Made of Honor

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| image = Made of honor.jpg

| caption = Promotional poster

| director = Paul Weiland

| producer = Neal H. Moritz

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| story = Adam Sztykiel

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| music = Rupert Gregson-Williams

| cinematography = Tony Pierce-Roberts

| editing = Richard Marks

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| distributor = Sony Pictures Releasing

| released = {{Film date|2008|5|2}}

| runtime = 101 minutes{{Cite web |date=April 20, 2008|title=Made of Honor (12A) |url=https://www.bbfc.co.uk/release/made-of-honor-q29sbgvjdglvbjpwwc0zodi5otu|access-date=April 6, 2025 |publisher=British Board of Film Classification}}

| country = United States

| language = English

| budget = $40 million{{cite web |url=https://www.boxofficemojo.com/release/rl1180730881/ |title=Made of Honor (2008) |website=Box Office Mojo |access-date=May 28, 2022 |archive-date=May 28, 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220528201957/https://www.boxofficemojo.com/release/rl1180730881/ |url-status=live }}

| gross = $106.4 million

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Made of Honor is a 2008 American romantic comedy film directed by Paul Weiland and written by Adam Sztykiel, Deborah Kaplan, and Harry Elfont. The film stars Patrick Dempsey, Michelle Monaghan, and Sydney Pollack.

The plot follows a lifelong playboy who falls in love with his best friend, only to have her get engaged. She asks him to be her maid of honor. It was released by Columbia Pictures in the United States on May 2, 2008. The film garnered negative reviews from critics and grossed $106.4 million worldwide.

Plot

On Halloween night 1998 amidst his senior year at Cornell University, Tom Bailey Jr., dressed as Bill Clinton, enters the dark dorm room of Monica, his pre-arranged date. Thinking Monica is in the bed, he climbs in and she maces him with perfume. It was actually Monica's geeky roommate, Hannah. They flirt but he insults her. When Hannah and Tom return to the dorm room, a drunken Monica is there waiting, but he does not stay. Ten years later, Tom is now wealthy in New York City as his coffee collar invention pays him a dime every time one is used. Hannah, also in the city, has stayed best friends with him ever since that night in college. Tom continues to sleep with a different girl every week, while Hannah stays single, focusing on her career at the Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Tom takes Hannah to his father's sixth wedding. They share an intimate moment when they dance, however, Tom still thinks of her as his best friend. After the wedding, Hannah tells Tom that she has a 6-week-work trip to Scotland. Tom realizes that, being with a different woman week after week isn't fulfilling when he can't see Hannah. Realizing he has feelings for Hannah, Tom decides to tell her when she returns.

Hannah does not come back alone; she brings Colin, a wealthy Scottish Duke, as her fiancé. Asking Tom to be her maid of honor he accepts. He does so to spend time with Hannah, convince her to stop the wedding and win her heart. As Hannah's maid of honor, Tom is introduced to the three bridesmaids. One is Melissa, Hannah's cousin and an ex, whose heart he broke and is now upset that she isn't the maid of honor. Melissa sabotages the bridal shower by tricking him into inviting a sex toy salesman as a party entertainer. Believing it was Tom's idea, Hannah gets upset and almost fires Tom, but thanks to his friends' "How to Be a Perfect M-O-H 101" course, he wins her trust back. Taking her shopping, he impresses her with a plate-juggling performance. Hannah enjoys it, but reveals she is moving to Scotland after the wedding.

Tom, almost accepting defeat, continues being a responsible maid of honor by traveling to Scotland with Hannah. After their arrival at Eilean Donan Castle, he meets Colin's family. They have a variant of the Highland games, in which the groom competes to prove himself worthy of his bride. Tom also participates, hoping to defeat Colin, but he loses in the last round. At the rehearsal dinner, Colin's family proudly tells Hannah (who opposes to the killing and eating of animals) that every plate of meat on the table is from animals that Colin killed. Later that night, Tom offers to help go over her vows. As he starts to tell her his feelings, the other bridesmaids interrupt, dragging Hannah to her bachelorette party.

