Lily Parr

Parr was born in a rented house in Union Street, Gerrard's Bridge, St. Helens; the fourth of seven children born to George and Sarah Parr.{{cite web | url=http://www.fyne.co.uk/index.php?item=646 | title=Lily Parr | publisher=Fyne Times | access-date=4 September 2011 }} Her father was a labourer at the local glass factory and the family rented out space in the yard and rooms at their house for extra income.

As a girl, Parr displayed little enthusiasm for traditional pursuits such as sewing and cookery. Instead, her fearless streak and robust frame allowed her to compete alongside boys in both football and rugby. Under the tutelage of her elder brothers, she became proficient in both sports.

She played for local team St. Helens Ladies, where it is rumoured she appeared more than 100 times for the club.

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During the First World War in England there was a growing interest in women's football and Dick, Kerr & Co. was the name of the Preston munitions factory where most of the women on the team worked. The Dick, Kerr's Ladies team regularly drew large crowds including a famous event on 26 December 1920 at Goodison Park that drew more than 53,000 spectators.{{cite web|url=http://www.thefa.com/GetIntoFootball/Players/PlayersPages/WomensAndGirls/History_of_womens_football.aspx |title=History of women's football |publisher=TheFA.com |date=4 January 1972 |access-date=11 September 2009}}

During her time working for Dick, Kerr & Co she lodged in Preston with one of her teammates, Alice Norris. She had a romantic relationship with her teammate Alice Woods, who was also from St Helens. While playing for the Dick, Kerr's Ladies she was noted for her large appetite and almost constant smoking of Woodbine cigarettes.{{cite news | url=https://www.theguardian.com/society/2011/apr/12/england-womens-football-score-exhibition | title=English women's football aims to score again | work=The Guardian | date= 12 April 2011 | access-date=4 September 2011 | location=London | first=Chris | last=Arnot}}

Unlike women's teams today, Parr played against both male and female teams and she reputedly had a harder shot than any male player.{{cite news|url=https://www.theguardian.com/football/2008/feb/11/newsstory.womensfootball |title=Women's football: FA apologies for 1921 ban | Football |work=The Guardian |date= 11 February 2008|access-date=11 September 2009 | location=London | first=Tony | last=Leighton}} She had started life playing football with her brothers on waste ground in St Helens, before playing for the St Helens' Ladies team. There she was spotted and recruited into the Dick, Kerr's Ladies and a job in the Dick, Kerr & Co. factory in Preston, with 10 shillings in expenses per game.

When Parr first came to the team she was fourteen years old and she played at left-back. She was moved to the left-wing on New Years Day 1921 and scored a hat-trick against a "Rest of Lancashire" team. In her first year with the club she scored 108 goals, second only to Florrie Redford who scored 170.{{Cite book|title=In a league of their own! : the Dick, Kerr Ladies, 1917-1965|last=Newsham, Gail J., 1953-|date=9 February 2018|isbn=9781782225638|edition= Special Centenary |location=[Great Britain]|pages=108–112|oclc=1026243497}} During her career with the Dick, Kerr Ladies she scored 986 goals.{{Cite book|title=In a league of their own! : the Dick, Kerr Ladies, 1917-1965|last=Newsham, Gail J., 1953-|date=9 February 2018|isbn=9781782225638|edition= Special Centenary |location=[Great Britain]|page=207|oclc=1026243497}} According to a BBC article she scored 43 goals for the team in her first season, when she was 14 years old.{{cite news|last=Winterman |first=Denise |url=http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/6143032.stm |title=An article on Women's Football History at the BBC |work=BBC News |date=14 November 2006 |access-date=11 September 2009}} She totalled 967 goals in her career between 1919 and 1951.{{cite web | url=https://spartacus-educational.com/FparrL.htm | title=Lily Parr }}

The number of women's teams had continued to grow during this time until 1921 when the Football Association banned women from playing on their member grounds. Support for women's teams declined, but many women such as Parr continued to play on village greens and another non-associated land. The Dick, Kerr Ladies toured North America in 1922 following the English ban. Banned again on their arrival in Canada, they toured the US and played nine games. They won three, drew three, and lost three against the top division men's teams.{{cite web |url=http://www.sover.net/~spectrum/kerrladies.html |title=Notes including details of the USA Tour |publisher=Sover.net |access-date=11 September 2009 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20050405030710/http://www.sover.net/~spectrum/kerrladies.html |archive-date=5 April 2005 |url-status=dead }} Parr continued with the Dick, Kerr's Ladies even when they lost the support of their factory and were renamed the Preston Ladies.

After working in the Dick, Kerr & Co. factory Parr trained as a nurse. She worked in Whittingham Mental Hospital until she retired. While working at the hospital, she continued to play women's football for the Preston Ladies until 1951. This included taking part in a further tour of France.

Parr lived out most of the rest of her life in Goosnargh, near Preston. She lived with her partner Mary, and since her death has become an LGBT rights icon.{{Cite news |url=http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-6572.html/ |work=Pink News |title=International match to honour lesbian football hero |date=16 January 2008 |access-date=27 September 2011 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20090505114529/http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-6572.html |archive-date=5 May 2009 |url-status=dead }}{{cite news|url=https://theorbital.co.uk/lily-parr-lesbian-football-icon-didnt-know-needed/|title=Lily Parr: the lesbian football icon I didn't know I needed|last=Green|first=Maria|date=24 March 2019|work=The Orbital|access-date=16 March 2019|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20190425135642/https://theorbital.co.uk/lily-parr-lesbian-football-icon-didnt-know-needed/|archive-date=25 April 2019}} She lived to see The FA lift the ban on women from playing on their member grounds in 1971. She died of breast cancer in 1978, aged 73, and is buried in the town of her birth, St Helens, Merseyside. Her heir was a nephew, Roy Parr.

