Madea's Big Happy Family

{{Short description|Play written by Tyler Perry}}

{{About|the play|the film adaption|Madea's Big Happy Family (film)}}

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{{Infobox play

| name = Madea's Big Happy Family

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| writer = Tyler Perry

| characters = Madea, Aunt Bam, Shirley, Joyce, Monroe, Byron, Donnie, Kimberly, Harold, Tammy, Rose, Jason, Karen, Dr. Wallace

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| premiere = {{Start date|2010|01|04}}

| place =El Paso

| orig_lang =English

| series =

| subject =Family, Death

| genre = Comedy-Drama

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|date of premiere=January 4, 2010|last_play=Laugh to Keep from Crying|next_play=A Madea Christmas|chronology=Tyler Perry Plays}}

Madea's Big Happy Family is a 2010 American stage play created, produced, written, and directed by Tyler Perry. It stars Tyler Perry as Mabel "Madea" Simmons and Cassi Davis as Aunt Bam. The play also marks the debut appearance of Aunt Bam played by Davis. Perry began writing the show after the death of his mother Willie Maxine Perry on December 8, 2009.{{cite news |last1=The Associated Press |title=Tyler Perry to take 'Madea' play on the road in 2010 |url=https://www.mlive.com/movies/2009/12/tyler_perry_to_take_madea_play.html |access-date=5 June 2025 |work=mlive.com |date=27 December 2009 |language=en}} The main character of Shirley is based on her. The live performance released on DVD on November 23, 2010 was recorded live in Atlanta at the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre in July 2010.{{cn|date=June 2025}} The play was performed 125 times in 126 days over the course of its 2010 tour.{{cite book |last1=MacDonald |first1=Laura |last2=Everett |first2=William A. |title=The Palgrave Handbook of Musical Theatre Producers |date=25 March 2017 |publisher=Springer |isbn=978-1-137-43308-4 |page=435 |url=https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_Palgrave_Handbook_of_Musical_Theatre/j2N9DgAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22Madea's%20Big%20Happy%20Family%22%20%22el%20paso%22&pg=PA435&printsec=frontcover |access-date=5 June 2025 |language=en}}

Plot

Shirley (Chandra Currelley-Young), accompanied by Aunt Bam (Cassi Davis), visits Dr. Frank Wallace (Omarr Dixon). Dr. Wallace tells Shirley that her cancer is active and she might have 4–6 weeks left. Later, Aunt Bam tells Shirley that she invited Madea to come over and help her when she tells her children the news. The scene later switches to the house where Joyce (Cheryl Pepsii Riley) shows up and informs Shirley that she called everybody, later Aunt Bam complains about the fact that she still doesn't have a man. Soon enough, Madea (Tyler Perry) arrives, ready to help Shirley.

When Tammy (Crissy Collins) shows up, Madea informs her that she's very angry with her and her husband Harold (Danny Clay): she gave them $275 to fix her car and it didn't start. Byron (Jeffery Lewis) and his girlfriend Rose (Chontelle Moore) arrive, and Aunt Bam tells Rose she wants her $20, which Rose borrowed about a year ago. Rose says it's petty to ask for such a small amount of money back, then reveals that she dropped $900 on eyeshadow and shoes. Madea convinces Aunt Bam to chase after Rose. Kimberly (Támar Davis) arrives demanding to know why her sisters summoned her to the house, but they don't know themselves. When Donnie (Zuri Craig) comes, he tries to kiss Aunt Bam and Madea, who warns him that she got H1N1 from his last kiss. When Madea quizzes him, he says he's 17 and in the 6th grade, to which she responds that at least he's in school and his children will know he's right down the hall from their classrooms. Harold arrives and Madea repeats what she told Tammy, and now that they're both here she tells them both that if her car isn't fixed when she's ready to leave, they'll have to run like hell. Kimberly's husband, Jason (Rico Ball) rushes in to announce that Uncle Monroe (Palmer Williams Jr.) has arrived; everyone hides their stuff because he's a crack cocaine-addicted kleptomaniac. Uncle Monroe has barely stepped inside when he thinks he smells drugs in the kitchen, which makes him hurry.

