game of dares
{{Short description|Party game}}
A game of dares (or simply dare) is a game in which people dare each other to perform actions that they would not normally do.{{cite book|author=Jennifer Moore-Mallinos|title=When Competition Goes Too Far|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=HPGCDwAAQBAJ&dq=%22game+of+dares%22&pg=PA30|date=15 December 2018|publisher=The Rosen Publishing Group, Inc|isbn=978-1-5383-9033-7|pages=30–}} It is commonly played by children.{{cite book |author=Stephen J. Smith |url=https://books.google.com/books?id=_i7hCdyJiiQC&dq=%22game+of+dares%22+children&pg=PA102 |title=Risk and Our Pedagogical Relation to Children: On the Playground and Beyond |date=1 January 1998 |publisher=SUNY Press |isbn=978-0-7914-3593-9 |pages=102–}}
The game's popularity is attributed to a person's need for recognition.{{cite book |url=https://books.google.com/books?id=W5sqAQAAMAAJ&q=%22game+of+dares%22+children |title=Parks & Recreation |publisher=American Institute of Park Executives. |year=1965}}{{Failed verification|date=December 2023}}
Gameplay
The game is played by two or more players. A player asks another to do something that one would not normally do or even think of doing themselves. The request may come in the form of "I dare you to..."{{cite book|author=Arthur Wise|title=The Art and History of Personal Combat|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=rakqAAAAYAAJ&q=%22game+of+dares%22+children|year=1972|publisher=Arma Press|isbn=9780821204450}} or "Can you ...?". In order to stay in the game, one must perform the task they are dared to do. If a player refuses to do the challenge or fails to complete it, they lose and are out of the game. Often, losers are given nicknames like "loser" or "chicken".
If the initial dare is declined, it is common to escalate to more elaborate variations, such as "double dare", "double dog dare", "triple dare", or "triple dog dog". "Double dog dare" originated from "double black dog dare" in the mid or late 1800s in England; "black dog" was slang for a bad shilling.{{Cite web| title = Where did this phrase come from - I double-dog dare you to read this column| accessdate = 2023-04-22| url = https://www.southernstandard.com/opinions/where-did-phrase-come-i-double-dog-dare-you-read-column/}}{{Cite news| issn = 0190-8286| title = The stars of your favorite Christmas movies share their most beloved holiday films| newspaper = Washington Post| accessdate = 2023-04-22| date = 2021-12-16| url = https://www.washingtonpost.com/arts-entertainment/2021/12/17/favorite-christmas-movies-celebrities/}}
Risks
The game may involve dangerous or unhealthy tasks. Yet, according to social worker Jennifer Moore-Mallinos, "very few children will back on the challenge no matter what the potential risks may be. Attempting the task is[, for them,] the only option." She adds that "although many of these dares begin with harmless requests, over time [they] have the tendency to develop into more serious demands."
In popular culture
Games of dare are depicted in fiction. In the movie A Christmas Story (1983), set in 1940 America, a scene portraying escalating dares results in negative outcomes. The game is portrayed in the English children's novel The Dare Game, the second episode of the first series of the TV adaptation of The Story of Tracy Beaker, and in the French film Love Me If You Dare.
Dare is also a common format for game shows. For example, the long running Nickelodeon franchise Double Dare added a scoring system and other penalties to the basic rules of dare.
Similar games
A variant of this game is called "follow the leader", in which children closely follow the one who is "the leader" and mimic all of their actions. Therefore, in that game the person who comes up with the dares does them first themselves.
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