Marriage in Islam#Conditions

In the Hans Wehr Dictionary of Modern Written Arabic, {{lang|ar-Latn|nikah}} is defined as "marriage; marriage contract; matrimony, wedlock".{{Cite book |first=Hans |last=Wehr |author-link=Hans Wehr|editor-first=J. Milton |editor-last=Cowan |editor-link=J Milton Cowan|year=1976 |title=A Dictionary of Modern Written Arabic |publisher=Spoken Language Services |edition= 3rd |page=997 |isbn=978-0-87950-001-6}} In the Quran, nikah is used to refer to the contract of marriage.{{Cite encyclopedia|last1=Schacht |first1=J. |last2=Layish |first2=A. |last3=Shaham |first3=R. |last4=Ansari |first4=Ghaus |last5=Otto |first5=J. M. |last6=Pompe |first6=S. |last7=Knappert |first7=J. |last8=Boyd |first8=Jean |year= 2012 |title=Nikāḥ |encyclopedia=Encyclopaedia of Islam |edition= 2nd |publisher=Brill |editor1-first=P. |editor1-last=Bearman |editor2-first=Th. |editor2-last=Bianquis |editor3-first=C. E. |editor3-last=Bosworth |editor4-first=E. |editor4-last=van Donzel |editor5-first=W. P. |editor5-last=Heinrichs |doi= 10.1163/1573-3912_islam_COM_0863 }}{{cite encyclopedia|first1=Azizah Y. | last1=al-Hibri |first2=Hadia |last2=Mubarak|title=Marriage and Divorce|encyclopedia=The Oxford Encyclopedia of the Islamic World|editor-first=John L. |editor-last=Esposito|publisher=Oxford University Press|location=Oxford|year=2009|url=http://oxfordislamicstudies.com/article/opr/t236/e0507|url-access=subscription |access-date=2019-02-06|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160326090920/http://oxfordislamicstudies.com/article/opr/t236/e0507|archive-date=2016-03-26|url-status=dead}}Vincent J. Cornell (2007), Voices of life: family, home, and society. p. 59–60 (Marriage in Islam by Nargis Virani). According to at least a couple of sources -- Ibrahim B. Syed and the Ahlan Foundation -- the Quran also uses "a strong agreement" ({{langx|ar| مِّيثَـٰقًا غَلِيظًۭا|translit=mithaqun ghalithun}}), in verse Q.4:21, to refer to marriage.{{cite web|url=http://www.irfi.org/articles/articles_151_200/same_sex_marriage_and_marriage_i.htm |title=Same Sex Marriage and Marriage in Islam. ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE |work=irfi.org |access-date=13 May 2024}}{{cite web |title=Islam Marriage Beliefs |url=https://explore-islam.com/islam-marriage-beliefs/ |website=Explore Islam |publisher=Ahlan Foundation |access-date=12 May 2025}}

{{efn|Ibrahim B. Syed also states, "The Quran also uses the Arabic word "Hisn", suggesting "fortress" for marriage. Marriage is considered the fortress of chastity."}}{{efn|In some Muslim cultures, such as Pakistan, nikah may not begin married life in the form of consummation and living together, as that event is known as rukhsati. The gap in time between nikah and rukhsati occurs while the prospective wife waits for her prospective husband to get a good job, a home and produce her dower/mahr. But many consider this a cultural and not an Islamic practice.){{cite web |last1=Birjas |first1=Yaser |title=How Intimate Can a Couple be Post-Nikkah, but Pre-Marriage? |url=https://muslimmatters.org/2020/03/22/podcast-how-intimate-can-a-couple-be-post-nikkah-but-pre-marriage-yaser-birjas/ |website=Muslim Matters |date=22 March 2020 |access-date=15 April 2020}}}}

In Arabic-speaking countries, marriage is commonly called zawāj ({{langx|ar|زواج}}, from the Quranic term zawj ({{langx|ar|زوج}}), referring to a member of a pair), and this term has recently gained currency among Muslim speakers of other languages as well.

The marriage contract is known by different names:

• Literary Arabic: {{lang|ar|عقد القران}} {{transliteration|ar|ALA|ʿaqd al-qirān}}, "matrimony contract";
• {{langx|ur|نکاح نامہ}} / ALA-LC: {{transliteration|ur|ALA-LC|Nikāḥ-nāmah}};
• {{langx|bn|আকদ|akd}};
• {{langx|fa|ازدواج}} {{lang|fa-Latn|ezdevāj}} "marriage" and {{lang|fa|سند ازدواج}} or {{lang|fa|عقدنامه}} ({{lang|fa-Latn|sǎnǎde ezdevāj}}, {{lang|fa-Latn|aqd nāmeh}}) for the certificate.

The marriage celebration may be called ʿurs / zawāj ({{langx|ar|زواج / عرس}}), ezdewaj/arusi (Persian), shaadi (Urdu), biye/biya (Bengali) or düğün (Turkish).

{{main|Marriage in pre-Islamic Arabia}}

In Arabia before the advent of Islam in the 7th century CE, a variety of different marriage practices existed. The most common and recognized types of marriage at this time were marriage by agreement, marriage by capture, marriage by mahr, marriage by inheritance, and mot'a or temporary marriage.{{cite book |last=Shah |first=N. |year=2006 |title=Women, The Koran and International Human Rights Law |publisher=Martinus Nijhoff Publishers |page=32 |isbn=90-04-15237-7}} In Mesopotamia, marriages were generally monogamous, except among male royalty, who would have harems consisting of wives and concubines. The Sasanian society followed Zoroastrianism, which viewed women to be possessions in marriage, although consent was required in both marriage and divorce.{{Cite book|title=Women and Gender in Islam|last=Ahmed|first=Leila|publisher=Yale University Press|year=1992|location=New Haven & London|pages=76–77}}

According to Islamic sources, most women in the pre-7th century Arabia had little control over their marriages and Islam brought a big improvement. They were bound by contract for marriage or custody of children, and their consent was rarely sought. Women were seldom allowed to divorce their husbands, and their view was not regarded for either a marriage or divorce.{{cite book|last=Esposito |first=John|title=What Everyone Needs To Know About Islam |year=2002|publisher=Oxford Press |page=80}}{{additional citation needed|date=June 2017}} However, in the transitional age from non-Islamic to Islamic society, elite women could divorce and remarry without stigma. They were given the power to negotiate the terms of their marriage contract and could even initiate divorce.

