Roberta McCain
{{short description|American political matriarch (1912–2020)}}
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{{Infobox person
| name = Roberta McCain
| image = Roberta McCain at the 1992 launching of USS John S. McCain (DDG-56).jpg
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| caption = McCain in 1992 at the launching of {{USS|John S. McCain|DDG-56}}
| birth_name = Roberta Wright
| birth_date = {{birth date|1912|02|07}}
| birth_place = Muskogee, Oklahoma, U.S.
| death_date = {{Death date and age|2020|10|12|1912|2|7}}
| death_place = Washington, D.C., U.S.
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| resting_place = Arlington National Cemetery
| spouse = {{marriage|John S. McCain Jr.|1933|March 22, 1981|reason=died}}{{cite journal |url = http://www.newsweek.com/id/156488 |title = Hidden Depths |author = Meacham, Jon |journal = Newsweek |date = August 30, 2008 |access-date = September 4, 2008 |author-link = Jon Meacham }}
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| children = 3; including John and Joe
| relatives = Meghan McCain (granddaughter)
Rowena Wright (twin sister)
Bert Andrews (brother-in-law)
}}
Roberta Wright McCain (February 7, 1912 – October 12, 2020) was an American socialite and oil heiress. She was the wife of Admiral John S. McCain Jr., with whom she had three children including U.S. Senator John S. McCain III and stage actor and journalist Joe McCain. McCain was active in the Navy Wives Clubs and her Capitol Hill home was a popular salon for lawmakers and politicians. In 2007 and 2008, she actively campaigned in support of her son John during his presidential bid.
Early life
Roberta Wright and her identical twin sister, Rowena Fay (died August 6, 2011), were born in Muskogee, Oklahoma, on February 7, 1912. She had three additional siblings: Archibald Kidwell Wright, Martha Nadine Wright (married to Bert Andrews) and Alexander Franklin Wright.{{Cite news|last=McFadden|first=Robert D.|date=2020-10-12|title=Roberta McCain, the Senator's Mother and His Beacon, Dies at 108|language=en-US|work=The New York Times|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/12/us/roberta-mccain-dead.html|access-date=2020-10-13|issn=0362-4331}} Their parents were Archibald Grahee Wright, a Los Angeles oil wildcatter, and Myrtle Mae Wright (née Fletcher).{{cite web |url = http://www.wargs.com/political/mccain.html |title = Ancestry of Sen. John McCain |publisher = William Addams Reitwiesner Genealogical Services |first = William Addams |last = Reitwiesner |access-date = May 25, 2014 }} Her father became a stay-at-home dad after gaining wealth from the oil industry and the family traveled constantly, with trips every summer during August. They settled in Los Angeles and she was primarily raised there.
Marriage and family
On January 21, 1933, Wright eloped in Tijuana, Baja California, Mexico, with John S. McCain Jr., a U.S. naval ensign who would later become a four-star Admiral. At the time, Wright was attending the University of Southern California and McCain was attached to {{USS|Oklahoma|BB-37}}.