pet peeve

{{Short description|Minor annoyance that an individual identifies as particularly irritating}}

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A pet peeve, pet aversion, or pet hate is a minor annoyance that an individual finds particularly irritating to a greater degree than the norm.

Origin of the concept

The noun peeve, meaning an annoyance, is believed to have originated in the United States early in the twentieth century, derived by back-formation from the adjective peevish, meaning "ornery or ill-tempered", which dates from the late 14th-century.{{cite book|editor-last1=Barnhart|editor-first1=Robert K.|title=Chambers Dictionary of Etymology|date=1988|publisher=Chambers Harrap Publishers Ltd|location=Edinburgh|isbn=0-550-14230-4|page=770}}

The term pet peeve was introduced to a wide readership in the single-panel comic strip The Little Pet Peeve in the Chicago Tribune during the period 1916–1920. The strip was created by cartoonist Frank King,{{cite journal|title=King Comics: Daily and Sunday|journal=Editor & Publisher|date=March 8, 1919|page=1|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=zS7szfWkxf4C}} who also created the long-running Gasoline Alley strip.{{cite news|title=King, Creator of 'Gasoline Alley,' Dies|url=https://www.newspapers.com/image/377006481/?terms=%22chicago+tribune%22+%22frank+king%22|access-date=25 May 2018|agency=Chicago Tribune|date=June 25, 1969}} King's "little pet peeves" were humorous critiques of generally thoughtless behaviors and nuisance frustrations. Examples included people reading the inter-titles in silent films aloud, cracking an egg only to smell that it's gone rotten, back-seat drivers, and rugs that keep catching the bottom of the door and bunching up. King's readers submitted topics, including theater goers who unwrap candy in crinkly paper during a live performance, and (from a 12-year-old boy) having his mother come in to sweep when he has the pieces of a building toy spread out on the floor.{{cite news|title=Chicago Tribune|url=https://www.newspapers.com/search/#t=4351}}

Current usage and examples

Pet peeves often involve specific behaviors of someone close, such as a spouse or significant other.{{cite book |last=Kowalski |first=Robin M. |title=Complaining, Teasing, and Other Annoying Behaviors |publisher=Yale University Press |year=2003}} These behaviors may involve disrespect, manners, personal hygiene, relationships, and family issues.{{cite web |author=James, Leon |url=http://www.drdriving.org/articles/testimony.htm |title=Congressional Testimony on Road Rage}} A key aspect of a pet peeve is that it may well seem acceptable or insignificant to others, while the person is likewise not bothered by things that might upset others. For example, a supervisor may have a pet peeve about people leaving the lid up on the copier, when others interrupt when speaking, or their subordinates having messy desks.{{cite book |author=Green, Thad B., Jay T Knippen |title=Breaking the Barrier to Upward Communication |year=1999 |pages=34–37 |publisher=Quorum/Greenwood}}

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