{{See also|Islamic marital jurisprudence}}

During Muhammad's prophethood several chapters and verses from the Quran were revealed which banned common marriage practices that existed prior to that time. The rules of "marriage by agreement (marriage through consent)" were reformed by Muhammad, and strict rules and regulations were set. The practice of "marriage by inheritance" (where a man inherited his father's wives) was forbidden.{{cite web|url=http://www.islamswomen.com/marriage/intro_to_marriage.php|title=Islams Women - Introduction to Marriage in Islam|work=islamswomen.com|access-date=22 September 2015|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20151125103005/http://islamswomen.com/marriage/intro_to_marriage.php|archive-date=2015-11-25|url-status=live}}

Under the Arabian Jahiliyyah (pre-Islamic) law, Islamic sources write that no limitations were set on men's rights to marry or to obtain a divorce.Khadduri (1978){{page needed|date=June 2017}} Islamic law limited men to four wives at one time, not including concubines. ({{qref|4|3|b=y}})Esposito (2005) p. 79 Additionally, a man was required to provide a suitable marriage gift for each wife and ensure financial support and separate housing for all. As a result, only the wealthiest men could historically afford to practice polygyny.{{Citation |title=5. If She Were Ready for Men |date=1998-12-31 |work=In the House of the Law |author=Judith E. Tucker |pages=148–178 |url=https://doi.org/10.1525/9780520925380-006 |access-date=2025-02-22 |publisher=University of California Press |isbn=978-0-520-92538-0}} The institution of marriage was refined into one in which the woman was somewhat of an interested partner. 'For example, the dower, previously regarded as a bride-price paid to the father, became a nuptial gift retained by the wife as part of her personal property'. Under Islamic law, marriage was no longer viewed as a "status" but rather as a "contract". The essential elements of the marriage contract were now an offer by the man, an acceptance by the woman, and the performance of such conditions as the payment of dowry. The woman's consent, given either actively or by silence, was required. Furthermore, the offer and acceptance had to be made in the presence of at least two witnesses.Esposito (2004), p. 339

As in many if not all religions, marriage is encouraged in Islam.

• Verses from the Quran, indicate positive feelings towards marriage:{{cite web |title=Marriage in the Quran |url=https://www.mtholyoke.edu/projects/lrc/arabic/women_deceit/texts/marriage.html |website=Mount Holyoke College |access-date=25 February 2022 |archive-date=25 February 2022 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220225181914/https://www.mtholyoke.edu/projects/lrc/arabic/women_deceit/texts/marriage.html}}{{cite web |title=Marriage In Islam: 8 Quranic Verses About Marriage |url=https://www.getquranic.com/marriage-in-islam-8-quranic-verses-about-marriage/ |website=Quranic |access-date=25 February 2022 |date=23 February 2021}} "marry those among you who are single ..." (Q.24:32), "...Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts ..." (Q.25:74), " ...He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them..." (Q.30:21), "The love of the desires for women, sons, ... has been made attractive to people." (Q.3:14).{{efn|
• “And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves;" (Q.24:32){{cite book|last1=S.H. Rizvi |first1=Athar Husayn |title=Islamic Marriage Handbook |chapter=Importance of Marriage in Islam |url=https://al-islam.org/islamic-marriage-handbook-sayyid-athar-husayn-sh-rizvi/importance-marriage-islam |publisher=Al-Islam.org |access-date=28 April 2025}}
• ˹They are˺ those who pray, “Our Lord! Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous.”{{qref|25|74}}
• "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy. (Surah Ar-Rum, 30:21){{cite web |title=Marriage in Islam |url=https://explore-islam.com/marriage-in-islam/#section1 |website=explore-Islam.com |access-date=28 April 2025}}}}
• There are hadith calling for Muslims to marry
• as a religious duty: “When a man marries he has fulfilled half of the religion; ...” (Mishkat al-Masabih),{{cite web |last1=Khaṭīb at-Tibrīzī |title=13 Marriage Section 3, Mishkat al-Masabih 3096 |url=https://sunnah.com/mishkat:3096 |website=sunnah.com |access-date=12 May 2025}}{{cite web |title=Is Marriage Half of the Religion? 11586 Publication : |url=https://islamqa.info/en/answers/11586/is-marriage-half-of-the-religion |website=Islam Question and Answer |access-date=13 May 2025 |date=17 April 2024}}, “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me", (Sunan Ibn Majah).{{cite web |last1=Ibn Majah |title=Sunan Ibn Majah 1846. 9 The Chapters on Marriage (1)Chapter: What was narrated concerning the virtue of marriage |url=https://sunnah.com/ibnmajah:1846 |website=sunnah.com |access-date=12 May 2025}}{{cite book |url=https://www.google.com/books/edition/Marriage_and_Sexuality_in_Islam/nuEOuPPWFssC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=fitrah+and+marriage&printsec=frontcover |title=Marriage and Sexuality in Islam |last1=al-Ghazzali |first1=Imam |translator-last1= Farah |translator-first1= Madelain |publisher=Islamic Book Trust |location=Kuala Lumpur |access-date=9 May 2025 |pages=3, 4}}
• as part of the religion of the fitrah, "consistent with the natural instincts and needs of mankind", opposing "the monastic life of Christians”, (Al-Bayhaqi).{{cite web |title=Fatwa 84026. Marriage in Islam |url=https://islamweb.net/en/fatwa/84026/marriage-in-islam |website=Islamweb.net |access-date=1 May 2025}} the "unnatural constraints" such as celibacy, {{efn| (according to Ahmad Bello Dogarawa and Ibrahim B. Syed),}}
• to increase the number of Muslims: “Marry those who are loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the other nations.”{{cite web |last1=Al-Nasa'i |title=26 The Book of Marriage (11)Chapter: It Is Disliked To Marry One Who Is Infertile(11) Narrated Ma'qil bin Yasar:. Sunan an-Nasa'i 3227 |url=https://sunnah.com/nasai:3227 |website=sunnah.com |access-date=12 May 2025}}
• to fight the temptations of illicit sex (zina, a great sin in Islam), "Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, ....'" (Sahih al-Bukhari){{ cite web |url=https://sunnah.com/bukhari:5066 |website=Sunnah com |access-date=30 April 2025 |title=Marriage (Nikaah) (3) Chapter: Whoever is not able to marry, is recommended to fast. al-Bukhari 5066. Book 67 Hadith 4 }}Assadullah, Mir Mohammed. [http://www.zawaj.com/weddingways/mir.html Weddings in Islam], zawaj.com “Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire", (Sunan Ibn Majah).

Other revelation are less concerned about lack of money for a mahr, assuring Muslims God will "will make them free from want",

• “And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are needy, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing.” (Surah an-Nur, 24:32)

Or that they should marry even if they have few resources:

• "Marry, even with [a Mahr equal to] an iron ring." (Al-Bukhari on the authority of Sahl Ibn Sa'd.){{cite web |last1=al-Bukhari |title=67 Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah) (52)Chapter: To give Mahr in the form of material things..Sahih al-Bukhari 5150. |url=https://sunnah.com/bukhari/67/85 |website=sunnah.com |access-date=12 May 2025}}

Marriage provides a structure for the relationship between partners creating a family, and safeguards rights of members of the family.{{cite web |title=Marriage in Islam. Why is marriage so important in Islam? |url=https://explore-islam.com/marriage-in-islam/#section6 |website=Explore Islam |publisher=Ahlan Foundation |access-date=14 May 2025}}{{cite journal |url=https://www.researchgate.net/publication/46447004_Marriage_and_Divorce_in_Islam |title=Marriage and Divorce in Islam |date=30 August 2009 |last1= Dogarawa |first1=Ahmad Bello |pages=1–4 |journal=Munich Personal RePEc Archive}}

Marrying within the Muslim community and creating a “productive and constructive" family where members help and encourage one and other to "be good and righteous", helps to preserve the religion.{{cite web|title=The Muslim Woman and Her Husband|url=http://www.islamicbulletin.org/free_downloads/women/the_muslim_woman_and_her_husband.pdf|access-date=2014-04-30}}