Karen (Brandi Milton) stalks in demanding to see Byron, which sparks Rose's jealousy. Karen threatens Byron that if he doesn't pay her some child support, 'the popo's gon' be knockin' at yo' do'!', backed up by Aunt Bam. Madea orders Karen to leave, they're having a family moment. Byron, Karen (and her baby), and Rose leave, Kimberly demands to know why she was called, and Jason chides her for her attitude, which angers her more and she storms out. When Harold points out how Kimberly's behavior is similar to Tammy's, Tammy tells him to shut up and he turns away in shame. Uncle Monroe calls a Man Meeting in the kitchen. He talks Harold into standing up for himself, but when Tammy comes in, he pretends the men are having a Bible study.

Madea notices Byron sagging and tells him to pull up his pants. Shirley looks upset and Donnie and Byron sing her a gospel song. Meanwhile, Donnie finds out from Aunt Bam that Kimberly is his real mother. Madea leaves the house and tries to start her car, but unfortunately for Tammy and Harold, her car wouldn't start. So she gets her gun and starts chasing after Harold and Tammy.

The next day, Shirley's cancer starts taking effect and she assures Joyce that she is all right and that she knows she's close to Heaven. Joyce thanks her for giving her the life they both wanted by Shirley giving her Jesus (You Gave Me Jesus) since Aunt Bam spills that Shirley is sick. That night, Joyce gets a new makeover for the date with Frank that Aunt Bam set up. Then Frank tells her that her mother is in the hospital. Then Shirley tells all her children that she wants them to do the right thing, although she will be gone forever. Shirley dies, and her spirit goes up to Heaven ("Heaven Waits for Me") and this makes everyone sad (as they strongly cry for her loss) and scared of what will happen in their futures without her (calling out to the Lord).

When everyone comes home from the funeral, they gather in the living room. Madea gives everyone advice on what they should do. Karen stops by to express her condolences to Byron, but soon they began to argue. Frustrated, Madea tells Karen to stop worrying about Byron and Rose, stop using her baby to make Byron's life miserable, and keep moving forward. Rose tells Byron it's time to go, but Madea snatches Byron's shirt, re-seating him. When Rose tells Madea she should let her "man" grow up and be a man, Madea uses Uncle Monroe's "Yah, trick!"-choke-move on her. She follows up by lecturing them that the elderly should be treated with respect and dignity, after all, they marched for their freedom. She finally lets them leave and moves on to Harold and Tammy: Tammy shouldn't talk to Harold so harshly, but Harold needs to toughen up. Then she talks to Joyce about how God works through people's prayers. Lastly, Madea reveals that Kimberly was raped by an uncle on her father's side at 12 years old. She then tells her that she has love and needs get past the pain and show it more. Kimberly goes upstairs with Jason and sincerely apologizes for all she's done ("You Are My Man").

Madea goes "off-script" to talk about things that are happening in "the world today." Later, Madea gathers everyone and they all join in singing old songs. Finally, upstairs, Harold asks Tammy to sit down and when she doesn't comply, he yells at her. Harold then resolves the issue between their relationship with a song ("If Only For One Night").

Tour dates

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|+Winter / Spring 2010

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January 4, 2010

|El Paso

|UTEP Don Haskins Center

January 5, 2010

|Phoenix

|Dodge Theatre

January 6, 2010

|San Diego

|San Diego Sports Arena

January 9, 2010

|Seattle

|KeyArena

January 10, 2010

|Portland

|Veterans Memorial Coliseum

January 12, 2010

|Fresno

|Selland Arena

January 13, 2010

|Sacramento

|ARCO Arena

January 14, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Oakland

|rowspan="3"|Paramount Theatre

January 15, 2010
January 16, 2010
January 19, 2010

|rowspan="6"|Hollywood

|rowspan="6"|Kodak Theatre

January 20, 2010
January 21, 2010
January 22, 2010
January 23, 2010
January 24, 2010
January 27, 2010

|rowspan="5"|New York

|rowspan="5"|The Theater at Madison Square Garden

January 28, 2010
January 29, 2010
January 30, 2010
January 31, 2010
February 2, 2010

|Florence

|Florence Civic Center

February 3, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Raleigh

|rowspan="3"|RBC Center

February 4, 2010
February 5, 2010
February 6, 2010

|Fayetteville

|Crown Coliseum

February 7, 2010

|Charlotte

|Bojangles Coliseum

February 9, 2010

|Macon

|Macon Centreplex

February 10, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Charleston

|rowspan="2"|North Charleston Coliseum

February 11, 2010
February 12, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Columbia

