Aliyah Saleem

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| name = Aliyah Saleem

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| image = Aliyah Saleem Secular Conference 2015 (cropped).png

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| caption = Aliyah Saleem speaking at the Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain's Secular Conference 2015.

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| birth_date = August 1989

| birth_place = London, United Kingdom

| nationality = British

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| alma_mater = Brunel University (BA)

| occupation = Researcher

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| known_for = Ex-Muslim advocacy, secularism

| notable_works = Leaving Faith Behind

| website = {{URL|https://aliyahsaleem.wordpress.com/|aliyahsaleem.wordpress.com}}

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Aaliyah Saleem (born August 1989), is a British secular education campaigner, writer and market researcher. She is an ex-Muslim atheist, feminist and humanist activist, and co-founder of advocacy group Faith to Faithless. She has also written under the pseudonym of Laylah Hussain.{{cite web|last1=Turner|first1=Janice|title=No more faith schools, the prisons of the mind|url=https://www.thetimes.com/article/no-more-faith-schools-the-prisons-of-the-mind-x2n7bnq3hpd|website=The Times|date=22 November 2014 |access-date=13 March 2018}}{{Cite news |url=https://www.thetimes.com/uk/education/article/jamia-al-hudaa-islamic-boarding-school-in-nottingham-passes-ofsted-inspection-at-last-7tswr0h79 |title=Jamia al-Hudaa: Islamic boarding school passes Ofsted inspection at last |author=Rosemary Bennett |work=The Times |date=7 June 2017 |access-date=10 March 2018}}

Biography

Saleem was born in London into a Pakistani Sunni Muslim immigrant family in August 1989. From age 6 to 11 she attended Deobandi Arabic-led madrasas,{{cite web|last1=Kelly|first1=Jane|title=Why do Muslims have a thing about Guy Fawkes ?|url=http://www.salisburyreview.com/articles/muslim-version-freemasons/|website=The Salisbury Review|access-date=12 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313231505/http://www.salisburyreview.com/articles/muslim-version-freemasons/|archive-date=13 March 2018|url-status=dead}} where she learnt the Arabic language.{{Cite web |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1vd4hwB3sQ |title=Activist Aliyah Saleem - "My Experience at an Islamic Boarding School in Britain" |author=Reza Moradi|display-authors=et al |work=International Conference on the Religious-Right, Secularism and Civil Rights |publisher=Bread and Roses TV |date=11 November 2014 |access-date=12 March 2018}}{{rp|at=0:35}} When she was 11 years old,{{Cite news |url=https://www.thetimes.com/article/life-inside-an-islamic-boarding-school-vv8m3pg2vkd |title=Life inside an Islamic boarding school |author=Laylah Hussain |work=The Sunday Times |date=22 November 2014 |access-date=11 March 2018}} Saleem entered the Islamic girls' private boarding school Jamia Al-Hudaa in Nottingham. Around 12, she began having doubts about the truth and ethics of religion, especially the condemnation of homosexuality, but her questioning was branded "corruption" and she felt repeatedly repressed to "not pollute the minds of other girls".{{rp|at=1:07}} She was expelled in 2006 at the age of 15, accused of "narcissism" for owning a disposable camera and consequently publicly humiliated in front of the entire school.{{cite web|last1=Pells|first1=Rachel|title=Islamist girls' school that taught pupils gay people should be killed and men could beat their wives forced to close |url=https://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/islamist-girls-school-jamia-al-hudaa-taught-pupils-gay-people-should-be-killed-forced-closure-aliyah-a7361596.html |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161017174937/http://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/islamist-girls-school-jamia-al-hudaa-taught-pupils-gay-people-should-be-killed-forced-closure-aliyah-a7361596.html |archive-date=2016-10-17 |url-access=limited |url-status=live |work=The Independent |date=14 October 2016 |access-date=10 March 2018}}

She went on to study Koranic interpretation at Farhat Hashmi's Al-Huda Institute in Mississauga near Toronto, Canada, which was intended to last a year.{{Cite news |url=https://www.thetimes.com/world/us-world/article/aliyah-saleems-life-at-the-islamic-womens-institute-khrs6xz0ssh |title=Aliyah Saleem's life at the Islamic women's institute |author=Aliyah Saleem |work=The Times |date=14 December 2015 |access-date=10 March 2018}} Finding the lessons in Urdu difficult, however, after two months{{rp|at=3:31}} she transferred to the Al-Huda Institute's campus in Pakistan to complete the course and, segregated and isolated from her family, she found herself "sucked in" by the repetition and religious zeal. She started to willingly wear the face veil (niqab),{{rp|at=3:45}} and in hindsight she considered her 17-year-old self to be a fundamentalist who wanted to proselytise when she returned to the UK.{{Cite web |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Htf6wwZOWIQ |title=1. Hijab, Schooling & the Universe |author=Aliyah Saleem |work=YouTube |publisher=Faith to Faithless |date=12 February 2015 |access-date=12 March 2018}}{{rp|at=2:02}}