Family life in Islam, finding a partner to share life's joys and sorrows,{{cite web |last1=Amini |first1=Ayatollah Ibrahim |title=The purpose of marriage in Islam |url=https://www.islamicinsights.com/religion/clergy-corner/the-purpose-of-marriage-in-islam.html |website=Islamic Insights |access-date=14 May 2025}} is considered a "blessing", a source of stability,{{cite web |title=Islam’s stance on forced marriage by parents and marriage eligibility for uncircumcised men. |url=https://islamqa.org/?p=9892 |website=IslamQA.org |access-date=28 April 2025}}{{efn|A BBC page for GCSE WJEC (secondary education) religious studies states, "For Muslims, marriage was created by Allah to provide a foundation for family life and the whole of society."{{cite web |title=Muslim relationships |url=https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/guides/zcjqrwx/revision/5 |website=BBC |access-date=25 February 2022}}}} the foundation for families. By regulating sexual desire marriage prevents it from destabilizing the community, in the eyes of religious scholars of Islamic law. In a patrilineal society, where a person's social status is defined by their father's lineage, marriage was a crucial institution for controlling reproduction and ensuring that children were properly recognized and claimed, according to scholar Judith E. Tucker.

According to scholars of fiqh marriage is either obligatory (fard) or preferred ({{transliteration|ar|mustahabb}}) if a man has the means to marry (can afford mahr), and has no fear of mistreating his wife. If a man fears committing unlawful acts (fornication) if he does not marry, marriage then become obligatory; if he does not fear this it is only preferred.{{cite web |title=The Ruling of Marriage |url=https://fiqh.islamonline.net/en/the-ruling-of-marriage/ |website=Islam online |access-date=2 May 2025}}{{cite web |title=Conditions of Marriage according to the Four Fiqh Schools. 86384 |url=https://islamweb.net/en/fatwa/86384/conditions-of-marriage-according-to-the-four-fiqh-schools |website=Islam Web |access-date=11 May 2025 |date=2 October 2003}}

{{further|Islamic marital practices|Islamic marital jurisprudence}}

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{{see also|Mahr}}

There are several conditions for an Islamic marriage to take place:

• A marriage should be conducted through a contract with a mandatory sum of wealth provided to the bride (a {{transliteration|ar|mahr}}). The mahr should be agreed upon before the nikah, and paid to the bride by the groom at the time of nikah unless they have agreed to delay the time of some of its payment.
• Both partners must either be chaste, or if one or more of them have fornicated, they must have made a sincere repentance.{{qref|24|3|b=y}}Abu Da'ud, Sunan, vol. 2, 227, (nos. [http://sunnah.com/abudawud/12/6 2051] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140709115409/http://sunnah.com/abudawud/12/6 |date=2014-07-09 }}-[http://sunnah.com/abudawud/12/7 2052] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140709120305/http://sunnah.com/abudawud/12/7 |date=2014-07-09 }})
• Marriage is permitted for a man with a chaste woman either Muslim or from the People of the Book (Arabic Ahl al Kitab, Jews, Sabians and Christians), but not to polytheists.{{efn|(or "idolaters": Yusuf Ali translation or "idolatresses": Pickthall translation).}} For women, marriage to anyone but a Muslim man is not permissible.
• Spoken consent of the woman is only required if she is not a virgin and her {{transliteration|ar|walī}} is neither her father nor her paternal grandfather. But a virgin may not be married off without her permission. If she is too shy to express her opinion her silence will be considered as implicit agreement [Al Bukhari:6968].{{cite web|url=http://sunnah.com/bukhari/90/15|title=Hadith - Book of Tricks - Sahih al-Bukhari|work=sunnah.com|access-date=22 September 2015|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20150730031456/http://sunnah.com/bukhari/90/15|archive-date=2015-07-30|url-status=live}}Muslim, Al-Jami' al-sahih, 596, (no. 3476){{full citation needed|date=May 2014}}{{Cite web|last=Ilyas|first=Aleena|date=3 Mar 2020|title=A Virgin Bride in Islam|url=https://nikahforever.com/blog/a-virgin-bride-in-islam/|access-date=12 Jul 2020|website=nikahforever}} Binti Khudham says that when she became a widow her father solemnized her marriage. She did not like the decision, so she went to Muhammad, who gave her permission to revoke her marriage.

Al-Bukhari, [http://sunnah.com/bukhari/67/74 Al-Jami' al-sahih, 919, (no. 5138)] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140528005710/http://sunnah.com/bukhari/67/74 |date=2014-05-28 }}

Hence, forced marriages are against Islamic teachings, and those forced into marriages before they have come of age have the right to contest them once they do.{{cite web|url=https://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/honour-killings-un-islamic-fatwa-declares-in-wake-of-shafia-trial/article2326829/|title=Honour killings 'un-Islamic,' fatwa declares in wake of Shafia trial|work=The Globe and Mail|access-date=22 September 2015|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160304081003/http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/honour-killings-un-islamic-fatwa-declares-in-wake-of-shafia-trial/article2326829/|archive-date=2016-03-04|url-status=live}}

• The importance of the wali is debated between the different schools of thought. To the Hanafi Sunnis, a male guardian is not required for the bride to become married, even if it is her first marriage. Therefore, the marriage contract is signed between the bride and the groom, not the groom and the wali. To the Hanbali, Shafi'i, and Maliki Sunni schools, a {{transliteration|ar|walī}} is required for a virginal woman to marry. In these schools, if a woman gets divorced, she becomes her own guardian and does not need a {{transliteration|ar|walī}} to sign a marriage contract.{{cite web|last1=Saifuddin|first1=Ebrahim|title=Marriage without Wali|url=http://www.peopleofsunnah.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=62&Itemid=71|website=People of Sunnah|access-date=29 July 2016|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160814061501/http://www.peopleofsunnah.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=62&Itemid=71|archive-date=2016-08-14|url-status=live}}

A Nikah ceremony (marriage) in Sunni Islam requires the presence of a ({{transliteration|ar|walī}}) of the bride, two Muslim witnesses, the offering of Mahr (a gift from the groom to the bride), freedom from any Islamic legal obstacles that might prevent the marriage from being valid, (such as the bride and groom being mahrams of one another, i.e., close relatives who are permanently forbidden to marry, or the man being a non-Muslim and the woman a Muslim, etc.), and mutual consent in the form of a verbal exchange of acceptance ("qubool," meaning "I accept") ({{lang|ar|قُبُوْل}}, {{transliteration|ar|ALA|qubūl}}) and the signing of a marriage contract.{{cite book|chapter-url=http://sunnah.com/muslim/16/80|title=Hadith - The Book of Marriage - Sahih Muslim |chapter=Chapter: Seeking permission of a previously-married woman in words, and of a virgin by silence |work=sunnah.com|access-date=22 September 2015}}{{cite book|chapter-url=http://sunnah.com/bukhari/67/72|title=Hadith - Book of Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah) - Sahih al-Bukhari |chapter=Chapter: The father or the guardian cannot give a virgin or matron in marriage without her consent |work=sunnah.com|access-date=22 September 2015}} The wali of the bride is normally her father.The Encyclopaedia of Islam, New Edition, Vol. VIII, p. 27, Leiden 1995.