{{Cite news |url = https://heavy.com/news/2017/07/john-mccain-mother-roberta-age-health-parents-kids-family/ |title = Roberta McCain, John's Mother: 5 Fast Facts You Need to Know |last = McBride |first = Jessica |date = July 20, 2017 |work = Heavy.com |access-date = August 26, 2018 |language = en-US }}{{cite news |title = Navy Man, L.A. Girl Win Out in Turbulent Romance |newspaper = Oakland Tribune |date = January 28, 1933 }}{{cite news |title = Society Coed Elopes with Navy Officer: Roberta Wright Defies Family | newspaper=San Francisco Examiner | date=January 28, 1933 }} In 1952, Roberta McCain was the ship sponsor for {{USS|John S. McCain|DL-3}}, named for her father-in-law. She was also an honored guest at the 1992 launching of {{USS|John S. McCain|DDG-56}} which was named for her husband and her father-in-law. She was also active in Navy Wives Clubs. For example, during Christmas 1971, she traveled to Saigon and presented $1,000 (${{Inflation|US|1000|1971|fmt=c}} today) and 14 boxes of clothing to the Vietnam Advisory Board of Operation Helping Hand on behalf of the Pearl Harbor area Navy Wives Clubs.{{cite news |title = Navy Wives Clubs give $1,000 to Helping Hand |newspaper = Pacific Stars and Stripes |date = December 25, 1971 |location = Tokyo, Japan }}
McCain gave birth to three children, one daughter and two sons: Jean Alexandra "Sandy" (McCain) Morgan (1934–2019),{{cite web |last1=Bufkin |first1=Ellie |title=Sandy Morgan, sister of John McCain, dies at 85 |url=https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/sandy-morgan-sister-of-john-mccain-dies-at-85 |website=Washington Examiner |publisher=Washington examiner |access-date=May 26, 2020}} John Sidney McCain III (1936–2018), and Joseph Pinckney "Joe" McCain II (born 1942). She also had 12 grandchildren (one of whom is Meghan McCain), 16 great-grandchildren,{{cite news |url = https://www.westernjournalism.com/john-mccains-mother-turns-105/ |title = John McCan's Mother Turns 105 |work = The Western Journal |access-date = November 23, 2017 |archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20171201032515/https://www.westernjournalism.com/john-mccains-mother-turns-105/ |archive-date = December 1, 2017 |url-status = dead |df = mdy-all }} and six great-great-grandchildren.{{cite web|url=https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/annapolis-md/alexandra-morgan-8916259|title=Alexandra Morgan Obituary - Annapolis, MD|website=Dignity Memorial}} The McCain family was Episcopalian and Roberta McCain said faith is important for her family.{{cite web|url=https://www.azcentral.com/story/news/politics/arizona/2018/08/27/john-mccain-religion-beliefs-raised-episcopal-attended-baptist-church-prisoner-war-pow/1109643002/|title=John McCain and religion: Senator was raised Episcopal, attended Baptist church|last=Castle|first=Lauren|website=azcentral|language=en|access-date=December 1, 2019}} She sent her son, John McCain, to an Episcopalian high school, and kept his prayer book.{{cite web|url=https://www.azcentral.com/story/news/local/karinabland/2018/08/27/roberta-mccain-john-mccains-mother-alive-106-called-him-johnny/1106955002/|title=Sen. John McCain's mother, alive at 106, still called her son 'Johnny'|last=Bland|first=Karina|website=azcentral|language=en|access-date=December 1, 2019}}{{cite web|url=https://www.cbsnews.com/news/transcript-john-mccain-and-his-mother/|title=Transcript: John McCain And His Mother|last=Couric|first=Katie|website=www.cbsnews.com|language=en|access-date=December 1, 2019}} She raised her children while living in Capitol Hill. McCain was a successful socialite who used her home as a salon for lawmakers, which helped her husband's military career. She hosted breakfasts for politicians and other prominent figures. She was friends with many public figures including British military officer Louis Mountbatten, 1st Earl Mountbatten of Burma, oil industrialist J. Paul Getty, and writer and ambassador Clare Boothe Luce.