Back in Britain, where Saleem was no longer in a religiously restricted environment and had free access to books, media and television, her earlier doubts resurfaced. She started studying sociology, which examined religion from several new perspectives such as feminism and Marxism, and first exposed her to the concept that religions could serve as a means of social control. In the library, she came across Richard Dawkins' book The God Delusion, which first exposed her to the idea that God could be a human delusion and might not actually exist, and the theory of evolution, which she did not understand, and decided to spend a great deal of time on studying further. After that, she educated herself on cosmology, and read Carl Sagan's Pale Blue Dot; the sight of the iconic Pale Blue Dot photograph was the last straw, brought her to disbelief and made her a sceptic.{{Cite journal |last=Saleem |first=Aliyah |date=6 March 2016 |title=Science and the road to reason: an ex-Muslim's journeyScience and the road to reason: an ex-Muslim's journey |url=http://doublebindmagazine.com/road-to-reason-an-ex-muslims-journey |journal=Double Bind Magazine |publisher=Double Bind |access-date=13 March 2018 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313214051/http://doublebindmagazine.com/road-to-reason-an-ex-muslims-journey |archive-date=13 March 2018 |url-status=dead }} By the age of 19, Saleem had reached a point where she no longer believed in Islam, and moved away from it.{{Cite news |url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TekL4fqYig8 |title=Ex-Muslims share their experiences |work=Daily Watch |publisher=The Economist |date=22 December 2016 |access-date=11 March 2018}}{{rp|at=2:23}} She believes that "The Islam that I grew up in, that had been, you know, shoved down my throat for years, was actually being shoved down my throat to actually control me. To control what I did, what I wore, who I spoke to, and what I ate and how I thought."{{rp|at=2:35}}

Saleem attended Brunel University in west London where she obtained a first class honours degree in English. She is a market researcher for Kantar Group having previously done parliamentary research work for the House of Lords.{{cite web|title=Register of Interests of Lords Members' Staff|url=https://www.parliament.uk/mps-lords-and-offices/standards-and-financial-interests/house-of-lords-commissioner-for-standards-/register-of-lords-interests/register-of-interests-of-lords-members-staff-by-members-name/?letter=S|website=Parliament UK|access-date=12 March 2018}} She is also a contributor and advice columnist to Sedaa, a website featuring writers from Muslim backgrounds.{{cite web|title=Sedaa: Our voices|url=http://www.sedaa.org/?s=Aliyah+saleem|website=Sedaa|access-date=12 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313154639/http://www.sedaa.org/?s=Aliyah+saleem|archive-date=13 March 2018|url-status=dead}}

Secular activism

File:Aliyah Saleem - My Experience at an Islamic Boarding School in Britain.webm in October 2014.]]

In October 2014, Saleem first spoke out about her treatment at her Nottingham boarding school at the Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain's Secular Conference 2014.{{Cite web |url=https://aliyahsaleem.wordpress.com/2015/09/07/jamia-al-hudaa-residential-college-graded-as-inadequate-by-ofsted/ |title=Jamia Al-Hudaa Residential College graded as inadequate by Ofsted |author=Aliyah Saleem |date=7 September 2015 |access-date=12 March 2018 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313155449/https://aliyahsaleem.wordpress.com/2015/09/07/jamia-al-hudaa-residential-college-graded-as-inadequate-by-ofsted/ |archive-date=13 March 2018 |url-status=dead }} In November 2014, she also wrote a more detailed exposé about it in The Times under the pseudonym of Laylah Hussain. Saleem claimed that pupils were only taught various Islamic subjects from a fundamentalist perspective, indoctrinated them with anti-gay, anti-Christian and anti-Jewish views, and had no geography, history, art, sport or music classes. The science class omitted evolution and sex education, and she was taught that men are permitted to beat their wives.{{Cite news |url=https://www.thetimes.com/uk/education/article/the-pupil-who-brought-down-her-school-txhmjkmpk |title=The pupil who brought down her school |author=Janice Turner |author-link=Janice Turner|work=The Times |date=12 October 2016 |access-date=11 March 2018}} Due to the concerns she raised, the school was subjected to an unannounced inspection in April 2015, and rated as 'inadequate' by Ofsted as a result.{{Cite news |url=https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-nottinghamshire-37719476 |title=Under-fire Nottingham Islamic girls' school appeals pupil ruling |work=BBC News |date=21 October 2016 |access-date=12 March 2018}} When a second inspection in April 2016 did not show sufficient improvements, Jamia Al-Hudaa Residential College was threatened with partial or full closure. The school's management attempted to appeal the decision, while Saleem urged the Department for Education to "move swiftly now to protect these pupils."

