You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison
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| type = Song
| artist = My Chemical Romance
| album = Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge
| released = June 8, 2004
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| genre = Emo
| length = {{duration|m=2|s=53}}
| label = Reprise
| writer = {{flatlist|
- Frank Iero
- Matt Pelissier
- {{nowrap|Ray Toro}}
- Gerard Way
- {{nowrap|Mikey Way}}
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| producer = Howard Benson
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"You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" is a song by the American band My Chemical Romance, released as the fourth track from their second studio album, Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge (2004). The song was written by band members Frank Iero, Matt Pelissier, Ray Toro, Gerard Way, and Mikey Way, and was produced by Howard Benson. "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" is an emo song primarily inspired by Gerard Way's relationship with Bert McCracken, who also provides backing vocals for the track. The song tells the narrative of a prisoner who panics about his life in prison, while touching on themes of masculinity and sexual fluidity.
"You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" received acclaim from music critics for its lyrics and sound, and has been deemed a fan favorite; multiple critics have also identified the track as being one of the best in My Chemical Romance's discography. The track was frequently performed in the band's live shows prior to the release of the band's fourth album Danger Days: The True Lives of the Fabulous Killjoys (2010), and was later performed as part of their reunion tour. The track was also included on the band's 2014 greatest hits album, May Death Never Stop You. It has been certified gold by the Recording Industry Association of America.
Background and release
File:Bert McCracken - Street Scene 02.jpg's relationship with Bert McCracken (pictured in 2005).]]
My Chemical Romance had first supported The Used during a concert in November 2002, and the two bands subsequently began touring together in February 2003.{{Harvnb|Bryant|2014|pp=|p=71}} During this time, the frontmen of the two bands, Gerard Way and Bert McCracken, quickly formed a close friendship; Way later said he wanted McCracken to sing on "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" due to him being "one of the few people that I've met on the road and really connected with".{{Cite web |date=June 8, 2021 |title=Read AltPress' first interview with Gerard Way of My Chemical Romance |url=https://www.altpress.com/my-chemical-romance-first-ap-interview-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240607213533/https://www.altpress.com/my-chemical-romance-first-ap-interview-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge/ |archive-date=June 7, 2024 |access-date=April 3, 2025 |website=Alternative Press}} Way additionally noted how he embraced method acting while recording the song, performing in an attic while "[not] wearing very many clothes" and playing pornography in the room.{{Harvnb|Bryant|2014|pp=|p=93}}
"You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" was released on June 8, 2004, as the fourth track on Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge.{{Harvnb|Bryant|2014|pp=|p=105}}{{Cite AV media notes |title=Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge |others=My Chemical Romance |year=2004 |publisher=Reprise Records |id=9362-48615-2 |type=CD}} A live recording of the track was subsequently included on the 2006 live album Life on the Murder Scene,{{Cite web |last=Montgomery |first=James |date=January 18, 2006 |title=My Chemical Romance's 'Murder' DVD Just Got Bigger |url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1521047/20060118/story.jhtml |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060303074834/http://www.mtv.com:80/news/articles/1521047/20060118/story.jhtml |archive-date=March 3, 2006 |access-date=March 12, 2025 |website=MTV News}} and the song appeared on the band's 2014 greatest hits album May Death Never Stop You.{{Cite web |last=Sawdey |first=Evan |date=April 16, 2014 |title=My Chemical Romance: May Death Never Stop You: The Greatest Hits (2001-2013) |url=https://www.popmatters.com/180496-my-chemical-romance-may-death-never-stop-you-the-greatest-hits-2001-2495671509.html |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250111231422/https://www.popmatters.com/180496-my-chemical-romance-may-death-never-stop-you-the-greatest-hits-2001-2495671509.html |archive-date=January 11, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |website=PopMatters}} A remastered version of the track, produced by Rich Costey, is also expected to appear on a deluxe edition of Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge, alongside a 2005 live recording from BBC Radio 1's The Lock Up.{{Cite web |last=Garner |first=Emily |date=April 11, 2025 |title=MCR announce remixed and remastered Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge (Deluxe Edition) |url=https://www.kerrang.com/my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-deluxe-edition-june-6-remixed-remastered |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250411165239/https://www.kerrang.com/my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-deluxe-edition-june-6-remixed-remastered |archive-date=April 11, 2025 |access-date=April 11, 2025 |website=Kerrang!}}
