We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful

{{Short description|1992 single by Morrissey}}

{{Use dmy dates|date=May 2022}}

{{Infobox song

| name = We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful

| cover = We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful.gif

| alt =

| border = yes

| type = single

| artist = Morrissey

| album = Your Arsenal

| released = {{Start date|1992|04|27|df=y}}

| recorded =

| studio = Utopia (North London)

| genre =

| length = {{Duration|m=2|s=29}}

| label = His Master's Voice

| writer = * Morrissey

| producer = Mick Ronson

| chronology = Morrissey

| prev_title = My Love Life

| prev_year = 1991

| next_title = You're the One for Me, Fatty

| next_year = 1992

| misc = {{External music video|{{YouTube|l6g0gDrCUi8|"We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful"}}}}

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"We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful" is a song by English singer-songwriter Morrissey from his third studio album, Your Arsenal (1992). It was released as the lead single from the album on 27 April 1992 by His Master's Voice. It was the first Morrissey single to be co-written with guitarist Alain Whyte and produced by glam rock guitarist Mick Ronson, known for his work with David Bowie as one of the Spiders from Mars. The song peaked at {{abbr|No.|Number}} 17 on the UK Singles Chart and No. 9 in Ireland.

Background and content

Morrissey said that the lyrics were about the music scene in Manchester, with bands contesting for success. James lead singer Tim Booth has claimed the song is about the success James had as a fellow Manchester band, once performing it at a festival in place of Morrissey.{{Cite web|date=22 March 2016|title=1990s Indie Icons James Are Set To Topple Adele from The Number One Spot – We Spoke To Frontman Tim Booth {{!}} NME|url=https://www.nme.com/blogs/nme-blogs/1990s-indie-icons-james-are-set-to-topple-adele-from-number-1-we-spoke-to-frontman-tim-booth-769675|access-date=14 January 2021|website=NME {{!}} Music, Film, TV, Gaming & Pop Culture News|language=en-GB}}{{Cite web|date=8 July 2019|title=Tim Booth of James on 'Living in Extraordinary Times' ...and saving Batman|url=https://vanyaland.com/2019/07/08/tim-booth-of-james-on-living-in-extraordinary-times-and-saving-batman/|access-date=14 January 2021|website=Vanyaland|language=en-US}} Morrissey, however, states that the song is not about James.{{Cite web|title=Wikipedia - MESSAGES FROM MORRISSEY - MORRISSEY CENTRAL - Wikipedia|url=https://www.morrisseycentral.com/messagesfrommorrissey/wikipedia|access-date=8 June 2021|website=MORRISSEY CENTRAL}} On hating when his friends became successful, Morrissey said: "When my old friend Simon Topping (the frontman of Manchester band A Certain Ratio) appeared on the cover of the NME, I died a thousand deaths of sorrow and lay down in the woods to die."{{cn|date=February 2025}}

Critical reception

{{Album ratings

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Andrew Collins in NME gave a very negative review of the single, writing that "this is by far and away the ex-Smith's WORST single" and described the music as "the sound of five men bashing around in the darkness in search of a tune" before finishing the review by announcing "Moz is history, and we'd all do well to learn it."{{cn|date=February 2025}} In a retrospective review, Ned Raggett of AllMusic wrote "It may be a mouthful, but as delivered it becomes a wonderfully funny, intentionally bitchy sentiment for this EP's lead track."

Live performances

Morrissey debuted the song during the second US leg of his tour promoting the Kill Uncle album. The first half of the song was performed during the aborted gig at Pauley Pavilion in 1991, in which 48 people were injured as the crowd rushed the stage.{{Cite web|url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1991-11-03-me-1598-story.html|title=Pop Singer Morrissey Blamed for Melee : Violence: UCLA and a promoter say he should not have urged the crowd to move in closer. The rush injured 48 people.|date=3 November 1991|website=Los Angeles Times}} It then was performed in concert for the duration of his tour in 1992 promoting Your Arsenal. Fellow Manchester band James performed it as a set opener when standing in for Morrissey at Glastonbury, with frontman Tim Booth's stating "this is our Morrissey impression".

Track listings

7-inch vinyl and cassette

  1. "We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful"
  2. "Suedehead" (live London 4/10/91)

12-inch vinyl (UK)

  1. "We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful"
  2. "Suedehead" (live London 4/10/91)
  3. "I've Changed My Plea to Guilty" (live London 4/10/91)
  4. "Pregnant for the Last Time" (live London 4/10/91)

CD (UK)

  1. "We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful"
  2. "Suedehead" (live London 4/10/91)
  3. "I've Changed My Plea to Guilty" (live London 4/10/91)
  4. "Alsatian Cousin" (live London 4/10/91)

12-inch vinyl and CD (US)

  1. "We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful"
  2. "Suedehead" (live London 4/10/91)
  3. "I've Changed My Plea to Guilty" (live London 4/10/91)
  4. "Pregnant for the Last Time" (live London 4/10/91)
  5. "Alsatian Cousin" (live London 4/10/91)

class="wikitable"
Region

! Record label

! Format

! Catalogue number

UKHis Master's Voice7-inch vinylPOP1629
UKHis Master's Voice12-inch vinyl12POP1629
UKHis Master's VoiceCompact discCDPOP1629
UKHis Master's VoiceCassetteTCPOP1629

Musicians

Charts

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!Chart (1992)

!Peak
position

scope="row"|Australia (ARIA){{cite Ryan|page=194}}

|55

scope="row"|Europe (Eurochart Hot 100){{cite magazine|title=Eurochart Hot 100 Singles|magazine=Music & Media|volume=9|issue=20|page=27|date=16 May 1992}}

|63

{{single chart|Ireland2|9|song=We Hate It When Our Friends Become...|rowheader=true|access-date=29 March 2022}}
{{single chart|UK|17|date=19920509|rowheader=true|access-date=29 March 2022}}
{{single chart|Billboardalternativesongs|2|artist=Morrissey|rowheader=true|access-date=29 March 2022}}

Release history

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!scope="col"|Region

!scope="col"|Date

!scope="col"|Formats

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!scope="col"|{{abbr|Ref.|Reference}}

scope="row"|United Kingdom

|27 April 1992

|CD

|{{hlist|His Master's Voice}}

|align="center"|{{cite magazine|title=New Releases: Singles|magazine=Music Week|page=21|date=25 April 1992}}

References

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