After John S. McCain III was taken prisoner during the Vietnam War, John S. McCain Jr. and Roberta McCain awaited his release at Pearl Harbor. On November 1, 1967, Roberta McCain wrote to President Lyndon B. Johnson, expressing her support of his policies in Vietnam as a "parent of a son who was shot down in Hanoi, last week, and is now a prisoner-of-war ..."{{cite web|url=https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/military-moms-letter-president-mccains-mother-wrote-lbj/story?id=50874310|title=When McCain's mother wrote LBJ 50 years ago|date=November 3, 2017|website=ABC News|language=en|access-date=August 26, 2018}} In June 1968, Roberta McCain told Parade magazine, "Religion has been of great importance to us in our concern for Johnny, religion and the military tradition of my husband's family. We all pray for the time when we'll see Johnny again."{{cite news |last = Roberts |first = John G. |title = The Admiral and His Son |newspaper = Parade |page = 7 |date = June 30, 1968 }}
In 1971, McCain requested no special sympathy in regard to her son's captivity. She stated that Navy tradition was important in the family; her daughter married a naval officer, John S. McCain III became a naval aviator, and her younger son Joe enlisted in the Navy during the Vietnam War.{{cite news |first = William C. |last = Mann |title = Navy Wife Asks No Sympathy |agency = Associated Press |newspaper = Advocate |location = Victoria, Texas |date = May 31, 1971 }} John S. McCain III was held as a prisoner of war in North Vietnam for five-and-a-half years. When notified upon his release on March 15, 1973, that he had shouted expletives at his captors, Roberta McCain's response was, "Johnny, I'm going to come over there and wash your mouth out with soap."{{cite magazine |title = Johnny, I'll Wash Your Mouth Out |magazine = Time |first = John F. |last = Dickerson |volume = 155 |issue = 8 |page = 44 |issn = 0040-781X |date = February 28, 2000 }}
John S. McCain III said this of his mother: "My mother was raised to be a strong, determined woman who thoroughly enjoyed life, and always tried to make the most of her opportunities. She was encouraged to accept, graciously and with good humor, the responsibilities and sacrifices her choices have required of her. I am grateful to her for the strengths she taught me by example."{{cite web |last = Gross |first = Terry |url = https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=5039481 |title = Shaping Character and Destinies: John McCain |publisher = NPR |date = December 6, 2005 |access-date = May 6, 2012 }}
Later life
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McCain campaigned during her son's 2008 presidential bid, and was active in 2007{{cite news |title = McCain With Mom on Campaign Trail |first = Jim |last = Davenport |agency = Associated Press |date = October 18, 2007 }} and 2008 despite her advanced age.{{cite news |title = McCain's mother visits regional GOP office |last = McNeill |first = Brian |newspaper = Daily Progress |location = Charlottesville, Virginia |date = October 30, 2008 }} In November 2007, her comments during an MSNBC interview about Mitt Romney, his role in organizing the 2002 Winter Olympics, and his Mormonism generated minor political controversy and forced her son to respond to clarify her remarks.{{cite news |title = Play of the Day: McCain's Mom on Mormons |agency = Associated Press |date = November 9, 2007 }}{{cite web |url = https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna21771593 |title = Hardball with Chris Matthews transcript |website = Hardball with Chris Matthews |publisher = MSNBC |date = November 9, 2007 |access-date = May 25, 2014 }} In August 2008, she had a fashion shoot and was featured in a pair of Vogue magazine articles.{{cite journal |last = Reed |first = Julia |archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20080815151754/http://www.style.com/vogue/feature/080108 |url = http://www.style.com/vogue/feature/080108 |title = Roberta McCain: The Firecracker |journal = Vogue |issue = 8 |date = August 2008 |volume = 198 |pages = 214–1 |issn = 0042-8000 |archive-date = August 15, 2008 |access-date = May 25, 2014 }}{{cite journal |last1 = Meisel |first1 = Steven |last2 = Van Lamsweerde |first2 = Inez |last3 = Matadin |first3 = Vinoodh |last4 = Testino |first4 = Mario |last5 = Roy |first5 = Norman Jean |title = Peerless |journal = Vogue |date = August 2008 |volume = 198 |issue = 8 |pages = 70–71 |issn = 0042-8000 }} On May 13, 2009, she appeared on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno.