How to Have Sex
{{Short description|2023 film by Molly Manning Walker}}
{{Use dmy dates|date=January 2024}}
{{About|the film|an overview|Human sexual activity}}
{{Infobox film
| name = How to Have Sex
| image = How to Have Sex poster.jpg
| caption = Release poster
| director = Molly Manning Walker
| writer = Molly Manning Walker
| producer = {{Plainlist|
- Emily Leo
- Ivana MacKinnon
- Konstantinos Kontovrakis
}}
| starring = {{Plainlist|
- Mia McKenna-Bruce
- Lara Peake
- Samuel Bottomley
- Shaun Thomas
- Enva Lewis
- Laura Ambler
}}
| cinematography = Nicolas Canniccioni
| editing = Fin Oates
| music = James Jacob
| production_companies = {{Plainlist|
}}
| distributor = Mubi
| released = {{Film date|df=yes|2023|5|19|Cannes|2023|11|3|United Kingdom}}
| runtime = 91 minutes{{Cite web|date=October 23, 2023|title=How To Have Sex (15)|url=https://www.bbfc.co.uk/release/how-to-have-sex-q29sbgvjdglvbjpwwc0xmde1ndu5|access-date=October 23, 2023|publisher=BBFC|archive-date=2 November 2023|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20231102211957/https://www.bbfc.co.uk/release/how-to-have-sex-q29sbgvjdglvbjpwwc0xmde1ndu5|url-status=live}}
| country = {{Plainlist|
- United Kingdom{{cite web |url=https://cineuropa.org/film/441334/ |title=How to Have Sex |website=Cineuropa |access-date=2 January 2024 |archive-date=18 January 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240118165259/https://cineuropa.org/film/441334/ |url-status=live }}
- Greece
- Belgium
}}
| language = English
| budget =
| gross = $1.2 million{{cite Box Office Mojo|id=22890246|title=How to Have Sex (2023)|access-date=22 April 2024|publisher_hide=yes}}{{cite The Numbers|The Numbers - Financial Information|id=How-to-Have-Sex-(2023-United-Kingdom)#tab=summary|title=How to Have Sex (2023)|access-date=22 April 2024|publisher_hide=yes}}
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How to Have Sex is a 2023 coming-of-age drama film written and directed by Molly Manning Walker, in her directorial debut. The film stars Mia McKenna-Bruce, Lara Peake and Enva Lewis as three sixteen-year-old best friends who encounter new friendships, sexual pressures and self-discovery during a holiday. The cast also includes Samuel Bottomley, Shaun Thomas and Laura Ambler.
How to Have Sex had its world premiere at the Cannes Film Festival in the Un Certain Regard section on 19 May 2023, ultimately winning that section's top prize. The film was released theatrically by Mubi in the United Kingdom on 3 November 2023,{{Cite web |date=2023-10-31 |title=How to Have Sex lands near-perfect Rotten Tomatoes score ahead of release |url=https://ca.movies.yahoo.com/sex-lands-near-perfect-rotten-232700802.html |access-date=2024-12-01 |website=ca.movies.yahoo.com |language=en-CA}} and in the United States on 2 February 2024.
Plot
Sixteen-year-old best friends Tara, Em, and Skye head to the party resort of Malia on the Greek island of Crete for a rites-of-passage holiday. While Em will be off to college in the autumn, Tara and Skye are less certain of their futures. The girls all look forward to drinking, clubbing, and hooking up in what should be the best summer of their lives. Tara, the only virgin in the trio, feels pressure to match the sexual experiences of her friends.
While on her hotel room balcony, a neighbouring guest, Badger, flirts with Tara, who reciprocates his advances. He and one of his roommates, Paddy, invite Tara and her group to spend the night partying with his friends. Skye, who is secretly attracted to Badger, openly teases Tara about her lack of experience despite Tara's embarrassment, and encourages her to lose her virginity to Paddy, while Em intends to hook up with Badger's lesbian friend, Paige. Tara grows closer to Badger, but is disheartened when she witnesses him volunteer to go onstage at an outdoor club, in which he inadvertently commits to getting an erection by having multiple strangers perform oral sex on him as part of a game, and she leaves. She runs into Paddy, and he takes her to the beach and pressures her for sex, which she reluctantly agrees to.
The next morning, Em and Badger become concerned when Tara is missing, having not returned to the hotel. However, Tara reappears, and reveals that she spent the night disillusioned and groggy after sex with Paddy and partied with kind strangers who let her spend the night at their villa. Tara seems embarrassed at her sexual experience and only privately reveals it to Em, and attempts to avoid admitting it to Skye. Tara also learns that she failed her exams and will have to retake them, further upsetting her. Paddy treats Tara poorly and distantly around their friends, but Badger, who learned of Tara's virginity through Skye (who confided in him in an attempt to humiliate Tara), takes care of her when she grows distant from the group and declines their invitation to skinny-dip at the beach. He takes her back to the hotel, and when she falls asleep, he puts her to bed and departs.