"You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" was also a live staple for the band prior to the release of their album Danger Days: The True Lives of the Fabulous Killjoys,{{Cite magazine |last=Rutherford |first=Kevin |date=November 22, 2017 |title=The Top 40 Deep Cuts by Popular Rock Bands of the 21st Century: Critic's Picks |url=https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/best-deep-cuts-by-rock-bands-21st-century-8046229/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250313213406/https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/best-deep-cuts-by-rock-bands-21st-century-8046229/ |archive-date=March 13, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |magazine=Billboard}} being deemed a "live favorite" for both My Chemical Romance and their fans;{{Cite web |last=Law |first=Sam |date=April 9, 2021 |title=The 20 greatest My Chemical Romance songs – ranked |url=https://www.kerrang.com/the-20-greatest-my-chemical-romance-songs-ranked |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250130202603/https://www.kerrang.com/the-20-greatest-my-chemical-romance-songs-ranked |archive-date=January 30, 2025 |access-date=March 24, 2025 |website=Kerrang!}} My Chemical Romance has included it in the setlists of their 2004 KROQ Almost Acoustic Christmas performance (accompanied by McCracken),{{Cite web |last=Campbell |first=Rachel |date=March 9, 2020 |title=Gerard Way, Bert McCracken isolated vocals will take you back to 2004 |url=https://www.altpress.com/gerard-way-bert-mccracken-you-know-what-they-do-to-guys-like-us-in-prison/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20221204183106/https://www.altpress.com/gerard-way-bert-mccracken-you-know-what-they-do-to-guys-like-us-in-prison/ |archive-date=December 4, 2022 |access-date=March 24, 2025 |website=Alternative Press}} the 2005 Warped Tour,{{Cite web |last=Kaufman |first=Gil |date=June 20, 2005 |title=My Chemical Romance And A Very Stiff Chicken Rock Milwaukee Warped Tour Stop |url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1504365/20050620/my_chemical_romance.jhtml |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060117032436/http://www.mtv.com:80/news/articles/1504365/20050620/my_chemical_romance.jhtml |archive-date=January 17, 2006 |access-date=March 24, 2025 |website=MTV News}} the Black Parade World Tour,{{Harvnb|Bryant|2014|pp=|p=199}} and their reunion tour{{Cite magazine |last=Kaufman |first=Gil |date=August 22, 2022 |title=My Chemical Romance Kick-Off Long-Awaited North American Reunion Tour With 2 Super-Deep Rare Cuts |url=https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/my-chemical-romance-kick-off-reunion-tour-deep-cuts-1235129141/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20241207031753/https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/my-chemical-romance-kick-off-reunion-tour-deep-cuts-1235129141/ |archive-date=December 7, 2024 |access-date=March 24, 2025 |magazine=Billboard}} (featuring Sara Taylor of Youth Code during their first show in 2019).{{Cite magazine |last=Phull |first=Hardeep |date=December 21, 2019 |title=My Chemical Romance Return to 'The Black Parade' and More at First Show Since 2012 |url=https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/my-chemical-romance-2019-reunion-show-recap-los-angeles-8546949/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250204092957/https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/my-chemical-romance-2019-reunion-show-recap-los-angeles-8546949/ |archive-date=February 4, 2025 |access-date=March 24, 2025 |magazine=Billboard}} On April 11, 2025, the song was certified gold by the Recording Industry Association of America.
Composition and lyrics
"You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" is an emo song{{Cite magazine |last=Weatherby |first=Taylor |date=November 14, 2019 |title=The 15 Best My Chemical Romance Songs: Staff Picks |url=https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/my-chemical-romance-best-songs-8543517/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250130202603/https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/my-chemical-romance-best-songs-8543517/ |archive-date=January 30, 2025 |access-date=March 1, 2025 |magazine=Billboard}} which Kirk Miller of Rolling Stone characterized as being a "thrash-cabaret hybrid".{{Cite magazine |last=Miller |first=Kirk |date=July 8, 2004 |title=Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge |url=https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-album-reviews/three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-201019/ |url-access=subscription |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20241227041451/https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-album-reviews/three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-201019/ |archive-date=December 27, 2024 |access-date=March 1, 2025 |magazine=Rolling Stone}} The song begins with a quietly-played staccato piano line and a restrained sound called "gothic shoegazing" by Terry Bezer of Louder Sound,{{Cite web |last=Belt |first=Andy |date=October 1, 2014 |title=The Top 15 Songs of My Chemical Romance |url=https://www.popmatters.com/186298-so-long-and-goodnight-the-top-15-songs-of-my-chemical-romance-2495609990.html |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250206211709/https://www.popmatters.com/186298-so-long-and-goodnight-the-top-15-songs-of-my-chemical-romance-2495609990.html |archive-date=February 6, 2025 |access-date=March 1, 2025 |website=PopMatters}}{{Cite web |last=Bezer |first=Terry |date=June 29, 2022 |title=My Chemical Romance's Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge: The best alternative album of the century so far? |url=https://www.loudersound.com/features/my-chemical-romances-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-the-best-alternative-album-of-the-century-so-far |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250315102615/https://www.loudersound.com/features/my-chemical-romances-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-the-best-alternative-album-of-the-century-so-far |archive-date=March 15, 2025 |access-date=March 27, 2025 |website=Louder Sound}} before exploding into a "high-octane" sound dominated by guitars and drums. Winston Robbins of Consequence stylistically compared the song to "Killer Queen" by Queen, particularly in Gerard Way's vocal delivery,{{Cite web |last=Robbins |first=Winston |date=October 16, 2010 |title=Dusting 'Em Off: My Chemical Romance – Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge |url=https://consequence.net/2010/10/dusting-em-off-my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250214091039/https://consequence.net/2010/10/dusting-em-off-my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge/ |archive-date=February 14, 2025 |access-date=March 1, 2025 |website=Consequence}} while Johnny Loftus of AllMusic compared the song to those by At the Drive-In.{{Cite web |last=Loftus |first=Johnny |title=Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge - My Chemical Romance |url=https://www.allmusic.com/album/three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-mw0000738265 |url-status=live |archive-url=https://archive.today/20250327035105/https://www.allmusic.com/album/three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge-mw0000738265 |archive-date=March 27, 2025 |access-date=March 27, 2025 |website=AllMusic}}
Lyrically, "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" follows a "sheltered" protagonist who is arrested at a gunfight and imprisoned, whereupon he begins to panic about his life in jail.{{Cite web |last=Gordon |first=Arielle |date=December 8, 2019 |title=My Chemical Romance: Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge Album Review |url=https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250203104608/https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-for-sweet-revenge/ |archive-date=February 3, 2025 |access-date=March 27, 2025 |website=Pitchfork}} The song is tied to the loose narrative of Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge featuring lovers killed in a gunfight, with Arielle Gordon of Pitchfork calling the track the "most successful manifestation of the album's concept". The song features backing vocals and screams from McCracken, who enters around the one-minute mark and sings certain lines alongside Way. Way has cited touring with The Used as the inspiration for "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison", commenting that it "feels like jail when you've got eight or nine guys in a van" and comparing McCracken to a "cellmate". Way has also cited a night where he and McCracken "drained a hotel minibar, smoked pack after pack of cigarettes, and annihilated themselves" as partially inspiring the song.{{Cite web |last=Greenwald |first=Andy |date=June 8, 2019 |title=My Chemical Romance: Spin's 2005 Cover Story, 'They Came From Outer Jersey' |url=https://www.spin.com/2019/06/my-chemical-romance-spin-2005-cover-story-they-came-from-outer-jersey/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240203180154/https://www.spin.com/2019/06/my-chemical-romance-spin-2005-cover-story-they-came-from-outer-jersey/ |archive-date=February 3, 2024 |access-date=April 3, 2025 |website=Spin}}
Additionally, according to My Chemical Romance biographer Tom Bryant, the song was inspired by a kiss shared by Way and McCracken during a game of truth or dare.{{Harvnb|Bryant|2014|pp=|p=95}} Way has commented how "You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" touches on themes of "lost masculinity", as a result of him being surrounded by men while touring. These themes have been noticed by music critics, with Andy Greenwald of Spin writing that the track "dabbled in homoerotic vaudeville" and Taylor Markarian of Loudwire pointing out specific lyrics like "how we're just two men as God had made us" and "they make me do push-ups in drag" as depicting sexual fluidity and the norms of masculinity.{{Cite web |last=Markarian |first=Taylor |date=June 8, 2022 |title=10 Facts About 'Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge' Only Superfans Would Know |url=https://loudwire.com/my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-sweet-revenge-facts/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250320012213/https://loudwire.com/my-chemical-romance-three-cheers-sweet-revenge-facts/ |archive-date=March 20, 2025 |access-date=April 3, 2025 |website=Loudwire}}
Reception