{{anchor|Wali mujbir}}The {{transliteration|ar|walī mujbir}} ({{lang|ar|وَلِي مُجْبِر}}) is a technical term of Islamic law which denotes the guardian of a bride. In traditional Islam, the literal definition of {{transliteration|ar|walī}}, which means "custodian" or "protector", is used. In this context, it is meant that the silence of the bride is considered consent. In most schools of Islamic law, only the father or the paternal grandfather of the bride can be {{transliteration|ar|walī mujbir}}. However, in the absence of these, other male relatives such as the bride's brother, uncle, or even a male guardian appointed by a shariah court or the imam of a mosque may act as the walī, depending on the circumstances.{{cite web|url=https://nikahplus.com/en/blog/guardian-of-a-woman-in-islam-why-does-nikah-marriage-in-islam-needs-a-guardian-wali/|title=Guardian of a woman in Islam. Why does nikah (marriage in Islam) need a guardian (wali)?|website=NikahPlus.com|date=July 31, 2022|access-date=31 July 2022}}

If the conditions are met and a {{transliteration|ar|mahr}} and contract are agreed upon, an Islamic marriage ceremony, or wedding, can take place. The marital contract is also often signed by the bride. The consent of the bride is mandatory. The Islamic marriage is then declared publicly, in {{transliteration|ar|iʿlān}} ({{langx|ar|إِعْلَان}}), by a responsible person after delivering a sermon to counsel and guide the couple. It is not required, though customary, that the person marrying the couple should be religiously well-founded in knowledge. The bridegroom can deliver the sermon himself in the presence of representatives of both sides if he is religiously educated, as the story goes about Imam Muhammad bin Ali around 829 AD. It is typically followed by a celebratory reception in line with the couple's or local customs, which could either last a couple of hours or precede the wedding and conclude several days after the ceremony.

{{See also|Islamic marriage contract}}

According to Islam, both men and women have rights over each other when they enter into a marriage contract,{{qref|2|228|b=y}} with the husband serving as protector and supporter of the family most of the time, from his means.{{qref|4|34|b=y|s=y}} This guardianship has two aspects for both partners:

• According to one interpretation, the husband must be financially responsible for the welfare and maintenance of his wife or wives and any children they produce, to include, at a minimum, providing a home, food, and clothing. In return, it is the duty of the wife{{cite book|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=FoS-xz192Z4C&q=Women+in+Middle+Eastern+History:+Shifting+Boundaries+in+Sex+and+Gender&pg=PP2 |title=Women in Middle Eastern History: Shifting Boundaries in Sex and Gender |author=Keddie, Nikki|date=1992|isbn=0-300-15746-0 | page=8|publisher=Yale University Press |access-date=20 April 2020}} to safeguard the husband's possessions and protect how wealth is spent. If the wife has wealth in her own capacity, she is not obliged to spend it upon the husband or children, as she can own property and assets in her own right, so the husband has no right to her property and assets except by her wishes. A pre-marital agreement of the financial expectation from the husband is in the {{transliteration|ar|mahr}}, given by him to the wife for her exclusive use, which is included as part of his financial responsibility.

Several commentators have stated that the superiority of a husband over his wife is relative, and the obedience of the wife is also restrictive.Amin Ahsan Islahi, Tadabbur-i Qur'an, vol. 2, 291–292

Women are also reminded that in case the husband is not fulfilling his responsibilities, there is no stigma on them in seeking divorce.{{qref|4|128|b=y|s=y}} The Quran re-emphasizes that justice for the woman includes emotional support, and reminds men that there can be no taking back of the {{transliteration|ar|mahr}} or bridal gifts given to women unless they are found guilty of sexual immorality.{{qref|4|19|b=y|s=y}} In cases where the agreement was to postpone payment of the {{transliteration|ar|mahr}}, some husbands will pressure their wives and insist on the return of what he gave her in order to agree to the dissolution of the marriage. "Where the husband has been abusive or neglectful of his responsibilities, he does not have the right to take his wife's property in exchange for her freedom from him. Unfortunately, most couples refuse to go to the judge and binding arbitration for these issues even though the Quran says:{{blockquote|"If you anticipate a split between them, appoint a mediator from his family and another from hers. If they desire reconciliation, Allah will restore harmony between them. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware."|{{qref|4|35|c=y}}}}

The marriage contract is concluded between the wali (guardian) of the bride and the bridegroom and bride. The wali of the bride can only be a free Muslim. The wali of the bride is normally a male relative of the bride, preferably her father. According to most scholars, if the bride is a virgin, the wali mujbir can not force the bride into the marriage against her proclaimed will.https://aboutislam.net/counseling/ask-the-scholar/family/what-are-the-conditions-of-marriage-in-islam/

{{Main|Mahr}}

{{transliteration|ar|Mahr}} (donatio propter nuptias){{cite web|url=http://legaldictionary.lawin.org/donatio-propter-nuptias/|title=Donatio Propter Nuptias|work=lawin.org|access-date=22 September 2015|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20150923064836/http://legaldictionary.lawin.org/donatio-propter-nuptias/|archive-date=2015-09-23|url-status=live}} differs from a marriage dowry or gift, in that it is mandatory for a Muslim marriage and is paid by the groom to the bride. The amount of money or possessions of the {{transliteration|ar|mahr}} is paid by the groom to the bride at the time of marriage for her exclusive use.Kecia Ali, "Marriage in Classical Islamic Jurisprudence: A Survey of Doctrines", in The Islamic Marriage Contract: Case Studies in Islamic Family Law 11, 19 (Asifa Quraishi & Frank E. Vogel eds., 2008). If the marriage contract fails to contain an exact, specified mahr, the husband must still pay the wife a judicially determined sum.PEARL & MENSKI, supra note 11, ¶ 7–16, at 180. Mahr functions similar to bride wealth.

Nikah is permitted by proxy (i.e. via the telephone or video link), simply by both parties (or representatives on their behalf) exchanging declarations. This has caused issues in Western countries, such as the United Kingdom, which do not view proxy marriages as legitimate.{{cite book |last1=Edge |first1=Ian |title=Islam and English Law: Rights, Responsibilities and the Place of Shari'a |date=2013 |publisher=Cambridge University Press |isbn=978-1-107-02164-8 |pages=116–143 |url=https://www.cambridge.org/core/books/abs/islam-and-english-law/islamic-finance-alternative-dispute-resolution-and-family-law-developments-towards-legal-pluralism/BA6215E05869672805EDF6D73A51F40C |chapter=Islamic finance, alternative dispute resolution and family law: developments towards legal pluralism?}}{{cite journal |last1=Nash |first1=Patrick S |title=Sharia in England: The Marriage Law Solution |journal=Oxford Journal of Law and Religion |date=1 October 2017 |volume=6 |issue=3 |pages=523–543 |doi=10.1093/ojlr/rwx052 |doi-access=free }}

While Islamic marriage contracts may be legally binding in Islam, they are not legally binding under civil law in non-Muslim countries. Registering the marriage with a non-Muslim government is another step. This is particularly important to Muslim women if anything goes wrong with the marriage. If, for example a Muslim man abandons his wife and their marriage was not registered, she may not have legal recourse to seek divorce or access financial support.{{cite web |title=Islamic Marriage and Legal Registration: What You Need to Know in Non-Muslim Countries - |url=https://fiqh.islamonline.net/101391 |website=Fiqh - IslamOnline |access-date=27 June 2025}}