{{cite web |url = https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eIP_BGkkbYM |title = The Tonight Show with Jay Leno |website = YouTube |date = May 13, 2009 |access-date = May 25, 2014 }} McCain's comments about Rush Limbaugh and Keith Olbermann created a stir with politicos on both sides even after her son's failed presidential bid.{{cite web |url = http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2009/05/14/mccain-mom-takes-swipe-at-limbaugh/ |archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20090517222251/http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2009/05/14/mccain-mom-takes-swipe-at-limbaugh/ |url-status = dead |archive-date = May 17, 2009 |title = McCain mom takes swipe at Limbaugh |website = CNN Politics |first = Alexander |last = Mooney |date = May 14, 2009 |access-date = May 25, 2014 }}{{cite news |url = https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2009-may-06-et-onthemedia6-story.html |title = Straight talk from John McCain's mother |newspaper = Los Angeles Times |first = James |last = Rainey |date = May 6, 2009 |access-date = May 6, 2012 }}
McCain's life of traveling with family, specifically her twin sister, was noted by Maureen Orth in The New York Times in December 2007.{{cite news |url = https://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/14/travel/escapes/14sisters.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0 |title = The Road Trip of 2 Lifetimes, and Still Going |newspaper = The New York Times |author-link = Maureen Orth |last = Orth |first = Maureen |date = December 14, 2007 }} On October 22, 2009, she was hospitalized while traveling in Portugal after she fell and injured her head.{{cite web |url = http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2009/10/23/sen-mccains-mother-hospitalized-in-portugal/ |archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20091025161731/http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2009/10/23/sen-mccains-mother-hospitalized-in-portugal/ |url-status = dead |archive-date = October 25, 2009 |title = Sen. McCain's mother hospitalized in Portugal |publisher = CNN Political Ticker |date = October 23, 2009 |access-date = May 6, 2012 }}
For her 100th birthday in 2012, she had a small party at the Capitol Hill Club. A few weeks after her 100th birthday, McCain suffered a mild stroke.{{cite web|url=https://heavy.com/news/2018/09/john-mccain-mother-roberta-mom/|title=John McCain's Mother Roberta McCain: 5 Fast Facts|first=Jessica|last=McBride|date=September 1, 2018}} McCain's centenary was noted in a number of periodicals in the United States,{{cite news |title = A maverick at 100 |newspaper = The Washington Post |date = February 9, 2012 }} including an article by Pulitzer Prize–winning journalist Ken Herman.{{cite news |url = http://www.statesman.com/news/news/opinion/me-and-john-mccains-mom-1/nRkFq/ |title = Me and John McCain's mom |first = Ken |last = Herman |newspaper = Austin American-Statesman |date = February 4, 2012 |access-date = May 25, 2012 }} She was featured in Town & Country magazine later that year.{{cite journal |url = http://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/politics/roberta-mccain-interview |title = At 100, in Command |journal = Town & Country |first = P.J. |last = O'Rourke |date = October 2012 |volume = 166 |issue = 5387 |pages = 100–104 |issn = 0040-9952 }}
In September 2013, television commentator Greta Van Susteren wrote about McCain in an essay that was featured by Politico during their "Women Rule" series.{{cite web |url = http://www.politico.com/story/2013/09/coffee-conversation-and-a-bond-that-transcends-age-and-time-96674.html |title = Coffee, conversation and a bond that transcends age and time |website = Politico |author-link = Greta Van Susteren |last = Van Susteren |first = Greta |date = September 11, 2013 |access-date = May 25, 2012 }} In September 2013, McCain and her parlor were featured in an article in the peer-reviewed academic journal, the Journal of Urban History.{{cite journal |title = Mrs. McCain's Parlor: House and Garden Tours and the Inner-City Restoration Trend in Washington, D.C. |last = Logan |first = Cameron |journal = Journal of Urban History |date = September 2013 |volume = 39 |issue = 5 |pages = 956–974. 19p |issn = 0096-1442 |doi = 10.1177/0096144213479323 |s2cid = 146327105 }}