File:What isn't wrong with Islamic and faith Schools- Bread and Roses, 1 July 2014.webm interviews Aliyah Saleem about her Islamic school.]]

In 2015 Saleem, with her colleague Imtiaz Shams, an ex-Muslim atheist from Saudi Arabia, co-founded the advocacy group Faith to Faithless.{{cite web|last1=Meyer|first1=Elisa|title=How one woman left Islam to campaign for atheism|url=http://www.worldreligionnews.com/religion-news/one-woman-left-islam-campaign-atheism|website=World Religion News|date=26 November 2016 |access-date=11 March 2018}} The organisation provides support for people leaving Islam and other minority religions, challenges discrimination faced by non-religious people and aims to create awareness of the issues involved in leaving religion.{{cite web|title=BHA announces Faith to Faithless integration and new support services for 'apostates'|url=https://humanism.org.uk/2017/01/16/bha-announces-faith-to-faithless-integration-and-new-support-services-for-apostates/|website=Humanists UK|access-date=11 March 2018}} Saleem and Shams began by holding "coming out" events at universities, where ex-Muslims and other apostates could tell their stories in the presence of peers who had also been through deconversion.{{rp|at=2:05}}

In 2015 Saleem represented Humanists UK (then the British Humanist Association) at a diversity chamber debate in the House of Lords in which she spoke about the discrimination and persecution faced by many ex-Muslim atheists in the UK and around the world.{{cite web|title=Young humanists debate diversity in the House of Lords|url=https://humanism.org.uk/2015/12/07/young-humanists-debate-diversity-in-the-house-of-lords/|website=Humanists UK|access-date=12 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313153802/https://humanism.org.uk/2015/12/07/young-humanists-debate-diversity-in-the-house-of-lords/|archive-date=13 March 2018|url-status=dead}}{{cite web|title=Lords Chamber Event Friday 4 December 2015|url=http://parliamentlive.tv/Event/Index/4eb5495f-5d82-4c9e-8da2-acfdfed49568|website=Parliament Live|access-date=12 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313154638/http://parliamentlive.tv/Event/Index/4eb5495f-5d82-4c9e-8da2-acfdfed49568|archive-date=13 March 2018|url-status=dead}} The following year she represented Faith to Faithless at a further debate in the Lords about the particular problems ex-Muslims face when leaving religion.{{cite web|last1=Lord Soley|author-link=Lord Soley|title=The power of ideas|url=https://www.politicshome.com/news/uk/home-affairs/house/58864/power-ideas|website=Politics Home|publisher=Dods|access-date=12 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313215621/https://www.politicshome.com/news/uk/home-affairs/house/58864/power-ideas|archive-date=13 March 2018|url-status=dead}}

In late 2015 and early 2016, Saleem recorded two videos offering strategies for Muslim or ex-Muslim women who no longer want to wear the hijab – she herself had worn a headscarf from the age of 11{{cite web|last1=Henley|first1=Lucy|title=Into The Unknown|url=http://www.vogue.co.uk/article/why-are-girls-leaving-for-isis|website=Vogue|access-date=12 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313154716/http://www.vogue.co.uk/article/why-are-girls-leaving-for-isis|archive-date=13 March 2018|url-status=dead}} – but are wary of the negative social consequences they may face for doing so.{{Cite news |url=https://www.thetimes.com/edition/times2/why-we-chose-to-take-off-our-headscarves-l3bsptp03 |title=Why we chose to take off our headscarves |author=Helen Rumbelow |work=The Times |date=20 November 2017 |access-date=11 March 2018}}{{Cite web |url=https://www.human.nl/among-nonbelievers/read/ready-to-remove-your-hijab.html |title=Ready to remove your hijab? |publisher=Humanistisch Verbond |date=14 July 2016 |access-date=11 March 2018 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313155029/https://www.human.nl/among-nonbelievers/read/ready-to-remove-your-hijab.html |archive-date=13 March 2018 |url-status=dead }}

In April 2016 Saleem appeared in the BBC Radio 4 two-part documentary programme about the Deobandis, the isolationist traditional Muslim community that was responsible for her schooling and which controls the majority of Islamic religious schools in the UK.{{cite web|last1=Bennett-Jones|first1=Owen|author-link=Owen Bennett-Jones|title=The Deobandis|url=https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b06gqr66#play|website=BBC Radio 4|access-date=12 March 2018}}{{rp|at=24:50}}

Works

{{Cite book |last1=Saleem |first1=Aliyah |last2=Mughal |first2=Fiyaz |date=2018 |title= Leaving Faith Behind: The journeys and perspectives of people who have chosen to leave Islam |location=London |publisher=Darton, Longman & Todd |pages=192 |isbn=978-0232533644}}