In the United States, Islamic centers often have authorized officiants who can marry Muslims according to Islam if the wedding party brings a marriage certificate from the county where the center is located. (Polygamous marriages excepted.){{efn|Some examples: Marriage at Idris Mosque in Seattle{{cite web |title=Marriage |url=https://www.idrismosque.com/marriage |website=idris mosque |access-date=27 June 2025 |quote=A Marriage License issued by a County in the State of Washington must be obtained and presented to the authorized performer of the marriage, for the Mosque, prior to the ceremony.{{cite web |title=Marriage/Nikah. |url=https://www.islamiccenterofscranton.com/resources/marriagenikah |website=Islamic Center of Scranton |access-date=27 June 2025 |quote=Islam marriage/Nikah ...in the USA, ... is a two stage process: first, you obtain a document called 'marriage license', then this document is filled out by someone authorized to issue marriage 'certificate' during a marriage ceremony. Once you have the 'certificate', you are officially married.}}

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In the United Kingdom, weddings combining a legal marriage licence and nikah are less common and marriage problems may be dealt with by Shariah Councils, including the Islamic Shariah Council (ISC) and Muslim Arbitration Tribunal (MAT).{{cite web |last1=Fraser |first1=Graeme |last2=Ghauri |first2=Naheed |last3=Rashid |first3=Nazia |title=Non-legally binding marriages: national and international perspectives in practice |url=https://resolution.org.uk/the-review/archive/the-review-issue-224/non-legally-binding-marriages-national-and-international-perspectives-in-practice/ |website=Resolution |access-date=27 June 2025}}(At least one fatwa site advises Muslims in the UK to "complete the civil marriage so that the marriage and rights arising from it are recognised".){{cite web |last1=Shabbir |first1=Shaykh Yusuf |last2=Sahib |first2=Mufti Shabbir Ahmad |title=Nikah and Civil Marriage. Answered as per Hanafi Fiqh by IslamicPortal.co.uk |url=https://islamqa.org/hanafi/islamicportal/117999/nikah-and-civil-marriage/ |website=IslamQA |access-date=27 June 2025 |date=4 March 2017}}

In Australia, someone married according to nikah, a Nikah certificate is "an essential document" to legally recognize your marriage.{{cite web |title=Nikah Certificate: Everything You Need to Know |url=https://auslegalhub.com/nikah-certificate/ |website=Aus Legal |access-date=27 June 2025}}

In at least one Muslim country (Dubai), it is reportedly possible to have a nikah ceremony and then a civil ceremony or vice versa or find an imam authorized to do both simultaneously.{{cite web |title=Civil Marriage for Muslims: Is it Allowed |url=https://easyweddingdubai.com/blog/civil-marriage-for-muslims |website=Easy Weddings Dubai |access-date=27 June 2025 |date=19 June 2025}}

According to Shi'i mujtahid and marja' KhomeiniRisalah-ye Towzihul Masaael-e Imam Khomeini. (Persian and Arabic). Title translation: Imam Khomeini's Islamic Laws Explanation Book . Niloofaraaneh Publications. With the cooperation of Mosol, Gorgan and Ebadorrahmaan Publications. 18th print. 2011. {{ISBN|964-7760-28-0}}. [https://www.adinehbook.com/gp/product/9647760280/ref=sr_1_1000_1 Bibliographical data] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170302030653/https://www.adinehbook.com/gp/product/9647760280/ref=sr_1_1000_1 |date=2017-03-02 }}."Pages 375 & 376. Marriage Contract Requirements and Conditions. Question No. 2370. Translation: "Marriage contract and marriage agreement have several requirements: First,.... Fifth, Woman and man [must] be content to the marriage and must be willing for it; but, if the woman, in appearance (apparently), gives permission reluctantly and it is obvious and known that she is content to the marriage inly (= in heart), the contract and agreement are valid" and Ali al-Sistani,http://www.sistani.org/english/book/48/ . See marriage links in the table of contents. [https://web.archive.org/web/20161205145309/http://www.sistani.org/english/book/48/ Permanent version] and also almost all contemporary scholars, the marriage is invalid without the bride's free consent and no obligation can make marriage official and legal.Resaaleye Daneshjouyi; Porsesh-ha va Pasokh-ha. Motaabeghe Nazar-e 10 Tan az Maraaje'e Ezaam. رساله دانشجویی؛ پرسش ها و پاسخ ها. مطابق نظر ده تن از مراجع عظام. Ma'aaref Publication. Student's Risalah. Questions and Answers. Compatible with the Fatwa of Ten People of Marja's. {{ISBN|978-964-531-307-2}}.

A notable example of this is the Hanafi school (the largest of the four classical schools of Sunni Islamic thought), which holds that a bride's permission is required if she has reached puberty. They also hold that if a bride was forced into marriage before reaching puberty, then upon attaining puberty, she has the option to nullify the marriage if she wishes. A wali other than the father or the paternal grandfather of the bride, then called wali mukhtar, needs the consent of the bride. If the bride is silent about the issue, i.e. her wali expressed his intention to marry her off to a certain man, and she did not object to it, then consent is assumed via her lack of objection.Encyclopaedia of Islam New Edition, Leiden 1995, tome 8, page 27 b, article Nikāḥ: "The wali can only give the bride in marriage with her consent, but in the case of a virgin, silent consent is sufficient. The father or the grandfather, however, has the right to marry his daughter or granddaughter against her will, as long as she is a virgin (he is therefore called wali mudjbir, wali with power to coercion); the exercise of this power is, however, very strictly regulated in the interests of the bride."

{{Further|Child marriage#International initiatives to prevent child marriage}}

Children in some{{which|date=July 2015}} Muslim sub-cultures who defy their parents' wishes may in practice, suffer penalties supported by the community. International awareness, campaigns and organizations such as the U.K.'s [http://www.fco.gov.uk/en/travel-and-living-abroad/when-things-go-wrong/forced-marriage/ Forced Marriage Unit] have recognized the severity of this human rights issue, and their rescue and support services extend beyond the borders of U.K. territories. Some countries have instituted prison time for parents who try to coerce their children into such unions.{{cite web|url=http://www.stuff.co.nz/dominion-post/news/politics/7941539/MP-acts-against-forced-marriage|title=MP acts against forced marriage|work=Stuff|date=12 November 2012|access-date=22 September 2015|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20150924142343/http://www.stuff.co.nz/dominion-post/news/politics/7941539/MP-acts-against-forced-marriage|archive-date=2015-09-24|url-status=live}}

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In certain sections of the Jahiliyyah Arab tradition, the son could inherit his deceased father's other wives (i.e. not his own mother) as a wife. The Quran prohibited this practice. Marriage between people related in some way is subject to prohibitions based on three kinds of relationships.{{qref|4|22|b=y}} The following prohibitions are given from the male perspective for brevity; the analogous counterparts apply from the female perspective; e.g., for "aunt" read "uncle". The Quran states:

{{blockquote|4:19 O believers! It is not permissible for you to inherit women against their will or mistreat them to make them return some of the dowry ˹as a ransom for divorce˺—unless they are found guilty of adultery. Treat them fairly. If you happen to dislike them, you may hate something which Allah turns into a great blessing.

4:20 If you desire to replace a wife with another and you have given the former ˹even˺ a stack of gold ˹as a dowry˺, do not take any of it back. Would you ˹still˺ take it unjustly and very sinfully?