On the occasion of her 106th birthday in February 2018, members of McCain's family took to social media to express birthday wishes and share memories of McCain over the years.{{Cite news|url=https://people.com/politics/john-mccain-mom-106th-birthday/|title=John McCain Pays Tribute to Mother Roberta on Her 106th Birthday: 'We Love You Mom'|work=PEOPLE.com|access-date=August 26, 2018|language=en}} McCain accompanied other members of her family in June 2018 for the Washington, D.C. screening of the documentary John McCain: For Whom the Bell Tolls.{{Cite news|url=https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/congress/debut-poignant-mccain-documentary-whom-bell-tolls-n875366|title=Debut of poignant McCain documentary 'For Whom the Bell Tolls'|work=NBC News|access-date=August 26, 2018|language=en-US}} Before her son John's death in August 2018, she attended a Capitol Hill event where politicians commemorated the Senator as a living requiem.{{cite news|url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/powerpost/he-stood-up-for-civility-tributes-for-ailing-mccain-a-tacit-contrast-with-trump/2018/05/17/1181334a-5a06-11e8-858f-12becb4d6067_story.html|title=Analysis {{!}} 'He stood up for civility:' Tributes for ailing McCain a tacit contrast with Trump|newspaper=Washington Post|language=en|access-date=August 26, 2018}} After her son's death, she attended the ceremony that marked the arrival of his remains to lie in state in the United States Capitol rotunda{{cite news|url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/retropolis/wp/2018/08/28/john-mccains-remarkable-mother-at-106-roberta-mccain-has-outlived-her-son/|title=John McCain's remarkable mother: At 106, Roberta McCain has outlived her son|newspaper=Washington Post|language=en|access-date=August 31, 2018}} and attended the funeral at the Washington National Cathedral, where eulogies were given by former presidents Barack Obama and George W. Bush, among others.
McCain died peacefully on October 12, 2020, at the age of 108 at her home in Washington, D.C., {{Age in years and days|2018|8|25|2020|10|12}} after her son John McCain.{{cite news|url=https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/obituaries/roberta-mccain-rebellious-heiress-navy-wife-and-mother-of-senator-dies-at-108/2020/10/12/0c40394c-c5dc-11df-94e1-c5afa35a9e59_story.html |title=Roberta W. McCain, maverick mother of Sen. John McCain, dies |newspaper=The Washington Post|first=Emma|last=Brown |date=October 12, 2020 |access-date=October 12, 2020}}{{Cite web |title=John McCain's Mother Roberta Dies at 108: 'I Couldn't Have Asked for a Better Role Model,' Cindy McCain Says |url=https://people.com/politics/roberta-mccain-dies-at-108/ |access-date=2024-07-23 |website=Peoplemag |language=en}} A funeral service was held for her on November 7, 2020, at All Saints Episcopal Church in Chevy Chase, Maryland.{{cite web |url = https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GPMhBejghV0 |title = Roberta McCain funeral on Saturday November 7th at 11 a.m. |website = YouTube |date = November 7, 2020 }} At the time of her death, her son Joe was the only one of her children still living; her daughter Jean McCain Morgan had died of mesothelioma the previous November, aged 85. She was buried next to her husband at Arlington National Cemetery.{{cite web|url=https://eu.azcentral.com/story/news/politics/arizona/2019/11/06/sandy-morgan-late-sen-john-mccain-older-sister-has-died/2508610001/|title=John McCain's older sister, Jean Alexandra 'Sandy' McCain Morgan, dies at 85|work=eu.azcentral.com|access-date=November 6, 2019}}{{cite web|url=https://people.com/politics/john-mccain-mom-roberta-mccain-turns-108-after-pneumonia/|title=John McCain's Mom Roberta McCain Is 108 & 'Doing Great': Inside Her Birthday After Pneumonia Scare|website=PEOPLE.com}} Cindy McCain, her daughter-in-law, posted on Twitter “I couldn’t have asked for a better role model or a better friend.”{{Cite web |title=John McCain's Mother Roberta Dies at 108: 'I Couldn't Have Asked for a Better Role Model,' Cindy McCain Says |url=https://people.com/politics/roberta-mccain-dies-at-108/ |access-date=2024-07-23 |website=Peoplemag |language=en}}
See also
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References
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External links
- [http://www.wargs.com/political/mccain.html Ancestry of Sen. John McCain]
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- [https://ancexplorer.army.mil/publicwmv/#/arlington-national/search/results/1/CgZtY2NhaW4SB3JvYmVydGE-/ Arlington National Cemetery]
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