Irish mammy
{{short description|Trope in Irish womanhood}}
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The Irish mammy is a cultural trope used in Ireland to describe Irish mothers of a traditionally matriarchal style,{{Cite web|date=2020-05-25 |title=Top 5 signs you might be an Irish mammy |url= https://www.irelandbeforeyoudie.com/top-5-signs-you-might-be-an-irish-mammy/ |access-date=2025-04-16 |website=irelandbeforeyoudie.com |language=en}}{{Cite web|last=Harbison |first=Niall |date=2016-12-20 |title=17 Things That Constantly Worry Every Irish Mammy |url= https://lovindublin.com/feature/23-things-that-constantly-worry-every-irish-mammy |access-date=2025-04-16 |website=lovindublin.ie |language=en}} who exhibit traits of over-protection or servitude towards their children and/or domestic visitors in general, but can also be exacting when needed.{{Cite web|last=Poleon|first=Jade |date=2024-03-17 |title=10 TRAITS of a typical Irish Mammy |url= https://www.irelandbeforeyoudie.com/top-10-traits-of-a-typical-irish-mammy/ |access-date=2025-04-16 |website=irelandbeforeyoudie.com|language=en}}{{Cite web|last=Docherty |first=Erin |date=2025-03-17 |title=29 sayings you hear all the time if you've got an Irish mum |url= https://www.mamamia.com.au/things-irish-mums-say/ |access-date=2025-04-16 |website=mamamia.com.au |language=en}}{{Cite web|date=2017-12-28 |title=101 Irish Mammy Sayings You Probably Heard Growing Up In Ireland |url= https://irisharoundtheworld.com/101-irish-mammy-sayings/ |access-date=2025-04-16 |website=irisharoundtheworld.com |language=en}}{{Cite news |last=Tynan |first=Mary-Elaine |date=2012-12-10 |title= My hair betrays me as an Irish Mammy |url=https://www.independent.ie/life/my-hair-betrays-me-as-an-irish-mammy/28945848.html |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =The Irish Independent| language=en}}
In 2017, The Irish Times wrote of the Irish mammy as a "magnificent and treasured institution."{{Cite news |last=Sweeney |first=Tanya |date=2017-03-25 |title= The Irish Mammy is dead. Long live the Irish Mammy: Always a force to be reckoned with, there's been a resurgence in the powers of this much loved and parodied character |url=https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/the-irish-mammy-is-dead-long-live-the-irish-mammy-1.3013152 |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =The Irish Times| language=en}}
Description
Diane Negra, professor of film studies and screen culture at UCD, hypothesised on the occurrence of the trope in Irish culture as of 2017:
Obviously there are different societies that have that particular fixation on the mother as a keeper of the hearth, and Ireland is not unique in that regard. The trope has a certain energy right now, and has deep roots in the idea of Mother Ireland, and of nationalising Ireland in female form, as a figure of domestic peace. It's no coincidence that her pop culture visibility goes up with the collapse of the Celtic Tiger. The sense of shock and trauma reverberated through society as the economy collapsed. At the same time, the recession was seen as a unique injury to men and male wage earners, hence the term "mancession".
In 2024, the American theological journal First Things described the concept of the Irish mammy as:
"A figure of frugality, but also of bounteousness; of judgmentalism, but also of forgiveness; of care, common sense, inherited prejudices, and needless fussing. She inspires pride, affection, fear, and hilarity, all brought to an almost overbearing pitch, and is thought to be found only in Ireland. The Irish Mammy is the ultimate national treasure, replicated all over the island in home after home and wherever else the Irish are to be found in numbers."{{Cite news |last=Duggan |first=John |date=2024-02-13 |title= The Fall of the Irish Mammy |url=https://firstthings.com/the-fall-of-the-irish-mammy/ |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =First Things| language=en}}
Reactions
Clare O'Dea, writing for The Irish Independent in 2019, opined that the Irish mammy "caricature of a simple-minded, ageing biddy in dowdy clothes" was disrespectful to all that Irish mothers had achieved in the past 50 years in areas such as contraception, family law and abortion.{{Cite news |last=O'Dea |first=Clare |date=2019-10-05 |title= 'Ah shure, don't mind me': Why the mythical Irish Mammy is an unfunny stereotype we need to drop |url=https://www.independent.ie/life/family/ah-shure-dont-mind-me-why-the-mythical-irish-mammy-is-an-unfunny-stereotype-we-need-to-drop/38560811.html |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =The Irish Independent| language=en}} O'Dea pointed out that it was "revealing that there is no equivalent stereotype for the Irish Daddy being mined for amusement these days. Irish literature has a long tradition of unsympathetic fathers, from John McGahern's tyrannical patriarchs to Frank McCourt's "shiftless, loquacious alcoholic father" who drives the family to ruin."
