I Want to Be Your Man

Roger Troutman developed "I Want to Be Your Man" around the theme of romantic commitment. "Guys have trouble committing and women want us to commit," he explained to authors Adam White and Fred Bronson. "Women want us to admit that we don't want to commit."

{{cite book

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| isbn=978-0823076222}} Troutman took the idea and began working on a track similar in style to "Computer Love," a 1986 hit for his band Zapp. "I was playing in Dallas and [Troutman's brother Larry] flew out. We sat in the hotel room one day and wrote the song. I talked to him about what I was trying to say and one thing led to another. We came back and recorded a vocal."

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"I Want to Be Your Man" is a ballad featuring Roger's vocals filtered through a vocoder. According to Roger, he had never mixed his "human" voice with the talk box before, and recording the vocals was tedious because he could only play one note at a time on the vocoder. To layer six-part harmonies, he spoke the lyric while playing a melody line then rewound the tape and repeated the process for the harmonizing part while playing together with the previously recorded one.{{cite web |last=Hogan |first=Ed |url=http://www.allmusic.com/song/i-want-to-be-your-man-mt0011963678 |title='I Want to Be Your Man' Overview |work=Allmusic |publisher=Rovi Corporation |access-date=June 12, 2016}} After he finished layering tracks, if he didn't like the result he had to scrap everything and start over. Larry Troutman recommended Nicole Cottom, a friend of his daughter, to help sing background vocals. Roger recalled her being in the studio one day while he was recording his vocals: "There was a spot in the song where there was a hole and I asked her to do something. It was so good, there was no need to take it out."

Roger disliked "I Want to Be Your Man" when it was completed and thought it served as album filler, at best. However, executives at his label, Warner Brothers, loved the song. Label president Lenny Waronker and chairman Mo Ostin wanted to relaunch Warner's sister label Reprise Records, which had been dormant for several years, and they told Roger that "I Want to Be Your Man" would be a "perfect opening act" to bring the label back. At first, Roger was hesitant because of his familiarity with the Warner Bros. personnel, but he agreed to the move once he learned he would be working with the same R&B promotion department.

"I Want to Be Your Man" was added to US urban contemporary radio playlists in September 1987; a commercial single was released the following month.{{cite journal |title=R&R National Airplay: Urban Contemporary |journal=Radio & Records |volume=1 |issue=705 |page=76 |date=September 25, 1987}}{{cite web |url={{Allmusic|class=album|id=mw0000851501|pure_url=yes}} |title='I Want to Be Your Man' single |work=AllMusic |access-date=June 12, 2016}} Initially, the song received heavy airplay on radio stations in California, particularly Sacramento and the San Francisco Bay Area, and in Southern states.{{cite journal |title=R&R National Airplay |journal=Radio & Records |volume=1 |issue=711 |page=102 |date=November 6, 1987}}{{cite magazine | date=December 26, 1987| last=Ellis |first=Michael |title=Hot 100 Singles Spotlight |magazine=Billboard |publisher=Nielsen Business Media, Inc. |volume=99 |issue=52 |page=88 |issn=0006-2510}} It climbed to number one on the Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart for the week ending December 19, 1987.{{cite magazine |url=http://www.billboard.com/charts/r-b-hip-hop-songs/1987-12-19 |title=Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs: The Week of December 19, 1987 |magazine=Billboard |publisher=Nielsen Business Media, Inc. |access-date=June 12, 2016}} "I Want to Be Your Man" crossed over to pop radio and peaked at number three on the Hot 100 singles chart issue dated February 13, 1988.{{cite magazine |url=http://www.billboard.com/charts/hot-100/1988-02-13 |title=The Hot 100: The Week of February 13, 1988 |magazine=Billboard |publisher=Nielsen Business Media, Inc. |access-date=June 12, 2016}} With the song's mainstream commercial success, Roger said, "I feel I've reached a milestone—yet the record still has flair and the ingredients that will allow black radio to take it to number one and make it a hit first."{{cite journal | date=February 26, 1988| last=Hollars |first=Betty |title=The Gavin Interview: Roger |journal=Gavin Report |volume=1 | issue=726| page=56}} "I Want to Be Your Man" reached the top 10 in the Netherlands and Belgium, and the top 40 in Germany, New Zealand, and Canada.{{cite web |url=http://www.ultratop.be/nl/song/24818/Roger-[US]-I-Want-To-Be-Your-Man |title=Discographie Roger |work=ultratop.be |publisher=Hung Medien |access-date=June 12, 2016 |language=nl}}{{cite journal |url=http://www.bac-lac.gc.ca/eng/discover/films-videos-sound-recordings/rpm/Pages/image.aspx?Image=nlc008388.0950&URLjpg=http%3a%2f%2fwww.collectionscanada.gc.ca%2fobj%2f028020%2ff4%2fnlc008388.0950.gif&Ecopy=nlc008388.0950 |title=RPM 100 Singles |journal=RPM |volume=47 |issue=22 |date=March 19, 1988 |access-date=June 12, 2016}} It peaked at number 61 on the UK Singles Chart in October 1987.{{cite web |url=http://www.officialcharts.com/search/singles/i%20want%20to%20be%20your%20man/ |title=Official Charts – Singles – 'I Want to Be Your Man' |publisher=The Official Charts Company |access-date=June 12, 2016}}