In the morning, the final day of the trip, Tara attempts to sleep in, but Paddy enters the room and makes romantic overtures, which Badger witnesses and is heartbroken by. When they are alone, Paddy tries to initiate sex with Tara again, but is rebuffed. Shortly afterward, Tara is awoken to Paddy on top of her, initiating intercourse despite her visible discomfort. He is soon interrupted by Skye and Badger entering the room and groggily settling in between the two on the bed to sleep. Skye quietly teases Tara about apparently sleeping with Paddy again, prompting Tara to silently leave the bed in tears.
In the afternoon, the friends depart the hotel, sharing goodbyes with the other group and discussing plans to meet up in the future. Tara hugs Badger goodbye, avoiding interacting with Paddy. At the airport, Skye again presses Tara for details of her encounters with Paddy, which Tara attempts to evade. When alone with Em, Tara privately admits that Paddy raped her by having sex with her while she was asleep. Em initially asserts that Tara should have said something during the trip, but then assures Tara that what happened was not "fine". On their way to board the plane back home to England, Em promises Tara that together they will overcome their troubles.
Cast
- Mia McKenna-Bruce as Tara
- Lara Peake as Skye
- Samuel Bottomley as Paddy
- Shaun Thomas as Badger
- Enva Lewis as Em
- Laura Ambler as Paige
- Eilidh Loan as Fi
- Daisy Jelley as Gemma
Production
Mia McKenna-Bruce, Lara Peake, Shaun Thomas, Samuel Bottomley, Enva Lewis and Laura Ambler joined the cast of the film, with Molly Manning Walker directing from a screenplay she wrote, and shooting in Greece in October 2022, according to Deadline Hollywood,{{cite web |last=Wiseman |first=Andreas |title=MK2 Boards Film4 & BFI-Backed 'How To Have Sex'; 'Vampire Academy' & 'Persuasion' Actress Mia McKenna-Bruce Among Cast |url=https://deadline.com/2022/10/how-have-sex-vampire-academy-persuasion-mia-mckenna-bruce-film4-bbc-mk2-1235151736/ |website=Deadline Hollywood |date=21 October 2022 |access-date=27 April 2023 |archive-date=17 April 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230417095955/https://deadline.com/2022/10/how-have-sex-vampire-academy-persuasion-mia-mckenna-bruce-film4-bbc-mk2-1235151736/ |url-status=live }} while according to The Guardian, the film was shot on location in Malia, Crete, over two months from September 2021.{{cite news |last=Segalov |first=Michael |url=https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/oct/27/how-to-have-sex-film-mia-mckenna-bruce-cannes-interview |title='I sobbed my heart out': How to Have Sex star Mia McKenna-Bruce on consent, girlhood, and talking to teens |newspaper=The Guardian |date=27 October 2023 |access-date=2 January 2024 |archive-date=6 January 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240106150939/https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/oct/27/how-to-have-sex-film-mia-mckenna-bruce-cannes-interview |url-status=live }}
Release
How to Have Sex had its world premiere in the Un Certain Regard section of the Cannes Film Festival on 19 May 2023.{{Cite web |date=10 May 2023 |title=The Screenings Guide of the 76th Festival de Cannes |url=https://cdn-medias.festival-cannes.com/uploads/2023/05/2023_cannes_horaires_web-2.pdf |publisher=Cannes Film Festival |page=7 |access-date=14 May 2023 |archive-date=11 May 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230511182932/https://cdn-medias.festival-cannes.com/uploads/2023/05/2023_cannes_horaires_web-2.pdf |url-status=live}}{{cite web|url=https://deadline.com/2023/04/cannes-film-festival-2023-official-selection-list-1235323965/|title=Cannes Film Festival Lineup: Haynes, Anderson, Glazer, Kore-Eda, Wenders In Competition – Full List|website=Deadline Hollywood|first=Nancy|last=Tartaglione|date=April 13, 2023|access-date=April 27, 2023|archive-date=19 April 2023|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230419132911/https://deadline.com/2023/04/cannes-film-festival-2023-official-selection-list-1235323965/|url-status=live}} The film ultimately won that section's top prize.