4:21 And how could you take it back after having enjoyed each other intimately and she has taken from you a firm commitment? 

4:22 Do not marry the former wives of your fathers—except what was done previously. It was indeed a shameful, despicable, and evil practice.

4:23 ˹Also˺ forbidden to you for marriage are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal and maternal aunts, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster-mothers, your foster-sisters, your mothers-in-law, your stepdaughters under your guardianship if you have consummated marriage with their mothers—but if you have not, then you can marry them—nor the wives of your own sons, nor two sisters together at the same time—except what was done previously. Surely Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.|{{qref|4|19-23|c=y}}}}

{{See also|Cousin marriage in the Middle East}}

Seven relations are prohibited because of consanguinity, i.e. kinship or relationship by blood, viz, mothers, daughters, sisters, paternal aunts, maternal aunts, and nieces (whether sister's or brother's daughters). In this case, no distinction is made between full and half relations, both being equally prohibited. Distinction is, however, made with step relations i.e. where both the biological mother and father of a couple wishing to marry are separate individuals for both parties, in which case it is permitted. The word "mother" also connotes the "father's mother" and "mother's mother" all the way up. Likewise, the word "daughter" also includes the "son's daughter" and "daughter's daughter" all the way down. The sister of the maternal grandfather and of the paternal grandmother (great aunts) are also included on an equal basis in the application of the directive.{{cite book|last=Ghamidi|first=Javed Ahmad|title=Mizan: A Comprehensive Introduction to Islam|publisher=Al-Mawrid|location=Lahore|author-link=Javed Ahmad Ghamidi|language=en}}

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Marriage to what is sometimes described as foster relations in English is not permitted, although the concept of "fosterage" is not the same as is implied by the English word. The relationship is that formed by suckling from the breast of a wet nurse. This is what is meant by "fosterage" in Islam in the quotation below. In Islam, the infant is regarded as having the same degree of affinity to the wet nurse as in consanguinity, so when the child grows up, marriage is prohibited to those related to the wet nurse by the same degree as if to the child's own mother.

A hadith (reports) confirm that fosterage does not happen by a chance suckling; it refers to the first two years of a child's life before it is weaned.Muslim, Al-Jami' al-sahih, 616, (no. 3590)Al-Bukhari, Al-Jami' al-sahih, 912 (no. 5102)Muslim, Al-Jami' al-sahih, 619, (no. 3606)"Every relationship which is prohibited (for marriage) owing to consanguinity is also prohibited owing to fosterage" Malik ibn Anas, Al-Mu'atta, 395-396, (no. 1887) Islahi writes that "this relationship is established only with the full intent of those involved. It only comes into being after it is planned and is well thought of".Amin Ahsan Islahi, Tadabbur-i Qur'an, vol. 2, 275.

The daughter-in-law is prohibited for the father, and the mother-in-law, the wife's daughter, the wife's sister and daughters of the wife's siblings (nieces), and the maternal and paternal aunts of the wife are all prohibited for the husband. However, these are conditional prohibitions:

1. Only the daughter of that wife is prohibited with whom one has had conjugal contact.
2. Only the daughter-in-law of a real son is prohibited.
3. The sister of a wife, her maternal and paternal aunts, and her brother's or sister's daughters (nieces) are only prohibited if the wife is in wedlock with the husband.Malik ibn Anas, Al-Mu'atta', 341, (no. 1600)

{{Main|Interfaith marriage in Islam}}

The Quran states:

{{blockquote|Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite ˹you˺ to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace. He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful.|{{qref|2|221|c=y}}}}

{{blockquote|O believers! When the believing women come to you as emigrants, test their intentions—their faith is best known to Allah—and if you find them to be believers, then do not send them back to the disbelievers. These ˹women˺ are not lawful ˹wives˺ for the disbelievers, nor are the disbelievers lawful ˹husbands˺ for them. ˹But˺ repay the disbelievers whatever ˹dowries˺ they had paid. And there is no blame on you if you marry these ˹women˺ as long as you pay them their dowries. And do not hold on to marriage with polytheistic women. ˹But˺ demand ˹repayment of˺ whatever ˹dowries˺ you had paid, and let the disbelievers do the same. That is the judgment of Allah—He judges between you. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.|{{qref|60|10|c=y}}}}

Interfaith marriages are recognized between Muslims and non-Muslim People of the Book (usually enumerated as Jews, Christians, and Sabians).{{cite encyclopedia|title=Ahl al-Kitab|editor=John L. Esposito|encyclopedia=The Oxford Dictionary of Islam|publisher=Oxford University Press|location=Oxford|year=2014|url=https://archive.org/details/oxforddictionary00bada|df=dmy-all|doi=10.1093/acref/9780195125580.001.0001|isbn=978-0-19-512558-0}} Historically, in Islamic culture and traditional Islamic law Muslim women have been forbidden from marrying Christian or Jewish men, whereas Muslim men have been permitted to marry Christian or Jewish women.{{cite book |author-last=Elmali-Karakaya |author-first=Ayse |year=2020 |chapter=Being Married to a Non-Muslim Husband: Religious Identity in Muslim Women's Interfaith Marriages |editor1-last=Hood |editor1-first=Ralph W. |editor2-last=Cheruvallil-Contractor |editor2-first=Sariya |title=Research in the Social Scientific Study of Religion: A Diversity of Paradigms |volume=31 |pages=388–410 |location=Leiden and Boston |publisher=Brill Publishers |doi=10.1163/9789004443969_020 |isbn=978-90-04-44348-8 |s2cid=234539750 |issn=1046-8064}}{{cite journal |last=Leeman |first=A. B. |date=Spring 2009 |title=Interfaith Marriage in Islam: An Examination of the Legal Theory Behind the Traditional and Reformist Positions |url=https://ilj.law.indiana.edu/articles/84/84_2_Leeman.pdf |url-status=live |journal=Indiana Law Journal |location=Bloomington, Indiana |publisher=Indiana University Maurer School of Law |volume=84 |issue=2 |pages=743–772 |issn=0019-6665 |s2cid=52224503 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20181123062516/https://ilj.law.indiana.edu/articles/84/84_2_Leeman.pdf |archive-date=23 November 2018 |access-date=25 August 2021}} It is lawful for Muslim men to marry Jewish or Christian women but not a polytheist woman.({{qref|5|5|b=y}})

• Marriage between a man and his sister, half-sister, foster sister, mother, stepmother, foster mother, wife's mother, aunt, grandmother, great aunt, great-grandmother, etc.
• Marriage between a woman and her father, stepfather, husband's biological father, uncle, grandfather, great uncle, great-grandfather, etc.
• Marriage of a man to women who are sisters or stepsisters or foster sisters of each other (except if marrying one who was separated from her husband by divorce or death)
• Marriage of a man to women who are sisters or stepsisters of his mother or father.{{citation needed|date = April 2020}}

According to the Shariah (Law), Muslims are allowed to practice polygyny. According to the Quran, a man may have up to four legal wives only.