|rowspan="2"|Colonial Life Arena

February 13, 2010
February 14, 2010

|Columbus

|Columbus Civic Center

February 16, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Jacksonville

|rowspan="2"|Jacksonville Veterans Memorial Arena

February 17, 2010
February 18, 2010

|Chattanooga

|Soldiers and Sailors Memorial Auditorium

February 19, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Winston-Salem

|rowspan="2"|Lawrence Joel Veterans Memorial Coliseum

February 20, 2010
February 21, 2010

|Richmond

|Richmond Coliseum

February 23, 2010

|Albany

|Albany Civic Center

February 24, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Nashville

|rowspan="2"|Nashville Municipal Auditorium

February 25, 2010
February 27, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Memphis

|rowspan="2"|Orpheum Theatre

February 28, 2010
March 2, 2010

|rowspan="5"|Chicago

|rowspan="5"|Arie Crown Theater

March 3, 2010
March 4, 2010
March 5, 2010
March 6, 2010
March 9, 2010

|Minneapolis

|Target Center

March 10, 2010

|Omaha

|Qwest Center

March 11, 2010

|Wichita

|Century II Performing Arts & Convention Center

March 12, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Grand Prairie

|rowspan="3"|Nokia Theatre

March 13, 2010
March 14, 2010
March 16, 2010

|Milwaukee

|U.S. Cellular Arena

March 18, 2010

|Bridgeport

|Arena at Harbor Yard

March 19, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Hartford

|rowspan="3"|Bushnell Center for the Performing Arts

March 20, 2010
March 21, 2010
March 24, 2010

|Augusta

|James Brown Arena

March 25, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Greenville

|rowspan="2"|Bi-Lo Center

March 26, 2010
March 27, 2010

|Birmingham

|BJCC Arena

March 28, 2010

|Mobile

|Mobile Civic Center

April 6, 2010

|Dayton

|Ervin J. Nutter Center

April 7, 2010

|Cincinnati

Cintas Center

|April 8, 2010

|Louisville

|Freedom Hall

April 9, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Chicago

|rowspan="3"|Arie Crown Theater

April 10, 2010
April 11, 2010
April 13, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Savannah

|rowspan="2"|Savannah Civic Center

April 14, 2010
April 15, 2010

|rowspan="4"|Atlanta

|rowspan="4"|The Fabulous Fox Theatre

April 16, 2010
April 17, 2010
April 18, 2010
April 20, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Norfolk

|rowspan="2"|Constant Convention Center

April 21, 2010
April 23, 2010

|rowspan="2"|St. Louis

|rowspan="2"|Chaifetz Arena

April 24, 2010
April 25, 2010

|Kansas City

|Sprint Center

April 27, 2010

|Buffalo

|HSBC Arena

April 29, 2010

|rowspan="4"|Philadelphia

|rowspan="4"|Liacouras Center

April 30, 2010
May 1, 2010
May 2, 2010
May 4, 2010

|Columbus

|Nationwide Arena

May 5, 2010

|Toledo

|Lucas County Arena

May 6, 2010

|rowspan="4"|Detroit

|rowspan="4"|Fox Theatre

May 7, 2010
May 8, 2010
May 9, 2010

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|+DVD Taping - Summer 2010

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July 16, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Atlanta

|rowspan="2"|Cobb Energy Performing Arts Center

July 17, 2010

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|+Fall 2010

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September 15, 2010

|rowspan="3"|New Orleans

|rowspan="3"|New Orleans Arena

September 16, 2010
September 17, 2010
September 18, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Houston

|rowspan="2"|Toyota Center

September 19, 2010
September 21, 2010

|Roanoke

|Berglund Center

September 23, 2010

|Pittsburgh

|Petersen Events Center

September 24, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Washington, D.C.