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At almost 5 foot 10 inches tall, Parr's strength was said to be one of her greatest assets. She was particularly noted for the power of her kicking, both in delivering from the left flank and shooting at goal. Teammate Joan Whalley said in an interview with Gail Newsham: "She had a kick like a mule. She was the only person I knew who could lift a dead ball, the old heavy leather ball, from the left-wing over to me on the right and nearly knock me out with the force of the shot..."

The programme from a September 1923 fixture between Dick, Kerr's Ladies, and Stoke described Parr as "Big, fast and powerful, is tricky and can take corner kicks better than most men." It also noted that Parr "scores goals from extraordinary angles with a left-foot cross drive, which nearly breaks the net."{{cite book |url=https://books.google.com/books?id=08kec8akGsgC&q=lily+parr+football&pg=PA194 |title=A game for rough girls?: a history of women's football in Britain |publisher=Routledge |year=2003 |author=Jean Williams |access-date=4 September 2011 |isbn=0-415-26338-7 |page=51}}

Aggression was another feature of Parr's play. During Dick, Kerr's Ladies' 1922 tour to the USA, the Washington Post reported that "Miss Lily Parr, at outside left, put up an aggressive game registering two goals in seven tries she had at the net" following a 4–4 draw with Washington's top male club. In April 1921 Parr and Hilda Durbar of Stoke United were sent off for fighting in Dick, Kerr Ladies' fractious 2–0 win before 13,000 fans at The Old Recreation Ground.{{cite web | url=http://www.donmouth.co.uk/womens_football/stoke_ladies.html | title=Stoke Ladies | publisher=Donmouth.co.uk | access-date=4 September 2011 | first=Patrick | last=Brennan}} Parr was also praised for her overall technique and vision. Contemporary Scotland international footballer Bobby Walker described her as the "best natural timer of a football I have ever seen."{{cite web | url=http://www.spartacus-educational.com/FparrL.htm | title=Lily Parr: Biography | publisher=Spartacus Educational | access-date=4 September 2011 | first=John | last=Simkin}}

On 11 February 2007, Lou Hart from Camden LGBT Forum approached the London Lesbian Kickabouts{{cite web|url=http://kickabouts.intheteam.com/modules/page/Page.aspx?pc=45&mid=16591&pmid=0|title=Lily Parr from London Lesbian Kickabouts|publisher=Kickabouts.intheteam.com|access-date=11 September 2009|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20090902153655/http://kickabouts.intheteam.com/modules/page/Page.aspx?pc=45&mid=16591&pmid=0|archive-date=2 September 2009|url-status=dead}} team with a view to setting up a lesbian football event for Camden LGBT History month. The Lily Parr Exhibition Trophy was born and the Kickabouts played the Paris team Arc en Ciel (Rainbow), re-enacting the first match between the Dick, Kerr Ladies and the Paris ladies' team. The London Lesbian Kickabouts won 7–3.{{cite news|page=47|title=The Pink Paper|date=22 February 2006|publisher=The Pink Paper|url=http://media.millivres.co.uk/pinkpaper/PP920.pdf|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070302093148/http://media.millivres.co.uk/pinkpaper/PP920.pdf|archive-date=2 March 2007}}

In May 2019 it was announced that a statue of Parr, by sculptor Hannah Stewart, would be unveiled at the National Football Museum in Manchester in June.{{cite web|url=https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-lancashire-48213838|title=First statue of women's football star|date=9 May 2019|work=BBC News|access-date=27 August 2019}} This was done in June; making Parr the first female footballer commemorated with a statue.{{cite web|url=https://www.bbc.com/news/amp/uk-england-merseyside-48496334 |title=Lily Parr: First statue for woman footballer unveiled in Manchester|date=3 June 2019|work=BBC News|access-date=27 August 2019}}

In July 2021 a new permanent display celebrating Parr's life and impact on the game was opened at The National Football Museum.{{Cite web |title=Lily Parr {{!}} National Football Museum Hall of Fame Profile |url=https://www.nationalfootballmuseum.com/halloffame/lily-parr/ |access-date=2022-09-21 |language=en-US}}

In July 2023, Parr was featured in the New York Times Overlooked series obituaries on remarkable people whose deaths initially went unreported in newspaper.{{Cite news |last=Meschke |first=Jacob |date=2023-07-21 |title=Overlooked No More: Lily Parr, Dominant British Soccer Player |language=en-US |work=The New York Times |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2023/07/21/obituaries/lily-parr-overlooked.html |access-date=2023-07-23 |issn=0362-4331}}

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• List of women footballers with 300 or more goals

• {{cite book |last1=Newsham |first1=Gail J |title=In a league of their own! : the Dick, Kerr ladies, 1917-1965 |date=2018 |publisher=Paragon |isbn=978-1-78222-563-8 |edition= Special Centenary }}
• {{cite book|title=The Dick, Kerr's Ladies|last=Jacobs|first=Barbara|publisher=Constable and Robinson|date=July 2004|isbn=1-84119-828-5}}
• {{cite book|title=The Football Hall of Fame: The Ultimate Guide to the Greatest Footballing Legends of All Time|last=Galvin|first=Robert|publisher=Portico|date=September 2011|isbn=978-1-906032-46-3|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=QCDpxbf5xrUC&q=lily+parr+football&pg=PP11}}

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• [http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/womanshour/2004_35_thu_02.shtml An interview with Parr's nephew on BBC Woman's Hour]
• [http://www.spartacus-educational.com/FparrL.htm Lily Parr on Spartacus Educational]
• [http://www.fyne.co.uk/index.php?item=646 Gay Great] From Fyne Times Magazine
• [http://www.dickkerrladies.com dickkerrladies.com]

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