{{blockquote|If you fear you might fail to give orphan women their ˹due˺ rights ˹if you were to marry them˺, then marry other women of your choice—two, three, or four. But if you are afraid you will fail to maintain justice, then ˹content yourselves with˺ one or those ˹bondwomen˺ in your possession. This way you are less likely to commit injustice.|{{qref|4|3|c=y}}}}

Other verses prohibit marriage to a close relative of any of the multiple wives (a wife's sister, daughter, mother, niece, aunt, etc.).{{Cite web|url=https://questionsonislam.com/question/muslim-man-allowed-be-married-two-sisters|title = Is a Muslim man allowed to be married to two sisters? » Questions on Islam}}

Even then, the husband is required to treat all wives equally and be just to all (emotionally as well as financially). In addition a bride-to-be may include terms in her marriage contract that require monogamy for her husband or require her consent before he marries another wife.https://www.aljamiah.or.id/index.php/AJIS/article/download/82/105&ved=2ahUKEwiokJaklsrvAhXVVBUIHdXaDhkQFjALegQIChAC&usg=AOvVaw0bzsy9uuHYVsCSol-DxEYX {{Bare URL PDF|date=March 2022}}

{{Main|Divorce in Islam}}

Divorce in Islam can take a variety of forms, some initiated by the husband and some initiated by the wife. The theory and practice of divorce in the Islamic world have varied according to time and place.{{cite encyclopedia|author=Maaike Voorhoeve |title=Divorce. Modern Practice|encyclopedia=The Oxford Encyclopedia of Islam and Women|publisher=Oxford University Press|location=Oxford|year=2013|url=http://www.oxfordreference.com/view/10.1093/acref:oiso/9780199764464.001.0001/acref-9780199764464-e-0108|url-access=subscription|doi=10.1093/acref:oiso/9780199764464.001.0001|isbn=978-0-19-976446-4|access-date=2017-02-16|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170204102020/http://www.oxfordreference.com/view/10.1093/acref:oiso/9780199764464.001.0001/acref-9780199764464-e-0108|archive-date=2017-02-04|url-status=live}}

The main categories of Islamic customary law of divorce are talaq (repudiation), khulʿ (mutual divorce) and faskh (dissolution of marriage before the Religious Court).{{cite web | url=https://www.familylaw.co.uk/news_and_comment/talaq-khula-faskh-tafweedh-the-different-methods-of-islamic-separation-part-1 | title=Talaq, Khula, Faskh and Tafweedh: The different methods of Islamic separation - Part 1 | access-date=2023-01-13 | archive-date=2023-01-13 | archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230113092258/https://www.familylaw.co.uk/news_and_comment/talaq-khula-faskh-tafweedh-the-different-methods-of-islamic-separation-part-1 | url-status=live }}

Historically, the rules of divorce were governed by the Sharia, as interpreted by traditional Islamic jurisprudence (fiqh). There were several different schools of jurisprudence (madhhab),{{cite encyclopedia|author=Maaike Voorhoeve |title=Divorce. Historical Practice|encyclopedia=The Oxford Encyclopedia of Islam and Women|publisher=Oxford University Press|location=Oxford|year=2013|url=http://www.oxfordreference.com/view/10.1093/acref:oiso/9780199764464.001.0001/acref-9780199764464-e-0108|url-access=subscription|doi=10.1093/acref:oiso/9780199764464.001.0001|isbn=978-0-19-976446-4|access-date=2017-02-16|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170204102020/http://www.oxfordreference.com/view/10.1093/acref:oiso/9780199764464.001.0001/acref-9780199764464-e-0108|archive-date=2017-02-04|url-status=live}} and historical practice sometimes diverged from legal theory. In modern times, as personal status (family) laws were codified, they generally remained "within the orbit of Islamic law", but control over the norms of divorce shifted from traditional jurists to the state.

Hanafi/Ottoman rules on divorce and remarriage were fragile and complex. The husband, in repudiating his wife, could declare an irrevocable or revocable divorce. The irrevocable divorce was immediate and the women could not be remarried until after a specific waiting period. One example of a waiting period would be having to wait for three menstrual cycles from the time of the divorce. In the case of the death of the husband, the woman must wait four months and ten days after his death. If the woman is pregnant, she must wait until after the child is born before remarrying. If the divorce was revocable, the divorce is not final until after the waiting period. However, they could remarry if it was a revocable divorce. Many couples did get remarried after a revocable divorce.

The women's ability to divorce was much different and much more limited. If the woman finds out the husband has some disease or is impotent, she has grounds for divorce but must give her husband a year to consummate the marriage before divorce is allowed. Also, the women can divorce by using the "option of puberty" in which the women would have to provide witnesses of the menstrual blood. Finally, a woman could use the "hul", which is a Turkish word, for divorce. This is when the woman asks the husband for a divorce, and he repudiates her for consideration. After that, essentially, it is trading property for the person.{{Cite journal|last=Kermeli|first=Eugenia|date=2013|title=Marriage and Divorce of Christians and New Muslims in Early Modern Ottoman Empire: Crete 1645-1670|journal=Oriente Moderno|volume=93|issue=2|pages=495–514|doi=10.1163/22138617-12340029|jstor=24710921|issn=0030-5472|hdl=11693/38283|s2cid=159636156 |hdl-access=free}}

The Qur'an encourages cooperation in marriage, this is done by giving specific rules to follow. One verse says "Consort with them honorably; or if you are averse to them, it is possible that you may be averse to a thing, and God set in it much good".{{Cite book|last=Husni|first=Ronak|editor1-first=Ronak|editor1-last=Husni|editor2-first=Daniel L|editor2-last=Newman|date=2007-11-29|title=Muslim Women in Law and Society|doi=10.4324/9780203938317|isbn=978-1-134-11274-6}} Divorce could lead to women losing their morality or purity if certain values were not followed correctly. The Qur'an exemplifies that divorce is not meant to be the man getting back at the woman. It is to allow the man and the woman to peacefully split up for the good of each other. It also allows for multiple remarriages between the same couple. The couple can divorce and get back together up to two times but after the second remarriage, the divorce is final and there are no more remarriages allowed.

The reason the man typically gets the right to divorce is that his judgment is thought to be more balanced than a woman's. Again, the only reason the woman can ask for a divorce is if there is something significantly wrong with the man. Divorce was supposed to be reserved as a last resort and not something that was used for harm or for trivial disagreements. The Qur'an says, "Divorce must be pronounced twice and then (a woman) must be retained in honor or released in kindness", which exemplifies that it was supposed to be honorable for both man and woman if it needed to be done. It was not taken lightly, and it was a big decision for both parties.

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A woman cannot marry after a divorce or the death of her husband for a certain period. This period is known as iddah.

• A divorcée in between menarche and menopause has iddah for three menstrual cycles, no matter how long it takes.
• A divorcée as well as a widow after menopause has the iddah of 3 months and 10 days.
• A pregnant divorcée as well as a widow has iddah till the end of her pregnancy, whether the pregnancy ends in any way: by delivery, abortion or miscarriage.
• A widow after menopause has iddah for four lunar months and ten days.{{citation needed|date = April 2020}}

In today's world, Muslims practice Islamic marital laws in a multitude of ways all over the globe. In the United States, for example, 95% of Muslim American couples included in a 2012 study by the Institute for Social Policy and Understanding (ISPU) had completed both the Nikah and had obtained a civil marriage license, which is required to have a marriage legally recognized in the United States.