Hannah has to give every man in the pub a peck for a coin (Scottish tradition), including Tom. When it is his turn, without anyone looking, he passionately kisses her, and she kisses back. Afterwards, Hannah goes to Tom's room to discuss the kiss but sees Melissa, in a drunken stupor, trying to seduce him. Seeing Hannah at the door, he pushes Melissa off and runs after her. Hannah refuses to let Tom into her room and she tells him she is still marrying Colin the next day. The distressed Tom gives up being the maid of honor as he cannot bear to watch them marry, so he decides to go back home.

As he is leaving the next morning, Tom realizes that he must stop the wedding immediately, telling the driver to turn back. Finding the only ferry unavailable, he borrows a horse to ride to the ceremony. As he is riding up to the church doors, the horse stops, sending him flying through the chapel doors and interrupting the wedding. Hannah rushes to Tom's side and he declares his love. She realizes she loves Tom back and kisses him passionately, calling off the wedding and apologizing to Colin, who punches Tom in the face. Tom and Hannah go back to New York together, getting married on a rooftop under the stars and live happily ever after.

Cast

{{Cast listing|

Patrick Dempsey as Tom
Michelle Monaghan as Hannah
Kevin McKidd as Colin
Kadeem Hardison as Felix
Chris Messina as Dennis
Richmond Arquette as Gary
Busy Philipps as Melissa
Whitney Cummings as Stephanie
Kathleen Quinlan as Joan
Sydney Pollack as Thomas Sr.
James B. Sikking as Reverend Foote
Kevin Sussman as the tiny shorts guy
Beau Garrett as Gloria
Christine Barger as Psycho Blogger
Kelly Carlson as Christie, wife #6
Hannah Gordon as Colin's mother
Eoin McCarthy as cousin Ewan
Clive Russell as cousin Finlay
Myra McFadyen as aunt Minna
Mary Birdsong as Sharon at the bridal shower
Elisabeth Hasselbeck as herself
Sarah Wright as a "sexy blonde"
Jaime Ray Newman as Ariel

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Production

The filming schedule was 26 days to accommodate Patrick Dempsey's commitments to Grey's Anatomy. Dempsey was part of the project before the director was chosen and agreed to Weiland after seeing an early cut of his coming-of-age film Sixty-Six.{{cite web |date=April 10, 2020 |first=Caroline |last=Siede |title=When Romance Met Comedy: I can't stop watching Made Of Honor|url=https://www.avclub.com/i-can-t-stop-watching-made-of-honor-1842650707 |website=The A.V. Club |access-date=May 4, 2020}} The scene where Dempsey juggles plates was not in the script and was added on the day.{{cite web |date=April 28, 2008 |first=Rebecca |last=Thomas |title=Talking Shop: Patrick Dempsey |url=http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/7359287.stm|publisher=BBC|access-date=September 20, 2021|archive-date=September 20, 2021 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210920212910/http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/7359287.stm |url-status=live}}

Eilean Donan castle, the home of Connor MacLeod in the Highlander film, was used for exterior shots of one of the McMurray family homes.{{cite news|date=September 10, 2016|first=Clodgah |last=Finn |title=The real stories behind the Hollywood backdrops |url=https://www.irishexaminer.com/lifestyle/arid-20420304.html|newspaper=Irish Examiner|quote=Eilean Donan castle is most famous for its appearance in Highlander.|access-date=September 20, 2021 |archive-date=April 15, 2023|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230415223935/https://www.irishexaminer.com/lifestyle/arid-20420304.html |url-status=live}}{{cite web |date=February 22, 2021|title=Made of Honor Filming Locations in Scotland (+ Map!) |url=https://almostginger.com/made-of-honor-filming-locations/ |website=Almost Ginger |access-date=September 20, 2021|archive-date=April 20, 2021|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210420043849/https://almostginger.com/made-of-honor-filming-locations/ |url-status=live}}

Release

Made of Honor had a celebrity screening at the Soho Hotel in London on April 21, 2008.{{Cite web |date=April 21, 2008 |title=Patrick Dempsey joins small screen stars at Made Of Honor |url=https://www.hellomagazine.com/film/200804221045615/dempsey-made-honour/ |access-date=April 6, 2025 |website=Hello! |archive-date=July 23, 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240723151733/https://www.hellomagazine.com/film/200804221045615/dempsey-made-honour/ |url-status=live }} It was released by Sony Pictures Releasing on May 2, 2008.{{Cite web |title=Made of Honor (2008) - Financial Information |url=https://www.the-numbers.com/movie/Made-of-Honor#tab=summary |access-date=April 6, 2025 |website=The Numbers |archive-date=November 27, 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20241127094939/https://www.the-numbers.com/movie/Made-of-Honor#tab=summary |url-status=live }}