A review of "I Want to Be Your Man" in the September 26, 1987, issue of Billboard called the single "a sultry ballad" and noted the similarity of Roger's "trademark" vocal style to that used in Zapp's recordings.{{cite magazine |date=September 26, 1987 |title=Single Reviews |magazine=Billboard |publisher=Nielsen Business Media, Inc. |volume=99 |issue=39 | page=81 |issn=0006-2510}} In a 1987 review of Roger's Unlimited! album, Connie Johnson of the Los Angeles Times said of the song: "It's hard to resist" when Troutman sings through the voice box "with languid, shy-guy sincerity".{{cite web |last=Johnson| first=Connie |url=https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1988-01-03-ca-32153-story.html |title=Roger Troutman, the Techno Tease |work=Los Angeles Times | date=January 3, 1988 |access-date=June 12, 2016}} Music critic Bruce Pollock listed the song in his 2005 book Rock Song Index: The 7500 Most Important Songs for the Rock and Roll Era.{{cite book|title= Rock Song Index: The 7500 Most Important Songs for the Rock and Roll Era|year=2005|publisher=Routledge|edition=second|author=Pollock, Bruce|isbn=978-0415970730|pages=167–8}}

"I Want to Be Your Man" was included on the official soundtrack albums of the films Love & Basketball (2000),{{cite web |url=http://www.allmusic.com/album/love-basketball-soundtrack-mw0000607912 |title=Original Soundtrack – Love & Basketball |work=Allmusic |publisher=Rovi Corporation |access-date=June 12, 2016}} Pootie Tang (2001),{{cite web |last=Reid |first=Shaheem |url=http://www.mtv.com/news/1444842/where-my-702-at-girls-back-with-pootie-tangin/ |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140929111649/http://www.mtv.com/news/1444842/where-my-702-at-girls-back-with-pootie-tangin/ |url-status=dead |archive-date=September 29, 2014 |title=Where My 702 At? Girls Back With 'Pootie Tangin' |work=MTV |date=June 28, 2001 |access-date=June 12, 2016}} and Soul Kitchen (2009).{{cite web |url=https://itunes.apple.com/de/album/soul-kitchen-original-motion/id346572869 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160911021634/https://itunes.apple.com/de/album/soul-kitchen-original-motion/id346572869 |url-status=dead |archive-date=September 11, 2016 |title=Soul Kitchen (Original Motion Picture Soundtrack) |publisher=iTunes |access-date=June 12, 2016 |language=de}} The song was used in a season two episode of the television show Everybody Hates Chris.{{cite web |url=https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0871622/soundtrack |title=Everybody Hates Chris – 'Everybody Hates Rejection' Soundtracks |publisher=IMDb |access-date=June 12, 2016}}

"I Want to Be Your Man" has been sampled or interpolated by the following artists: Janet Kay (re-titled I Want to Be The One) on her third album, Sweet Surrender, released in 1989 on the Body Music record label in the UK, Lil' Troy on the single "Where's the Love" from his album Sittin' Fat Down South (1999), Irv Gotti featuring Ja Rule, Ashanti, Vita, and Charli Baltimore on the single "Down 4 U" from The Inc. Records compilation Irv Gotti Presents: The Inc. (2002), Lil Rob on "I Wanna Be Your Man" from his Best Of compilation album (2002), T.I. on "Let Me Tell You Something" from his album Trap Muzik (2003), Jadakiss on "Hot" from his album Kiss of Death (2004), Cam'ron on "Hey Lady" from his album Purple Haze (2004), and Ironik on "I Wanna Be Your Man" from his album No Point in Wasting Tears (2008). Roger, singing different lyrics, features on Tech N9ne's "Twisted" from the latter's album Anghellic (2001).{{cite web|url=http://www.whosampled.com/Roger/I-Want-to-Be-Your-Man/ |title='I Want to Be Your Man' by Roger |publisher=WhoSampled|access-date=June 12, 2016}}

Chico DeBarge and Shae Fiol covered "I Want to Be Your Man" on Still More Bounce, a Roger Troutman tribute album released in 2002.{{cite magazine|url=http://www.billboard.com/articles/news/77286/rbhip-hop-stars-to-honor-roger-troutman |title=R&B/Hip-Hop Stars To Honor Roger Troutman |magazine=Billboard |date=January 3, 2002 |access-date=June 13, 2016}} Charlie Wilson and Fantasia covered the song on Wilson's album Just Charlie (2010). Mark Morrison, with K.O. McCoy and Young Buck, recorded a cover version titled "Wanna Be Your Man 2.0" on Morrison's I Am What I Am EP (2014).

• 7" single{{cite web|url=https://www.discogs.com/release/1424423 |title=Roger – 'I Want to Be Your Man' – 7" Single|date=1987 |publisher=Discogs|access-date=June 12, 2016}}

1. "I Want to Be Your Man" – 3:58
2. "I Really Want to Be Your Man" – 3:47

• 12" single{{cite web|url=https://www.discogs.com/release/1124984 |title=Roger – 'I Want to Be Your Man' – 12" Single|date=1987 |publisher=Discogs|access-date=June 12, 2016}}

1. "I Want to Be Your Man" (extended version) – 5:51
2. "I Want to Be Your Man" (7" version) – 3:58
3. "I Really Want to Be Your Man" (remix) – 3:40
4. "Bedistgutarist-A-Rown" – 3:15

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