stiff upper lip

The following have often been cited as exemplifying the "stiff upper lip".

• During the Battle of Waterloo, the Earl of Uxbridge's calm assessment of his injuries (he had lost his leg) to the Duke of Wellington after being hit by a cannonball.{{cite news|title=Ian Hislop's Stiff Upper Lip|url=http://metro.co.uk/2012/10/01/stiff-upper-lip-the-manson-family-and-the-paradise-tv-picks-590771/#ixzz4OskrmgPp|agency=Metro|date=2 October 2016}}
• Rudyard Kipling's poem If—, first published in 1910.
• During the sinking of HMS Birkenhead in 1852, soldiers famously stood in ranks on board, allowing the women and children to board the boats safely and escape the sinking.
• In 1912, during the Terra Nova Expedition, Captain Lawrence Oates, aware that his own ill health was compromising his three companions' chances of survival, calmly leaving the tent and choosing certain death saying, "I am just going outside and may be some time."
• In 1912, Captain Edward Smith directing the evacuation of the RMS Titanic before going down with the ship.
• Major Allison Digby Tatham-Warter, who would wear a bowler hat and carry an umbrella into battle in the Second World War, most famously at the battle for Arnhem Bridge.
• In 1982, Captain Moody aboard British Airways Flight 9 from London to Auckland, on realising that all engines of the aircraft had stopped because of volcanic ash, announced to the passengers, "We have a small problem. All four engines have stopped. We are doing our damnedest to get them going again. I trust you are not in too much distress." The pilots were eventually able to restart the engines, and safely divert the plane to Jakarta.
• In 1989, United Airlines Flight 232 suffered a catastrophic engine failure that rendered all hydraulics inoperable, resulting in the aircraft being virtually uncontrollable, with the exception of the engine throttles. Captain Al Haynes kept a healthy sense of self-deprecating humour throughout the ordeal, which could clearly be heard on the cockpit voice recorder. The crew, along with passengers who were off-duty pilots and flight engineers, managed to crash land the aircraft at Sioux Gateway Airport in Iowa. In simulation scenarios, no crew has ever been able to make it to the airport, and the event is often cited as one of the best examples of crew resource management in an emergency situation.

The concept reached England in the 1590s, and featured in the plays of William Shakespeare. His tragic hero Hamlet says, "There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so".

The phrase became symbolic of the British people, and particularly of those who were students of the English public school system during the Victorian era, and aimed to instil a code of discipline and devotion to duty in their pupils through 'character-building' competitive sports (as immortalised in the poem "Vitai Lampada"), corporal punishments and cold showers.

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• "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life"
• Coping (psychology)
• Gaman (term), Japanese endurance
• Ganbaru
• Ian Hislop's Stiff Upper Lip - An Emotional History of Britain
• Keep Calm and Carry On
• Minimisation (psychology)
• Psychological resilience
• Sisu, Finnish persistence
• Social sharing of emotions
• Sabr
• Sumud
• Trooper

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• {{cite book |title=Weeping Britannia: Portrait of a Nation in Tears |author=Thomas Dixon |publisher=Oxford University Press |year=2015 |isbn= 978-0199676057}}

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• [http://www.sterlingtimes.org/memorable_images61.htm The British Stiff Upper Lip] at [http://www.sterlingtimes.co.uk Sterlingtimes Virtual Scrapbook of British Nostalgia]
• [http://www.salon.com/ent/feature/2009/09/14/decorum/index.html "Decorum is dead! Long live the outburst!"] Salon article on the topic
• [http://www.usingenglish.com/reference/idioms/stiff+upper+lip.html UsingEnglish.com]

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