It was released on DVD and Blu-ray by Sony Pictures Home Entertainment on September 16, 2008.{{Cite web |last=McCutcheon |first=David |date=July 16, 2008 |title=Made of Honors Blu-ray |url=https://www.ign.com/articles/2008/07/16/made-of-honors-blu-ray |access-date=April 6, 2025 |website=IGN}}

Reception

=Box office =

In its opening weekend, the film grossed $15.5 million in 2,729 theaters in the United States and Canada, averaging $5,679 per theater, and ranking #2 at the box office behind Iron Man. It grossed a total of $46 million in North American and $60 million internationally, for a total worldwide gross of $106 million, against its $40 million budget.

=Critical response=

Made of Honor received negative reviews from critics, with some critics calling it a gender swapped version of My Best Friend's Wedding. On Rotten Tomatoes it has a {{RT data|score}} approval rating based on {{RT data|count}} reviews, with an average rating of {{RT data|average}}. The site's critical consensus reads: "Sharp performances by Patrick Dempsey and Michelle Monaghan can't save this forgettable, formulaic chick flick from its comic failings."{{cite web |url=https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/made_of_honor |title=Made of Honor (2008) |website=Rotten Tomatoes |publisher=Fandango Media |access-date={{RT data|access date}} |archive-date=October 4, 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20241004014533/https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/made_of_honor |url-status=live}} On Metacritic, the film holds a weighted average score of 37 out of 100, based on 25 critics, indicating "generally unfavorable reviews".{{cite web |url=https://www.metacritic.com/movie/made-of-honor |title=Made of Honor Reviews |access-date=January 4, 2021 |publisher=CBS Interactive |website=Metacritic |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200830132651/https://www.metacritic.com/movie/made-of-honor |archive-date=August 30, 2020 |url-status=live}} Audiences surveyed by CinemaScore gave the film a grade B+ on scale of A to F.{{cite magazine |date=May 6, 2008 |first=Joshua |last=Rich |title=Update: Iron Man opened with $98.6 mil |url=https://ew.com/article/2008/05/06/update-iron-man-opened-986-mil/ |magazine=Entertainment Weekly |quote=a merely okay B+ CinemaScore grade, so don't expect the film to hold up particularly well}}

Keith Phipps of The A.V. Club gave the film an overall C grade, giving credit to the performances of Pollack and Monaghan for being surprisingly good in a by-the-numbers romantic story alongside Dempsey displaying "plastic sincerity" in his role, saying: "It's telling that he's followed by a string of sidekicks apparently created to make him less bland by comparison."{{cite news |url=https://www.avclub.com/made-of-honor-1798204187 |title=Made of Honor · Film Review |last=Phipps |first=Keith |newspaper=The A.V. Club |date=May 1, 2008 |access-date=May 28, 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200417022842/https://film.avclub.com/made-of-honor-1798204187 |archive-date=April 17, 2020 |url-status=live}} The New York Times{{'}} Stephen Holden commended the punch-up of the script for adding "tart satirical flavors to a cotton-candy formula" and the screen presence of both Dempsey and Monaghan, highlighting the latter for giving "enough sweetness to satisfy the cotton-candy addicts."{{cite news |url=https://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/02/movies/02hono.html|title=My Best Friend's Big Fat (Shouldn't Happen) Scottish Wedding |last=Holden |first=Stephen |author-link=Stephen Holden |newspaper=The New York Times |date=May 2, 2008 |access-date=January 13, 2017 |url-access=limited |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200107043848/https://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/02/movies/02hono.html |archive-date=January 7, 2020 |url-status=live}} Barbara Vancheri of the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette praised the utilization of the "picturesque, romantic" Scotland setting and the cast's willingness to perform, despite devolving into slapstick comedy and tacking on a 1940s film ending. She concluded by explaining its release alongside Iron Man saying: "Made of Honor is made to order for women or couples looking for an alternative to the comic-book adaptation and for a romcom with such obvious and memorable film forebears, it's still breezy fun."{{cite news|url=https://www.post-gazette.com/ae/2008/05/02/Movie-Review-Made-of-Honor/stories/200805020172|title=Movie Review: Made of Honor|last=Vancheri|first=Barbara|newspaper=Pittsburgh Post-Gazette|publisher=Block Communications|date=May 2, 2008|access-date=May 16, 2019|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201125055803/https://www.post-gazette.com/ae/2008/05/02/Movie-Review-Made-of-Honor/stories/200805020172|archive-date=November 25, 2020|url-status=live}}