Ciara Geraghty, also writing for The Irish Independent, but in 2012, argued that the Irish mammy had modernised: "She got the vote. She burned her bra. She put herself on the Pill. She got a job. She threw away the charred remains of her burned bra and invested in a swanky underwire bra."{{Cite news |last=Geraghty |first=Ciara |date=2012-11-02 |title= What makes an Irish Mammy? |url=https://www.independent.ie/regionals/herald/what-makes-an-irish-mammy/28851508.html |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =The Irish Independent| language=en}}
Notable examples
=Fictional=
- Bridget (played by Jennifer Zamparelli), in the sitcom Bridget & Eamon (2016)
- Agnes Loretta Brown (played by Brendan O'Carroll), in the sitcom Mrs. Brown's Boys (2011-present)
- Bridget Fagan Brown (played by Brenda Fricker), in My Left Foot (1989)
- Biddy Byrne (played by Mary McEvoy), in the Irish soap opera Glenroe (1983-2001)
- Kay Curley (played by Ruth McCabe), in The Snapper (1993){{Cite web|last=Dalton| first=Sinead | date=2025-03-24 |title=Famous Irish mammies: The good, the bad and the ones with the wooden spoon |url= https://evoke.ie/2025/03/24/entertainment/mothers-day-famous-irish-mammies |access-date=2025-04-16 |website=evoke.ie |language=en}}
- Rita Doyle (played by Jean Costello), in the Irish soap opera Fair City (1989-2013){{Cite web|date=2013-01-09 |title=Fair City's Doyle family reunited |url= https://www.rte.ie/entertainment/2013/0109/442594-faircity2/ |access-date=2025-05-09 |website=rte.ie |publisher = RTÉ |language=en}}
- Anne Flanagan (played by Sean 'Hog' Flanagan), of the Irish comedy sketch group Foil Arms and Hog (2008-present){{Cite news |last=Egan |first=Barry |date=2023-12-17 |title= How one Honda 50, two almost-priests and three Irish mammies helped make Foil Arms and Hog a soaraway success|url=https://www.independent.ie/entertainment/how-one-honda-50-two-almost-priests-and-three-irish-mammies-helped-make-foil-arms-and-hog-a-soaraway-success/a1445056993.html |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =The Irish Independent| language=en}}{{Cite news |last=McHugh |first=Karen |date=2024-03-31 |title= Foil, Arms and Hog in Europe: 'We never thought that we’d be playing these places'
|url=https://www.irishexaminer.com/lifestyle/artsandculture/arid-41363947.html |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =The Irish Examiner| language=en}}
- Mary Riordan (played by Moira Deady), in the television series The Riordans (1965-1979){{cite news |url=http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/obituaries/2010/1120/1224283761902.html|title=Actor whose 'Riordans' role fitted her like a glove|date=20 November 2010|accessdate=2025-05-09|
newspaper=The Irish Times|url-access=subscription}}.
- Carmel Walsh (played by Philippa Dunne), in the sitcom The Walshes (2014){{cite web |title=Interview: Star of The Walshes on her role as 'a mad Irish mammy' |url=https://entertainment.ie/tv/tv-news/interview-star-of-the-walshes-on-her-role-as-a-mad-irish-mammy-219647/ |work=Entertainment.ie |access-date=20 May 2022 |date=6 March 2014 |archive-date=20 May 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220520102237/https://entertainment.ie/tv/tv-news/interview-star-of-the-walshes-on-her-role-as-a-mad-irish-mammy-219647/ |url-status=live }}
=Real life=
- Miriam O'Callaghan, Irish television presenter with RTÉ
- Peig Sayers, Irish author and seanchaí
See also
- Culture of Ireland
- Feminism in the Republic of Ireland
- Irish Housewives Association
- Mammy stereotype, a U.S. historical stereotype depicting Black women, usually enslaved, who did domestic work, among nursing children
- Colm O'Regan, Irish comedian, who has written books on the theme of the Irish mammy{{Cite news |last=O'Regan |first=Colm |date=2021-06-02 |title= Irish Mammy: Zoom with the Grandparents |url=https://www.farmersjournal.ie/life/features/irish-mammy-zoom-with-the-grandparents-625670 |access-date=2025-04-16 |newspaper =Irish Farmers Journal| language=en}}
References
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= Sources =
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- {{cite journal |last = Negra| first = Diane|title = Adjusting Men and Abiding Mammies: Gendering the Recession in Ireland| journal = The Irish Review| volume = 46| pages = 23-34| publisher = Cork University Press| location = Cork| date = 2013-09-01| jstor = 43831473| url=http://www.jstor.org/stable/43831473}}
- {{cite journal |last1=Browne |first1=Kath |last2= Nash| first2 = Catherine J. | last3= Gorman-Murray |first3=Andrew | title=Geographies of heteroactivism: Resisting sexual rights in the reconstitution of Irish nationhood |journal= Transactions of the Institute of British Geographers | volume = 43| issue = 4| pages = 526-539 | publisher = Wiley-Blackwell| location = Hoboken|date=2018-12-01 |jstor = 45146973| url=https://www.jstor.org/stable/45146973}}
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