{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|title=Understanding trends in American Muslim divorce and marriage: A Discussion Guide for Families and Communities|last=Macfarlane|first=Julie|date=January 2012|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=11|access-date=February 13, 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180314174206/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|archive-date=2018-03-14|url-status=live}} The study also shares that "In some cases, the Islamic marriage contract is completed once the couple has decided to get married, but cohabitation occurs later after the wedding reception. In other cases, the Islamic marriage contract is completed simultaneously with the civil marriage and is followed immediately by the wedding reception."

{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|title=Understanding trends in American Muslim divorce and marriage: A Discussion Guide for Families and Communities|last=Macfarelane|first=Julie|date=January 2012|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=11|access-date=February 13, 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180314174206/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|archive-date=2018-03-14|url-status=live}}

There is ongoing debate about whether or not Sharia should be recognized in Western countries like the United States and Australia that would allow for the Nikah to be recognized as a legally valid marriage.{{Cite web|url=https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2018/mar/03/trump-campaign-survey-sharia-law-russia-2020|title='Are you concerned by sharia law?': Trump canvasses supporters for 2020|last=Smith|first=David|date=2018-03-03|website=The Guardian|language=en|access-date=2018-03-14|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180313212311/https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2018/mar/03/trump-campaign-survey-sharia-law-russia-2020|archive-date=2018-03-13|url-status=live}}{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|title=Understanding trends in American Muslim divorce and marriage: A Discussion Guide for Families and Communities|last=Macfarlane|first=Julie|date=January 2012|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=6|access-date=January 13, 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180314174206/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|archive-date=2018-03-14|url-status=live}} There are also other elements to the Islamic marriage rituals that have difficulty being acknowledged in courts, according to the study, including the Mahr, or the dowry. Women who are denied their dowry do not have a clear path to legal contestation in either the US or Canada.

Studies have also shown that even young Muslim Americans who might describe themselves as "not very religious" embrace the rituals of their faith at important moments of transition – birth, death, and marriage. These occasions motivate reaffirmation of emotional and behavioral touchstones, even for those who do not practice their faith by attending mosque, praying or fasting regularly.{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU_Promoting_Healthy_Marriages_and_Preventing_Divorce_in_the_American_Muslim_Community.pdf|title=Recommendations for Promoting Healthy Marriages & Preventing Divorce in the American Muslim Community|last1=Killawi|first1=Amal|last2=Daneshpour|first2=Manijeh|date=June 2014|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=11|access-date=February 13, 2018|last3=Elmi|first3=Arij|last4=Dadras|first4=Iman|last5=Hamid|first5=Hamada|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161009182759/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU_Promoting_Healthy_Marriages_and_Preventing_Divorce_in_the_American_Muslim_Community.pdf|archive-date=2016-10-09|url-status=live}}

When it comes to divorce, the 2014 study conducted by the ISPU states that, "Two divorce rates commonly cited for American Muslims include 32.33% and 21.3%, respectively."{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU_Promoting_Healthy_Marriages_and_Preventing_Divorce_in_the_American_Muslim_Community.pdf|title=Recommendations for Promoting Healthy Marriages & Preventing Divorce in the American Muslim Community|last1=Killawi|first1=Amal|last2=Daneshpour|first2=Manijeh|date=June 2014|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=7|access-date=February 13, 2018|last3=Elmi|first3=Arij|last4=Dadras|first4=Iman|last5=Hamid|first5=Hamada|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161009182759/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU_Promoting_Healthy_Marriages_and_Preventing_Divorce_in_the_American_Muslim_Community.pdf|archive-date=2016-10-09|url-status=live}} Within the United States and Canada, many Muslim couples interviewed in the study mention that they value a religious divorce and its proceedings.{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|title=Understanding trends in American Muslim divorce and marriage: A Discussion Guide for Families and Communities|last=Macfarlane|first=Julie|date=January 2012|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=33|access-date=February 13, 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180314174206/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|archive-date=2018-03-14|url-status=live}} Some turn to religious figures to help them navigate the divorce process, while many still go through the courts to terminate the civil marriage. Divorced Muslim women today also face the stigmas associated with being divorced within the North American Muslim community that can make it difficult for them seek remarriage.{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU_Promoting_Healthy_Marriages_and_Preventing_Divorce_in_the_American_Muslim_Community.pdf|title=Recommendations for Promoting Healthy Marriages & Preventing Divorce in the American Muslim Community|last1=Killawi|first1=Amal|last2=Daneshpour|first2=Manijeh|date=June 2014|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|pages=9–10|access-date=February 13, 2018|last3=Elmi|first3=Arij|last4=Dadras|first4=Iman|last5=Hamid|first5=Hamada|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20161009182759/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU_Promoting_Healthy_Marriages_and_Preventing_Divorce_in_the_American_Muslim_Community.pdf|archive-date=2016-10-09|url-status=live}}

Gender roles and ideas about marriage have also shifted since the early onset of Islam when many of the rules around marriage were established. ISPU reports that "the most frequent source of marital conflict in this study was conflict over changing gender roles and expectations,"{{Cite web|url=http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|title=Understanding trends in American Muslim divorce and marriage: A Discussion Guide for Families and Communities|last=Macfarlane|first=Julie|date=January 2012|website=The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding|page=40|access-date=February 13, 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180314174206/http://www.ispu.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/ISPU-Report_Marriage-II_Macfarlane_WEB.pdf|archive-date=2018-03-14|url-status=live}} citing a nation-wide increase in women in higher education and professional jobs over the past three decades, and says that they "In many cases are trying to integrate childrearing and family life with professional goals".

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• Islamic marital practices
• Islamic marital jurisprudence
• Islamic sexual jurisprudence
• Arabikalyanam, temporary marriage between Muslim men from the Middle East and economically disadvantaged women from southern India.
• Kafa'ah, compatibility of prospective spouses
• Minangkabau marriage, marriage practices of West Sumatra, Indonesia
• Nafaqah, "expense"; financial obligations of the husband
• Musta'jara, secret marriage
• Nikah halala, the marriage of a woman to a second man after a triple talaq (divorce)
• Nikah mutʿah or Zawāj mutʿah, "pleasure marriage"; a fixed-term marriage in Shi'ite Islam, also known as sigeh or sigheh in Iran
• Nikah 'urfi, a "customary" Sunni Muslim marriage contract
• Polygamy in Islam
• Rada (fiqh), prohibited marriage due to fosterage (Islamic) or suckling
• Salat al-Istikharah - A prayer for seeking decisions from Allah, also observed for decision making in choosing spouse in marriage
• Walima, a marriage banquet offered by the groom the day after the signing of the marriage contract

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• {{cite journal|author=Chapman, Aliya R.|author2=Cattaneo, Lauren Bennett|url=https://quod.lib.umich.edu/j/jmmh/10381607.0007.201/--american-muslim-marital-quality-a-preliminary-investigation?rgn=main;view=fulltext|title=American Muslim Marital Quality: A Preliminary Investigation|journal=Journal of Muslim Mental Health|publisher=University of Michigan|volume=7|issue=2|year=2013|doi=10.3998/jmmh.10381607.0007.201|doi-access=free|hdl=2027/spo.10381607.0007.201|hdl-access=free}}
• Pirzada, Hafsa. Islam, Culture, and Marriage Consent: Hanafi Jurisprudence and the Pashtun Context. Switzerland, Springer International Publishing AG, 2022.

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