|rowspan="3"|Verizon Center

September 25, 2010
September 26, 2010
September 28, 2010

|Pensacola

|Pensacola Civic Center

September 29, 2010

|Tallahassee

|Tallahassee-Leon County Civic Center

September 30, 2010

|Tampa

|USF Dome

October 1, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Miami

|rowspan="3"|American Airlines Arena

October 2, 2010
October 3, 2010
October 5, 2010

|Syracuse

|War Memorial at Oncenter

October 6, 2010

|Rochester

|Blue Cross Arena

October 7, 2010

|Bridgeport

|Arena at Harbor Yard

October 8, 2010

|rowspan="3"|Baltimore

|rowspan="3"|1st Mariner Arena

October 9, 2010
October 10, 2010
October 12, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Newark

|rowspan="2"|Prudential Center

October 13, 2010
October 14, 2010

|Uniondale

|Nassau Coliseum

October 15, 2010

|rowspan="3"|New York

|rowspan="3"|The Theater at Madison Square Garden

October 16, 2010
October 17, 2010

Cancellations and rescheduled shows

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October 19, 2010

|Orlando

|Amway Center

October 20, 2010

|Augusta

|James Brown Arena

October 21, 2010

|Greensboro

|Greensboro Coliseum Complex

October 22, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Richmond

|rowspan="2"|Richmond Coliseum

October 23, 2010
October 24, 2010

|Norfolk

|Constant Convocation Center

October 26, 2010

|Saginaw

|Dow Event Center

October 27, 2010

|Dayton

|Nutter Center

October 28, 2010

|Grand Rapids

|Van Andel Arena

October 29, 2010

|Peoria

Peoria Civic Center

|October 30, 2010

|Milwaukee

|U.S. Cellular Arena

October 31, 2010

|Indianapolis

|Conseco Bridgehouse

November 2, 2010

|Bossier City

|CenturyTel Center

November 3, 2010

|Austin

|Frank Erwin Center

November 4, 2010

|Baton Rouge

|Baton Rouge River Center

November 6, 2010

|Mobile

|Mobile Civic Center

November 7, 2010

|Jackson

|Mississippi Coliseum

November 9, 2010

|Huntsville

|Von Braun Center

November 10, 2010

|rowspan="2"|North Little Rock

|rowspan="2"|Verizon Arena

November 11, 2010
November 13, 2010

|Southaven

|DeSoto Civic Center

November 14, 2010

|Birmingham

|BJJC Arena

November 16, 2010

|Moline

|iWireless Center

November 17, 2010

|Fort Wayne

|Allen County War Memorial Coliseum

November 18, 2010

|Louisville

|KFC Yum! Center

November 20, 2010

|Detroit

|Joe Louis Arena

November 21, 2010

|Cleveland

|Quicken Loans Arena

November 24, 2010

|Tulsa

|BOK Center

November 26, 2010

|Oklahoma City

|Ford Center

November 27, 2010

|rowspan="2"|Grand Prairie

|rowspan="2"|Verizon Theatre

November 28, 2010

Cast

The Band

  • Ronnie Garrett - Musical Director & Bass Guitar
  • Derek Scott - Guitars
  • Marcus Williams - Drums
  • Justin Gilbert - Keyboards & Organ
  • Natalie Ragins - Keyboards
  • Michael Burton - Saxophone
  • Jeff Bradshaw - Trombone
  • Melvin Jones - Trumpet
  • Aaron Draper - Percussion
  • Lindsay Fields - Background Vocals
  • Latayvia Cherry - Background Vocals
  • Donny Sykes - Background Vocals

Musical Numbers

All songs written and/or produced by Tyler Perry and Elvin D. Ross.

  • "People Make the World Go Round" – Company
  • "Nothing Left But God" – Aunt Bam
  • "Even Me" – Donnie and Byron
  • "What Do I Do?" – Shirley, Donnie, Joyce, Byron & Company
  • "You Gave Me Jesus" – Joyce
  • "You Are My Mama" – Donnie
  • "Heaven Waits for Me" – Shirley & Company
  • "You Are My Man" – Kimberly
  • Medley
  1. "Tonight Is the Night" – Aunt Bam
  2. "Can't Hide Love" – Madea & Company
  3. "Turn Off the Lights" – Monroe & Company
  4. "(If Loving You Is Wrong) I Don't Want to Be Right" – Tammy
  5. "I'm Going Down" – Joyce
  6. "'Cause I Love You" – Byron & Company

Film adaptation

A film adaptation of the play was released on April 22, 2011.

References

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