Elizabeth Weitzman from the New York Daily News gave credit to Dempsey for his comedic timing over material containing "snickering emasculation" and director Paul Weiland for his "brisk pace" direction over "a lazy script from three screenwriters who take the low road every time." She concluded that: "The cinematic equivalent of a cookie-cutter wedding, Made of Honor ultimately feels a little depressing."{{cite news |url=http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/tv-movies/made-honor-wedding-tale-familiar-ring-article-1.327781 |title=Made of Honor is wedding tale with a familiar ring |last=Weitzman |first=Elizabeth |newspaper=New York Daily News|date=June 3, 2008 |access-date=March 20, 2018 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201125115903/http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/tv-movies/made-honor-wedding-tale-familiar-ring-article-1.327781 |archive-date=November 25, 2020 |url-status=dead}} Philip Marchand of the Toronto Star noted how the film's content contains "numerous references to insecure masculinity", saying that: "It's often a problem to determine when a movie is satirizing characters from a superior height and when it's sharing the mental level of those characters."{{cite news|url=https://www.thestar.com/entertainment/movies/2008/05/02/made_of_honor_not_made_in_heaven.html|title=Made of Honor: Not made in heaven|last=Marchand|first=Philip|newspaper=Toronto Star|date=May 2, 2008|access-date=March 20, 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201124211655/https://www.thestar.com/entertainment/movies/2008/05/02/made_of_honor_not_made_in_heaven.html|archive-date=November 24, 2020|url-status=live}} Peter Bradshaw of The Guardian said about the film beyond its "gibberish" title: "Everything else about it is plasticky and nonsensical with no one behaving like a real carbon-based life-form. Monaghan's charm is stifled, and a classy cameo from Sydney Pollack as Dempsey's scapegrace dad goes for nothing. A film to leave at the altar."{{cite news |url=https://www.theguardian.com/film/2008/may/02/comedy.romance |title=Made of Honour|last=Bradshaw |first=Peter |author-link=Peter Bradshaw |newspaper=The Guardian |date=May 2, 2008 |access-date=March 20, 2018 |location=London |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20171130190629/https://www.theguardian.com/film/2008/may/02/comedy.romance |archive-date=November 30, 2017 |url-status=live}} Ed Gonzalez from Slant Magazine called the film "soul-crushingly predictable", lamenting the misuse of Pollack's "ostensible prestige" only for it to be diminished by Kevin Sussman's character, unfunny sex jokes, an irritating soundtrack and defamation of Scottish people.{{cite magazine|url=https://www.slantmagazine.com/film/made-of-honor/|title=Review: Made of Honor|last=Gonzalez|first=Ed|magazine=Slant Magazine|date=April 29, 2008|access-date=May 16, 2019|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200928123412/https://www.slantmagazine.com/film/made-of-honor/|archive-date=September 28, 2020|url-status=live}}

The film was nominated for Choice Movie – Bromantic Comedy at the 2008 Teen Choice Awards, but ultimately lost to What Happens in Vegas.{{cite news|url=http://theenvelope.latimes.com/env-2008-teen-choice-awards-scorecard17jun17,0,2603341.htmlstory|newspaper=Los Angeles Times|date=June 17, 2008|access-date=April 20, 2021|title=2008 Teen Choice Awards winners and nominees|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20080912051322/http://theenvelope.latimes.com/env-2008-teen-choice-awards-scorecard17jun17,0,2603341.htmlstory|archive-date=September 12, 2008|url-status=dead}}