"You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison" has been deemed a fan favorite,{{Cite web |last=Eastoe |first=Dillon |date=January 11, 2021 |title=11 Underrated Songs: My Chemical Romance |url=https://www.gigwise.com/features/3394976/11-underrated-songs-my-chemical-romance/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250120214115/https://www.gigwise.com/features/3394976/11-underrated-songs-my-chemical-romance/ |archive-date=January 20, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |website=Gigwise}} and has received acclaim from music critics, with particular praise towards its lyrics and sound. Johnny Loftus of AllMusic, in a review of the album, lauded the song for its vivid imagery and its "claustrophobic, messy, and juiced with adrenaline" nature. Gordon praised the track for its use of both drama and black humor, while Miller noted how the song exemplified the "sneaky sense of humor" and metal licks present on Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge as a whole. Jasamine White-Gluz of Exclaim! wrote how "it's hard not to enjoy" the track due to its "ragtime punk feel".{{Cite web |last=White-Gluz |first=Jasamine |date=August 31, 2004 |title=My Chemical Romance - Three Cheers for Sweet Revenge |url=https://exclaim.ca/music/article/my_chemical_romance-three_cheers_for_sweet |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250116072634/https://exclaim.ca/music/article/my_chemical_romance-three_cheers_for_sweet |archive-date=January 16, 2025 |access-date=March 27, 2025 |website=Exclaim!}}
The staff of Billboard has ranked the song the second-best deep cut by a rock band in the 21st century, with Kevin Rutherford writing that it should have been released as a single despite not having an "immediate, candy-sweet hook". The song has also performed well in rankings of My Chemical Romance's discography, with the staffs of Spin and Billboard have included the song in their lists of the band's 10 and 15 best songs, respectively.{{Cite web |date=April 4, 2019 |title=Three Cheers for Sweet Career: My Chemical Romance's 10 Best Songs |url=https://www.spin.com/2019/04/my-chemical-romance-songs-best-hits-list/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250120214119/https://www.spin.com/2019/04/my-chemical-romance-songs-best-hits-list/ |archive-date=January 20, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |website=Spin}} Andy Belt of PopMatters included the song in his list of the top 15 songs by the band, noting how the band could "make existence sound like an absolute nightmare" on the track. Both Sam Law of Kerrang! and Marianne Eloise of Louder Sound included the song in their respective lists of the 20 greatest songs by the band, with the latter praising the band for being "at their campest and weirdest best" on the track.{{Cite web |last=Eloise |first=Marianne |date=May 27, 2024 |title=The 20 greatest My Chemical Romance songs ever |url=https://www.loudersound.com/features/the-20-greatest-my-chemical-romance-songs-ever |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250306102731/https://www.loudersound.com/features/the-20-greatest-my-chemical-romance-songs-ever |archive-date=March 6, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |website=Louder Sound}} In rankings of the band's discography as a whole, Chloe Spinks of Gigwise ranked the song #3 (out of 79), lauding its lyrics and musical dynamics,{{Cite web |last=Spinks |first=Chloe |date=June 13, 2022 |title=Every My Chemical Romance song ranked from worst to best |url=https://www.gigwise.com/features/3419918/every-my-chemical-romance-song-ranked-from-worst-to-best/ |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20250127151411/https://www.gigwise.com/features/3419918/every-my-chemical-romance-song-ranked-from-worst-to-best/ |archive-date=January 27, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |website=Gigwise}} while Cassie Whitt and Jake Richardson of Loudwire ranked it #6 (out of 71).{{Cite web |last1=Whitt |first1=Cassie |last2=Richardson |first2=Jake |date=March 24, 2019 |title=Every My Chemical Romance Song Ranked |url=https://loudwire.com/every-my-chemical-romance-song-ranked/ |url-status=live |archive-url=http://web.archive.org/web/20240713044713/https://loudwire.com/every-my-chemical-romance-song-ranked/ |archive-date=July 13, 2024 |access-date=March 28, 2025 |website=Loudwire}}
Credits and personnel
Credits are adapted from Apple Music.{{Cite web |title=You Know What They Do to Guys Like Us in Prison — Song by My Chemical Romance — Apple Music |url=https://music.apple.com/gb/song/you-know-what-they-do-to-guys-like-us-in-prison/1156311436 |url-status=live |archive-url=https://archive.today/20250328184705/https://music.apple.com/gb/song/you-know-what-they-do-to-guys-like-us-in-prison/1156311436 |archive-date=March 28, 2025 |access-date=March 28, 2025}}{{col-begin}}
{{col-2}}My Chemical Romance
- Gerard Way{{spaced en dash}} songwriter, lead vocals
- Raymond Toro{{spaced en dash}} songwriter, background vocals, lead guitar
- Frank Iero{{spaced en dash}} songwriter, background vocals, rhythm guitar
- Mikey Way{{spaced en dash}} songwriter, bass guitar
- Matt Pelissier{{spaced en dash}} songwriter, drums, percussion
{{col-2}}Additional personnel
- Howard Benson{{spaced en dash}} producer, mixing engineer
- Bert McCracken{{spaced en dash}} vocals
- Paul DeCarli{{spaced en dash}} programming, editing engineer
- Ted Jensen{{spaced en dash}} mastering engineer
- Keith Nelson{{spaced en dash}} guitar technician
- Jon Nicholson{{spaced en dash}} drum technician
- Eric Miller{{spaced en dash}} engineer
- Mike Plotnikoff{{spaced en dash}} engineer
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Certifications
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References
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