Prior to its debut, Mubi acquired distribution rights to the film for North America, United Kingdom, Ireland, Italy, Latin America, Turkey and Benelux.{{cite web|url=https://deadline.com/2023/04/mubi-molly-manning-walker-how-to-have-sex-cannes-1235339362/|title=Mubi Picks Up Molly Manning Walker's Feature 'How To Have Sex' Ahead Of Cannes Debut|website=Deadline Hollywood|first=Zac|last=Ntim|date=April 27, 2023|access-date=April 27, 2023|archive-date=12 September 2023|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230912064641/https://deadline.com/2023/04/mubi-molly-manning-walker-how-to-have-sex-cannes-1235339362/|url-status=live}} It was also invited screened in the Flash Forward section of the 28th Busan International Film Festival on 7 October 2023.{{Cite web|url=https://www.biff.kr/eng/html/program/prog_all_list.asp?allYear=2023|title=The 28th Busan International Film Festival: Selection List|publisher=Busan International Film Festival|date=September 5, 2023|access-date=September 12, 2023|archive-date=15 September 2023|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230915141852/https://www.biff.kr/eng/html/program/prog_all_list.asp?allYear=2023|url-status=dead}}
The film was released theatrically in the United Kingdom on 3 November 2023, and in the United States on 2 February 2024.{{Cite web |last=Erbland |first=Kate |date=2024-01-01 |title=The 16 Best Films of 2024 We've Already Seen |url=https://www.indiewire.com/features/best-of/best-films-2024-already-seen-1234936009/ |access-date=2024-01-10 |website=IndieWire |archive-date=18 January 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240118033540/https://www.indiewire.com/features/best-of/best-films-2024-already-seen-1234936009/ |url-status=live }}
Reception
=Critical response=
{{Rotten Tomatoes prose|97|8|143|consensus=A powerful debut for Molly Manning Walker, How to Have Sex authentically captures female adolescence and friendship with sobering effervescence.|access-date=August 17, 2024|ref=y}} {{Metacritic film prose|79|37|ref=yes|access-date=February 25, 2024}}
Manning Walker's direction and McKenna-Bruce's performance received praise.{{cite web |last=Feldberg |first=Isaac |title=Cannes 2023: How to Have Sex, Los Delincuentes, The New Boy |url=https://www.rogerebert.com/festivals/cannes-2023-how-to-have-sex-los-delincuentes-the-new-boy |website=RogerEbert.com |access-date=15 November 2023 |date=May 31, 2023 |archive-date=15 December 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20231215142751/https://www.rogerebert.com/festivals/cannes-2023-how-to-have-sex-los-delincuentes-the-new-boy |url-status=live }}{{Cite web |last=Lawson |first=Richard |date=2023-05-19 |title=Cannes Breakout 'How to Have Sex' Is a Sobering Drama About Consent |url=https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2023/05/how-to-have-sex-film-review-cannes |access-date=2024-07-11 |website=Vanity Fair |language=en-US |archive-date=11 July 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240711212114/https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2023/05/how-to-have-sex-film-review-cannes |url-status=live }}{{Cite web |last=LaSalle |first=Mick |date=February 19, 2024 |title=Review: 'How to Have Sex' a harsh, powerful coming-of-age tale from Britain |url=https://datebook.sfchronicle.com/movies-tv/how-to-have-sex-review-18665155 |access-date=2024-07-11 |website=San Francisco Chronicle |language=en-US}}{{Cite web |last=Ma |first=Wenlei |date=2024-03-07 |title=Why this awkward teen film really needs a trigger warning |url=https://thenightly.com.au/culture/film/how-to-have-sex-movie-review-vivid-teen-movie-courses-with-awkward-triggering-truths-c-13858403 |access-date=2024-07-11 |website=The Nightly |language=en |archive-date=11 July 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240711212114/https://thenightly.com.au/culture/film/how-to-have-sex-movie-review-vivid-teen-movie-courses-with-awkward-triggering-truths-c-13858403 |url-status=live }} The Observer{{'}}s Wendy Ide wrote, "Walker's handling of the film's tonal range is remarkably assured: the picture is skittish, spirited and very funny, and at the same time troubling and bruisingly sad."{{cite news |last=Ide |first=Wendy |title=How to Have Sex review – two stars are born with this searing study of consent |url=https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/nov/05/how-to-have-sex-review-two-stars-are-born-in-a-searing-study-of-consent-molly-manning-walker-mia-mckenna-bruce |access-date=15 November 2023 |newspaper=The Guardian |date=2023-11-05 |archive-date=15 January 2024 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20240115172851/https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/nov/05/how-to-have-sex-review-two-stars-are-born-in-a-searing-study-of-consent-molly-manning-walker-mia-mckenna-bruce |url-status=live }} Guy Lodge of Variety described McKenna-Bruce's performance as "star-making", adding the film "lays out the minefield of sexual education and consent for a post-#MeToo generation, with a precision to its ambiguities that will draw gasps from its characters' contemporaries and elders alike".{{cite news |last=Lodge |first=Guy |title='How to Have Sex' Review: Molly Manning Walker's Debut Makes a Hot Neon Splash Before Turning Chillingly Dark |url=https://variety.com/2023/film/reviews/how-to-have-sex-review-1235619800/ |access-date=15 November 2023 |magazine=Variety |date=May 20, 2023 |archive-date=15 November 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20231115023201/https://variety.com/2023/film/reviews/how-to-have-sex-review-1235619800/ |url-status=live }} Clarisse Loughrey of The Independent commented, "Described by its director as loosely autobiographical, How to Have Sex is built around a subtle but devastating rug-pull that exposes the culture of sex and consent in the same way F Scott Fitzgerald put the Jazz Age on blast in The Great Gatsby."{{cite news |last=Loughrey |first=Clarisse |title=How to Have Sex review: Teens go wild in a stark, devastating coming-of-ager |url=https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/reviews/how-to-have-sex-review-b2439205.html |access-date=15 November 2023 |newspaper=The Independent |date=November 6, 2023 |archive-date=16 December 2023 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20231216073819/https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/reviews/how-to-have-sex-review-b2439205.html |url-status=live }}
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