Person With AIDS |journal=The Journal of Social Psychology |volume=152 |issue=2 |pages=131–135 |doi=10.1080/00224545.2011.593589 |pmid=22468415 |s2cid=39135796}}

Implied acceptance refers to a situation where one's intent to consent to the presented conditions is understood or inferred, even if not explicitly stated. Acceptance is implied by an act that indicates a person's assent to the proposed bargain. {{cite journal |last1=Bowerman |first1=William R. |date=April 1973 |title=Attribution of Responsibility Implied in a Notice of Acceptance or Rejection |url=https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.2466/pr0.1973.32.2.467 |journal=Psychological Reports |language=en |volume=32 |issue=2 |pages=467–472 |doi=10.2466/pr0.1973.32.2.467 |issn=0033-2941 |s2cid=143613527 |access-date=22 June 2022}}

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